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Need Help with dipression,anxiety,fear

Hi everyone..Can some one kindly help me with my ailments that I have been suffering from the last 3 yers now.
I am married male age 30.
I have developed fears after a huge disappointing failure in my life. now I am even afraid of my own parents,brothers and sisters in the house and can't communicate with them. I cant go out unless it is very important.I have limited my life to a room where I stay whole day and night. I have lost interest in having intercourse with my wife. my mood is always sad and whenever I go out I am scared of the people around me and especially strangers. When I start speaking infront of people I feel like weeping and facial expresion changes as well as my body language. I have tried Gelsemium,Anacardium,Ambra Grisea and some of Bio-Chemic remedies however the problem is still there. I must say the intensity of the issue has been lightened but not vanished completely. I am realy hopeful that I shall get some valuable suggestions from this forum. I am realy up to a point where I can't take it anymore and I want to move on in my life and enjoy it to the full as I use to be in the past. plz kindly come forward and help me...plz
[message edited by Bkhan on Sat, 02 Feb 2013 15:29:18 GMT]
[message edited by Bkhan on Sun, 03 Feb 2013 08:20:54 GMT]
 
  Bkhan on 2013-02-02
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Please take three doses of Stramonium 200 as follows and see how that affects in next 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa last decade
Thank you very much for your kind response 'Kadwa'. I realy appreciate it. I shall do as advised and will report to you. Thanks alot.
 
Bkhan last decade
Satarted today on 6 FEB..will notice how the effects are ...Thanks once again Kadwa.
 
Bkhan last decade
Hello Mr.Kadwa,
hope things are alright with you. I have taken 3 doses of Stramonium 200 as per your instructions. I have noticed few changes in myself like I have started going out of my usual room now and practically started doing few daily things here and there that I was not able to do before without thinking about it for long times and then would decide.so this is a great sign. now I can talk and stay in the situation without the wish to just escape to my own protective layer as before. however I am still feeling shy and less confident as my usual self use to be. So I am still not able to do the u know intercourse with my wife as I still feel shy about it. I must tell you here that in the past few weeks I have tried 2 times but I have failed badly as I would not get any erection. I know I have no sexual issues I know that as a fact its all psycological...
kindly let me know further after this or should I wait.

Mr Kadwas I would ask you about 'Batch flower remedies'. I have been using them in the past and it did helped me to great extent especially with my fears as I was totally still in public and in the presence of any other human being,animal or anything at all..violent heat palpitation and anxiety, and so forth.
Can I take any of the batch flower remedy with this classic homeaopathy? would you be able to recommend me some?
I really appreciate you response. I thank you in advance.

Kind Regards
 
Bkhan last decade
You may take the flower remedies Rock Water and Impatiens.
 
kadwa last decade
Thanks you Kadwa Sahib for your kind help and closer attention to my issue and request. I dearly value and appreciate your help. I shall get the remedies ASAP and start using them. will keep you updated as I progress further.
 
Bkhan last decade
Hello Kadwa Sahib,
hope you are alright.just letting you know of the updates and developments after I have started taking Rock water and Impatience flower remedies.
I had a painful ejaculation followed by the burning sensation in the urethra(head and the bottom side) while urinating after making an attempt of intercourse with my lady. I took Thuja and sulphur both 30 (2 times for 2 dys)for this problem that infact makes me feel better for the said issue however interms of my emotional feeling I feel I am back to where I started the journey as I am feeling the heart palpitation,face blushes in the public,get offended easily,lack of concentration and attention,feel fearful in normal daily situation around family and friends,sad all the time,dont talk much,feeling low in energy.
I dont know what to do now. please kindly help me and guide me what should I do to fix this. I would highly appreciate your kind help and advise.
Thank you.
Kind Regards
[message edited by Bkhan on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:02:33 GMT]
 
Bkhan last decade
Please take three doses of Cactus 200 as follows and see how that affects in next 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa last decade
Thank you kindly for your prompt response to my request Kadwa Sahib.
I have started with the first dose of Cactus Grand 200 this morning as you advised.

Kind Regards
 
Bkhan last decade
So you should have to take rest at least one time in day
 
vanesavis18 last decade
Hello Dear Dr. Kadwa, (26-2-013)

Hope you are in the best of health. just wanted to find out from you that, do I need to wait for the entire 15 days and then seek your advise on further remedy if needed or you can suggest something along as sometime I feel worst. (like today I had painful anus/rectum whole day which I can't remember I ever had)
I understand this is the process of the remedy working in the system itself however would still like to know your opinion on this thanks.

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Observations on day 8 so far: (26-2-013)

All the fears and apprehensions have been reduced. I am coming back into the swing of the things slowly slowly. that is great.
however in some situations like I mentioned below when I notice some one's attention towards me I get nervous immediately and I can feel the blushing face and sensation in my ears. Also when I see a girl or girls I get the same reaction like face blushes, etc.

I am a married man,one son however facing a bit difficulty having sex with my partner after she gave birth to our first child.

The heart palpitation is better, the feeling of easily offended has also been reduced as I have experienced it being in a humiliating situation and it could have been worst in the near past.

At this point I feel the only thing that haunts me is the 'lime light' I mean when I get the sense of being in the light or attention then I start freaking out.

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(23-2-013)


Observation up until day 5 so far:

Heart palpitation:
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reduced however still exist to some extent especially when the fear/apprehension get triggers by an outside factor.

Fearfulness:
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reduced to great extent however still exist.

Sadness:
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not there anymore.

SILENCE:gone.
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Dry throat:-
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reduced however still exist.

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feeling intimidated or get excited mentally upon attention from some one, that triggers the fears or apprehensions in the mind and the body start reacting accordingly. like heart palpitation,face blushes,signs of terror etc on face,etc... in fact this is the major reason why I have became anti social and alien to people around me even including my parents,siblings,wife as well.

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All the above has been reduced to some extent after taking 'Cactus Grand' 3 doses however still there. I understand its 5th day and I should give the remedy a bit more time to show the effects but I just want to get rid of these feelings and my weird actions accordingly. this has in fact made me an 'Invalid' person both mentally and physically. I am so very frustrated due to my mental and physical state. just want to get out of it.

Dr. Kadwa I appreciate your help in this regard. you have been a great help.


Vanessa thanks for your advise as well. Appreciate it. ;)

Thanks and Regards,
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[message edited by Bkhan on Tue, 26 Feb 2013 17:44:15 GMT]
 
Bkhan last decade
Hello Dr. Kadwa Sahib,
hope you are well. just an update on the effects of

'Cactus Grand' after 15 days.

As mentioned in the previous posts the situation is almost the same as there however there is a lot more improvements.

I feel I am still not 100% in terms of all the issues I have mentioned previously.

I am still not able to make love with my partner as I feel there is a knot in my mind that needs to be released and I don't know how to do it so am still avoiding it.

When I notice or find some one's attention or concentration towards me I find it disturbing my inner calmness which makes me nervous,face goes pale or blushes,right eye starts twitching. however I must admit the intensity has been reduced after Cactus Grand 200 doses.

I still get dry throat when talking however it is reduced comparing with past.

I feel every person I interact with is scared of me and that makes me feel confused and scared so when I meet any one I feel soon after a single nervous gesture or anything like that, from them which in the process makes me nervous and fearful.

I still feel the weeping tendency when talking to some one however I must say not with each and every one I speak with its some of the people I interact with give me the weepy feelings as I believe those people are weepy themselves when they speak.

I think one more dose of Cactus or may be some other remedy? I would appreciate your kind help Dr.Sahib.


Regards,
[message edited by Bkhan on Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:14:31 GMT]
[message edited by Bkhan on Tue, 05 Mar 2013 12:44:55 GMT]
 
Bkhan last decade
Please take a single dose of Kali Iod 200 and report back after 15 days. Only one dose, not daily.
 
kadwa last decade
Thank you for your kind reply Dr. Kadwa..
can you please clarify if it is 'kali Lodatum' or 'Kali iodatum' (Kali-i)?

Regards,
[message edited by Bkhan on Wed, 06 Mar 2013 11:30:15 GMT]
 
Bkhan last decade
 
kadwa last decade
If dr. Kadwa agrees please take Ashwagandha-Q (15 drops thrice a day) This is very useful medicine in almost all of your problems.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Thank you kindly for your clarification Dr. Kadwa Sahib..

I have taken one dose of Kali-i 200 this morning (i.e. 7-March-2013)...

Thanks for your suggestion Dr. Mahfooz Sahib.. I appreciate your concern.
I would appreciate if Dr. Kadwa Sahb may comment on 'Ashwagandha-Q' thanks.

Regards,
 
Bkhan last decade
Yes. Please take Ashwagandha Q as advised by Dr Mahfooz.
 
kadwa last decade
Alright Thanks for your comment Dr.Kadwa.
could you please advise, how long should I take Ashwagandha Q for?

Regards,
 
Bkhan last decade
It may be taken for 7 days. Then skip for 7 days.
 
kadwa last decade
Thank you Dr. Kadwa.

I have started Aswagandha Q today. (9-3-2013)..
 
Bkhan last decade
Hello Dr. Kadwa,
hope you are doing well. Just an update on the effects of Kali-i 200 and Aswagandha Q.

I am feeling better overall since you started treating me on this forum Dr. Kadwa.. I really appreciate your kind help. Thank you for that.

Updates:-

After taking Kali i 200 one dose and ASwagandha Q 3 times a day for 7 days (7 days still not completed yet)
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Dry throat:- I believe 80% is gone.

Heart Palpitation :- 90 % is gone

Nervousness in public: 75 % gone

Fear of people: 95 % gone

apprehension of the daily routine situation: 75% gone

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Some Negative thoughts and feelings that has emerged on the surface again they were subsided in the past

From the last few days I am feeling as below:-

Apprehension of 'Being exposed' when I am talking to people/friends/someone especially talking about my personal life or issues. I feel like every one knows about my private personal issues in my life in detail. Those are actually issues I had in the past when I was overseas and was battling with. I did not tell any one about the in-depth details of those issues to date however every one knows the obvious and surfaced facts.

Sometime I talk more in company i.e. un-necessary as I feel better while talking and silence makes me feel nervous. when I talk my face blushes out as I feel the attention,heat makes the feeling worse, close and confined space, dark makes it worse.

I feel better in the open air,while taking a walk I feel even better. I must be in motion or busy doing something to feel better. I feel like wasting my time while sitting in a gathering with friends doing nothing. I feel not connected with anyone of my old friends, I feel scared or intimidated by them. that's why I would avoid them and limit myself to the room.

I feel I am not fit in the society I live in, I am in danger and fear every person I meet with including my friends, I am useless,every one hates me, I feel every one scared of me. Sometime I feel dumb,incompetent,powerless, overwhelmed, could not take on the life's challenges , full of fear of facing everything in life.

I am still not able to indulge myself successfully into intimate instance with my partner. My wife has put on lot of weigh after first delivery of our child and that was the reason why we lost the touch in bed as I have tried a few times, could not get erection after I lost it as I looked at the fat belly. I want to resume it however I don't feel like I can do it.

Look forward to your response Dr.

Kind Regards
[message edited by Bkhan on Thu, 14 Mar 2013 18:14:22 GMT]
 
Bkhan last decade
Please take a single dose of Origanum 200 and see how that affects in 15 days.
 
kadwa last decade
Thank you for your prompt response Dr. Kadwa.

I am still not able to get the remedy 'Origanum 200' as you suggested. it may take a couple of days however I would like to express my concerns before I finally get the remedy and use it.
I would really appreciate your input on this thanks.

I have gone through the symptoms of the remedy 'Origanum' which are

mind; behaviour; nymphomania;
mind; desires, wants; sex, lustful.

I believe I don't have these. I may have mentioned in my previous post that 'I want to do it' that means I want to do it as I feel I have an obligation towards my partner as it has been over three months that we are not able to make it happen. so because of the sense of obligation I feel this is not right.

Some other updates I would like to share with you these are recent.

Weepy felings: Feeling weepy while talking, indicative from my voice as well as facial expressions.
Throat: Feel tight, like lump in the throat,constant swallowing
Heart: Sometime I feel pain in my heart which makes me think that may be my heart is getting weaker
again as it was previously.


Dr. Sahib kindly comment on it do I still need to get the Origanum as you suggested?



Kind Regards,
 
Bkhan last decade
We should not try to match all symptoms of the remedy and patient. We should match the significant state.

Mind; delusions, imaginations; despised, is: ORIG(3)
 
kadwa last decade

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