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For the last two years I have been trying to deal with trust issues in my relationship. I have a loving partner, but my mind is eroding the goodness between us. I feel very suspicious and jealous on almost a daily basis now. My partner watches a lot of hollywood movies and I always get really angry if there is sexuality or naked women in any scenes. I feel betrayed if a sex scene comes across the screen or if nudity flashes, even for a few seconds. I feel like my blood starts to boil and I get so angry with him. I feel such hatred and anger and I direct it all at him. I want to lash out and the violent urges are what scare me. I feel like it's his fault because he makes me feel like I have to compete with these women on the screen. Intellectually I am really disturbed by my reactions, but my emotions and impulses are so intense in the moment that I can't stop myself. I feel afraid of myself and my inappropriate reactions to things that aren't an issue in most people's lives. I feel like this issue is so strong that it might prevent us from getting married. I'm afraid that he'll leave me because of my volatile outbursts. Any suggestions would be appreciated.Thanks
laila81 on 2009-03-29
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It looks like Lachesis can help you. But further investigation is required.
Wait for Docs here to guide you.
Wait for Docs here to guide you.
Dubai2009 last decade
Hi,
And how about your general behavior with family and people outside ?
Any fears or anxieties ?
Any event in life when these feelings started ?
Food cravings or aversions ?
Weather preferences ?
And how about your general behavior with family and people outside ?
Any fears or anxieties ?
Any event in life when these feelings started ?
Food cravings or aversions ?
Weather preferences ?
sameervermani last decade
I feel jealousy with friends if one is spending more time with another and not equally wiht me. I feel very competitive lately, like I have to do the same type of thing that people around me are doing, but I compete more in my relationship that anywhere else. If people are doing something I don't like or agree with, I will tell them. Impulsively I just react and tell them off. I am in medical school and I feel very angry and frustrated with all my teachers and TA's. I get annoyed with them easily, I feel like they don't know very much, or their knowledge isn't helping me beyond what I already know. I don't overtly yell and offend them, but I do try to in a more acceptable way. I notice lately when I feel jealous inside, I try to put down the other person somehow...also not really in a way that is clear cut, but more subtly.
I am extremely independent, but I am afraid of being alone when I don't choose to be. I'm afraid of my boyfriend finding other women attractive and losing my attractiveness over time as I age.
I crave more salty, fatty foods and mayonaise. Also carbonated drinks. No intense cravings or aversions really.
I can't recall any event in life that really triggered this. I remember feeling like this in my last relationship too, but there was nothing that either partner has been doing to really warrant it.
I prefer to be outside in the open air. I hate being inside all day long...I feel caged after a while. I don't like tight clothing. I do wear scarfs and turtle necks, but i hate the sensation around my neck.
Anything else?
Thank you.
I am extremely independent, but I am afraid of being alone when I don't choose to be. I'm afraid of my boyfriend finding other women attractive and losing my attractiveness over time as I age.
I crave more salty, fatty foods and mayonaise. Also carbonated drinks. No intense cravings or aversions really.
I can't recall any event in life that really triggered this. I remember feeling like this in my last relationship too, but there was nothing that either partner has been doing to really warrant it.
I prefer to be outside in the open air. I hate being inside all day long...I feel caged after a while. I don't like tight clothing. I do wear scarfs and turtle necks, but i hate the sensation around my neck.
Anything else?
Thank you.
laila81 last decade
I forgot to write that I limit myself and the things we do together as bf and gf because I'm afraid of my angry and jealous reactions. Whenever we go somewhere, I feel I'm always analyzing who the most attractive woman in the room is and if she is a threat to me. I try to keep his attention on me and I will get raging mad and feel hatred for him if he looks at someone attractive. I know this response is not normal and it is really concerning for me.
laila81 last decade
Please take 3 doses of LACHESIS 30c equally spaced by 1 hour for a single day ONLY as below.
Dissolve 2 drops of Lach 30 in a 250 ml spring water bottle. You can shake it gently after dissolving.
Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 2 hours.
This is to be done for one day ONLY.
Let me know in 7 days after these 3 doses. I will look forward to your update.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
Sameer
Dissolve 2 drops of Lach 30 in a 250 ml spring water bottle. You can shake it gently after dissolving.
Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 2 hours.
This is to be done for one day ONLY.
Let me know in 7 days after these 3 doses. I will look forward to your update.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
Sameer
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,
I took the lachesis 30c as you directed last week. After each dose, I noticed that in about 5 minutes I felt anger flare up and I had to deep breathe and try to relax. I still ended up getting in an argument with my boyfriend over a movie he was watching. I still feel mad at him about it, but maybe a little less. I still feel all the things as before..maybe a little less intense. I'll wait for your reply.
Thank you
I took the lachesis 30c as you directed last week. After each dose, I noticed that in about 5 minutes I felt anger flare up and I had to deep breathe and try to relax. I still ended up getting in an argument with my boyfriend over a movie he was watching. I still feel mad at him about it, but maybe a little less. I still feel all the things as before..maybe a little less intense. I'll wait for your reply.
Thank you
laila81 last decade
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