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unhealthy relationship attachment

since ive been with my boyfriend ive slowly become mentally unwell. since i recently went on birth control ive become more depressed because of hte high estrogen.

i need something for a severe unhealthy atttachment. im so attached to him that when im with him i start crying because im afraid of him leaving me. i start thikning about my life if he wasnt with me, and i start feeling sick to my stomach. i feel like im going crazy, i feel like i lost my life because im so obsessed and absorbed in my relationship i have with him. i feel like its everything, and without it, i will be nothing. please help me what do i take to make it go away.
 
  kristens on 2008-10-02
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Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?


2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?


3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?


4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?


5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?


6. Which time of the day you are worst?

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?


8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?


9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?


10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?


13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?


19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?

20. What peculiar or strange sensation do you have in any part of your body at times? Do you sometimes feel ‘ as if…..’ in some part of the body?


21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?


22. What major diseases are running in your family?


23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.

24. (ONLY FOR FEMALES)

If you are not having normal menstrual cycles, please answer the following questions:

- Are the periods early, regular or late in general? How long do they last?
- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?
- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
 
BeginningHomeopath last decade
try pulsatila 1M single dose.
 
Zahid)2 last decade
i tried pulsatilla and so far it is not working. my anxiety is soaring at a high right now and i am afraid of going mental. i cant even go out im afraid to go out with my friends or be in any situation that makes me feel uncomfortable, the only times i feel safe are with my boyfriend and with my family, and even when im with them it doenst stop my anxiety attacks, i get them and ill cry all night, but at least ill have someone there.
the asnwers to these question are:
Female, age 20.
1)My main suffering as of now that I need fixed are these anxiety attacks. I dont know if they are even anxiety attacks im just assuming, but its a sudden feeling of derealization. i feel like everything around me is unreal, and unfamiliar, and i become terrified. i get nauseas sometimes. usually this is just happened randomly for me, but for the past few days after i was crying one day for no reason at all, i got really bad anxiety. and now every waking moment, i am almost EXPECTING the attack, and im waiting for it, and all i think about is getting these feelings of derealization. it has led me to worry i will end up in a mental hospital, and im worrying now about my future, and baout not being normal. i want it to go away but id rather not take modern medicine to get rid of it.
2)Nothing right now, its all mentally.
3)None, i dont even care about my physical health right now, i want this mental stuff to go away. im desperate.
4) When I get the feeling, i feel like im going to die. i feel like im losing my mind. i picture my life slowly slipping away from me, i gget flashbacks of the past, with my boyfriend, my friends, i even look outside my window, and see everything outside differently, and i start panicking about time going by too fast. i bawl my eyes out, feeling like everything is coming out from inside me.
5) well, the first time i got this feeling was when i was on a birth control pill, but i must note that i got it right after i yelled at my cousin for the first time and stuck up for myself. this was like 4 years ago. after that, i rarely got it. i got it beginning of this year when i was in new york city in a dark restaurant, and suddenly i got very scared, and the place just felt unfamiliar. i got it in the summer time, after i heard of a murder on a bus, and i got worried that i was going to become a murderer because i was worried that orgindary ppl become crazy out of nowhere (this is how bad i get). and recently, i got this bad, to the point where every waking minute i am worried and thinking about getting it, all began two days ago, after i was crying for a full day over nothing at times, and over losing my boyfriend at times.
6) im worst at night time.
7) being alone when its night time makes it worse. or being out with somebody who is unfamilar. my boyfrind and my family make it better. and talking makes it better. and writing.
8) i am on the birth control pill and it has higher estrogen. but before i went on bith control i got this feeling so im not going to blame it. change of place will do it to me because i hate 'new' it makes things worse. i like comfortable and safe.
9) feel better in the cold, winter and fall time. dry weather. love snow though.
10)i am needy, insecure, if somebody makes me mad, im confrontational, but i cry easily, i hate hurting peoples feelings, im nervous i get nervous about evrething, i second guess myself and everything i do, i always feel lke im bad at everything and sound stupid, shy around people cuz i dont want to sound dumb. very easily offended and touchy. im loud and bubbly around ppl im comfortable with. i am suspicious of my boyfriend.
-love thunderstorms-excited.
-yes very much so. i need it.
-yes
-bite my nails, pick at my nails, bite my lip.
-i LOVE my friend and family, they are everything they are my life. my boyfriend, i feel like he doesnt show me enough love. i am always worrying about him leaving me, and im always needing him to make things better.
11)my fears are losing my boyfriend. losing my future because i will become mental, because i dont know what is causing htese derealization feelings and im scared. whats wrong with me?
12) bread and butter, candy, cheese
13) less
14) excessive, except recently with my constant derealization i cant eat
15) not that i can think of. i really hate eating vegetables but i et them anyway because i know i should.
16) i sweat a lot when i go to class around campus and such, but i also walk really fast. i get hot easily though
17) um, stools are fine i think, no complains really. i feel they are normal? i dont really pay attention.
18) i dont sleep well. i wake up in the night always.
19) no.
20) just mentall,y feel as if im going crazy and losing control of my mind when the derealization happens. feels as if im in a dream.
21) i dont take any medication im just on birth control right now so i get my periods because i have Polycystic ovarian syndrome. i dont want to take anxiety pills. (it is anxiety disorder i have, does it cause this ?)
22) both grandmothers have diabetes. mom and grandfather have thyroid autoimmune disease (not sure what its called)
23) i am tall, very skinny for my height and age i think, i am taller than 5'7 by now, usually weight around 115, might have gained some weight since on the pill. i have scoliosis. i have mitral valve prolapse. my feet collapse. i have very long arms and legs. im skinny but i have a chubbier face, i have chubby cheeks.
24)
-i just dont get htem unless im on the pill
-since the pill, i get moody before.
-scanty. (on the pill)
-thick. (on the pill)
-yes.
 
kristens last decade
pulsatilla has not helped. butttt...thats because my symptoms have changed and i need something to help with my derealization desperately because i cant function in the real world, and im worried about my future. im worryed WHY i get it too, i used to be a hypochondriac, and now im worried about my mental health, why im getting this and waht it means.
 
kristens last decade

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