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Decade long issue - Sameer

Hello

i have been in constant struggle with lot of behavioral/emotional/attitudinal issues since last 10 years, needless to say they have affected my life a lot.

tried classical homeopath for 3 yrs, 'combination' one for soem time. results have been halfhearted and intermittent.

will really appreciate if you can find some time and guide me.

let me know which questions are best fro initial prescription.
 
  Priyank82 on 2009-09-12
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Hello sameer

I have suffered for ful decade with following issues and the struggle to find complete cure has been useless. I do know that its somewhere on lines of lycopodium, phosphorous and natrum mur.

It will be nice if you can guide me, Am listing my symptoms

* [moderated - PLEASE DO NOT GIVE YOUR REAL NAME ON THESE FORUMS], male, 27

1. Main areas of suffering
* Low Self image,
Timidity, nervousness, anxiety
Tiredness, laziness, Low stamina

1. Describe your main suffering?
* Lack of self confidence,
Timidity, Shy, nervousness
Gets discouraged easily, doubts a lot, Pessimistic
Internal restlessness though try to maintain calm façade

Hurried, impatience, tension,
Overenthusiastic, Perfectionist
Involved in trivialities

Lot of self talk, some songs gets embedded
Jumps form topics to topics
Future rosy dreaming, boosting self image
Indecision, Wastes time

Involved in too many things
Physical fatigue, Laziness
Cant get up in morning, Difficult to break away form sleep, vivid morning dream, sometimes feels weak in morning, after some hours I am fine.

Weak will power, Finds difficult to say no to others, Likes to please people
Dont know what I want to do as career in life

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
* Varicose vein – in 2003, I got pinhead size black dots on outside of ankles and slowly increasing upwards on legs, doc told me its varicose veins and blood comes in skin hence the black dots, legs still ache a bit if I have to stand for long or if I am really bored and being dragged somewhere.

Anal fissure – constipation (not major) was an issue since long and hence got fissure in 2003, took homeopathy and pilex and it healed, it flared up and twice or thrice since then,

Previous – Sore throat, Sinus, Sty under both lower eyelids took homeopathy for that and got cured

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
* Hopeless for future, drained of energy

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
* Better – Warm, Dry weather
Worse – Cold, Humid, Wet weather

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
* Nervous, Easily offended, Quiet, Lazy

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
* Feels as if something bad going to happen

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
* No

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
* No

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless weeping, talking to one self etc?
* Nail biting form childhood, Talking to myself

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
* Feels emotionally attached to all

11. Fears ?
* Fear of hospitals and needles form childhood. I cant even see someone giving injection to other even on TV. Concerned about future and money

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Salty and spicy food, Indian food with gravy,

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
* Less

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
* Less

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?
* If I eat rich food I feel drowsy, dotn like tangy juices like orange, sweet ones I like

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
* Sweat – normal, more in armpits

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
* Mostly constipated

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
* Takes time to go to sleep, need long hours, dont feel refreshed in morning

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
* Heightened lust factor, gets aroused easily with porn, erotica, ladies around, masturbates a lot

20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
* Thinks as if am special and better and more intelligent.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
* Dad and grandfathers brother have white patches on skin.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
* Pleasant face, Tall 6’2, Thin/weak upper body strength, Things feel weakness sometimes in night

let me know if there are soem more questions
 
Priyank82 last decade
Any history of situations in life which had a profound influence on you ?
 
sameervermani last decade
childhood i was timid but good in studies, used to look upto lot of seniors for studies and their achievement.

when in 99 i shifted to another mumbai, with all new classmates and people who were excellent than me i was taken aback, from there i think i started to loose confidence much more.

the split between selfimage and projected image began to develop a lot. avoidance behaviour started and parents used to get angry and i held them accountable and nursed that hurt almost 2-3 years.

couldn't perform well in 12th and landed up in an engg college in interiors of state in a small city.

again the same pattern repeated and i flung one year. i had a tendency to leave paper so that next time i will give it with perfection and full study. i had a real close GF in college who was a dependent personality and that boosted my selfimage. i blamed my friends and gf for my failing. in last yr she went ahead with another guy and i nursed that hurt for 2-3 yrs.

after failing a year i went to a classical homeopath and continued with him for 2 yr i guess.

even after that i completed my engg in a real pathetic way. absolute zero self image + lack of confidence + notion that i am made for better things in life. gave gre got 99percentile and landed for ms.

in masters the image issues were not that bad but confusion with studies, trying to do a lot at one time, not putting resume (major issue - i freeze). competed one yr of studies and joined a firm for learning SAP (coz i heard it pays more) then dilly dallied and didnt pursue seriously, postponing, wasting time, trivialities, indifference.

now about to start a job coz i managed to find some influence to hook up a job for me.

apart form this difference between the image issue, laziness, postponing to last have been the issues form childhood.

I struggled to a lot to throw this all out of my nature since long.

would like to have an active lifestyle with physical activity to keep mind fresh and positive. physical stamina also needed currently

am taking cell salt bioplasma 3 times a day for last 1 month. should i continue.

thnakyou so much for your time
 
Priyank82 last decade
One thign you might have noticed that some words which i type the letters are swapped. i have noticed this for last one year or more. i have to pay special attention to correct it but still it happens.
 
Priyank82 last decade
other big aspects of my life

learned reiki, followed it a lot for healing and confidence

spend a lot of time and energy for vitamins, bach flower, facial analysis of cell salt, read a lot about homeopathy - advance Hahnemann methods of dosage, remedies n all.

i would like to start with something that makes me active and physically outgoing (for last one yr i lazed around). legs get tired in night and thighs and sole of foot (earlier varicose) pain from weakness (i have dark undereye circles)

in last month the pinhead size black dots have appeared on the outside of the ankles coz i went for jogging for maybe 10 days. this physical activity was due to soem homeopathic combination soem indian doc sent me (one month) it was so less in dose that moment that combination got over within 2-3days i was again back to lazying around.
 
Priyank82 last decade
Current issues

Avoidance behavior, doesn’t like to do mental or physical work, indifference, apathy, lack of motivation,

Any work seems too big, morning tiredness, Laziness, Exhaustion, fatigue, feels physically drained out, just sit around, laze around, doesn’t like to go out also.

If I start to read something mental prostration occurs, reading comprehension is very less.

Maybe everything is centering around fatigue and lack of interest
 
Priyank82 last decade
Will respond in a day or 2.
 
sameervermani last decade
take ur time...
 
Priyank82 last decade
morning - sleep completes and then vivid dream starts, coming out of it is very difficult. total sleep hrs easily reaches 9

after getting up - tiredness, feels cold - hand n feet

if i talk continuously for 5 min, mind gets congested and clarity goes for toss.
 
Priyank82 last decade
i have seen suggesting people to stop all other medication so i have stopped the cell salt bio plasma for last 2 days.

whole day i could feel foll
1. mental daze as if exhausted and attentiveness n brightness diminished.
2. mind out of touch of present reality.
3. general feeling - disappointed, aversion, bored

one of the major trait of my nature in general is that i cant go and ask things for myself, hesitates a lot.

i took finding constitutional remedy test at one site

though i cannot relate to the Arsenum Album-insecurity
explanation mentioned in the
homepage.ntlworld.com

i can relate to the lycopodium-cowardice, phosphorous-diffusion and silica

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Priyank82 last decade
Can you please talk about following a bit more

' some songs gets embedded
Jumps form topics to topics'
 
sameervermani last decade
songs gets embedded - if i hear some song which i feel or relate easily, it sticks to my mind, the lines repeat. otherwise also i do a lot of self talk. while sleeping

the self talk that goes in my mind jumps from topic to topic, i think on various aspects and theor related implication, underlying tone is always doubt, disappointment (how will this turn out, god know whats in store )or will do this/do that (rosy dreaming)

i rented a car today and while driving can feels the fear vividly as car speeds. though i rent car once in 2 months, this thing happens, i can also read n feel peoples emotions very fast, it affects me deeply, i just cant watch horror or tragedy movies as it touches me very deeply.

if i go on describing there will be lot of issues and complaining with resentment about way life turned out.
 
Priyank82 last decade
Also, please answer the following questions:
Are you able to wear tight clothing or high neck clothes?

Do you ever have exceptional loquacity marked by a rapid change of subject; i.e. jumping abruptly from one idea to another ?

Do you use your tongue in a very refined but cynical and critical way ? As if you have an intuition about the weakness of others and hence an ability to hurt them with precise sarcastic words ?

Are you intense and passionate ?

Any feelings of jealousy or suspicion ?
 
sameervermani last decade
i like casual and easy goign dressing, the only tight thing i wear is bootcut jeans

exceptional loquacity marked by a rapid change of subject; i.e. jumping abruptly from one idea to another - Yes i also cut short or complete other peoples sentences

Do you use your tongue in a very refined but cynical and critical way ? As if you have an intuition about the weakness of others and hence an ability to hurt them with precise sarcastic words ? - YES

Are you intense and passionate ? YES, would like to be relaxed and less passionate and less concerned in porn/erotica/masturbation

Any feelings of jealousy or suspicion? jealous of others sucess and confidence, suspicion - no
 
Priyank82 last decade
Hi,

Which homeopathic remedies have you tried so far ? In what potencies ?
 
sameervermani last decade
i have never taken any homeopathic remedies myself. used to get though a well known doc in India when some of my friends were coming to us.

i dotn know the names, but they were combination.
 
Priyank82 last decade
dose were always very less as even after taking med for a month the effect used to go away in a week. and doc himself said he gives very low doses.

for last 10 day no homeo med has been taken.
 
Priyank82 last decade
Okay then, just 3 doses of Lycopodium 30c, to be taken for one day only as follows:

Dissolve 2 pellets of LYC 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. You can shake it gently after they have dissolved.

Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 2 hours. This is to be done for one day ONLY.

Let me know in 10 days after these 3 doses.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin


Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Ok will hunt for the lyco 30c tomm and let you when i take it.

if not in wholefood, where else can i find it. 30c and 30x are different right?
 
Priyank82 last decade
It is there in whole foods.

30C and 30C are different.
 
sameervermani last decade
I mean 30c and 30x above.
 
sameervermani last decade
thanks willpost after taking
 
Priyank82 last decade
you mentioned 'spring water bottle' is it something specific.

generally bottled waters have written 'mineral added'
 
Priyank82 last decade
You get spring water in all grocery stores in US
 
sameervermani last decade
yes on careful look i got the spring water.

i think u should add point 8 in guideline list it will be best interest of all who follow your guidelines.

8. Use spring water bottle to dissolve pellets. dont use mineral added water bottles.

thankyou
 
Priyank82 last decade

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