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sexual problem

Doctor,

I'm 43 years old, all my life I was able to do sex weekly 2 or 3 times with my spouse. Total time we start anf finish sex usually is about 30 minutes to 1 hour. My problem been always cuming out within few penetrations of inserting my penice, wanted to be inside for moretime and ppenetrations but early leakege happens.

Now a days I don't feel strong erections, thick penis and cuming out very fast. My penile looks small and shrunken.

I always wanted more sex and still have desire to do more.

Also, I see my musle mass is decreasing, I'm eating lot of proteins but still I'm feeling weak and fatigue. My testosterone is around 300 which is almost below normal, that's why I might have sexual problems and also fatigue. Used to play lot of sports but now a days getting tired easily and recovery became slower.

Please advise your best solution. I'm willing to try any expensive method too.

For me most important is sex and sports, I want to be best in it.
 
  trymoon18 on 2013-10-03
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I hope you are not falling for the low-T ads so rampant on TV these days. Anyways.

The best way to slow down ageing is:

Aerobic exercise 3-5 times a week (walk or jog or swim etc.) to get your heart rate increased to your 'target heart rate'

Some weight training 2-3 times a week to sustain muscle mass. After 40 the decline in muscle mass becomes fast.

Eat a balanced diet rich in raw vegetables and have ample sleep.

Make raw garlic, yogurt, almonds, olive oil & walnuts part of your regular diet.

Follow this regimen and age gracefully. No one stays young forever.
 
fitness last decade
Thanks for your quick response.

In fact, I know about all those Low-T Ads, we all know they are all for temporary results with so many side effects.

I play very intense cricket a lot all weekend, 6 hours cricket during weekend. 3 to 5 times work out at the Gym where I lift the weights with the help of a personal trainer too. My whole body always in good work out mode, very active. I play sports like 25 years old but like I said slowly I'm seeing fatigue, loosing muscle mass, erectile issues.

My diet is also pretty good, Oat Meal with all the dry fruits in the morning, lot of protein food during day, fruits.

All my blood reports are good including Vitamin-D levels.

The only problem is low Testosterone in my blood reports.

Please advise if I'm missing anything.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Doctor,

Please advise based on the symptoms I have shared with you above.

Appreciate your help.
 
trymoon18 last decade
To select a homeopathic remedy for any health problem, the patient has to be like an open book. As if talking to oneself and alone. Explain with detail what your problems are. Example answers are given in front of the questions. Please take guidance from these examples and reply in detail accordingly.

1. What are the symptoms of your health problem (example answer: Swollen & painful joints of elbow, knees and wrists. All others ok)
2. What makes the problem better or worse (the swelling gets less when I sleep or eat meat, it gets more when I walk. The pain gets worse when I massage or apply heat. The pain & swelling gets better when I ….)
3. How do you feel emotionally (I feel sad & depressed. Think about all bad things happened in the past. I like to be alone all the time. I like to be with friends…..)
4. Describe your personality (I am a headstrong person, very suspicious of others, very strict about discipline…. OR I am a messy person, not interested in cleaning. Don’t bathe for many days…..)
5. What occupies your mind mostly (I do a lot of daydreaming, I think about romantic getaways all the time, I keep making plans for things and never do them ….)
6. Do you normally feel hot or cold (normal but I like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even……..)
7. What foods you love & hate (I like fried foods and hate slimy foods. I like sweets more than anything else. I hate chicken and love eggs….)
8. How is your thirst (I am thirsty all the time and even after drinking ice cold water remain thirsty)
9. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only)
10. Any skin problems (not now but all my life I had eczema on my arms for which I used allopathic creams)
11. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping and sleep with open mouth)
12. Any problems with stool/urine (I have severe constipation and the stool is always like balls…)
13. Any sexual problems (I have no interest in sex, I have late periods always and are painful, with a lot of backache.)
14. Describe your appearance (I am stick thin or I am big for my size and overweight I have not always been like this I grew fat after……)
 
fitness last decade
1. What are the symptoms of your health problem (example answer: Swollen & painful joints of elbow, knees and wrists. All others ok)

Pretty much healthy, every year all blood reports clear and normal. Vitamin D was little low but taking supplements and it is now normal levels.

2. What makes the problem better or worse (the swelling gets less when I sleep or eat meat, it gets more when I walk. The pain gets worse when I massage or apply heat. The pain & swelling gets better when I ….)

Anxiety and stress seems to be making worsen. It seems at this 43 years age my stress management seems to be not handled properly by my body

3. How do you feel emotionally (I feel sad & depressed. Think about all bad things happened in the past. I like to be alone all the time. I like to be with friends…..)

Little depressed and tensed due to the work life and business activity. it's like something might happen bad and disturbed. Was doing well all these years but little slow business these days so pressure on how to increase business revenues or how to sell it.

4. Describe your personality (I am a headstrong person, very suspicious of others, very strict about discipline…. OR I am a messy person, not interested in cleaning. Don’t bathe for many days…..)

Very organized, motivated, aggressive in sports, work or business. Multi-tasking, lot of friends and social life. Usually short tempered in childhood life but able to control it successfully all these years in business and work life. But now a days either I don’t get temper or get over tempered.

5. What occupies your mind mostly (I do a lot of daydreaming, I think about romantic getaways all the time, I keep making plans for things and never do them ….)

My business, kids life and their activities, weekend parties, my games in weekends. And, a feeling of something going to happen bad. All these.

6. Do you normally feel hot or cold (normal but I like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even……..)

I feel cold. I can tolerate hot than cold. I hate cold. I’m in USA now and don’t like cold places.

7. What foods you love & hate (I like fried foods and hate slimy foods. I like sweets more than anything else. I hate chicken and love eggs….)

I like non-veg (Chicken, eggs, Goat), little spicy, curd, rice, burgers. I can’t eat anything is it doesn’t taste good, usually I don’t like to try lot of new things in food, little picky. I like Milk but it upsets my stomach.

8. How is your thirst (I am thirsty all the time and even after drinking ice cold water remain thirsty)

Average, I drink at least 5 to 7 liters of water every day. 1 bottle of water as soon as I wake up to help clear my bowls.

9. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only)

Edges no coating, little bit white in the middle areas, will usually be clear if I clean my tongue.

10. Any skin problems (not now but all my life I had eczema on my arms for which I used allopathic creams)

Nothing major. I used to have lot of acnes in teenage time, now also I get some.

11. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping and sleep with open mouth)

None.

Now a days I’m getting lot of hang over headache at night during sleep time if I drink more than 100 ml worth of scotch. Usually we suffer from trees (pollen) allergies in USA, I’m thinking maybe it aggravates whenever I drink Alcohol, also may be due to my age. This problem started from 1 year.

12. Any problems with stool/urine (I have severe constipation and the stool is always like balls…)

YES, big problem. It’s been about 13 years I’m suffering from multiple bowl movements every day. I go every day about 5 or 6 times, like after every meal. Bloating and heavy stomach feeling, uneasy feeling, burning whenever hungry or delay the food by more than 1 hour or so. I have been recently started taking Bilwadi Churna, Khutjghan vati and Chitrakadi vati with the recommendation of an Ayurvedic Doctor, it seems some improvement these days. I had gone through all types of Stomach tests and all doctors said everything looks good and I might have some reflxes problems in stomach. Some people said I have IBS disease.

I’m very uncomfortable with this all day my life, travelling is a big issue, and always need to make sure I have bathrooms nearby.

Milk and Diary products upset my stomach, loose bowls and very frequent with rumbling sounds...

Please advise this problem as well.

13. Any sexual problems (I have no interest in sex, I have late periods always and are painful, with a lot of backache.)

All my life I like Sex and Girls a lot and I have been enjoying it. I think and try for it a lot. Me and my wife both like it and we enjoy it. All my life I have been getting good erections but not able to control it for long time, I have to do sex soon within 10 minutes of meeting each other otherwise early leakage; and I cum out fast within few penetrations.

Now my problem is my erections are becoming rare, If I do sex today then I feel like doing sex again after few days. I think about it all the time like before but no strong and frequent erections. And as usual I cum out fast whenever I have sex. I tried Viagra about 10 to 20 times, I like it because it makes me to cum very late and I can penetrate for longer period, lately they also seems to be not effective.

And, I go Gym and play lot of sports, very active life, these days I feel very weak, fatigue, neck muscles pain (may be tensed muscles there). My muscle mass is not gaining even after I lift lot of weights in Gym (actually, I’m not strong enough to lift weight like before). My Total testosterone levels are 370. Few years ago my doctor gave me Testosterone injections, felt good but lost lot of hair. Another doctor told me 370 is good and I shouldn’t take the injections, hair fall is stopped but still got some thin hair due to this.

Hopefully Homeopathy can help me get my hair back.

Ideally I always wanted to do sex weekly 3 or 4 times. Be strong and play sports a lot.

14. Describe your appearance (I am stick thin or I am big for my size and overweight I have not always been like this I grew fat after……)

Height 5’ 11”, weight 168 pounds, good looking and lean structure. I got some belly, I think it is due to my gastric and bowl movement problems, bloating and heavy.
[message edited by trymoon18 on Thu, 10 Oct 2013 14:00:01 BST]
 
trymoon18 last decade
Please reply to these:

How is your thirst (not how much water you drink)

Regarding sex, please explain 'you think & try for it a lot'

How do you respond to consolation (I hate consolation…)

Do you want to stay alone or in company (I love company of people and never want to be alone….)

How is your sleep (I have great sleep, always wake up fresh…..)

Do you have any recurring dreams (I always dreams of big black snakes very regularly….)

What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints (I like dry & warm weather and hate winter. My complaints are better in damp weather…..)

Do you fight or flight (I never pick any fights, rather I stay silent and then think over it and get angry…..)

What are your fears (I am terrified of spiders, dogs, cats, closed spaces, heights……)
 
fitness last decade
Thanks for the quick reply Doctor, you are the best and god send for me.

1. How is your thirst (not how much water you drink)

Average. If I drink lot of water then frequent urination. Feel good drinking water.

2. Regarding sex, please explain 'you think & try for it a lot'

I always think of doing sex with beautiful looking women. Wife is beautiful and always try to do sex everyday but I can’t get erections a lot easily if I do frequently. If I do sex weekly 2 times then those 2 times I’m fine (but still cum fast and can’t penetrate for long time). It’s like I have to do it fast otherwise I loose erections, can’t hold erections for long time.

3. How do you respond to consolation (I hate consolation…)

I hate consolation. I hate missing my good friends and family people. Recently I have lost few good friends and I always think of them, feels very demotivating, disappointing, lonely feeling because of their lost friendship.

4. Do you want to stay alone or in company (I love company of people and never want to be alone….)

I love company, parties, discussions with the people whom I’m comfortable or who give me respect. I wasn’t lonely in my life, all my life I was around people, friends. Now a days less parties, friends and not many people around me. Whenever I’m when I’m travelling etc., then I’m reading some magazines, watching TV or find something to keep myself busy.

5. How is your sleep (I have great sleep, always wake up fresh…..)

Great sleep, usually sleeps within minutes. Now a days sleeps fast only but disturbed sleep, wake up a lot, I feel I haven’t slept properly lot of times. Usually I sleep around 11AM and wake up by 7AM. When I work out or play lot of sports then I will have sound sleep. Definitely my sleep habits in the past 2 years are not the same as what I had all my life.

6. Do you have any recurring dreams (I always dreams of big black snakes very regularly….)

No. Sometime I dream the missing friends and family members, I guess because I’m thinking about them a lot during day and night.

7. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints (I like dry & warm weather and hate winter. My complaints are better in damp weather…..)

Like hot weather a lot, doesn’t mean a desert type of more than 50 degrees, I like Bangalore, Delhi weather but not Boston weather. I hate cold and my body can’t tolerate cold, my friends wear a sweater and I’m wearing a thick jacket. In winter and cold time I feel I have lot of joint pains and feel very dull life.

8. Do you fight or flight (I never pick any fights, rather I stay silent and then think over it and get angry…..)

I do not fight. Usually I’m silent and always try to compromise myself upfront and adjust. But when someone upset me off or cheats me then I always think of how I can take revenge against him or I always like to hear any bad news about them. In fact practically I stay calm with them but given a chance I always want to take revenge without me getting into trouble again. Lot of times I try to compromise myself that just move on with the life and forget them like a dream BUT I think about them a lot.

9. What are your fears (I am terrified of spiders, dogs, cats, closed spaces, heights……)

Snakes, slugs type of insects, sometimes darkness. Now a days I’m fearing that something might happen to me because of business life I guess, though my business is clear and fair type, because of falling revenues I guess.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Please take two doses of Calcarea Carbonica 200c, 12 hrs apart. Just two doses. Not daily.

One dose is one pill.

Report back with changes observed.
 
fitness last decade
I had another question about curing a 'sebaceous Cyst on top of the head' and Dr. Simmone requested me to take Calcarea Carbonica 200c 5 pills once and wanted me to report in 4 days. I took it last Tuesday and by tomorrow it will be 4 days. And as of now no change to cyst, it still in same situation.

Please advise.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Wait for a week more and then report back.
 
fitness last decade
So wait for a week for cyst cure ?
 
trymoon18 last decade
I am not sure how the cyst would respond. I prescribed on the basis of the symptoms you had given above.

It is very likely that the cyst will also be addressed, how soon, depends on your body's response.
 
fitness last decade
Doctor, 

It's been a week and I still have cyst in same status. No changes. Can you please let me know what to do next.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Have you observed any change at all in any of the symptoms?
 
fitness last decade
No changes to cyst at all. But first couple of days I felt very anxiety, tensed neck and shoulder muscles.

My libido might have been little better I guess. I feel little calm and relaxed in the last 2 days, have been doing some gym and little bit of pranayam yoga in the mornings.
 
trymoon18 last decade
The cyst will yield probably in the end, so please don't worry about it.

We will continue to wait for another week and keep observing all other symptoms.

Keep me posted.
 
fitness last decade
I took the medicine only once so shall I take again or wait another week?
 
trymoon18 last decade
No need to take the remedy again. Just wait for another week.
 
fitness last decade
Doctor,

No changes to the Cyst yet.

Also, somehow I felt very less sexual libido and erectile hardness for the past 10 days, penis size shrunken a lot too. I haven't felt it like this before. I had less and hard erections but now a days it's like nothing.

Please advice.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Eversince taking the dose on 11th, have you noticed any changes in your mental state, level of anxiety and libido.

As I had said earlier, the cyst will not budge unless other things yield first.
 
fitness last decade
I think I felt sometimes less Anxiety and stable. Sometimes it was very bad whenever I had les sleep.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Please repeat a dose, just one dose and report back.
 
fitness last decade
Doctor,

Last time I took have 5 pills of calc carb 200 at night half an hour before dinner.

I see you advised me earlier
two doses of Calcarea Carbonica 200c, 12 hrs apart. Just two doses. Not daily.

Please advise what to do.

Appreciate your help.
 
trymoon18 last decade
Actually your case started off on the wrong foot as you were seeking remedies on two different threads.

The clear response that I wanted to see was simply possible by following my dosage. Since you already took a dose of 5 pills, I had no choice but to wait.

Now we can't go back to two doses 12 hrs apart.

Please take just one dose i.e. one pill by dissolving in your mouth and then swallowing it preferably last thing before going to bed and report back.
 
fitness last decade
When should I report back? I'm planning to take it tonight
 
trymoon18 last decade

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