Need help.

Please see below details and advise.

1. ID - Married Man
2. Age -32
3. Sex -M
4. Single/Married - Married
5. weight - 70 Kgs
6. Height …. 5' 4'
7. country - Currently in India
8. climate - Pleasant/cool

9. List of your complaints

a Thinning of Hair
b Dandruff
c Low on confidence/will power
d A year ago I passed a stone in urine
e Whitish(looks like fine white sand mixed in water) discharge in urine
f. Nervousness while speaking to people
g Argumentative
h Fear of the unfortunate accident/death
i. Lazy
j. Lack of concentration
k. Low retention power of memory. What I read/watch/listen.. I generally forget the details soon.. hard to remember person's name if told only once
l. Not enthusiastic.
m. Low on energy
n. white layer on tounge forms often.
o. bad breath
p. I orgasm very quickly(within 3-4 minutes)
q. over conscious about myself when I am among people.

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
a Thinning of Hair - Over 10-12 years
b Dandruff - Since childhood
c Low on confidence/will power - Since Childhood
d A year ago I passed a stone in urine - NA
e Whitish discharge in urine - Since 3/4 years
f. Nervousness while speaking to people - Since long
g Argumentative - Since teenage
h Fear of the unfortunate accident/death - Since 7/8 years
i. Lazy - Childhood
j. Lack of concentration - Teenage
k. Low retention power of memory. What I read/watch/told.. I generally forget the details soon.. hard to remember person's name if told only once - Since Teenage
l. Not enthusiastic. - last 7/8 years
m. Low on energy - Last 7/8 years
n. white layer on tounge forms often. - Teenage
o. bad breath - Teenage
p. I orgasm very quickl y(within 3-4 minutes) - I used to maturbate a lot (approx 3 [or more] times weekly) since teenage.


11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic- No, but my mother is
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt - spicy/sour/oily
13. Thirst - very less
14. Tongue and Taste - thick tongue with white layer formation often, taste is okay
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine). BP normal

16. What exactly is happening?
I am having lack of confidence. Because of which I hesitate a lot. Cannot take quick decision. Cannot talk on conferences. Think a lot about what people are going to say and think about me(even while speaking to them). Because of which I cannot concentrate on what I have to say but I get diverted on what people are thinking at this time about what I am talking. Always over conscious about myself.

Because of which no progress in professional life. Lack of interest in meeting new people. Avoid doing new things. Dont want to come out of my comfort zone.

If Have to travel... my mind is always occupied with thoughts of accidents. While driving I get quite conscious. Unable to concentrate on road.


17. How do you feel?
Sometimes I feel jealous. Uninspired. Lazy. Unable to do something out of my comfort zone. Avoid unfamiliar situations. Lack of will to take initiative.

18. How does this affect you?
Its affecting my day to day life. I am becoming weak mentally. Cannot remember new things/names. procrastination. Cannot complete work on time due to lack of concentration.
Cannot take initiative.

20. What comes to your mind?
I will remain a medicure person if my lack of confidence is not treated. Also lack of concentration is big problem.

21. One situation that had a big effect on you?
Nothing specific. But whenever I fail or do bad in anything, I start losing more confidence and I start becoming worse at it. I will give you one example. Due to low on confidence and due to getting over conscious on road.. I dont feel very comfortable driving a bike. One day I skid and fell down.. and now I even fear riding again. I keep speed very low. My mind is always occupied that I may skid again. I get over cautious and over conscious while driving.


22. How did that feel like?
I feel bad. I think everybody is looking at me. I get conscious even while walking on the road.

23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
Nothing specific

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?
Nothing. Someties I just get nervous and restless.

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
I am taking homeopathy medicine for Corn(as recently I got couple of corns in one feet(on the sole side). Otherwise I am generally healthy. Dont take medicines often.

26. Family Background
Father is asthematic .. mother is diabetic. She also has chronic pain in her knees and hands.


27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
Bachelor Degree

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?
In software industry.

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food.
I drink tea a lot. I avoid sweets. Like spicy food. I have never had alcohol or any other kind of addiction.

30. Name of foods which increase your problem
Have not noticed yet

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
- I get irriated very easily if things dont go my way.
- Impatient.
- hesitant to do new things. May be due to lack of confidence.
- I panic a lot.
- while speaking I stumble a lot. One reason is that words that i want to use cannot recall. May be also because I am always over conscious about what others are thinking while I speak.
- I cannot stand criticism.
- I get nervous in public speaking
- I fear height and hate spiders. Cannot stand the feeling of spider crawling on my body.
- I get puking feeling very easily(say if I see a hair in my food or when I clean my tongue with a tongue cleaner)
- I help people but with the hope that they will help me in return when I am in need.
- I am little selfish too.
- When I get nervous .. I get feeling of coughing without any reason
- I feel pity on others very easily.
- Dont mix with people. New people make me nervous.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)
None at this time.

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
ok.

34. Location of the disease
Head and mind/brain(lack of confidence..over conscious). Kidney(stone part that I mentioned)
tongue(whitish layer/ bad breath), urine (whitish urine.. looks like powedary water when I drink less water)
Penis(highly sensitive), quick orgasm

35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
NA

36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
urine- yellowish. Sometimes whitish(looks like fine sand mixed in water)
stool- normal
saliva- normal

I can upload pics of affected parts if requested.
[message edited by Morabba on Wed, 03 Oct 2012 14:59:45 BST]