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I have a 9 year old daughter who really struggles with taking responsibility for her own actions. She blames others - everything is always someone else's fault. If anyone has any suggestions, please please help!
 
  annlivi2000 on 2008-08-25
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chamomilla 30c twice daily for 7 days j k mohla
 
akshaymohl last decade
Welcome back Annlivi !

I thought you were going to see a homeopath in person ?
 
sameervermani last decade
I was hoping to find a homeopath but haven't been able to. As always, thank you so very much for your kindness & assistance. Things have gotten so incredibly challenging recently & I am desperate for guidance. Thank you!
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Okay, so let us start with her current symptoms in detail.

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
She is fair skin, freckles across upper cheeks/nose & very petite & thin. She is very sensitive - feels emotions very intensely. She drinks alot of ice water, loves tomatoes & loves chocolate. What concerns me the most is her lack of remorse when she does something wrong - when I ask her about it, she gets a smirk on her face. She does not take ownership of her actions - blames everyone else even when we tell her your action has caused this to happen. She screams at me, my husband & her brother when she is angry, she throws things at me, yesterday she had a screaming tantrum that lasted for 45 mins because she was angry with her friend. She also swears - uses foul language when angry. She always feels she is being treated unfairly. She loves to talk alot & loves to give every little detail. She is very intelligent - does very well in school - however has very few friends. It is hard for her to call a friend or go up to a friend - she always wants me to do it for her. She also wants me to do things for her that she can & should be doing herself - now I realize my parenting has alot to do with that. But then on the other hand at times she is very loving, sweet & spiritual. She is afraid of thunderstorms. I hope I have provided helpful info - any guidance - assistance would be so greatly appreciated. Thank you very much
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Tell me more about this 'spiritual behaviour'.

Are there any DELUSIONS OF RELIGION AND IDENTITY - believes she is christ or a savior or prophet or that she has a divine mission ?

Ever noticed any aggravation from cold weather ? Any cold sweats or cold breath ? Is she in general a chilly patient ?

Any creative hobbies ?

Is she very precocious ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Also, is she bothered about status and material possessions ?

Does she feel proud of herself bordering on egotism and arrogance, as if she feels she is a princess ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Her grandmother died 2 yrs ago, & when her aunt was in the hospital she walked into the room & said, 'oh grandma is here' . She does believe in angels & she also stated that grandma has visited her in a dream. She has stated once B4 that she feels she has an angel side & a devil side - I have never influenced that & never spoke of 'the devil' to her. Otherwise, she does not like going to Church - doesn't like to pray. Have not noticed any aggravation from cold weather. She says she feels hot more than she is cold. She loves to swim & ride scooter. She also likes to play computer games - where in fact she has 'met her best friend' an older boy. So yes she is very precocious & she hasn't said anything about our status as a family - but talks about going to Paris & shopping trips with credit cards (at which I laugh). And yes she does exhibit arrogance. She wants friends 2 call her - she wants everyone to come to her on her terms. She also compares herself & makes insulting comments to her brother about how she is smarter, does better on tests, etc.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
She also talks most recently about becoming a model because she is so pretty & skinny.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Is she able to wear tight clothing or high neck clothes?

Is she suspicious ?

Does she have exceptional loquacity marked by a rapid change of subject; i.e. jumps abruptly from one idea to another

Does she ‘talk, sing, or whistle constantly’ ?


Does she use his tongue very refined but cynical and critical way to hurt you with a word while having a smile on the face. As if she has an intuition about the weakness of others and hurts them with precise sarcastic words ?

Is she very jealous ?

Is she intense and passionate ?

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
She does wear tight clothing but does not like high neck clothes. She is very talkative - almost nonstop at times - but remains on one subject. If she thinks u r not listening or have looked away for a moment, she will start all over again from the very beginning. She is cynical & critical, but the times she gets a smirk/grin on her face is when she has done something wrong & when something bad has happened - for example when I told her that grandma had died, she got that smirk on her face. She is quick with her words - for example when she was 3, she asked for dessert. I said you hardly touched your dinner. She then put her finger in her food, looked back at me and said I touched it.
She is jealous of her brother - and even since she was a baby has demanded to be the center of attention. Yes she is very intense - whether it be joy or anger. When she is angry, she is screaming angry there is no build-up or gradually becoming more angry. She goes from zero to 100 instantly.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Okay then,

3 doses of Lachesis 30c to be taken equally spaced by 2 hrs on a single day as below.

Dissolve 2 pellets in a 250 ml spring water bottle. You can shake it gently after they have dissolved.

Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 2 hours. This is to be done for one day ONLY.

Let me know in 3 days after these 3 doses.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin


Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
So shall I stop the chamomilla and give her the lachesis or should I finish the chamomilla and then lachesis? As always, thank you for your guidance and assistance.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Also, if I may ask Sameer where do you live? Are you in US? I hope not to offend, only curious because I would choose you as my homeopath.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Chamomilla will not do anything in this condition.

Stop the Chamomilla, and then wait for 5 days, and then, go ahead with the Lachesis dosage (which is for 1 day only).
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank you Sameer for your guidance. I will wait 5 days and post response. Thank you again for your assistance.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
I am in the US.

My e-mail address is in my profile
 
sameervermani last decade
I did exactly as you suggested, gave the remedy on Monday it is now Thursday & it doesn't appear to have helped. She still has a really bad attitude (that of a teenager) she is easily angered & goes from not being mad to rageful in 1 second. She is still hitting her brother & very rude to her father, brother & myself. Any suggestions would be very much appreciated.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Please give her 3 doses of

Platinum Metallicum 30c

in the exact same manner (as the Lachesis doses).

Let me know in 4 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Should I wait 5 days again or give it to her right away?
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Give it tomorrow.
 
sameervermani last decade
I could not find the remedy so I had to order it online it wont be here until sometime next week. Anything I should do in the mean time? Her attitude is very bad.
 
annlivi2000 last decade
Hmm.. unfortunately , in homeopathy, there are no 'alternative' remedies to be used in place of a given remedy.

So, I am afraid, you will have to wait till the remedy arrives.
 
sameervermani last decade
okay - will wait & then post results. Thank you
 
annlivi2000 last decade
To Sameer,
I was reading the symptoms listed under platinum metallicum & had a few questions. If she doesn't have all the ailments listed and I give her the remedy will she then get some/all of those ailments? Some of the ones listed scare me. I am still waiting for remedy to arrive in mail.
 
annlivi2000 last decade

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