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In need of some help
For the last two years I have been trying to deal with trust issues in my relationship. I have a loving partner, but my mind is eroding the goodness between us. I feel very suspicious and jealous on almost a daily basis now. My partner watches a lot of hollywood movies and I always get really angry if there is sexuality or naked women in any scenes. I feel betrayed if a sex scene comes across the screen or if nudity flashes, even for a few seconds. I feel like my blood starts to boil and I get so angry with him. I feel such hatred and anger and I direct it all at him. I want to lash out and the violent urges are what scare me. I feel like it's his fault because he makes me feel like I have to compete with these women on the screen. Intellectually I am really disturbed by my reactions, but my emotions and impulses are so intense in the moment that I can't stop myself. I feel afraid of myself and my inappropriate reactions to things that aren't an issue in most people's lives. I feel like this issue is so strong that it might prevent us from getting married. I'm afraid that he'll leave me because of my volatile outbursts. Any suggestions would be appreciated.Thanks
laila81 on 2009-03-29
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
do you like warm cozy rooms or well ventilated airy rooms.
do you have history of delayed periods.
do you like summer or winter.
what do you like to eat most.
how do you respond to consolation.
is the feeling of insecurity related to some past happenings in your life.
do you have history of delayed periods.
do you like summer or winter.
what do you like to eat most.
how do you respond to consolation.
is the feeling of insecurity related to some past happenings in your life.
♡ rishimba last decade
I like well ventilated rooms, I feel suffocated when it's too warm or when I am hot. In august of 2008, my periods lengthened from 28 days to 33-35 days with no obvious pathology. I like winter more than summer because I like being covered up...I even sleep in pants and a shirt with socks. I like the feeling of protection. I think I crave fried foods and fat more than sweets.
I have tried to accept consolation to not be mean and rude, but I prefer to be alone. I used to hate receiving compliments because I felt I never deserved them (I am a perfectionist at heart). More recently I have responded more angrily to consolation.
I don't feel like the insecurity is related to things in the past, but there are probably events that made me more sensitive. I've always had this feeling that men are not trustworthy and only interested in dirty, sexual things. My first serious boyfriend definitely kept secrets from me, but I never felt jealous or insecure with him. Anything else to tell? Thank you for your response.
I have tried to accept consolation to not be mean and rude, but I prefer to be alone. I used to hate receiving compliments because I felt I never deserved them (I am a perfectionist at heart). More recently I have responded more angrily to consolation.
I don't feel like the insecurity is related to things in the past, but there are probably events that made me more sensitive. I've always had this feeling that men are not trustworthy and only interested in dirty, sexual things. My first serious boyfriend definitely kept secrets from me, but I never felt jealous or insecure with him. Anything else to tell? Thank you for your response.
laila81 last decade
I think it's also important to explain that the last two relationships I've been in, I've felt this anger and jealousy after a few months. At first everything is great because I feel powerful. I feel like my attractiveness is new and I know they are sexually attracted to me. After things get comfortable I start to see other women as a threat. I feel I've lost my edge and I'm at the same playing level or even below others. I know I'm an attractive woman, but I find myself looking around, trying to determine who in the room is better looking, and who might get his attention. It sounds crazy, but that's the motivation deep down.
laila81 last decade
please take NAT MUR 1M single dose in the morning empty stomach.
if you or others observe a change in you during the next 15 days, you know this is the remedy for you.
later, if you have the same mental symptoms, you can take either another 1m or a 10m single dose.
if you or others observe a change in you during the next 15 days, you know this is the remedy for you.
later, if you have the same mental symptoms, you can take either another 1m or a 10m single dose.
♡ rishimba last decade
laila81 last decade
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