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Psychological Issues effecting my married life.

Dear Senior Doctors

I would like you to please discuss this case with eachother and help me.


Age: 25
Sex: Female
Martial Status: Married from 2.5 years
Height: 5.3
Weight: 46 KG

My Introduction:
At the age of 5 I suffered from bone-narrow disease that I rarely remember and my parents never tell me what it was actually. I was hospitalized for a month or more. At the age of 14 I had a cyst under my right ear (inside neck) that was cancerous and was operated to remove followed by radiation therapy. Radiation therapy effected by eyes, teeth and salvation glands.

At this stage Im perfectly physically fine now, no such issues.

Im the only daughter of my parents and most youngest as well. I think have grownup in such an environment where usually everyone thinks Im always sick and weak and my parents have been taking care of me all the time so it have made my mind in such a way that no matter what I always think my parents are right and they are my world. Even after being married my mind is still all there with my parents and I give more priority to my parents than my husband which I shouldn't obviously. Even I think my own home where I lives with my husband is not my actually home, my actual home is my parents home.


1. Describe your main suffering?
Im really selfish person and no matter what I cant share and compromise on anything and my this attitude is ruining my marriage. I have this attitude of saying NOOOOO to everything at first no matter what it is even if its for my own good but later I may realize it. I may not truly believe on something what my husband tells me until if very same thing is not said by my parents.

My husband is such kind of person that will share his everything and will do anything for me but I cant do much. He always cooperate and compromise and forgive my mistakes and keep telling me how can I improve myself and the good thing is that he always make me realize that what mistake Im making and I accepts that too at that time but with little passage of time I forgets everything and becomes same person.

My bad habits or wrong things that I do in daily routine life are always good to me and he keeps forgiving me and keeps discussing with me to correct them but if he does those very same things then I gets toooo much angry on him and always fight with him badly. This again explain how selfish type of person am I.

I have no control over my temperament, I gets angry real quickly and also starts to cry.

I myself talks/friends with cousins, guys and university fellows and all but I dont like my husband even to talk with anyone and I gets angry on him even if some other girl tries to talk with him which is not his fault.

I likes to sleep most of the time and not willing to do things.


2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Very Cold Hands/feet, dry mouth with weird type of odor, teeth cavities, very light hairs.


3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
Im a selfish person, I do think like a 16 year old girl and I think I have inferiority complex.


4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I want to cry, I feels like killing myself and I pray to God to take my life.


5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
Already mentioned in my introduction.


6. Which time of the day you are worst?



7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.




8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
Not such....



9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Hot weather



10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
Lazy, Nervous, Suspicious, very Easily Offended and senseless arguing where I know Im wrong but I still wants it.


- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
worried


- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
yes

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
noise

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
none

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
I really care about them and I think my husband loves me more than anything in this world and I think Im really possessive for him.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
Fear of suffocating and choking.


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
chocolates and cheesy/fatty foods.


13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less, I have dry mouth with weird type of odor.

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?


16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
very Less.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
normal.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
straight and left aim.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
yes.

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?


21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?


22. What major diseases are running in your family?
Blood Pressure.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
very Slim.

(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.

25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
Already described earlier.
 
  sanaz1986 on 2011-02-05
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Please hold your horses.
 
nawazkhan last decade
Hi,

Please take Platinum Metallicum (Platina) 200C, 4 drops in 2 sips of water, stir nicely with a spoon, Only 2 doses with a gap of 4 hours.

A bundle of prayers for your happy married life.

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan last decade

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