bald inflamed scalp, PMS and poor circulation

I am a 36 year old black female. I have has tingling and crawling sensation in my scalp for 8 years as if I have poor blood circulation.
3 years ago my hair started falling out after getting a perm. It stated out in a dime size and now 1/2 hair gradually feel out.
It stopped after using liwuid antibitics. The steroids did not work. It has stopped falling out and is growing back since I started taking Prenatal vitamins and using varius oil blends on it every few days along with daily water based vitimin hair tonics. I use keo Karpin hair vitalizer mixed with copper peptide liquid.
I want to use some homepathic pelets in my hair oil which do you suggest. I curently blend neem and alma india oils and they absorb in the parts that are not inflamed. The inflamed parts only absorb water based products.
I now see scattered sparce fine baby hairs that grow slow. I was told that 80% of the hair can grow b/c those parts dont have scars.
Parts of the scalp is still sore and inflamed. I noticed that when the inflamation goes down baby hairs pop up. I also have a few lumps of inflamation on parts of my body. I feel I am prone to inflamation all over and want something to deal with that as well.
I had anxiety from early 2006-mid 2008 that was triggered by chronic stress. I no longer have anxiety thanks to detoxing my kidney and liver with chinese herbs and building up with vitamin suppliments.
I do have mood swings especially anger. I was digagnosed with Accute PMS in 1998 but it went untreated b/c I do not want to be on anti depressants. I want to try Sepia b/c I read about it in a post it said it helps with femal balance. Is that right and at what dose?
In closing, I want something to reduce inflamation inthe scalp and in the body. I would like to get my hormones balanced while also grow my hair faster. Hence, I want an oral treatment as well as an topical water based treatment and and oil tretement. What do you suggest?
Thank you in advance for your kind attention.