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A 28 YEAR FEMALE SUFFERING unusual menses after and before marriage. Before menses severe headache and giddy felling with vomit sensation. This sensation has started after marriage. After marriage she had taken i pill for 6 7 times. After it i use to get my menses properly with no clots and just pure red blood. From last dec. I have started taking primalute every time after three or two month for avoiding long gaps and other problem as swelling on legs. Chest and stomach. Duration regularly irregular. First menarcy delayed. On 16 yrs. Father in law: forcibaly staying with us. Initially was in good relation when i was alone with husband in mumbai. Now speaks very less and acts more. SISTER IN LOW: gave her new horizons to prosper as she in mentally 10 yr. Back. From her current age 28. She behaves as i M her first and last enemy.MOTHER IN LOW: EXPERIED. Husband: supports everything for all my wishes only regularly shouts on me for i scold sister in low. For unusual behaviour which she does only in front of husband to qain attension. My mother: never takes any objections on my activities. If i m wrongly politely makes me understand and follow her. Lives in amravati. One elder sister and small brother. Both are very supportive for all activities good or bed. Morning wake up between 7 to 8 am. After brush and fresh up to kitchen for lunch preparation. Most of the time without breakfast to office by 9.15 am. Full rest in office. During lunch preparation always become very HYPER. For sister in low. Attitude. Drinks 1 lit. Water till 12.30 and eat. Amla. And supari daily. 12.30 at lunch afternoon till 5.30 pm. 1 lit water daily. 6 pm return home. And have snacks he not snacks then have tea. Not daily.g have stored cooking at night. Because i feel tired. At night do not sleep easily and many thoughts go in my mind. I feel some big disease ls going to hit my body and i shall he in bed for life time with sister in low. My weight 76 kg. Height 5 4. Color dull. Dark circle under eyes. My nature happy and joyful with friends when i like the most. I dont like if anybody speaks. In loud voice for a single second even case for all around me in possible manner. Can work for hrs. Without rest but in case depressed shall not even brother to drink a water. Have a full filled all d responsibilities but i initially after marriage. But now i do not like to be responsible due to d absurd nature of father in law and sister in law. I like all things accept sweet. Aversion to milk. Buttermil. Non veg. Intou nut. Atmosphere winter reason. Comfort temp. 24 'c . Hot water to take bath. Entertainment music old songs. More sleep if depressed or very happy.






1 ) While I was small I was very naughty . I had to put very less efforts for my studies . Till std. 4 I was always first in class with 99 % . I was also good at other activities. Full of leadership qualities at home and in school. That time I was thin also. I started to gain from std 5. Also studies were not liked by me. Actually my grandmother had expired and we had to go at my mama’s town for 15-20 days . during that period my syllabus was missed by me and then exams were also missed so my rank was not in first five. In fact I was too depressed as I had scored very less percentage. I was in group of girls who use to get second or third rank or at the most tenth rank. But I was not a rank holder that year. the same continued in std. 6th 7th8th9th10th.



Then after I took admission in diploma college. I was topper in 1st 2nd 3rd sem. But god knows how it happened that I had backlog in 4th sem. Veryyyy depressed again . Started missing my periods. That time I messed my periods for six months . Mom was worried and so did ayurvedic and homeopathic medicine, For hair fall and menses. Again the medicine and moms support made me through with Distinction in Diploma. My weight had reduced at that time . it must be around 50 to 55 kgs.



Took admission in Engg. Second year. Had to leave my hometown and travel 100 Km away .During my Engg years I became very lazy and hated to put extra efforts for studying. I use to study less get less marks. Never did any hardwork to come up or cover up my grades. In last semester again tried level best for recovering. Finally was able to pass in first class only.



Immediately after Engg. Joined my job in Mumbai. I also had the option to work in Baroda . But took the challenge to struggle in Mumbai. Mumbai life was the best part of my life. I became fair good looking sharp and was not at all lazy. Used to do a lot of hard work to be the best and always succeeded. Everybody was very happy to see me so fast at work.Alll laziness had vanished. In Mumbai initially menses were irregular but then within three months it was regular. But I had to suffer severe pain during those days as I had to undergo a lot of exertion. But I had no issues was prepared to take that pain.



2) Regarding Riddhi I had to take her responsibility as there was nobody else who wud think her gud. I have changed her completely. I fear always that my all efforts shall go in vain due to my fater in law and hardiks aunt. Now hardiks aunt cant interfear as we have shifted to A’bad . But my father in law pamper her unnecessarily . She feels more secured there and then ignores me . sometimes the mistake is unknowingly done .but most of the time it is done only to irritate me. I made her understand that she has no disease and is perfectly alright.But in return she is being taught or she herself irritates me and compels me to think that I AM useless .My all efforts are of no use. That particular thought makes me unhappy and it takes me a lot of time bring myself out of it. I also feel that during my pregnancy she shall do the same spoil my mind and ruin my health. So I do not like to look at her face. Beside this my nature does not permit me to use her as others did for so many years. So I find my self helpless. I do not wish to hurt hardik as she is his sister and I had agreed to take her all mmy life . But never thought it wud be this way. He puts his level best to help me out. But if I am depressed then it really becomes tough.



3) I like Winter the best .



I like to eat sour things a lot and also spicy things. I have left eating chocolates icecreams and cakes.I was tough but I did due to PCOD and hairfalll and weight gain.