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Dr. Mahfooz, Pls. help

having impotence problem for the past 6 years. I am 32 years old with 2 childrens. I am a very fearful person. Whenever a task is given to me I get nervous that I may not be able to do this job or would face some problem, but becomes happy when the task is completed. I even afraid to meet new people thinking that they would abuse me or scold me or make fun of me or would not give me positive feedback. Even if a person is of polite nature, I sometimes hesitate to talk or discuss with him because of my worries. My mind is always away from me. If I am sitting in my office, my mind would be somewhere else so I am unable to concentrate on my work also. My mind is full of negative thoughts, death (what would happen to my family if I am dead or sometimes if I or someone in my family is ill, I gets tensed that there may be some major illness even if it is a minor fever, even if I travel by scooter, bus, train or by air, I fear that I or any of my family member who is traveling may met with an accident or may die). I tend to forget easily. I like salty things, fast food items etc. I don't like vegetables.

I do have a history of masturbation for the past 18 years. I do it every day atleast 3 times which makes me fully exhausted, and my heart palpitates very much after completion of masturbation. This really interferes my life and I really want to get rid of this. Infact my impotence occured during masturbation. One night I was masturbating and suddenly I felt something is buging inside my stomach and my ears began to ringing and then I realized that no more erections are left. I have taken viagra, so many ayurvedic syrups, tablets and even a lot of homeopathic medicines like argentum nitricum, argentum metallicum, lycopodium, sulphur, selenium, damiana, caladium, nuphar, calc. phos, cobaltum metallicum, yohimbinum, bc-27, agnus castus, acid phos, titanium, platinum, kali phos, arnica, conium, cantharis, staphysagris, num vomimca etc. in many combinations, but this gives only temporary relief. I want a fast and permanent method for curing this problem. Earlier, whenever I used to think of sex or any girl, my erections used to start but now even if I am reading an erotic story or an adult movie, there is not much erections or if there is any, it lasts for a few minutes. My wife is very co-operative.

Besides the above problem I have hiatus hernia also and I get this gastric troubles frequently. Belching, flatulance etc. I take RAZO-D capsules for getting relief. Also, I have spondylitic pain which radiates from my nape to neck, then to head and then to entire face. I have to take pain killers like ibuprofen or nimulid to reduce my pain. Two years back the pain radiated to my right hand and I was even not able to lift my hand. Taken so many pain killers and ayurvedic oil massage, physiotherapy when then helped me to recover from the problem. Hair is also falling a lot while bathing. My hairs are hard and not straight. I want them soft and sily and absolute straight. Also, I get urine hesitancy problem especially during the change of climate. I drink atleast 8 to 10 glasses of water in summer and 3 glasses of water in winter.

There is frequently itching in my ears (both) + eyes. Also my mounth is itching (from deep inside).

I occasionally gets diziness / vertigo. I consulted an ENT specialist who informed that my ear muscles are weak and also I am facing B12 deficiency.

I am also a very anxious person. In order to get rid of my problems, I browse through the internet and looks for medicines (homeopathy + ayurvedic) and tries it, but not able to get complete solution. Sometimes, when I get erections during foreplay, it subsides during the course of intercourse which further tenses me.

I gets tired very easily. I am also a very lazy person. I sometimes even talk lies with my parents, wife sometimes with some reason and sometimes without any reason.

Sir I have heard from my friends and through internet that if I can get a good homeopathic practioner, they would suggest me a single remedy for my problems. One homeopathic doctor gave me lycopodium 200 which I have taken on daily basis two times a day for 3 months, but no relief. Another doctor gave me a mixture of various homeopathic medicines, which when taken gives temporary relief, and if I stop the medicine, erection problem again starts.

I am 5 feet 2 inches tall. My weight is around 52 kgs, but looks around 40 kgs. I have taken many vitamin tablets to increase my weight but my stomach increases in size rather than my complete body. I had also suffered from tuberculosis several years back and have taken full treatment for it. Around my left neck, below the left ear, there is some swelling in the glands which is right from the beginning. This is hereditary. All x-rays were normal and blood tests were also normal even after the tuberculosis treatment. I always have the problem to press in this area, and whenever I press it little hard, my neck pains and then the pain radiates to my head and then to my face. I have to take pain killers to reduce the pain.

I easily gets irritated when I am with my family and gets annoyed easily. Sometimes, I am okay. However, I am polite in nature when I am in office.

I don't feel any discharge from penis during erection, urine, stool or sleeping. Regarding prostatitis, when i got the uring hesitancy problem for the first time, i consulted an urologist in Delhi and he inserted his gloved finger inside my rectum to feel my prostate and he started massaging which was a very painful exercise. He confirmed it is prostatitis. Ultrasound revealed normal prostate, however there was some obstruction in the urine flow study so he can me some antibiotics but the problem was not resolved. He then advised for cystoscopy. Thereafter I consulted 3 urologist who without even touching me, just asked me to go for cystoscopy. I finally went to Sir Ganga Ram hospital and met a senior urologist there who knowing my symptoms did one more uroflow test and confirmed that my urine is very acidic and gave me potasium citrate which helped me and when I started getting relief minorly, I then switched over to Ayurveda which then helped me a lot. When I fully recovered, I stopped this medicine. I have noticed that this problem occurs specially during change of climate or when I am alone or when I am tensed and even sometimes, when I am sitting idle.

One more thing I would like to add is it takes me a lot of time for ejaculation of semen (during intercourse or during masturbation). Sometimes, it takes more than half an hour for ejaculation.

One more thing I forgot to tell you in that I also have the problem of constipation sometimes. Moreover sometimes, few drops of blood also comes along with the stool and rectum pains a lot alongwith a pinching sensation inside it.

My urination problem occurs mainly during change of climate. Erection problem is going on continual basis. Desire is very strong and in my mind it's always sex and thinking of some erotic things, but no erections occurs. I sweat a lot in summer and it's smell is very bad so I use deodrant and sometimes talcum powder for this. Sometimes, it's so sweat that my shirts also gets wet, however, it (shirt) doesn't smell much. Also, sometimes (no matter whether it is summer or winter) I feel some tightness of my shirts around my neck / collar area that I have to adjust collar area every time.

As far as discharge is concerned, when it's erect during intercourse some fluid comes. Sometimes, when I masturbate and it's in erect condition, fluid comes which makes penis soft. Sometimes during foreplay when my penis is erect, some fluid comes. All this happens during sexual activities only. Otherwise it is normal. Even if sometimes, someone touches me by mistake (opposite sex) there is no erections, whereas in the past it gets erected automatically.

Sir, I really try my level best not to masturbate, but my mind drives me to masturbate.

During sexual stimulation / foreplay sometimes my penis erects for sometime and I can do the intercourse for a short period, during intercourse, it suddenly starts softening. When I withdraw from intercourse after this, sometimes there is some fluid and sometimes there is no fluid. So it's very confusing, to tell you the exact reason.

Sometimes, during foreplay if I don't get any erection, at that time, there is some fluid.

When I think about sex, sometimes I get erection which then drives me to masturbate. After masturbation, no erections comes even during sexual thoughts even after 4 to 5 hours. No fluid discharge during sexual thought.

Sometimes, even if I think about sex for even 1 hour,
I don't get any erection.

Sometimes, even if I have no desire, still i do masturbation. I really want to get rid of this as my children are growing and I have to keep myself under control. Pls. suggest me some good remedy.

I do know that my above qualities are very complex and confusing.

Pls. suggest a good remedy as My condition is very bad as I am not getting erections these days even while masturbating.
 
  hyper on 2009-10-05
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Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

I have been trying to get in touch with you for the last 3 weeks, but you are not responding to any of my replies.

I know that you would be busy with your schedules, but a line in return would be highly appreciated, even if you do not have a suitable remedy for me or if you think that i am uncurable.

you have responded to many other forums, but my forum is still unreplied.

I am expecting a reply from you.

thank you.

hyper
 
hyper last decade
dear patient,
Please start up with Nux-Vomica-30 ( 3 drops per dose after every meal)particularly at night and report after 2 weeks.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

Thank you for your response. I have bought this medicine and have started taking 3 drops after meals.

I thing I would like to highlight is that for the past 1 week I have not getting enjoyment at the time of ejaculation + as the climate is changing, I am also having the urine hesitance problem due to which I am not getting any erections. Any feedback on this issue..

Once again thanks a lot to you for your response.
 
hyper last decade
after taking Nux for a week stop it for another 15 days and then come up with changes.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

Taken Nux Vomica 30 as per your advice, but there is no +ve results. No improvement in erections. Erections are just for a few seconds even during masturbation. sexual enjoyment absent during climax while masturbating. On 2 - 3 days my abdomen was bloated and I was having gastric problem. Almost 99.5% there is no erections. Most of my work is sitting work. I am feeling pressure inside my rectum on some occasions. Pls. advise.
 
hyper last decade
Please stop masterbation and wait for one week. Also try to stop this bad habit so frequently. Have good diet and good thinking good fiends, release your mind from sex complete, and energise your imunity system.



dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Sir,

I always try my level best not to masturbate and not to think about sex, but my mind drives me crazy for this. Is there any medicine to control this. I really want to get rid of this. Pls. advise.
 
hyper last decade
Yes Please take Bufo Rana-200 One dose at night and Staph-200 morning empty stomach (dose 3 drops direct on tongue) by these medicine export quality. and try for two week and come up.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Sir,

I am now taking bufo rana 200 and Staphysagria 200 (As per your instructions) for the last two days and for the last 2 days I have not done any masturbation even though if I am thinking of it.

However, I am not getting the erections, even while severe foreplay. Pls. help me on this.

Further, since last night, I am getting cervical spondylitic pain which has extended to my head and shoulder. Pls. suggest a suitable remedy for this. Also, my mouth is very itchy specially in the night I have to itch it through my tongue. Pls. help me out on these issues.

Thanks a lot.
 
hyper last decade
Please continue with the above medicines and report after 2 weeks No other medicine at the moment required.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear Sir,

Last night I was having dry cough and my chest was like full from inside. I was feeling breathlessness due to this. In the night, I had no other alternative but to drink a tspoonful of an alopathic cough syrup. Right now also, it's the same condition. I feel like it's something like bronchitis / asthma.

After taking bufo rana and staphy. I have not masturbated till date. I shaked my penis yesterday night and when it erected, I had a few minutes intercourse with my wife, however, I have not completed the sexual intercouse act, because I thought, that if I ejaculate inside, my wife would become pregnant. I have not ejaculated semen thereafter even by means of masturbation. Is this okay? As after this, I experienced tightness in my chest and feeling like bronchitis / asthma.

Is there any medicine to stop unwanted pregnancy in homeopathy. Pls. advise.
 
hyper last decade
Sir,

Pls. help. I am suffering from cold also.

My erection problem still continues. Penis is very soft and small.

Most of the day, it's sitting job. Sometimes, there is a pain in rectum + sometimes it feels as if I am sitting on a ball.

Thanks

hyper
 
hyper last decade
Dear Dr,

As per your advice, I have taken Bufo Rana + Staphy. for 10 days (I could not take it for the last 4 days because I was in hospital as my daughter was hospitalised).

For the last 15 days I have done the masturbation only two times (once a week). There is 98% improvement in this bad habit.

However, there is no improvement in erections. Even when I do masturbation, sex, my whole body is exhausted/vibrates during this procedure. Also, enjoyment is totally absent. During ejaculation there is no feeling/enjoyment.

Pls. help me with a suitable remedy for this problem also.

Thanks a lot for your prescriptions.

Best regards,

HYPER
 
hyper last decade
Dear patient,

Please stop Bufo. and continue with steph. morning and evening dose (twice a day) for 2 weeks.

Please stop masterbation totally and enjoy with your wife when you feel comfortable once in 15 days.
Have good thought, good diet and good companions. Every thing with be ok. soon.

dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
pls tell about caladium 200
& dose also.
 
jameel404 last decade
dear Jameel, you are now confused and not following me. Please comply me and give feedback about your problem.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
dear dr.mahfooz,
age:45 working as accountant
problem accour last one and half year sexual desire normal
but some time excessive but timing not satisfactory not time enough wife also not satisfy before discharge.when she feel horny.
no family disease figure tall 6'-2' slim weight 65kg
panis not tight at time of sex
it soft too much inset in vagina with hand and than discharge with in two three stroks.
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dear dr.mahfooz,
age:45 working as accountant
problem accour last one and half year sexual desire normal
but some time excessive but timing not satisfactory not time enough wife also not satisfy before discharge.when she feel horny.
no family disease figure tall 6'-2' slim weight 65kg
panis not tight at time of sex
it soft too much inset in vagina with hand and than discharge with in two three stroks.
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jameel404 last decade
dear jameel,
please come up with you own original tread and do not inter in others thread.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

It took me 3 days to search for my forum as Jameel has entered in my thread.

I would like to give you an update on my problems.

As soon as I stopped bufo + staphy. I am now once again doing the masturbation which is now restricted to once a day instead of 2 - 3 times a day.

There is some improvement in my erections approx. 40% after taking nux vomica. For the past 7 days I have not taken nux vomica and also have not taken bufo + staphy

Is there any other alternate for stopping masturbation as 1 week before I started taking bufo + staphy but there was no improvement.

Further, These days I am having piles related problem, my stools are tight, and after passing stools, drops of blood comes out.

Also, is there any remedy by which my wife don't get pregnant as my wife do not want to take allopathic medicines. As we are already having 2 daughter, we do not want any other child and when I try for condoms, my erections becomes dull.

Please respond me.

Thanks a lot

HYPER
 
hyper last decade
Dear Hyper,
Doctor did not ask you to stop both bufo + staphy. He only adviced to stop bufo; and continue staphy. So it may be happened for your mistake to properly read the advice of Dr. Mahfooz.
About condom use, it is some difficult for impotency patients. Please also ensure that, you have used the condom properly. That means, put it in right side, not opposite side. I was doing the mistake by putting the condom from opposite side, which make painful my penis, promote ejaculation and make my impotency problem worse.
 
patient25 last decade
Sorry about my poor english. I meant to say that I after stopping bufo rana I have taken staphysagria for 2 weeks, which did not helped me.

One more thing I would like to update is that I am doing excess sitting work which may be a cause for piles/ impotence. Further, my pants are getting tight (which means my stomach size is increasing) which can also be a reason for impotence.

Dear Dr. Mahfooz, please suggest some good remedy to overcome all these problems.
 
hyper last decade
The main reason of impotence is nothing but masturbation. So you no need to find other reasons, as you still continue masturbation. It is obvous for a person being impotence, who masturbate 2/3 times a day.
If you see impotence long time after stop masturbation, then you can find other reasons. About my case, masturbation is not direct reason, it is indirect reason for impotence. I stopped masturbation when I was 21 years old, I stopped bed humping at the age of 25, but I see impotency at the age of 31. The reason of my impotency is Prostatic Fluid Secretion, which was started at the age of 19. Continuous secretion was resulted into premature ejaculation at the age of 27/29. Then it turned into erectile dysfunction at the age of 31, just 6 months before the marriage. Besides, secretion problem was also compelled me to excessive straining in urine which was a major reason of impotency.So my disease history is at a glance: Masturbation>Secretion>Premature Ejaculation>Impotency.
But you still do masturbation at the age of 32, married and father of two children!!!
 
patient25 last decade
Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

Please reply.

Thanks
Hyper
 
hyper last decade
Dear Dr. Mahfooz,

I am waiting for your reply.

Thanks...

Hyper
 
hyper last decade
hyper,

Please always try to write your position in sample words with reality so that I may really help you out.

Now I only suggest you to take Nuxvomica-200 one dose at night bed time. and Cina-200 one dose empty stomach and come up after 2 weeks.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade

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