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I am in the habit of masturbation since 14 years of age.following symptoms i have
1.underweight 48kg
2.extreme forgetfulness
3.lost all self confidence
4.fear of failure remains in mind always.
5.semen after a single ejaculation becomes transparent.
6.remain depressed most of the time.
7.like to stay alone always.
8.shyness too much
9.becomes irritated when some frndz makes fun of me
10.this really kills me. sometimes when I have to talk to someone my voice gets shaky like i m running out of air to finish my sentence and then I have to swallow to make it feel better then i m ok for a while. its like i m going to cry or something while im talking
I have tried medicine like staphysagria,agnus castus,chine 30 and other herbal medicine like shilajeet,aswangandha etc for about two months.but no improvement. i want to gain weight as i looks very weird.i am really fed up from life.no medicne is working on me.after 2-3 days i cant control my urge to masturbate.plz help me
 
  sk7904 on 2013-10-25
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Please give the details of the homeopathic remedies you have taken so far telling when, how many times and what potency.
 
fitness last decade
staphysagria 200 taken every alternative days for about a month.then i started with
china 30 twice daily
agnus castus 30 twice daily.i have such a weakness in the body that cracking sounds come from wrist,thighs when i sit or try to move my wrist.i am unable to gain weight due to which i am facing an inferiority complex.plz help me i have spent lots of money on medicines without any positive effects .
 
sk7904 last decade
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1. Your age & sex

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type

3. What are the symptoms of your main health problem

4. What other health problems do you have

5. How & when did this main problem begin

6. What makes the main problem better and what makes it worse

7. How do you feel emotionally

8. Describe your personality

9. How do you relax

10. Do you fight or flight

11. What are you afraid of (situations, animals etc)

12. What occupies your mind mostly

13. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy

14. Do you want to stay alone or with people

15. How is your sleep

16. Do you have any recurring dreams

17. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints

18. Do you normally feel hot or cold

19. What types of clothes you wear

20. What foods you love & hate

21. What taste you love & hate (sweet, salty, sour, bitter)

22. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….)

23. How is your thirst

24. Do you have dry lips & mouth

25. Any coating on tongue first thing in the morning

26. How is your skin

27. Any problems with ears, nose, chest, throat

28. How is your stool & urine

29. How is your sexual life

30. Males genitals (erection, pain …….)

31. Females menses details for regularity & flow (I have late periods, with clots, bright red blood, very heavy…..)

32. What illnesses are running in your family, mother’s side & father’s side & brothers/sisters
[message edited by fitness on Sat, 26 Oct 2013 13:26:18 BST]
 
fitness last decade
1. Your age & sex
Ans: 24, Male

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type
Ans:5.7ft,48kg,thin

3. What are the symptoms of your main health problem
Ans: 1.underweight 48kg
2.extreme forgetfulness
3.lost all self confidence
4.fear of failure remains in mind always.
5.semen after a single ejaculation becomes transparent.
6.remain depressed most of the time.
7.like to stay alone always.
8.shyness too much
9.becomes irritated when some frndz makes fun of me
10.this really kills me. sometimes when I have to talk to someone my voice gets shaky like i m running out of air to finish my sentence and then I have to swallow to make it feel better then i m ok for a while. its like i m going to cry or something while im talking

5. How & when did this main problem begin
Ans: after started masturbation at age of 14 but i realised it when i was 19

6. What makes the main problem better and what makes it worse
Ans: if i don’t do masturbation for a week then feel little better and vice versa

7. How do you feel emotionally
Ans: remain depressed most of the time

8. Describe your personality
Ans: i am very introvert kind , and suffering from inferiorty complex.I am day dreamer and always thinks that somebody will come and make my life good.always thinks for miracle to happen

9. How do you relax
Ans: deep breathing exercises

10. Do you fight or flight
Ans: no i m very weak , when talk to someone in quarrelling mood my voice gets shaky like i m running out of air to finish my sentence and then I have to swallow to make it feel better then i m ok for a while. its like i m going to cry or something while im talking

11. What are you afraid of (situations, animals etc)
Ans: when i facing more intelligent people then me then i become very depresses .people can easily dominate me.

12. What occupies your mind mostly
Ans: fear of failure in life

13. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy
Ans: i don’t show my inner problem to anyone

14. Do you want to stay alone or with people
I like to stay alone and like to stay in my room

15. How is your sleep
Sleep is ok

16. Do you have any recurring dreams
My expectations are big in my life , i am unsatisfied and which is the main cause of my depression

17. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints
I don’t like to stay in very hot or cold weather

18. Do you normally feel hot or cold
No

19. What types of clothes you wear
Jeans & shirt


21. What taste you love & hate (sweet, salty, sour, bitter)
I love sweets , from past few years i don’t like to eat much as i don’t find anything delcious

22. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….)
No

23. How is your thirst
Its normal

24. Do you have dry lips & mouth
Yes , i need to apply lip gel even in summer

25. Any coating on tongue first thing in the morning
No

26. How is your skin
Its dry

27. Any problems with ears, nose, chest, throat
No

28. How is your stool & urine
Constipation problem ,urine is yellow and sometimes burning sensation in it

29. How is your sexual life
Sex not done yet, but i think when i masturbate semen come so early.

30. Males genitals (erection, pain …….)
No


32. What illnesses are running in your family, mother’s side & father’s side & brothers/sisters
Everyone is normal and there is no illness
[message edited by sk7904 on Mon, 28 Oct 2013 16:15:08 GMT]
 
sk7904 last decade
Please read the questions CAREFULLY and reply to what is asked.

Example: Q-6.

Also, please DON'T give yes/no answers, write details.

Please use EDIT function of the post and submit reply again.
 
fitness last decade
I have edited the message as u said.
 
sk7904 last decade
What do you forget, explain e.g. events, names??

What do you mean by depressed, explain how you feel in detail

How old is your constipation

Explain how is your stool (large, hard, dry etc)

How is your thirst, don't say normal. Explain it (e.g. I never feel thirst all day, I just drink 1-2 glass by forcing myself)

Do you feel cold or hot

Explain how do you feel after masturbation (e.g. ashamed, irritable, sad, depressed, happy, relaxed etc.)
 
fitness last decade
I used to forget names, faces etc. I becomes depressed nervous and irritate so soon . i like to stay alone in the room. Lost self confidence totally. I cannot memorise the things for longer time.say, i m preparing for exam and have to prepare a chapter of 2 pages if i study it 2-3 times also then also i forget all things. If someone asks me to calculate some mathematical figures, i cannot do that because of fear to be insulted.
Constipation is from last one year. Stool is hard & dry.
I drink 4-5 glasses of water each day.beyond that i cannot drink even if i try hard.
After masturbation i feel depressed , ashamed and heart rate increases and my level of frustration also goes high.2-3 days i felt very weak and remain absent minded.
I look so skinny that i fear to go with the girls and therefore , i don’t talk to them. Under weoght is the main cause of my frustration. I tried everything possible but weight is not increasing.tried herbs like ashwagandha with milk and homeo medicine i mentioned earlier for this.but my anxiety is increasing day by day.
 
sk7904 last decade
Readin this jus makes tears wnt to flow from my eyes,as these are most of the same symptoms am sufferin from.i never thought masturbation has this terrible effect, when i started masturbatin in 1993,prior to then i was a very smart boy,academically i was near excellent,i do read that masturbation had no dire effect,i only found out few months ago my problems was as a result of overmasturbation i recently joined this forum nd i no nothin abt homeopathy bt am willin to give it a try,i jus hope i cn find a cure,my life has stagnated as a result of this torture..i tell u i dnt wish this for my enemy.. Its been like hell
 
esoteric last decade
Readin this jus makes tears wnt to flow from my eyes,as these are most of the same symptoms am sufferin from.i never thought masturbation has this terrible effect, when i started masturbatin in 1993,prior to then i was a very smart boy,academically i was near excellent,i do read that masturbation had no dire effect,i only found out few months ago my problems was as a result of overmasturbation i recently joined this forum nd i know nothin abt homeopathy bt am willin to give it a try,i jus hope i cn find a cure,my life has stagnated as a result of this torture nd misery..i tell u i dnt wish this for my enemy.. Its been like hell
 
esoteric last decade

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