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Sadness

I've had a terrible time in the two years after my first break-up. Most of it has been a living nightmare. I had six months of guilt followed by six months of rage followed by six months of grief and now I am in six months of anxiety.

Over the last few days Aconitum Napellus has been an absolute miracle for my anxiety. My life is very different in those few days. But removing the layer of anxiety seems to have kicked up more sadness. This is not grief, this is just sadness.

Is there any remedy for someone who feels sad because she is sad? I miss my ex-boyfriend sure, but I mostly just miss myself. My own state is making me sad.

Or should I avoid taking a remedy because this is the result of Aconitum and this sadness needs to pass of its own accord?
 
  londontown on 2013-09-24
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Aconite is a good acute remedy for anxiety. You can
try 3 doses of Ignatia 30c, 3 pills under the tongue,
4 hours apart. Then wait. If you feel a big reaction after
any of the doses then stop and let it work. Ignatia can
make a person tired and bring up past states of sadness,
grief, for an hour and then it leaves and another state
comes up and leaves.

It works on the emotional and physical levels like
rewinding a tape of things you have stored up. I suggest
that you find a time to take this where you can just be,
and not have to work or interact with the public or
social events. People usually feel much more calm and
neutral about things after this remedy. It is a good place
to start with what is going on with you.
 
simone717 last decade
Hi,

The following additional information is required to help you. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.

1. ID or Your Name:
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height ….
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complaints

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current Blood Pressure (without medicine and with medicine)

16. What exactly is happening?

17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

25. Important Question.
Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
30. Name of foods which increase your problem

31. Important Question.
Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry,
impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not, you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)&
Amelioration (Decreases)

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)

36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g
urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.

For Females Only

37. When is the period during the month approx date?

Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems,
pain, any other discharges?

38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan last decade
2. Age

29

3. Sex

F

4. Single/Married

Single

5. weight

110lb

6. Height ….

5ft9

7. country

UK

8. climate

Warm year this year. Otherwise changeable.

9. List of your complaints.

Feelings of vengeance - 2 years
Feelings of grief - 2 years
Feelings of heartbreak - 3 years
White tongue - always
Inability to work - 3 years
Ruminating on the events of my relationship - 3 years

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic

Not diabetic

12. Desire sweets/sour/salt

Sugar always but with less pleasure as of late.

13. Thirst

More than before. Need lots of small sips.

14. Tongue and Taste

White! Always has been white.

15. Current Blood Pressure (without medicine and with medicine)

Normal.

16. What exactly is happening?

Just emotional turmoil for 2-3 years, irritability, anger, anxiety, grief, love (all mixed up into toxic cocktail). Can't ever imagine loving anyone again, after the betrayals of that relationship. Also loved him, weirdly, like a son (not that he was younger than me (he was by a few years), but that he was a narcissistic, irresponsible, accidentally destructive, immature person.

17. How do you feel?

Confused. Confused about who I am. My politics have changed, my worldviews have changed, everything has changed suddenly in the last two years but I don't know whether the new sets of beliefs or the old sets of beliefs are better. World feels very grey. No black and white or certainty anymore.

18. How does this affect you?

Time. My career is falling by the wayside, I am refusing to go out and rebuild my social life or think about falling in love and marrying and restarting my life.

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

25. Important Question.
Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

Loads of homeopathic remedies in the last six months! They have all helped enormously. Shall I list them?

26. Family Background

Unhappy. Mother left when I was little. Met her for the first time this year. Grew up in the very rigid family of my father and his sisters.

27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

Graduate, with postgraduate qualifications.

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

Applying to medical school

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food

Nothing. Craved lemons a few months ago but nothing since then. Don't love food to be honest. Been trying to eat more bread to increase my strength because I lost a lot of weight in that relationship and I can't get it back. Feel consequently very weak all the time

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

Fast food. If I have macdonald's or kfc, my mood will plummet enormously and I will be crying my eyes out the next day.

31. Important Question.
Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry,
impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not, you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.

Have always been a very black and white person, a person of extremes and strong emotions and strong likes and dislikes. That has gone in the last few years and I just feel much less. But still feelings of vengeance. My ex was violent and dishonest and I want him to suffer as I did, not carry on swimmingly with his life. Of course on some days I love him and want him to be happy with whoever he is with. But those days are less common.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)&
Amelioration (Decreases)

Nothing that I have noticed. I don't like winter and feel depressed during it but that applies to most people I am sure.


Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems,
pain, any other discharges?

None really. Because my weight has fallen so much my period went through a few months of being more dry than usual. But that seems to have sorted itself out lately.

Thank you
 
londontown last decade
Thanks Simone. Ignatia has definitely helped me in the past (though its effects are slow and subtle rather than the massive changes I have had with say Nux or Aconite or others) but I keep finding deeper layers of grief underneath the other layers of emotions that homeopathy keeps taking up and maybe it is time to return to it!
 
londontown last decade
Hi Londontown,

Let Nawaz take over from here. Please list what you have
taken-potency, doses, etc for him.And any other medications.
[message edited by simone717 on Thu, 26 Sep 2013 17:12:56 BST]
 
simone717 last decade
'Shall I list them? '
Please
 
nawazkhan last decade
'37. When is the period during the month approx date?

Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems,
pain, any other discharges?

38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues? '
Very important to know the clear answers for the above.

Sorry for any inconvenience.
 
nawazkhan last decade

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