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Which is my remedy? To Mr. Kadwa

I answered a questionnaire.

Lycopodium seemed to not working:

http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/333797/

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1. Describe your main suffering?

--> It's a mental/emotional disorder. It's a phobia-neurosis.
I'm constantly thinking that I'm not able or I'm 'insufficient' to ensure that a woman won't left me.
I feel that women want something that I don't have.
I feel that women always searching for something better and better and better till they found something 'perfect'.
And what is perfect?
It's a man that I have created in my mind and I would like to be like him.
I would like to feel perfect in order to ensure that I would be loved-accepted totaly (by woman) and that I can give her the absolute sexual pleasue.

Although I know that all these are NOT true, I keep thinking like that.

These thoughts are so terrifying, my anxiety is so high and I can't live that way, it's impossible.

Because of these, I have a very strong symptom:
My subconscious got the role of emergency alarm and when I'm about to meet a woman that I like, I get anxiety attacks and phobic feelings/thoughts, my stomach gets awful and I always have to vommit.

In other words, subconscious trying to protect me from a situation that might be more dangerous for me (if I get abandoned). Then, my self-confidence will go to zero and propabbly I would be more sad.

The craziest thing: I never got abandoned/cheated by a girl. I always be loved by my girls, although, my thoughts are STILL HERE.

Delusions: Thinking/fantasizing that my two ex-girlfriends (my two long-term relationships) are having sex with other guys and they feel better. Although they were/are in love with me, even if I told them to end the relationship and they didn't want to, that delusions killing me.


--> 2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?

When I'm thinking my delusion my stomach get tight. All of my feelings go to the stomach.
I have no any other suffering.


3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?

--> The opposite happens.

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?

--> Thinking all of these that I said before, I can't eat because I get the feeling of vommiting, I'm cold, I'm walking in the house, I'm trembling.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?

--> It started in 2007-2008. Then it had the morph of insecure about my body. And 1 year later I had my first anxiety attack before a date with a girl. Then I figured out that something's wrong with me.

Yes, I could connect my disease with some past events:

When I was 7, my dad came to our house and fought with my mom. He told me that he would live the house and asked me if I wanted to follow him. I said yes.
He told me that we're going to be ok as long as we are together.
He told me that my mom love her parents more and that's why she didn't follow us.
2 days later (after the night we left the house) he met a woman and told me that she will only help in the houseworks. Finally, they got married 1-2 years later. She was a good woman, and she really loved me, but my dad started to change.
He started drinking, gambling, returning home in the morning. He was sad. Something was wrong with him.
One day I heard him having sex with the woman that he married, I felt abandoned and betrayed because he wre trying to have another child.
My dad absolutely did not care about my issues. We weren't talking at all. He didn't care about my school, grades, flirts etc.

I left my dad at the age of 17 to live again with my mom.
My dad died 2 years later.

6. Which time of the day you are worst?

-->When I wake up

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?

Talking/thinking or seeing photos of those two ex-girlfriends aggravates my suffering.

Thinking the day that I'll be healthy.
Thinking that homeopathy will work.
Thinking that I the end of this thing is close enough.

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

--> No.


9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

--> When I feel good (rarely) I like sun and heat.
When I feel bad I hate sunny days, I hate listening for 'summer-time'. I prefer rain, cold.

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, , Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

--> I'm intellectual, I'm sensitive, I have a charisma in communicating with others, I'm not offensive, I'm suspicious (with woman), I'm not easily offended, it's easier for me to disagree and not to agree with something, I'm strict when a someone (friends, parent, girlfriends) do something wrong, but I'm strict with me too.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?

--> I feel nice when it's about to begin. I feel some kind of bad when it stops.

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?

--> Not really. I would accept to be consoled only by a doctor/therapist or someone who got the same problem as me.

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?

--> Yes.

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?

I constantly touching my genitals (I dont mean that I masturbate, just touching it).
Sometimes when I'm strongly thinking I'm moving/wiggling my hands as like I'm giving a speech in a talk show.

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

I love my friends.
I never lived in a true family. Although I love my brother and my mom.
I don't have children or wife.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?

I said about my fears. The biggest fear though, is that sometimes I feel that I will NEVER be healthy again.

I usually dream that my teeth fall.

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?

I like: savory (salty) foods, candies, milky products, eggs, meat, pasta, fish, fruit and vegetables (some of them).

I don't like: Fats, mustard.


13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

--> Less.

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

--> Depends the mood. When I'm OK (I was OK when I was taking Cipralex) my hunger is excessive nad I like it.
Now is Less.


15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

--> No.
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

--> Normal. It sweat more at armpits.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

--> Normal.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?

I'm sleeping for about 10-12 hours. I sleep in the morning till afternoon.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?

--> Now I'm not. When I was ok, yes.

20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?

--> Most of the people that I know, say that I have a strong energy/aura. I personally think that I'm charming because of my eyes, and 'different' because of my charisma in communication.


21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?

--> Anti-depressants: Bespar, Minitran, Aurorix, Cipralex.

Before these medicines I had chalazion in both eyes. I removed them with an intervention and cortisone drops. After some of these medicines (I don't remember exactly when) I got my head full of big pus pimples. I started a treatment with cortisone ointment and anti-biotics for 8 days. At the end of the treatment they were still there, less though, but they were there. Some months later they just gone.
At the same period I had a wart in my finger. I had that wart for 2 years. It disappeared when my first homeopath gave me staphysagria.


22. What major diseases are running in your family?

--> Not something special now. My mom just have some cardio-vascular arrythmias.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance

1.80cm.
73kg (now)
Athletic/aesthetic body.
Very symmetrical face.
Green eyes.
Dark hair.
Oily skin on face and head.


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If you need anything else, just ask me, I'll wait for your advice.
[message edited by brain on Sat, 21 Apr 2012 22:18:10 BST]
 
  brain on 2012-04-21
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.

[message deleted by simone717 on Sat, 21 Apr 2012 23:36:57 BST]
 
simone717 last decade
I did. And I'll wait for a reply. Thank you :)
 
brain last decade

[message deleted by simone717 on Sat, 21 Apr 2012 23:35:32 BST]
 
simone717 last decade
Sorry, I didn't understand that phrase 'previous
home meds in there.'
 
brain last decade

[message deleted by simone717 on Sat, 21 Apr 2012 23:34:56 BST]
 
simone717 last decade
Oh ok, so:

1st day Lycopodium 1M.
2nd day Lycopodium 10M.
And Lycopodium 6ch 1 dose a day (the first 3-4 days I took 2 doses of this because I was very anxious).

The 2nd and 3rd day i felt some (not strong) pain in my left inner ear.
 
brain last decade
Please take a single dose of Lachesis 200 and report back after 15 days.
 
kadwa last decade
So Lycopodium was the wrong remedy?
 
brain last decade
No remedy is a wrong remedy. A remedy may change from prescriber to prescriber and also from time to time depending on the response to earlier remedy.
 
kadwa last decade
That's something that I cannot understand.

I have changed 4 homeopaths (I had to do it. There was a reason in every case).

Every homeopath 'saw' me as a different remedy.
I cannot understand why the same person get different prescriptions.

First homeopath: lycopodium

Second homeopath: staphysagria

Third homeopath: Hyoscyamus, argentum nitricum, stramonium

Fourth homeopath: Phosphorus

Fifth homeopath: lycopodium

I'm feeling though that lycopodium didnt work fine for me that month.

And now you with Lachesis.

Confusion.

Thank you anyway.
 
brain last decade
lycopodium as you are in a state of break down, indecisiveness

staphysagria as you have suppressed grief and anger

hyos and stram for suspicion.

arg nit for anticipation anxiety.

lachesis complementary to lycopodium.

It is not only confusing for the patient but also for prescribers!!
 
kadwa last decade
I see.

Don't you think that suppressed anger and suppressed complains are the major feelings behind all of these?

And if that's true, isn't it better to start with a remedy that focus on these feelings? (staphysargia)
[message edited by brain on Tue, 24 Apr 2012 12:47:03 BST]
[message edited by brain on Tue, 24 Apr 2012 12:58:43 BST]
 
brain last decade
You already took Staph-So how much
and what happened with it?Or did
you not take it?

It would be good to put down what
you have actually taken, dose and how
long and what the effects were to
lessen confusion.
 
simone717 last decade
Well,

Lycopodium was my very first prescription from my first homeopath.
I can't remember the dosing but I took it only for about 6-7 days and I stopped it.

The reason was that I was taking Aurorix-Minitran, I was in a very bad situation.
These drugs were causing to me every 7 days a big bad migration of my mood.
When I started Lycopodium I felt kind of worse but I was already SO bad, I had to quit.

28/9/2011 I took my second prescription, staphysagria.
I cannot remeber the which was the first capsule, but I took 30 caps of staphysagria 12ch. The first 7 days, I had my finger-wart just disappeared. That wart was so hard to treat with allopathics.
That was my first proof that hoemeopathy works.
The doctor told me that I had to stop antidepressants (I was taking cipralex) in order to help homeopathy. So I did.
That caused me stronger symptoms. I read in the internet that homeopaths that saying 'stop allopathics to help homeopathy' are bad. So I changed him.

I started anti-depressants again.
For the next 4-5 months I was with an homeopath who prescripted hyoscyamus, argentum nitricum, hyoscyamus, (I can't remember), and stramonium.

He told me that there is no need to stop anti-depressants, when I feel good then we can stop them.
When I took Hyoscyamus I had a 2-days strong headache.
As the days were passing I felt somekind of better, I stopped anti-depressants. Then something happened in my life (I learned that my ex-girlfriend found a new boy) and I stopped feeling good. Then I had so much anger, he prescripted stramonium.

In these 5 months my main problem didn't change at all.
So I changed homeopath.

So now, 26-27 days with Lycopodium 6ch (10M Lyc on the 1st day, 1M Lyc on the 2nd day).
In the 2nd and 3rd day I had some light pain in my inner-ear. That pain left gradually
At 10nth day I felt kind of .better, but that feeling disappeared.
When my homeopath prescribed that remedy he told me 'we're going to save time', I don't know what he meant...
Tommorow I'm going to meet him. He is really a good homeopath, but I can't understand if his prescription was right or wrong, or 'diplomatic'.
[message edited by brain on Wed, 25 Apr 2012 03:05:26 BST]
 
brain last decade
ok brain, thanks for getting all the
info on here. Guess you will have
to decide whose prescription to take-
or ask Kadwa what his opinion is
about it after you see the homeopath-
 
simone717 last decade
In 2 hours I'll be gone, I don't think dr.Kadwa will obviate to reply, but I will suggest to my doctor staphysagria and lachesis.
 
brain last decade
He gave me Causticum.

Let's see...
 
brain last decade

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