Please help

My husband and I have both had health issues for quite some time I posted a couple days ago to see if there was anyone who could help us out and point us in the right direction for a remedy and was told to provide this information. Thank you s much whomever helps us! Our family will forever be in debt to you.

Smad01, Age 22, Female, Married, Stay at home mom to 7 month old son,150 Pounds, 5'7, United States, non-diabetic, lives in typical continental climate with cold winters and hot summers, no past surgeries or hospitalizations, no known allergies, unsure of current BP (but in the “normal” range), No childhood diseases.
Energy, has been experiencing the following symptoms for 6+ years: Fatigued. Very low energy. I need to have a minimum of 10 hours of sleep per night. If I get any less than 10 hours I become cranky and irritable. I am unable to complete simply daily tasks if I have not gotten adequate sleep. After 10+ hours I still feel tired throughout the day with most of the concentration being in my eyes, they feel weighted. During the evening hours I am unable to read. My eyes start to get blurry.
Sexual Desire: No sex drive, been experiencing since beginning of pregnancy (1 ½ years ago)
Skin, 6+ years: Generally unhealthy skin. Pale, Dry. Stretch Marks and cellulite in thighs and buttocks areas. Belly fat, flabby stomach skin area. I get razor bumps very easily.
Hair: 6+ years. Thin brittle hair. Breaks and splits easily
Fingernails: 6+ years: Brittle dry fingernails that split easily.
Toenails, 6+ years: Brittle discolored toenails Thick and rough, pieces break off front of toenail. Grey discoloration.
Circulation. 6+ years: Feet are always cold and feel empty.
Mind: Difficulty thinking. Feels like two weights are on both sides of my temples weighing my mind down. I have trouble coming up with an answer on the spot. I know what I want to say, but I usually don’t come up with it until hours afterward. I have a difficulty letting things go and am always bringing up problems from the past. I have have no trouble forgiving but forgetting is the problem. I tend to worry and get upset about other peoples problems. I get very nervous about many things. I tend to take mistakes that other people make and bring them up over and over. I tend to over think everything and am always thinking about something. I am forgetful, even though I think that I remember a lot. It seems to be some things I remember and some things I don’t. My husband says sometimes I think about things too much and then will imagine certain situations happened a different way. We'll get into arguments because I'll think we had a conversation go a certain way, but he thinks it went another. I'm also extremely impatient. I like predictability and get anxiety when things our out of my control. I don't mind change as long as I plan it.
Diet, been experiencing the following for 6+ years. Extreme unquenchable thirst (worse with pregnancy). I must drink at least 3 liters of water each day or I become restless and incontinent. It must be distilled water. If I drink regular tap water I find myself needing to drink an endless amount and am still feeling the restless and will start to get incontinent. I know that I need to go to the bathroom and will start to experience pain in the urethra area but most of the time I can't make it. The incontinence usually begins the day after I have skimped on water. I have a dry tongue. I also snack constantly throughout the day. If I am not eating something I become nervous. I am constantly preoccupied with food. I must have a large amount of sugary foods throughout the day or else I become panicked, irritable, and obsessed with the sugar and my cravings. When I eat fruits and vegetables I tend to feel more hungry afterward. I also crave a lot of breads, lasagna, meat, and salty chips. I have an particular craving for vinegary foods like salt and vinegar chips, mustard, Italian dressing, etc.
Back and Neck pain, experiencing for 6+ years. Entire back hurts. More in the upper end (shoulder area) and less in the lower back. Had an x-ray done of my neck and instead of the neck being curved backwards it is pointed forward. I have trouble turning my neck from side to side. I cannot stand and lift things for long periods of time. I also cannot generally stand for long periods of time whether or not I am holding an object. When I get sick the back and neck pain become debilitating. I usually get a pulsating headache along with the neck/back pain. The pain affects my daily life because I am unable to be as active as I want to be. I get exhausted from going up and down the stairs a few times. I also strain my relationship with my husband because I am unable to care for our son as much because of my pain and fatigue. I cannot hold him or carry him for more than a few minutes.

Relief/Triggers, Exercise creates some temporarily relief for fatigue and back pain. Lack of sleep is a huge trigger as well as contracting a cold. I experience my symptoms throughout the day and they are not better or worse during a specific time of day.

The reason I said 6+ years for most of the symptoms is because that is as far back as I can remember them being there. I feel stuck and unable to change and grow because I want to be a healthy, fit, active young woman and back and neck pain and fatigue keep me from doing that. I also envy people who are smart, witty, and kind. I know that that is who I am on the inside, but I just have a hard time getting it out.
I am positive that most of my issues stem from my childhood. My pregnancy just made them worse. My mother had epilepsy and we had an extremely low income. My father died when I was 8 years old and I from then basically had to raise myself on my own. She had/has a lot of personality issues that I notice I imitate and do the same things now. She would bring up mistakes that I had made and tell me over and over again what I could have done differently. If I did something wrong she wouldn't let me forget about it. As a child, I always felt smarter than her and that I knew what was best for myself because I was raising both me and her. I think this leads to a lot of fights with my husband because I tend to think I know whats best all the time. Aside from affecting me emotionally we were low income we basically lived off of highly processed foods from the food shelf. I remember one year I lived off of ramen for breakfast, lunch, and dinner the whole year. Sometimes we wouldn't have food and I would go over to my friends and beg them to ask their parents to see if I could stay for dinner. I became obsessed with where my next meal was going to come from. When my mom occasionally did buy food I was so overwhelmed and would eat as much as I could right away. Nothing lasted. Now, I’m blessed to have a fridge full of food and I think I so often resume to that overwhelmed behavior I felt as a child.

Homeopathic Remedies in the past: A couple weeks ago I did a self diagnosis and started taking calcarea carbonicum 30c 5 pellets 3 times a day for 3 days. My thirst seemed to decrease a little.
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