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[message edited by girl2010 on Fri, 25 Jan 2013 06:43:24 GMT]
 
  girl2010 on 2011-09-22
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Yes, U R right this happens quite frequently in many people's life.This is mainly b'cos. of our conditioning from childhood.We are repeatedly given the message that it is very bad to be angry.In this process we forget the difference between Assertiveness & aggressiveness & we choose a path of being passive.
Expression of anger is not at all bad or harmful till one owns one's anger.In stead of saying YOU made me angry it is always better to say I FELT ANGRY WHEN YOU BEHAVED LIKE THIS WITH ME.
This is what I mean by owning.
Once properly expressed the intensity of the hurt goes down considerably.
Then to forgive & forget becomes much easier.
However, to facilitate this psychic process Kent has very strongly recommended two medicines.
1. COLOCYNTH &
2. STAPHYSAGRIA.
Mind you the medicines will help only when there is a willingness to express positively without hatred.
Good luck to you!!!
 
daktersaab last decade
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girl2010 last decade
girl2010

It is better to take Bach flower remedy on this issue.

Take Cherry Plum 5 drops 3 times a day in 2 spoonful water

R.P. Tamhankar

shouse_nsk at rediffmail
 
shouse_nsk last decade

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girl2010 last decade
Just something I learned over the years from a source about forgivness which is quite effective indeed.


True forgivness is being grateful for the wisdom you received from the hurt, sexual abuse or whatever it was that was done to you. And that wisdom is... the way you responded was the best way you could do from the tools available to you,it was functional. Like for example when someone hurts you, your response might be to hurt someone else or to be quiet and suppress it. Being grateful for that wisdom makes you feel empowered and be able to forgive but with that being effective one must never use what happened as an excuse anymore or 'play the victim'. This must stop.

Forgiving & forgeting is not the right way to forgive and often after someone forgives someone for sexual abuse or whatever was done to him, the person often gets panic attacks or anxiety weeks or months later without knowing from where it came. And the cause for this would be the void the 'superficial' forgiveness creates. Being grateful is a receiving emotion so that feels up the void...
 
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girl2010 last decade
funny reply. Everyone can do that. and I doubt you knew that before about forgivness,

it was in addition to what daktersaab said

you just say to yourself you are grateful for the wisdom you gained of being quiet when someone hurts you and something will happen.

Although yea taking homeopathy is easier, than anything else lol
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girl2010

You can take Bach flower medicines along with Homeopathic medicines. They do not interfere

R.P. Tamhankar
 
shouse_nsk last decade
I suppose there is lot of sense in what vitaminX told you.
When you say that Staph 12c was given to you & that made you so angry & mad that itself shows that you are not mentally prepared to resolve the issue but to linger on & on so that you can get all the attention & you can play 'Victim'.
In Psychological terms it is called a game of BLEMISH i.e., blaming others for our own inadequacy.
My this post will make you very angry, b'cos. getting angry is your style of dealing with your feelings.
However this is my last post in this thread.Please introspect within yourself.
May God guide you!!!
 
daktersaab last decade
Maybe it is a bit too difficult to understand if you aren’t into self help. I don’t know. Some people I guess try to gain wisdom, knowledge and some other people just want to get healed from their problems. I found the above thing I posted very useful. With time if you do it often enough you come to a place to what Buddhists call “benign indifference”. Where you can look at the person who did bad things to you and feel indifferent as if you are looking at a blank wall. Although for healing to happen it must be done in a place of security. Which could be to have your back against the wall (sign of security to the mind) while thinking of the person who hurt you and doing the process.

Anyway being grateful has good uses for the mind and body. Like I said it is a receiving emotion that is why. Hope this wasn’t too much all. I know it is a homeopathy website. Will stop now. I just posted it for whoever could benefit from it as I found this great
 
vitamin.X last decade
Dear Vitamin.X and Daktersaab, I am really touched by your remarks. This is the only way to move forward in life.
Please keep up the good work as forgiving and forgetting is the best remedy around for good health. So, please don't even think of leaving this thread.

Thanks to my creator, before I go to sleep every night, I forgive all, do not seek revenge, try to forget the harm and move forward. This has been working very well. If you forgive, then, you are a good candidate of forgiveness from your creator.
Having said that, down the road, one must speak the truth and save oneself from the future attacks of people with patience, intelligence and hard work.

Staph 12C, in my opinion, was the wrong potency. 200C may have done the job.

Many prayers for all of you.

Regards
Nawaz
 
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girl2010 last decade
Dear Nawaz sahab,
I am posting again ONLY to honour your kind request of not to leave this thread.I cannot ignore your sincerity.
Dear girl2010,
Regarding Staph in LM potency etc. it all will work ONLY when you decide at your mental level to get over the problems.Otherwise all this is not going to work.
I strongly believe that pt can get well only when there is a strong desire to get well, & through which pathy (system) is not important.
All medicines are crutches.
It is the will & desire that works.
How is that, if someone abuses us & by chance if we do not hear it, we do not get hurt? What about all these Prime ministers & big shot who are critcised day in & day out.If they notice all these & take all to their heart they will be no where.
Please do think over it. I shall stop here as this is not a counselling session.
 
daktersaab last decade
Dear Doctor Sahib,

Your kind consideration is greatly appreciated. Please keep up the usual good work.

It is almost 1:00AM over here. I feel pretty sleepy right now. Therefore, Good Night.

Many prayers for you Doc.

Regards
Nawaz
 
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girl2010 last decade
My Dear girl2o1o,

Let me quote a small example here.
One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was really friendly.

So I asked, 'Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!'

This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call 'The Law of the Garbage Truck.'

He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage pilesup, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump on you. Don't take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so..... 'Love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't.'


Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!

The choice is yours.
I sincerely wish you the best!!!
Lovingly yours
Daktersaab
 
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girl2010 last decade
AS far as I feel, it would have been same.
This has happened not once but many times & people have gien me lots of problems & pains, but I have forgiven them all.NOT FOR THEIR SAKE BUT FOR MY OWN MENTAL PEACE.
It appears improbable but it is certainly not impossible.
Even at this point in your reply, I could feel lot of anger & in return I send you lots of love & blessings for a happy life for you.May God bless you with lot of peace!!
 
daktersaab last decade
I would earnestly request you to read a book by 'THERE IS A SPIRITUAL SOLUTION TO EVERY PROBLEM' by Dr. Wyen Dyer. I think you will also find an answer to all the problems you are facing.Good luck.
 
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girl2010 last decade
I did not mean that. What I said was the expression was with anger. Actually at a very deep down psychic level it is always anger towards self. It is a very fine & subtle thing which is very difficult to understand & much more difficult to accept it.
Introspection & meditation at self of WHO AM I? sometime solves this problem.
Anyway, I very much appreciate your pains & pray that you get over it soon.
I send my plenty of love & affection for you.No Sympathy, ONLY & only lot of empathy.
lovingly yours
Daktersaab
 
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