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bsentminded, cant focus and communicate
From noorcheryl on 2010-09-08
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i have memory problem since 18 years old.
after read some academic text, after 2/3 days i have to reread and feel weird coz as if i havnt read the text b4.
very hard to complete my task coz i am too slow. my job involve facts and figures and i also study parttime.
difficult to communicate in group or meeting
anxiety an nervous during seminar or presentation.
unable to think of question or if i have question to ask i cant express it
timid and shy
i hardly understand and listen during discussion
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Re: absentminded, cant focus and communicate From sameervermani on 2010-09-08
Hi,

When did these problems begin ?

What was happening in your life at that time?

Any life events which coincided with the start of the problem ?

Also, talk more about your behaviour, anger, fear, anxieties, or any other negative feelings.

What are the general things which make you feel better or worse ? (e.g. sunlight, seaside, warmth, open air, seasons, weathers, particular foods, touch, music...or anything else)

What diseases run in your family ?
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Re: absentminded, cant focus and communicate From noorcheryl on 2010-09-20
Hallo Dr Sameer,

I have send my answer to your email. Could u please reply either via email or forum.

Thank you very much. hope to hear fr dr soon.
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Re: absentminded, cant focus and communicate From noorcheryl on 2010-09-23
1. When did these problems begin ?

When I was child I always had headache, stomach ache and depression. It hit badly when i was 18. I am female and now aged 44 year.

2. What was happening in your life at that time?

At age 18, i went to study pre-medicine in Kuala Lumpur where i was far away fr my family.
I am a very soft and pampered daughter coz i always fall sick at age 8-10 and 13 years old.
I also have culture shock bcoz previously fr age 7 to 17 i studied at girl school.
A very differnt dimension in my life. I have to live in hostel and indepndence.
The distance fr my hostel to the faculty is too far and tiring for me due to my health condition.
I dont understand anything during lectures and tutorials, cant focus. When i read book i dont understand and repeat the same sentence many times to understand and memorise but i fail. I cantdo the tutorial question.
I hate maths and physics even bio lab coz i cant draw the cells or organisms that i saw under the microscope. I am not good in drawings and my handwriting is very bad till now.
When i was 16 my fingers trembled and i cant write. Since then i just hold pen lightly to avoid fr trembling n my handwriting is bad til now. I fail most of the papers except for english where i have to go 4 supplementary exam. After 1.5 years i quit and returned home.
My father was really upset with me also my relatives. I was really stress and embarassed even really want to be a doctor. But i x see blood and very timid.

I went to another institution taking dip accounting course and manage to finish it with average result. In 1996 i received my ist degree Actg only 3rd class. I have the same problem and very hard for me.
I scared to go to class coz i know nothing and feel awkward. I also had bad marriage and last for 2 years.

3. Any life events which coincided with the start of the problem ?

During my early childhood i was very active and fascinating child. I like to sing, dance, read and love by my family and teachers. I was able to give speech, dance and act at 6 yrs old. I could feel that im fast learner and loved by my family bcoz of my outstanding personality. When i start school at 7 and at 8 im able to read, i remember and observe names of roads and signboard.
But i cant stand when my parent had bad arguments and my father's char. My fathers dislike my mum;s family and x allow us to be close. When they come to our hse he would switch of tv and irritate my cousins.
This make me hate my father and i suffered to see my mother's unhappy marriage and sickness.
When i was 9, my father disallow me to take dancing class and i felt so frustrated bcoz besides that i x have any other activity.
I wasnt good in sports coz every time i run in games my stomach was aching badly that i had to stop running.
At that age i have stomach ache, headache and i become weak child.


4. Also, talk more about your behaviour, anger, fear, anxieties, or any other negative feelings.

What are the general things which make you feel better or worse ? (e.g. Sunlight, seaside, warmth, open air, seasons, weathers, particular foods, touch, music...or anything else)
I cant stand with heat and crowded places. even i cannot wear tight close and head band. I hardly breathe and need fresh and open air.
B4 i had gastritis n can take hot and spicy food where i easily got diarhea but now it is improving cos i take nux vom and carbo veg.
I like spring, fall and winter. But even it s hot in summer i still wear socks when i want to sleep coz i feel cold on my foot. I had adenomyocist and had laser in 2006 and polyps. i had underwent 5 operations including feet and tonsil operation.i have severe pre and during period pain, sometime very bad til i vomitted, couldnt walk, stiffness especially lower abdomen and and hardly breathe.
My body is not propotionately balance. My upper abdomen is small but lower abdomen and legs are big with small foot. Dec last year i was snatched and broke my left feet ,28 dec i had operation to insert screw in my feet. But now my right feet is also aching both feet are swollen after half day daily activites.
I scared to wake up at night to do my preparation to teach or prepare questions or study. I scared to see ghost or thieves or when i heard animals crying especially at nite n cant get out from my room. i chose to stay at link house but not at an isolated house. i have ever rented one house but at dawn i packed my things n went back to my mum's house coz i and my son scared to hear animals creep and felt lonely. I feel like I was isolated by my colleague and family . I am divorced. I have prob dealing with people may be due to my communication prob.



5. What are the general things which make you feel better or worse ? (e.g. sunlight, seaside, warmth, open air, seasons, weathers, particular foods, touch, music...or anything else)
I love nature,the seaside, mountain, waterfall, rain and wind but i scared of animal sound at nite or when im alone. I cant to take bath with cold water morning n nite. I like slow music but i get headache and dislike heavy metal rock music. I like to wonder and dreaming to be successful, wealthy and healthy. i try to be religious.. I like chocolate, seafood, food with chillies, juices. I like beautiful and clean n organize places but i don’t know/ cant afford how to organized n will be untidy when im too buzy or upset. I can do my house cleanig when im free. When my prob is at the peak i would prefer to die. Fyi, i have a son aged 15 but like to spend time to watch tv and play games rather than studying.

Cuurently at nite, when I continue using computer or reading at 10 pm, I cant bend my head to read anymore. I feel dizzy n have to lie down with my head straight n go to sleep even I still want to continue reading or do my work.
I also have blurred vision where I cant read my fr my books or laptop. I also have both long and short sighted. I have made multi focal spec but I can only use for long sight but for reading I have to use anther spec and troublesome when I go for lectures and presentation.

6. What diseases run in your family ?
My mother had gastritis prob and getting very thin where she cant eat spicy Asian food like curry, emotional prob, headache and skin prob, clean conscious. She will spend long hours in bathroom to get clean. She used to fall sick when she was 20+. Frequent bleeding. My father had ministroke, cough, loss hearing and behave awkward. Totally opposite characters n behaviors between my father n mother. My father use to do odd things and so contrast with my mum. My mum is very sensitive and always has arguments with my father and also her family and myself.
One of my aunts passed away due to lung cancer ,another - womb cancer, one more - diabetis and high bp. One aunt became mad and passed away whilst on treatment. One of my aunt was mad and passed away whilst in treatment. My uncle had stroke and high bp. Another one heart problem.
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Need urgent reply From noorcheryl on 2010-09-26
Hi Dr Sameer,
Appreciate if you or any dr could suggest the best remedy for me since i have tried many remedies for instance gelsemium 1000, sepia 200, pulsatilla 200, nat mur 200, arnica 200 and 30, fraxinus americana, angelica 30, ruta 30 and 200, rhus tox 30. its very critical bcoz i cant follow during lectures and seminars and when im doing my reading and my vison is blurred and dizzy so i cant continue reading at nite .

Thank you.
 
  noorcheryl on 2010-10-18
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
So, the dizziness occurs from reading or bending your head forward ?

What causes the dizziness to get worse ?

What times does it get worse ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Dr Sameer,
Thank you for your reply. Here’ s my answer.

So, the dizziness occurs from reading or bending your head forward ?
i think both. From reading and sitting to do work at my table and when I use computers especially laptop. My neck, shoulder and head are also in pain. My vision also blurred and I hardly read the text.
(I have long sighted in left eye but shortsighted in right eye).
I had eye test last July and last 2 weeks I went for another eye test and my short sighted is getting worse n need to replace with new one. I also have problem becoz when I used multi focal a can only see long distance but cant do my reading.
I had seen physiotherapist and he said that my neck position is leaning forward

What causes the dizziness to get worse ?
When I continue my work for long hours and at night after whole day work and when I am stress and to finish my due assignments. I have very bad travel sickness.
I cant read when the vehicle is moving and hardly move
otherwise I vomited badly.
In 2001 when I was in flight for more than 6 hours, I vomited when it was going down to land. this dizziness and giddiness continued for abt 1 month.

What times does it get worse ?
Especially at night, hot day and cold due to aircond, understress, wake up in the midnite, morning I always feel tired like not enough sleep.
 
noorcheryl last decade
When did you take Nat-m 200 and how much time did you wait ?
 
sameervermani last decade
I took Nat-m 200, 2 or 3 years ago( sorry I cant remember), every 2 weeks after 1 month then I have other sickness like very tired that I make me tremble, food poisoning that lead to few days diarrheas, hair loss and graying hair, headache, neck and shoulder pain, travel sickness, depression and knee pain that hard to bend so few people ask me to take other remedies like staphisagria, acid phos, lyco 1M, sepia 1M.
Then I had accident on 14 December 2009 where I my left feet fractured (close avulsion fracture left 5th metatarsal). I had operation on 28 Dec 2009 and will have another surgery next month to remove the screw.
Before and after operation my feet was swollen then I was advised to take ruta grav, arnica, hypericum, gelsemium and last symphytum but the swollen was there. Then one homeopath practitioner gave me ledum and rhus tox and he asked me to take 10 drops of angelica daily.
After 4-5 months my swollen gone and I started working. According to him I cant absorb calcium bcoz I had adenomyocist ie growth in my uterus. Even bfore and after I had that fracture I have pain both feet when I walk long distance. Currently my right feet also painful and stiff after work so I have to massage both feet with some ointment b4 I go to sleep. Now my menses is not regular, I for 2-3 months, after I take sepia 200 than I have my menses.
On 9 Oct 2010, I had dizziness, giddiness and diarrhea again so I took arsenic, pulsatilla, china off etc but it didn’t stop for 2 days. Then I took graphite 30 and diarrhea stop. But giddiness prolonged for 2 weeks. And I still feel little bit right now.
Some other info :
I always feel dizzy and nausea like travelling pain, headache, neck, shoulder and back pain.
Stomach problem can lead to diarrhea– hard and full of wind, frequent urination, very painful and late menses
When wake up in the morning I still feel tired, not enough sleep and don’t want to go to work.
Always feel like continue my sleep and don’t want to go thru day time
My mood always swing, difficult to make choice, not confident, shy, timid, lazy, inorganized, finish any task in the lasy minute even try to do it early and don’t like crowd.
Difficult to hear and understand, too slow, eyes both short and long sighted.

Hope my info helps Dr to diagnose my prob and find the suitable remedy, thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Dear Dr,

I think i i miss the word speactacles where i should replace it due to the power increase.
However they said it is too high for my age but with the current one its difficult to read, headache and my eyes strain.
Also, my left feet fractured bcoz i fall and sprained my ankle.

Thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Let us try a dose of Natrum Mur again. Please take just 3 doses of 30c potency at 30 mins gap just for 1 day.

Report in 1 week after the doses.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Dr,

1. I have called the stockist but they dont have NatMur 30. It will only arrive in 2-3 weeks time. Can I take Nat Mur 200 instead ?

2. How many drops per doses and
3. Is it only 3 times every 30 min just for one day ?


Thank you very much for your advice.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Do they have 6c or any other potency lower than 200c ?
 
sameervermani last decade
ok, i'll check and let you know tomorrow.

Thanks.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

I hv checked but the lower potency is not available.

They said NatMur 30 will arrive in 1-2 weeks time. Do you want me to wait for the remedy ?
Is there anything that I should take while waiting becoz I cant read properly, so careless and forgetful.

Thank you
 
noorcheryl last decade
Where are you located ?
 
sameervermani last decade
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noorcheryl last decade
You can take 1 single dose of Natrum Mur 200c, and report after 10 days then.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Dr,

Just to reconfirm. How many drops should i use for the single dose?
 
noorcheryl last decade
Dissolve 1 drop in 250 ml spring water, stir, and take a spoon from there ONCE.
 
sameervermani last decade
thanks.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Here's my report after 10 days taken nat mr 200

My condition almost the same as usual, like,difficult to focus, inorganize , inattentive, reckless, lazy, panic, forgetful, tense, cold feet,stiff neck, feet and abdomen, unproductive, stiff and pain at both feet, difficult to write, with bad handwriting. vision is worsened. went to see ophthalmologist, both long and short power increase, right 25, left 225. suspected diabetes or hormone imbalance. He said I have dry eyes.

Headache, neck pain n back n shoulder pain, feel bloated, tired. cant remember how to answer
question that i had reviewed previously. Cant find documents or file that I have kept or when I stop to do other tasks.
Forgetful and reckless. Went to office function at the wrong date. I was so unfocus and I only read the venue on the card but not the date on the invitation card. the function was another week when the person at the hotel read the card. So shocked , embarrass amd shame with myself. Felt too bogged down and many things to do.

When listen to presentation or talk difficult to focus and understand. Unable to evaluate presentation.

I bend my head down to read or search something in my handbag. But halfway, I felt dizzy, giddy n almost fainted. I had to rest my head on the head rest n ask my son to rub my head, neck, shoulder n back for 20 mins. Felt very weak and unable to walk for 2 hour. Normaly it would have low bp.

I have to wear corset and girdle to straightened posture to reduce neck and back pain .
When wake up n the morning, dizzy n giddi. Had to wait for 40 mins to get up. Sinus attack myb bcoz I night before it was rain when get into car. Acne again at my chin. frequent urination, esp at night. Bladder felt heavy even after pass urine. X wear tight clothes including head band and underwear.
On the 10th day I had diarrhea. My last menses in mid September 2010 and watery discharge as usual

thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Here's my report after 10 days taken nat mr 200

My condition almost the same as usual, like,difficult to focus, inorganize , inattentive, reckless, lazy, panic, forgetful, tense, cold feet,stiff neck, feet and abdomen, unproductive, stiff and pain at both feet, difficult to write, with bad handwriting. vision is worsened. went to see ophthalmologist, both long and short power increase, right 25, left 225. suspected diabetes or hormone imbalance. He said I have dry eyes.

Headache, neck pain n back n shoulder pain, feel bloated, tired. cant remember how to answer
question that i had reviewed previously. Cant find documents or file that I have kept or when I stop to do other tasks.
Forgetful and reckless. Went to office function at the wrong date. I was so unfocus and I only read the venue on the card but not the date on the invitation card. the function was another week when the person at the hotel read the card. So shocked , embarrass amd shame with myself. Felt too bogged down and many things to do.

When listen to presentation or talk difficult to focus and understand. Unable to evaluate presentation.

I bend my head down to read or search something in my handbag. But halfway, I felt dizzy, giddy n almost fainted. I had to rest my head on the head rest n ask my son to rub my head, neck, shoulder n back for 20 mins. Felt very weak and unable to walk for 2 hour. Normaly it would have low bp.

I have to wear corset and girdle to straightened posture to reduce neck and back pain .
When wake up n the morning, dizzy n giddi. Had to wait for 40 mins to get up. Sinus attack myb bcoz I night before it was rain when get into car. Acne again at my chin. frequent urination, esp at night. Bladder felt heavy even after pass urine. X wear tight clothes including head band and underwear.
On the 10th day I had diarrhea. My last menses in mid September 2010 and watery discharge as usual

thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Please take just 1 single dose of Sulphur 1M, and report after 10 days. Dosing procedure below.

Dissolve 2 drops or 2 pellets of Sulphur 1M , in 250 ml spring water, stir and take a teaspoon. Nothing should enter mouth 1 hr before and 1 hr after the dose.
 
sameervermani last decade
Ok, I shall take it tonight,
thank you
 
noorcheryl last decade
Dear Dr

Appreciate if Dr could give some advice to me as follows:

1. I would like to know the cause that make Dr change the remedy from Nat mur200 to Sulphur 1M ?

2. Two years ago a homeopath told me that Sulphur 1M has a strong effect that we may lose our teeth by taking the remedy and told me not to use it. I have a steel plate temporarily placed in my left feet and shall be removed next year, is it advisable for me to take Sulpur 1M ?

Thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Go ahead, you can take a lower potency (200c) and that should be milder.

It shouldn't interfere with the steel plate.
 
sameervermani last decade
okay, thanks.
 
noorcheryl last decade
Dear Dr Sameer,
I have taken sulphur 200 as adviced. Not much different. So Forgetful, hardly turn my head esp driving. Want to avoid fr people. X know how to response n talk to people, selfish, jealousy, bad fierce, anger and revenge. When have prob n ty to discuss x avoid to speak with emotion. Even i hv try hard to keep cool and settle the problem wisely bt always fail. So forgetful till when people come to me i will forget the task that i was doing at that time n make me unproductive for not resuming thet task.
My body has many small growth like white styes on face, back, and all over body and later become moles. Before i use to have a lot of acnes on my face esp forehead ,chin and back. Following my eyes check up i went for blood test and the result shows i x have diabetes but my cholesterol level is quite high. I was advised to do MRI since i have stiff n pain neck pain. The result shows that i have protrusion at C4, C5, C6 and C7. I had a terrible pain after MRI and took some allopathy med but it make my condition worse. Felt head want to explode, pain on skull til neck to both eyes. Dizzy n giddy esp when raisning up, reading any movement or static for toolong.. when dizzy cannot open eyes, move n speak follows by vomitting I vomited with severe headache and dizzy that i hardly move like having motion sickness. When i went back fr hospital, it s very painful so i took arnica 30 t reduce the pain. My condition is still worse, please kindly advice me what remedy should i take as i cant continue like this?
 
noorcheryl last decade
The MRI result/impression; Multiple level of cervical discs protrusions from C4-C5 until C6-C7; presence of posterolateral components; R>L. Cervical discs prolapse. please help, thank you.
 
noorcheryl last decade

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