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| skin allergies - anger - cancer | From Alexthink [Log on to view profile]  | on 2006-03-20 | | 2 replies | 1238 views | Thought is energy. Energy has consciousness. If one has consciousness it is possible to communicate with it, it’s easier than you think!
A negative thought is always a teacher to you. When a student has understood what the teacher had to say, he has become wise. When the teacher sees that the student has become wise he has done a good job.
Reasons why we (AND CHILDREN) suffer are many but few. The disease in itself is nothing but an accumulation of negative energy (thoughts), this teaching will explain how we can survive without suffering. The ability to listen to one’s own thoughts allows us to deal successfully even with the most complicated or horrific and dangerous situations in life.
Forgiveness is the key to all our answers a readiness to communicate, a willingness to love our next without condition, a yearning to unite our soul and spirit in a perfect whole, brings harmony.
Forgiveness is clarity of the soul.
Be given this divine truth of our being – forgiveness – and you shall see the meeting of your soul and your spirit – the Soul Light.
It doesn’t matter whether I am an angry person, or if people treat me viciously, or if they act angrily when I’m around, or if I fear angry people or hate them etc., I have a stress of anger in me.
The presence of anger attracts anger and anger grows.
Stage I – fearful anger.
1. Fear of anger – a fear that will destroy love causes agitation and panic.
Result – ALLERGY
2. A fear that I am not loved causes a need to suppress the anger in order to be loved = suppressed feelings.
Result – ASTHMA
Stage II – angry anger
1. The angry fight against the vicious because they are what they are – vicious.
Result – GALLSTONES
2. A fear of not being loved causes a need to hide the anger felt for the vicious – then others will love me = hidden anger.
Result – KIDNEY STONES.
Stage III malevolent anger
1. If no other way is found to deal with someone’s evil, then you wish him ill. When you say what you think straight to his face, an open argument will follow and the truth will finally come out, but if the other still refuses to change into the person the well wisher wants him to be, then the latter will not be satisfied and his malevolent anger will not go away but will continue growing and gathering strength for the next fight.
Result – SLOWLY DEVELOPING FORMS OF CANCER
2. A fear that I am not loved causes a need to hide one’s malevolent anger because everyone need to feel loved – nobody can ever get enough love.
Result – RAPIDLY DEVELOPING FORMS OF CANCER
Those who never raise their voice in anger, who are always patient and reasonable, the ones whom “life treats unfairly” fall into this last category.
Life is fair but we have to know the rules
Man in his passionate chase to win love, and in the need for acknowledgement and praise, does not see that in reality he is running away from fear. He doesn’t realize that his fear will always beat him in the race. As his goals remain un-reached, this good man starts to reproach himself, hate his inability and even curse himself when something doesn’t turn out the way he wants. Energy is blown in the wind. A feeling of constant exhaustion drives the dutiful man to keep on climbing the steep stairway of his dreams, gritting his teeth in silent anger and despising himself.
Everyone sees him as an ambitious person, dedicated to his work – a meticulous and orderly man. But even if he says he only keeps slaving for their sake, his wife and family will be robbed of his love and, sooner or later, of himself. In reality, he is doing nothing else than earning love, without realizing that the wall of fear he has built around himself keeps him from receiving as well as giving it.
Such a person is usually quickly consumed by cancer, but he can get well just as quickly, if he forgives his fear of not being loved. The recovery of people suffering from cancer caused in the described above has been a miracle to me. I have to stress, these are people who do everything including forgiving – meticulously.
The result is worthy of the effort.
If the cancer patient keeps on forgiving from morning till night, he will be cured in a couple of months. But should he, out of fear of not being loved, continue to slave away and earn love, keeping up a brave front – then he’s beyond help. A disease cannot be cured incidentally or dealt with as part and parcel of other more important matters. Each person has to set his priorities straight and expect a corresponding result.
The life philosophy of a person is mirrored in the state of his body, its health.
Death arrives when a person has understood his mistakes. It is a well known fact that a dying person sees his whole life flash before his eyes as if on a movie screen. This happens so that he can understand his mistakes. Anger makes you blind. That is the reason people suffering from cancer will see this movie of their lives time and time again before they are released from their torment. A cancer patient who has learned the art of forgiving and engages in it earnestly and in the right way can heal himself, and where the illness has progressed too far, his last fight will be short and easy.
If a cancer patient is to be saved, then his family and parents must change too. Another possibility would be for the patient to go into complete retreat in a secluded spot and communicate with nobody but his Teacher.
People who think in the right way are happy and, instead of wasting time on plotting revenge, they forgive. Their moments of anger never fail to make them laugh later on, because, although for a short while they lowered themselves to same level as their opponent, they understood the situation afterwards and forgave the ignorant.
The one who is wiser is always the first to give in, because I wise man thinks right and knows how to forgive the ignorant. He understands the ignorant. He, who gets angry with an ignorant person, is ignorant himself. A wise man doesn’t need to prove his wisdom.
AN EXAMPLE FROM LIFE
A little boy was suffering from recurring catarrhs of respiratory tract. The child was acting peaceable with his father and everything they did together went pleasantly and without problem. With his mother, he quickly got agitated and nervous. During her pregnancy, the mother had caused a stress of despising men in the child.
The mother’s father was a very masculine man with considerable physical strength but a soft nature. The mother’s mother, on the other hand, because of the relations between her parents, had a stress that men are uncaring and bad – that was her mother’s opinion. She started to despise her husband for his manly qualities. As a stress grows with time, her attitude caused her weak-natured husband to go downhill. He felt his wife’s scorn, started to drink and eventually stopped taking care of the family. The woman then has a firm argument in support of her attitude towards men.
The daughter had already been born by that time. She was the third generation of women harboring contempt for men in their hearts, and her bad feelings for them were threefold in comparison with those of her grandmother. She was facing a major problem: whether to marry at all. The natural attraction towards the opposite sex kept tipping the scales this way and that. In the end, nature managed to get the upper hand – she became pregnant. But her stress was passed on from the woman to the child. The boy, the little man, felt that his mother despised him, although in reality she had great love fro him. The stress was standing between them and kept the boy from getting close to his mother.
When the child was still in his mother’s womb, he could feel his father’s love reach out towards him. The warm relationship between them still remains. If the mother had not released her stress, then the son’s future relations with women would have been highly problematic, because of his feeling that women despised him. Natural sexual drive will always find its release but he would have left a string of disappointed girlfriends behind him…
The stress had to be released. Up to then, the boy’s mother had done everything within reason to keep the family together and the house warm and tidy. In fact, it would be impossible to do anything more on that level. However, her contempt for men, suppressed by her reasonable mind, kept growing with time, no matter how tender, loving and caring the husband was. And he too was getting worn out by the inexplicable tension between them…
There is always something more to be desired and each shortcoming may be looked upon as the man’s inability to accomplish this. The woman understood the nature of her birth stress and forgave. She momentarily started to see her husband in a new light. The son was then released from the tension and all the family was freed from the spell.
This sort of tension is like a curse that people so eagerly keep looking for and finding these days. You need no healer or psychic to release you from a curse. Each person has responsibilities for taking it on and each person is equally capable of setting himself free from it. You only need to think of what is haunting you and if you sense another behind that feeling, forgive him for his negative influence on you, forgive yourself for allowing the negative to enter you, and ask your body to forgive you for harming it by doing so.
If someone says, without even thinking, “Everything just turns out the wrong way, it is like someone has put a curse on me”, then it is quite possible that this is exactly what has happened. The subconscious information just came to the surface. You must learn turn to the curse and say something like, “Listen curse, I don’t care who sent you my way, I still forgive you for coming to me and I forgive myself for taking you in. my daer body, please forgive me for not knowing how to to take the curse from you before, but as of now, we are all free. I love you all, curse included, because there was a lesson here for me!”
Easy, isn’t it? Instead of being scared and torturing yourself more and more each day – forgive!
A lot of people carry around curses that that they have personally put on themselves. If someone curses a person who has a strong and positive way of thinking, then the curse won’t stick but instead, returns to the person who originally sent it. As the person who curses another is bound to have negative thoughts, he is also weak and the curse has no problem attaching itself to him. Some people err and curse themselves for doing so; some are reincarnated already equipped with a curse from a previous existence, including self-inflicted curses.
Asking for forgiveness sets you free!(AB58W)
If your life is a constant struggle against the wind, then stop this nonsense, seek a shelter and spend time talking to yourself and contemplating your life. Then you’ll be surprised to notice that the wind has changed direction.
Life is a vibration of energy – a wavelike motion, sinusoidal in its pattern – where positive alternated with negative. It is natural, necessary and right. If there were no bad, there would be no good either.
When you are having a good period, be happy about it. When things are not going so well, be happy that its not worse and know that everything will turn out well eventually. Usually is not possible to tell right away what negativity was good for, but if you think about it hard enough you’ll discover the blessing in disguise.
The person who finds this sort of attitude hard to accept will to suffer in life. The effect is worthy of the cause.
There is a lot of mistrust and even fear or bitterness towards good: “This is too good to last, anyway, nothing good ever happens to me. Lucky you, you always have all the good things in life!”
The laws of life apply to everyone. If someone’s bad times seem harder because of his negativity, then the other person’s good times are even better because of his way of thinking. What seems insignificant to one person may bring great happiness to another.
• Something more about the role of the mother
The mother has a very special role in the family – she is the fountain of love. At the same time the mother’s stresses can keep the whole family from leading a normal life. The guilt, springing from her childhood, keeps mother bustling about, trying to earn love. When she fails, because the familiar fear of not being loved keeps her from her goals, she starts looking for someone to blame. A culprit is easy to find as everybody she becomes close to is a source of constant irritation to her – her husband, neighbors, parent’s etc. the child sees the conflict between his parents, sees love drying up and falls ill. Mother groans, “As if I didn’t have enough problems of my own! Why did you have to fall ill just now!”
The guilt she feels attracts people who, in turn, start blaming her: her husband, the pediatrician, her parents. The granny of course thinks that if everybody had listened to her in the first place, the child would never have fallen ill. A person suffering from stress feels that he has the right to meddle in others people’s affairs.
I often look at a child like that and see its soul begging me, “Please help my mother and father. There’s nothing wrong with me” If only all the grandparents and parents would release their stresses, there would be no more feelings of guilt, no accusations, no fear and fright, no anger and no hate…
Life is constant motion. Yesterday is not today. Although yesterday has passed in time, it has left its trace on today, so yesterday is never lost in eternity but will always be there to accompany us. If the trace is left is good then be happy. If it was bad, then erase it by forgiving, so it doesn’t interfere with your life – anymore.
A person who looks at his mother or father and, sees only an enemy with rigid principles who doesn’t understand young people, is robbing himself of something very valuable. The usual attitude of the young – I can discuss anything with strangers but it is impossible to talk to my own parents – is caused by a subconscious wish to rebel, or in other words, the stress caused by his parents forcing him to learn. He hasn’t realized yet that everything in life is learning.
All forcing is taken painfully, as any kind of imposition is negativity. The youngster can’t see the parents’ care for him behind their strictness. He is already blinded by stress, caused by the fact that he doesn’t know how to grasp his parents’ behavior with his reasonable mind. A child, who has been taught to look for the positive side in the negative, has no trouble trusting his parents and his trust will be returned. Without having to go through a lot of heartache he will be able to realize that substantial feelings have a lot of weight to them while superficial feelings don’t. And even if the parents, in their wish to do good, create a lot of negativity for the youngster, something quire positive may come of it later on.
As long as the first mother has not done anything to try and improve her relations with her mother and her child, then the chain of stress will go on forever, and unfortunately, the next generation will always suffer more then the last. The person who made the original mistake may return to the next generation and have to deal with the consequences of his own mistake.
You may prove to the rest of the world how much your mother has hurt you and how, in turn, your child is hurting you and how it is making you the unhappiest person alive, but unless you have forgiven your mother and asked your child to forgive you, there’s no hope of anything turning out better between the three of you.
I keep stressing the role of the mother more than that of the father as the father cast his influence on the child through the mother. We should still remember that the father may be the mother the next time around and, accordingly, the forgiving the father does is no less important than that of the mother.
More than ever before, children nowadays suffer from the lack of love. Statistics show that the main cause of death these days id heart disease of varying kinds; the number of young people dying of lung cancer is increasing; more women are developing breast cancer – each one a disease of the fourth chakra. I hope that this needs no further explanation. Those who argue that smoking is cause – well prove it to me – If smoking would be the cause – we all would be dead by now!
When we have something as serious as cancer on our hands, then the person is not usually able to cope with it alone. Active help from all those concerned – the parents, the patient, the husband or wife – is needed. Even children can lend a hand. There are few people with considerable reserves of will-power who, during the first stages of cancer, are able of making cardinal changes to their way of thinking and manage to cure themselves. The majority of patients, however, are those who, after changing their attitude and being already well on the road to recovery, are suddenly dealt the final and terminal blow by the spouse or parents. A sudden death follows.
This sort of death is usually a pleasant one due to the fact that the person has already released his stresses and knows that he has learned his lessons. Peace of mind lets the spirit float free of the body, because the body needs no more suffering – it has become wise already.
Dr.Beek | | | | Re: skin allergies - anger - cancer | From walkin [Log on to view profile] | on 2006-03-20 | Its a longwinded way of saying that stress causes cancer! | | | | Re: skin allergies - anger - cancer | From Alexthink [Log on to view profile] | on 2006-03-20 | Many thanks walkin, I appreciate your comments, although I hope this gives a broader view to the matter.
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