Suffering from Premature Ejaculation. Please help!

Dear Doctor,
I'm a 31 year male suffering from PE for a long time and have come to a stage where I lost hope. But seeing the cases on this site, I think there could be a solution you can provide to my problem. I have filled in my details in the standard questionarie I found in the other posts. Please read my case and help me get out of this mess.

1.name:Ragu

2.age 31

3.sex: Male

4 .profession. IT Industry

5.brief description of the problem.
I'm suffering form premature ejaculation. I ejaculate within 4-5 strokes max. I'm married for 6 years and have 2 children.
Due to this problem, I lost confidence in myself and also the number of time I have sex with my wife has reduced to once in 6 months. I feel my libido is good as I get errection quickly. I get high even at the slightest touch. I started masturbation at a very early age and still continue to do it almost every day. Off late for about 2 months, we started having sex more often hoping that the more often I have sex, it will help me last longer, but there is no improvement.
Also, I underwent a circumsition in 2006, so my penis head is always exposed.
I used to have sex with my wife before marriage when we were in a relationship, but had the same issue, but I used to be able to recover in 10 - 15 mins and used to do a repeat round, but now, after I eject, I feel very tired and dont have the energy to go on again.
When I penetrate, I am very consious of ejecting soon. After penetrating, I feel very sensitive in my penis and even two - three strokes takes me high and I ejaculate.

5a how do you cope with the disease i.e. what the disease forces you to do?
I have tried many solutions that I read on the internet, like masturbating before sex, thinking of something else while I penetrate, counting numbers in the reverse order, multiplying numbers etc.
I also tried numbing spray Stud 5000, but initially, when I tried masturbating after using the spray, I used to last for 1 - 2 mins, but now, when I use the spray, the penis becomes numb and I loose errection while attempting sex.
I feel very ashamed of myself when seeing my wife getting disappointed and I feel I'm not a man in the first place as I'm not able to satisfy a woman.

6.any medicine taken or not.
No, not yet. Have only tried Stud 5000 spray, but with other issues of loosing errection. I tried Damiagra drops for a few days, but did not continue. No changes observed.

Just to mention, I was recently diagnosed for Apical Cardiomyomathy. I had High BP (160/100 avg) and Hypertension. I have been taking BP tablets for a month and is in control now.

7.do you ever think about your disease or not? if yes what is the thought process.
I often think about this issue, and feel bad about my self. I feel helpless and get the feeling I'm not fit to be a man. Also, I have the fear that my wife might get attracted to someone else since I am unable to satisfy her. I feel low in confidence.

8.write about your nature in general.
I am usually a quiet person and mind my business. I am friendly with people, and get along well with anyone even in the first meet. I'm a bit lazy at times and tend to postpone things at work. I dream a lot about great things in life like being rich, owning a villa, fancy cars etc.

9. any change in moods during the sickness pl.explain.
I feel helpless and get the feeling I'm not fit to be a man. Feel ashamed of myself.

10.what makes you angry and what do you do during the period anger stays with you.
I get angry when people ask for basic information at work for example.

11.any repentence after getting angry. if yes how much time after getting angry you feel repentent.
Yes, if there is a fight with my wife or if I have expressed anger on my children etc, I repent after 5 mins , and try to reflect what I did wrong.

12.liking for music?
I like slow / melodious music, Instrumentals.

13.your appetite, thirst and sleep. pl. explain in brief.
I have a good apetite and I like spicy , masala food mostly. I dont feel thirsty at all while at work, the bottle of water on my desk will be untouched. I have to remind my self to dring water. But when I eat food, I tend to dring a lot of water. When I'm out in the sun , I feel thirsty and I need a lot of water / liquid to quench my thirst.

14. speak about your bowel movement.if constipated since when.if any history of pilesor bleeding or pain during or after stool.
I sometimes have constipation, and have had sort of piles twice when applying pressure during motion. But it got alright on its own.

15. how your body reacts to heat, cold or weather change?
I sweat teribly if exposed to even a little heat. My sweating will be like as if I have taken a bath.

16 your liking for sweets or saltish.
I am not fond of sweets. I like salted food otherwise.

17.menstrual history (in case of females)
Not Applicable.

18.any other information or symptom which you feel is relevent and connected with the main disease may be mentioned.
Not sure.

19. whether pregnant or not
Not applicable

20. problems, if any, during previous pragnancy
Not applicable

21. any relationship problem that you feel is/was weighing heavily on your mind
nothing in specific

22. any angery or bitter feelings towards any relation (name the relationship with the preson who you feel is the source of discomfort.)
nothing in specific

23. incase of problems of children, mothers please write what was your mental state during the period of pregnancy
not applicable

24. was the delivery:

ø c- section

ø forceps

ø pre-mature or otherwise

Not applicable

25. please write about your negative emotions, if any, as they will help in the selection of the correct hoeopathic remedy for you.
I feel ashamed of my self due to the PE problem.
I sometimes feel I'm fit for nothing, specially, when I realize I have piled up to much work and have crossed a deadline.