Erectyle Dysfunction

Hello;

I came to this forum with my problem previously also but the thread got deleted for reason I am not sure of. [May be because someone was trying to pose him self as a Homeopath expert there while he couldn't even spell the homeo-medicines properly].

I need someone's [with credible knowlege] help.

Anyways;

Age: 27

Marital Status: Unmarried (but planning to get sometime sooner)

Built: Skinny (that didn't create any problems for me in health department, be it sexual).

Bad Habits: I can't think of any other then that I have to masturbate once a day (sometimes not ejaculating deliberately). Sometimes I try to delay ejaculation for quite a long time.

[Is it normal habit to masturbate once or twice a day?]

Life Style: Just completed my masters & currently unemployed so I have irregular timings for sleeping & waking up. Mostly I am a night owl. I don't either drink nor smoke or do anything related to them.

Disease History: None. I have never had any serious disease. No problem with blood pressure or sugar. I have a one cavity decayed tooth though.

Problem History (Uncensored): About couple of years or more ago I started getting strong erection (to the full point) for unknown reasons. These erections used to last couple of weeks or more. One day I got strong erection (but stronger then before, just a single image or vision of anything sexual would give me strong potency without even touching myself) but I decided not to masturbate for a month. After a month my strong potency was in a long run (don't remember for how long it lasted). Anyways; one day I decided to relieve myself of it by masturbating. For some reason I took my time in ejaculating & sometime later I was distracted to something. And when I looked back down, my penis had suddenly lost its erection; which usually remained maintained for good time previously. And when I tried to get back the erection it did not work. Earlier that day just thinking about doing something like that gave me erection, now it didn't work.

I decided not to do it for a week but I didn't get much erection again either.

Since then it seems I have lost the strong potency. Now I am not talking or worried about the strong erections I used to get from time to time but my normal potency I used to have normally. My normal potency used to be good enough.

Current Problems I have noticed:

> If I am laying down it is even harder for me to get good erection. While sitting or standing I can get my penis to erect to significant size but it remains soft (not significant enough for an intercourse I believe). Many times I face premature ejaculation.

> During half asleep I get erection (sometimes hard) but when I am fully wake it goes away. (Meaning in a way no morning erections).

> I don't get night falls what so ever. But I didn't use to have them before, except once ... I think ... Is it normal?

> My testicles are always cold. [I have heard that is not a good thing. ?]

> I don't feel excitement when coming across sex or related things. Before the problem any exposure to sex or related things would give me erection without touching.

My perception: My belief is that my problem is psychological. I mean how can I loose normal potency suddenly like that ... or can I? The moment I lost the erection that day I got tensed & depressed & started telling myself I have gotten impotent. Nevertheless; I now get either weak/soft potency or many times no potency at all. Plus I have lost my confidence.

Things I have tried:

> If/When I don't masturbate for a couple of weeks or month & keep my self away from anything related to SEX I get the full potency again but it last mere couple of days. This has worked 3 out of 4 times ... probably cause once I didn't really have control over my will power & used to masturbate now & then without ejaculating.

> My friend gave me this small portion of a cream (called 'Tila' by Royal Homeo Labs; Karachi) to rub it on genitals (externally). It did not work immediately but the next day it gave me pretty good potency & its effects last for couple of days. I haven't tried looking for this thing at homeo shops but I have heard lots of companies make this stuff from herbs n stuff imported from Germany.


Note: I am not crying about the sudden strong erections I started getting (that could be achieved when really having sex). I just want my normal potency & confidence back. In addition; from my above mentioning you can conclude I am not completely impotent. I do get erections but mostly they are soft & I cant maintain them. But complete impotency is sometimes quite regular also.