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I am writing to find help for my son. He has had a hard life already going through debt, emotional and financial hardship of the parents.

The boy is 5 years and 3 months. When he was 3 he expereinced extreme dramatic pain, because his mom was studying and had extreme pressure (attending lectures on time) but he wanted only his mom. he was crying, this is not overdone, sometimes from 8.00h to 3.00h. I could not calm him down in anyway. It was so sad, I was bound, I could not do anything.

he needs lots of love. Ebery child needs it, he needs a lot. He was a lovely, warm, forgiving boy and a happy child. he has still extreme FEAR OF SEPERATION. not being allone, of the act of seperation. if i say, I go tyo the car and get stuff in, he panics. but on the other hand he loves his mom to bits and pieces (which she can not see)

MY wife went to our homeopath, and I think she never spoke about it detail (for obvious reasons). this needs to be sorted, as it has developed into a very nasty thing. MY wife is oiverstressed and starts punishing him pgsychologically. as I said before, if you do not put the shoes on, I go allone (He gets so stressed, she says, it is just because he is naughty. he is not, he has a pain memory that is triggered with these words)

he also kicks my wife now when she is doing things as above. He seems to have lost all tolerance and I can see him as a teenager doing bad things...
The homeopath once said he is a pulsitilla constitution, not sure.

The fault is really on my side, I should have taken action earlier, but I did not. this ahs a reason too. I am working on it.

thanks for any help and thoughts
 
  forestsummer on 2012-04-17
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Pulstilla-30 in the morning & before going to bed 5 drops in half cup of water is good for him
 
AsadGhumman last decade
thanks a lot AsadGhumman., could I ask one thing, he currently suffers from jetlag (for more than a week now), totally out of rythm. getting up late at 9.00h to 11.00h, he was before gtting up at 5.00h-6.00h. I once read that there is a rmeedy for jetleg?
 
forestsummer last decade
Ok for Jet lag, you may use Chamomilla-200 once daily for 1 week, 1 hr before going to bed. 5 drops in half cup of water. This remedy is good for his other psychological symptoms as well. DO NOT use Pulstilla or any other homeopathic medicine meanwhile. Report after 2 days of using this medicine.
 
AsadGhumman last decade
is 200 not too strong for this situation. he is only 5. i have camenmile 30c can I use this instead? it is also a matter of money.
 
forestsummer last decade
Not too strong for 5yrs but as u said u have Chamomilla available in 30 so you may use it twice daily i.e 5 drops early in the moring in half cup of water same dose half hour before going to bed.
 
AsadGhumman last decade

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simone717 last decade
thanks for your comments and deleting the other ones. I liked your previous post more. look i go with the formula 'those who dont know, may be forgiven'. I can not force anyone to do certain things, if the person is not ready. the only conclusion and best solution without interfering in someone authority is divorce, I feel. I have done my bit believ me and I will try the suggestion with child pshylogist. she is teacher by the way, so double difficult to overcome ego. she is very good with childrenoutsidew the home, but not with the own son. karma i assume and for me to take action.

thanks for telling me about the previous post. I did not get it. in gmail i often miss message that come in multiple times. Thanks a lot, funny how the universe works for my son, he would have got chamonmile anway way..:) both ways through this post and the othert..:)

I hope AsadGhumman this is ok for you. I gave to other Dr already a long description and profil of my son.
 
forestsummer last decade

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forestsummer last decade
It is perfectly OK for me if you are cared by Dr. Showrav as he is a very experienced person. I am glad that you are in safe hands. Just want to say that whomever you go for treatment, my advise is that have faith & trust in him... Just follow his prescriptions & advices. Donot try self medication & self studying prescibed medicines & then deciding if the prescription is right or wrong.... Let me tell you one more thing 'Homeopathy depends a lot on your faith & trust on the remedy & on your doctor', even well prescribed remedies won't work if you don't have trust on your doctor. Same advice for your family life as well... Show trust to your wife & I m much hopeful that she will respond positively. You & your wife both need to see a psychiatrist. Also you should take Natrum Mur-200 one dose every fifth day for a month...
I pray for a healthy, prosperous & happy family life of you.. Stay Blessed
 
AsadGhumman last decade
thanks AsadGhumman, not yet about psychiatrist for her. I would not, but also, we have no money.. speaking about syncronicities, I am on Natmur 200 already, david looks after me here..the remedy will help to trust her more. thanks for your encouraging words..
 
forestsummer last decade

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