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Hello Dr Nawaz,
How are you doing ?

I am trying my best to stay normal and not to think too much but when it comes to my child's issue I can't help myself. I feel so pathetic that i am not being able to help her when she feels helpless without me. This is so depressing. I am paying my sister in law just to look after my child correctly, but i am not satisfied in this context. My child says, she remains hungry for long time and when she asks for any food my sis in law ignores her or just gives her a little amount which she says is not enough for her which makes her hungry soon,so she has to go ask for food again and again which makes her aunt irritated and she yells at her. My child is just 6 and she is just 43lbs which is underweight.
I feel so controlled and so humiliated. Even if I pay i am not getting that satisfaction here and i am so stuck here that even if i wanna run away from this environment i can't. I dont wanna argue with these people but again i am suffocated and mad inside. Which is making me depressed. My head is heavy and burning. I have two options: either pretend that i know nothing about what my child is going through and stay here as if i am okay with whatever is going on or go to my brother's place, Which will be like " from frying Pan to the Fire."
I know i will have to face and fight with every odds, since I am the needy one, but till when ? Why my child is suffering for no reason ? What is my fault and what is her fault ? Its just I wanted to have a better life in America than back home. Don't i have rights to live a better life ? Can't i think about my child's better future here? Yes, I stayed here in the USA rather than following my husband to back home, because I knew my husband was not going to do anything back home. He was a procastinator whom I could not trust. I know i made a right decision of staying here and fight. But sometimes these kind of people make my life more difficult. I wanna get out of these boundries that I am stuck in. I am so suffocated. I wanna run away with my child. I cannot see her suffering from anything. I am doing my best and will do further too. I feel proud too eventhogh i have this depression and anxiety problems i try to manage everything by myself. I really appreciate your timely help in this regard. Without your help I may not be able to do this much. May god bless you And give you a healthy and happy life. Thank you for your encouragement and support as a guardian. Please help me get rid of this anxiety and depression. I am too shy and don't talk to many people. I Avoid looking at people's face while i talk, i dont know why? Some people try to bully me, which irritates me. I am easily offended. I cant see no way out. I am suffocated inside this environment. I wanna run away and be safe somewhere, where I can't see hippocrites, two faced people, negative people, non controlling people, hurting people, i don't know where, but i will find one. I just want my child's happiness, i just dont want people take advantage of our helplessness. I wanna be stronger. I wanna find a solution. I wanna be brave. More brave.
Please help.

Hello Simone,
Thanks for your response. I haven't read whatever you have suggested me because sometimes some realities make my anxiety worse so sometimes I just overlook them. Meaning sometime the realities you tell me make me much scared and make me weaker. I am sorry but that is the truth and that's why i sometimes do not read what you write. I am extremely sorry for this. You are a very nice person and is trying to help me too. But I will wait for dr Nawaz's remedy suggestion this time, because I need it badly.

Dr Nawaz, please help urgently.

Thank you for your response Dr Nawaz. I am on the second day of my period. Please suggest me if i can take any other remedy. My head is too heavy and has mild ache. I get anxious when people say something against me, or say something rude to me. I cant tolerate when they complains about my daughter.
Please help.

Hello Dr Nawaz,
I have taken 4 doses of Staph 200 so far. I was okay till two doses but since third dose, my depression increased, burning inside head increased, i was suffocating as if something was grabbing my body and my head so tight. I was dizzy and it was hard for me to talk to somebody. I was too tired to do something. This morning i am little okay, still having some burning inside head. Should I continue remedy or stop, please suggest.

Please suggest

Hello Dr. Nawaz and Simone,
Thank you so much for your valuable advice. Yes i stopped taking Staph since the next day i was having aggravation, and waited for Dr Nawaz's reply. I was better after that day. I just saw the last post this morning and I didn't know about having Colocynthis. Do I still have to take colocynthis or I am having another issues right now.
I am so tensed about my child. I am always worried if she is okay, if she is hungry, if she is safe, if somebody made her sad, if somebody made her mad, in my absence. She is just 6 and i think i am not overreacting thinking of my child about these issues. Am I Dr Nawaz ? Sometimes she is awake till 11 pm when I come back from work, and when I ask her she says she is hungry. Then I start thinking what is the babysitter doing ? Doen't she give her enough food ? I cant react on any of these issues as I am helpless and I am the needy one. What if they say I can't take care of your child anymore? I do not have any alternatives than tolerating all the things. Which is making me tensed depressed and controlled. When somebody tries to control me then I suffocate as I can't say a single word on my defense. I am doing everything by myself and still I am under control of somebody, i am still not independent eventhough I work for 40-50 hours, I take care of my child(except evenings), i cook i clean. But still I am a dependent, which is not good. My husband makes me fool day by day saying that one day he will be back and that one day is never gonna happen. Everybody says that he's not gonna come back as he is a procastinator and a lazy person. I know I am being fooled by him but still I can't say nothing other than listening to his Bakwas". I am so overwhelmed by these tensions. Please help me Dr Nawaz !!!!

Hello Dr Nawaz,
How are you doing ?
Please help me.
I took Colocynthis 200 c as per your advice. Its been quite a few days now.
Since yesterday, i have been feeling easily exhausted, feeling sleepy, my head is tight, easily irritated, sad, frustrated. Its not going away. Its hampering my work. I am too sleepy at my work. Feeling tired physically and mentally. Dizzy.
Please help me.

Hello Dr Nawaz,
Hope you are hale and hearty.

I am so anxious and too much upset as I heard a news of a possible death of a relative back home. It is not confirmed yet though. But I am so scared more than being sad because of the news. I can't hear any death news of any person whom I know well. It makes me panicky and disturbed. I can't concentrate on other things as i can't divert my mind from the bad news. My head is heavy. I feel suffocated and restless.
I get scared like a child. When somebody talks about those kind of news i just run away from the environment so that I dont hear about how the death happened. When somebody is fighting with desease for long time or if somebody is in a hospital i just get too much upset thinking the person would die. I don't know why I am so much scared by such news. Specially when somebody i know is dying of any disease or died of any diseases. Ohhh !! I have this problem for long time. Please help me get rid of this aweful thinking. I know death is inevitable and we should take it as natural phenomenon. But this thing haunt me so bad. I even dont go meet people who lost somebody which i know is a rude behavior but i can't help it. Its not that i wanna be rude, its just those funeral things make me upset.
Please help me Dr Nawaz.

Hello Dr Nawaz,
I took Aconite as per your suggestion for 3 days. Thank you.
Since yesterday my head is too heavy, i am too much worried about my child, i could not sleep well(i wake up several times with tensions in my head). The matter is my daughter's aunt is out of country for few weeks. So only her uncle and two sons are there at home now. Her uncle told me to find some other place to stay till her aunt comes back as he cannot take care of my child and on the top he also said that people will talk bad when his wife is not around and i am living in his house, which i think is a narrow minded thinking. I just begged him to let me stay as my child has school to go. I do not have any other place nearby so i can stay and drop my kid off to school and there is nobody else who can help me take care of my child while i am at work. I am too worried about my child. I am worried, whether the uncle takes care of my child well while I am not there. My child is too shy to talk to him and his sons. I don't know what she will do. How she will express if she needs something.
Please help.
P.s. I am about to have my period in 1or 2 days as i am having symptoms for the last few days and its also the time. Please suggest. My head is too heavy.

Hello Dr Nawaz,
How are you doing ? Thank you for your remedy suggestion and prayers for me and my family. I am handling the new situation with the best of my wisdom and courage and also your encouragement. Thank you for being there for me and for my daughter.
I took Staph 200C for 5 days as per your suggestion I took it from 9th of May till 13th. It helped me cope with the situation to some extent. Thank you.
Since yesterday my head is too heavy and burning. I am too tensed. The matter was: My brother in law is being rude to me and is torturing me by not talking to me. I am trying to talk to him and he is just saying "Yes""Okay" "No" etc. He is giving me punishment for my small mistake. I forgot to tell him a thing and he was too mad at me. It slipped off my mind as I was too busy doing something else. He always tries to make me feel that I am helpless and I should be under his control. (Which I am obeying without saying anything as I also know I have no other options). Now he is taking advantage of it. He stopped talking to me. I am kind of suffocated. I really feel depressed when somebody gets mad at me and won't talk to me and torture me. My mom used to do it in my whole childhood as whenever I did any big or small mistakes my mom used to stay quiet for long period of time and act as she didn't care about me. It freaks me out when somebody does that now as my nerves are too vulnerable now and I am not able to handle that torture anymore. I feel depressed. I can't tolerate when somebody tries to say "I made a huge mistake and now I have to repay it" even its just a small mistake.
I am too irritated,frustrated and I am shouting at my poor daughter because of the frustration, which is too bad.
Please help me

Hello Dr Nawaz,
Hope you are hale and hearty.
I am heavy headed and dizzy these days. I am feeling suffocated and helpless. I am feeling like trapped inside something and not finding any ways out. I am restless, irritated, frustrated and furious. I am not able to decide what to do what not to. My mind is so occupied. I am tensed. I have been given promotion at work but i am not as happy as i should be.
My boss trust me so much and she said i deserve everything good in the world. How nice of her to say that.
But i am so tensed because of my own problems. I wanna run away from this suffocated environment, but where to ? Everybody tries to take advantage of my silence and tolerance, which is really unbearable. But still I dont react.
Please help me. I am really tired of thinking too much.

Hello Dr Nawaz,
Good morning,
I took Aurum Met 200 c as per your suggestion. Today is the 7th day.
These days i have been feeling so exhausted too tired. Everything seems so overwhelming. Its really frustrating. Before, i used to feel proud of myself as i was doing everything for us by myself. But now i feel its too tiring. Whatever i am doing is not leading to any happiness. And on the top, people are expecting more from me. I am afraid that i wont have any shelter if i wont do whatever they expect from me and am also afraid that they will yell at me if I deny.
My head is congested and heavy. I am physically and mentally tired.
Please help me.