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Dear Doctors please help a helpless mother.

I am 35 years old mother of a 3 years old daughter. I am skinny.
Weight- 96 lbs
Height - 5' 0'


Recent problems:

-Always worried about health deterioration. Specially while alone. I am better in open air or I am better when I am with somebody.

-Always worried about future, as unable to start anything new by myself. e.g. work or study., very low confidence.

-Extremely fearful about hearing any bad news. Specially about depression, insanity or death of any relatives or closed ones. (closely witnessed death of a cousin 2 years back, Since then I have become very sensitive towards any incurable diseases and about death. Now I heard that his brother is extremely sad about some issues and I am extremely worried about his health too(specially depression) and also am imagining that he may die too).
Extremely anxious and not able to sleep well throughout the night. Wake up in every 15-20 minutes with anxious mind and fear.

-Unable to see or hear news in TV about bad things. About cruelty things like murder, killing etc. Unable to see or hear news about depressing things.

- Fearful about daughter's future as I am not able to do anything significant for her because of the illness. I cannot go out and earn something to do something for her.

- Angry towards husband. As he is very irresponsible, lazy and has superiority complex. Thus he has no proper job and earnings for running a family. Because he does not think about our future (me and my daughter's) I want to leave him but cannot leave him and do my own because I am fearful to stay alone. Fearful about my health condition, if anyhow think of staying separate only with daughter.

- I do not have hope that I will be okay one day.

-I am extremely irritated, Angry, Depressed, Sad, full of complaints, lack of confidence, hates contradiction, , Easily offended, Easily feel insulted, not feeling smart anymore. poor memory, poor concentration power, low energy, back pain. Cannot tolerate minor pain or minor disturbances in health.

PAST History:
I was a happy child till I was like 6-7 years old. May be till that time I did not know what sadness was. I remember, when I was 8-9 years old we had to face huge financial problems in those days which never got better when me and my brother started earning, So many tensions were going on inside the family. My mom and dad never had good relationship and still they don't have. They have always fought with each other. After fight they don't talk to each other for long time. So I grew up in this kind of environment, full of insecurities, full of hatred, full of anger. Despite of these things I was a good student.

When I was like 20 years old I fell for a guy but hesitated to express my feelings towards him. I was a Shy girl at that time. So before I expressed my feelings towards him he went abroad for his further studies. I felt like I lost everything in my life. So I felt like I had nothing positive in my life. Because of my family environment and my lost love I started feeling lonely and sad. I lost interest in my studies too. All of a sudden, I had noticed that I had a huge problem of nervousness and anxiety during giving exams (which I never felt before because I was a very confident person before ). So I told my dad about my problem and he took me to a psychiatrist. He gave me some medicines which never helped me. After that the doctor kept on changing medications but my condition did not improve. I gradually acquired depression and anxiety too. There was a fear of being alone too. Those medications became habit for me and I took them for 4-5 years. Then I quit the medicine and started yoga and breathing exercises. Started doing job too. I was improving slowly. I was not as depressed as before though my irritation towards my family and my life was still there. I did not want to be alone in life but because of my financial condition, I could not be married off with any persons. I had always seeked for a good life partner who can help me lead a good and happy life. But unfortunately I am like 'from a frying pan to the fire' . My husband is not that person who can give me a good life to live. I still have huge financial problem as he earns very little (just enough to have two meals a day). And because of the mental problem I am not able to go out and work. Doctors please help me overcome this depression and anxiety problem.

Diseases in family:
My dad had nervous break down 45-50 years ago and he is a schitzophrenic now. He is 69 years old. My mom has recently developed Psoriasis. She is 59 years old. Brother is okay but too much angrier. He is 33 years old.

Homeopathic Remedies Taken so far.
Consulted a homeopath 7 months ago and got treated for 6-7 months. Due to financial problems I could not continue the service. After that I started taking remedies by myself taking help of web sites. But I am not okay. I took, Nat Mur 30C 3 doses (did not work), Nat Arsenicum 1M (did not work), Lycopodium 30C 3 doses (did not work),
Few days ago somebody in this forum suggested me Calcarea Phospherica 30C for my above problems. I took one dose with water as per the suggestion. Even on 6th day I could not see any improvement. Instead I had a very bad night last night with extreme anxiety and restlessness all through night and could not sleep at all. I also had heaviness in the heart because of anxiety and fear. So I was forced to take another homeopathic combination remedy which has helped me to stay calm at least by 30-40%.

Please doctors Help me getting rid of this awful disease.
 
  hopeful35 on 2012-01-17
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Please take
Siphilinum-1m 6 pills (only one dose)
next day no medicine

then

1. Mimulus+Aspen+Sweet Chestnut+Gorse (4+4+4+4) drops together in 2 teaspoonful water 2 times a day (These are Bach Flower Medicines)
2. Acid Phos-200 (200c) 6 pills 2 times a day

Keep 30-40 minutes gap between above two

3. A weekly dose of 6 pills of Stphisagriya-1m

Pl give feedback after 15 days

R.P. Tamhankar
 
shouse_nsk last decade
Try Ignatia 200 single dose.After that try crategeus Q,10 drops in half cup of hot water twice daily after meal for few days.
 
Zahid)2 last decade

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