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Need something for acute emotional crisis!

Please help with this!
About once a week I have a bad fight with my boyfriend. Everything is fine otherwise - when we don't fight we are loving, he is a bit sexually overbearing, so I tend to get upset at too much 'sexual' attention, but otherwise otherwise ok.
So when we fight it's usually about him 'pushing me away' and I tend to get upset at the change of his mood. I am sad that we are no longer loving and that it's 'ruined'. He tends to pull away more when we fight- either wants to go to sleep, or not talk to me at all - WHICH MAKES THE SITUATION WORSE, bc I feel he doesn't care. So I get more and more desperate - turning to alcohol for some quick fix and last time I even took a KNIFE AND CUT my arm!!
My boyfriend will not show any reaction to this and that makes is again WORSE AND WORSE! So then I will feel like I can't breathe, my chest is constricted and I am in so much emotional pain, I feel I'm going to lose it! I almost feel like I can't stay there with him, b/c I can't stand how uncaring he's being and I'd rather go to some nursing home! Of course I can't sleep, so I'll stay awake till the morning, when I fall asleep, b/c I took a sleeping pill - otherwise I wouldn't!
This is a very horrible state and it's been getting worse and I fear what can happen the next time! It usually goes on for hours and it's ruining me proffessionally, b/c I can't focus on work.
Please help! I need to be able to just not care as much as to hurting myself and driving myself crazy!
I need a remedy I can take when this is happening!
 
  cicka on 2008-07-16
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dear patient,

I think STAPHYSAGRIA would help you. Please take Staph-200 one dose ( 5 drops per dose) after four days (means twice a week) for two week and report changing.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Thanks! And would there be an acute remedy I can take when I get to this 'state'?
I was reading something about a 'Sepia state' etc.
I think this is sort of a Pulsatilla state - the need for love, so I was wondering if I could perhaps take Pulsatilla 6 C or something like that, which could help in the even of crisis....
Would you please comment?
 
cicka last decade
Your post caught my attention because I had the same behavior with my husband when we were first married. We got into many, many fights because of that very reason. It would anger me more when he'd fall asleep. And to get back at him I would either want to physcally hurt him or myself.

Well, years later I discovered I had depression/anxiety which led to a low self esteem. That was what triggered it all.

Just something for you to look into.
 
Keiko5 last decade
Hi Keiko!
I know already that I have depression and anxiety, but somehow I'm not able to deal with it. I used to take Paxil, but it has side effects. I would not touch benzodiazepines again!
I was just hoping to get some remedy for the acute need for 'love' or 'reassuring' that I get in that situation.
My boyfriend is now aware of his behavior and is trying.
What helped in your situation?
 
cicka last decade
I was just going through my old posts and I wanted to let everyone who might be interested, to know what helped me.
I could finally afford to go see a homeopath and he correctly diagnosed me. He gave me Arsenicum Album 200 C.
Please read this article:
arsenicum.asp " rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">http://www.hpathy.com/materiamedica/fuller-arsenicum.asp

Keiko was also right about the low self-esteem, but now I know that when Arsenicum is denied love, that makes him feel very insecure.
 
cicka last decade
Glad to know that your problem has been resolved.

The important thing is that it has been resolved. Not so important that who resolved it.

Also, your faith in homeopathy has been strengthened.

Wishing you the best,
Pankaj Varma
 
PANKAJ VARMA last decade
Thanks Pankaj!
I think the problem is now back though! It seems that whenever I get 'weaker' or I feel 'stuck' I get more emotional and I let things get to me more. Especially insult really makes me angry and if he has pushed me 'over the edge' by being rude, it seems there is no help, even if he tries to appologise later. He says I am obsessed, because I just keep going on.
How do I let things not get to me so much?!
He usually starts an arguement, but I continue, because I feel DESPAIR that this has happened, that the peace has been RUINED. All of this makes me angry and I just can't get over it!
Should I still take Staphysagria as it was recommended?
 
cicka last decade

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