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ovulation pain and mental struggle

I've been feeling, what I think is my ovulation days (my cycle is 25-26 days and today it's the 13th day), for the last couple of days. Felt bloated, some mild discomfort in my lover pelvic and more on the left side. This morning my whole lover abdomen was very sore, I felt my left ovary quite a bit, even when I walk or sit straight. Need to bend forward or lie curled up to relieve the pain. The pain is not sharp, more like a very sore ovary. It feels as if my absolutely whole lower front is sore, over sensitive, even vagina.
I've had this before, with very much the same symptoms only mainly with my right ovary. It comes it goes. I had some ultrasounds and tests done, all fine.
As for mental state, I've noticed, that lately I find it quite hard to let go of unwanted thoughts (someone said something to me that got stuck in my head, or mild (not from my close people) criticism or just worries mainly about my family and their safety, their health). I especially get upset if I sense someone is using me (a friend or even a relative). I don't confront, but just can't let go of thinking about it.
In some cases I feel easily influenced by others. Especially when it comes to health topics.
I would really love to get pregnant, but it's not happening so far (we do have 2 kids already and have not been using any protection for nearly 2 years) and I constantly question myself if I should just let go of it all together and enjoy what we have or still hope. I dream a lot about it and quite often get very sad when i get my period. I wish i would live my life, do what I want to do, enjoy what we have and if i get pregnant then great, if not - so be it. My husband is living a stressful life (his work is quite physically and mentally intense but he loves what he does and is pretty happy daddy and person, he doesn't feel the need for another child as i do (although the thought of no 3 also doesn't frighten him), so it really tortures me that I'm wasting my time and energy for something i can not influence any way.
Any suggestions? I started taking Bach remedies, but would love to top it up with a remedy.
Thank you!

miaki on 2009-07-14

This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.

how is your sleep? do you get enough rest?

DrAli_T last decade

I get around 7-8 hours most nights. Am sleeping quite well.

miaki last decade

how old are you and do u exercise?

DrAli_T last decade

I'm 34. I do a bit of yoga and walk a lot.

miaki last decade

You need to do a bit more intense (cardio) exercise than just yoga or walking. You seem to have a bit of depression and mood swings. I would not advise you to get pregnant at this time. First take care of your mantal state. Get stronger. Then think about more babies! Seems like something is missing in your life. Think more about it! Update in a couple of weeks.

DrAli_T last decade

Exercise and more thinking sounds good. Any remedies to help along to find myself and the balance?

miaki last decade

I saw your other post re: knee pain. Low intensity exersice should be fine for now. However, when was your last physical check up? What were the results?

DrAli_T last decade

Doctor thinks it's inflammation under my knee cap.

miaki last decade

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