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dear doctors
my cousin is 11 years old male

and is quiet fat and flabby his weight is 60 kg right now ...
he is very soft hearted he says he gets sinking feeling on watching something violent or listening to something sad and violent ....

also he lacks confidence in general quiet introvert ,

also conscious about his looks as he is fat and lacks confidence in interacting with school mates ,

at times he wakes up from sleep and shouts also there is something peculiar about him that he can be made to walk in sleep without affecting his say from one room to another


he lacks interest in studies and is not keen to discuss his studies related problems or seeking help in improving on his shortcomings ,i have tried talking to him and proposed that he should develop atleast reading habit be it any subject but he did not showed interest ,i took him to a very good book store and he did not pick even a single book ,what can be done to improve his interest in studies ,i am concerned as his performance is as it is not good at schools and lest he internalize his lack of performance into other aspect of personality


he has craving for noodles

please advise what to do
 
  lifecycle31 on 2011-02-17
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lifecycle31 last decade
waiting for a response
 
lifecycle31 last decade
life cycle,
How does he behave in front of strangers?
When a new person comes to your house he is introduced to him, how does he cope with that then?
Does he do stage performances in school functions?
What is the activity that intrests him? what does he love doing? ( his favourite time pass?)
regards,
Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
he acts shy in front of others with family members he is quiet frank /he is afraid of stage performances at school/he does not take interest in anything yes he likes watching cricket otherwise he is not keen in studying or reading or seeking information about anything
 
lifecycle31 last decade
Life Cycle,
If you ask him OR force him to study how does he react?
He gets angry/irritated?
He says YES but still will not do it?
Or
Do it lazily? OR Anything else.
Does he grasp new topics & understands easily or does it take time & repeated hammering as to make him understand?
Regards,
Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
If you ask him OR force him to study how does he react?
He gets angry/irritated?
He says YES but still will not do it?Or
Do it lazily? OR Anything else.
when he is asked to study he gets irritated and angry with least provocation ,he is himself keen to study and learn during exams but he keeps procrastinating.



Does he grasp new topics & understands easily or does it take time & repeated hammering as to make him understand?
he does grasp new topics easily

but he lacks the hunger in himself to seek knowledge or inquisitiveness.
 
lifecycle31 last decade
Hi,

Please expand more on


'he lacks confidence in general quiet introvert'

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
'lacks confidence in general' means that he is found expressing his lack of belief in himself when he is interacting with friends and cousins ....he seeks support from parents and other elders in his interaction with others.



Quiet introvert

does not show interest in interacting with others children of his age group or elders he also has this inhibition of being ridiculed because of his flabby body type,prefers being quite ,lacks inquisitiveness towards environment,does not like reading or show keenness in knowing things about any topic he does show a little interest in cricket but other than that nothing else.
 
lifecycle31 last decade
Lifecycle,
So he is Angry on least provocation in front of family but mild in front of others?
I mean to say is he a lion at home but a cat outside the home?
What he has to say about his flabby body? What does he think about it? ( Dont manipulate yourself ask him if neccesary )
Regards,
Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Anything else you can tell about him ?

General things about him like what kinds of weather does he prefer ? What other things impact him ?

What about his food cravings or aversions ?

Any other fears ?
 
sameervermani last decade

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