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stop masturbation by medicine recover sex power.
Hi, I m masturbate from when i m 17 yr old and now i m 23yr. I want stop these but i cant. There so many problem arises from this like curved penis,stomac pain,depresion lack of confidance,Weakness etc.Kindly refer me medicine which easily available in india and give me fast relief recover my sex strength
iqbalsufi on 2014-02-26
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Masturbation does not cause those symptoms. Masturbation is healthy human sexual behaviour, and only become problematic if it becomes excessive and interferes in a person's normal social functioning.
Curved penis may be as a result of a disease called Peyronie's disease, where fibrous tissue causes the penis to bend. It is NOT caused by masturbation It may also be a benign condition called Congenital Curvature, which can be a natural genetic tendency in some men. The degree of the curve would decide if it is actually a problem. In an adult man, Congenital Curvature cannot be corrected.
Your case cannot be dealt with by simply listing a number of common symptoms. A proper case would have to be taken, and frankly if you have access to face-to-face treatment this would be preferable.
If you need to use this forum instead for medical advice, I would suggest using a questionnaire such as the one used by Dr. Dinesh Chauhan in his online clinic. I might post an abbreviated version of that document on this website so that you can use it as a template for providing information.
Curved penis may be as a result of a disease called Peyronie's disease, where fibrous tissue causes the penis to bend. It is NOT caused by masturbation It may also be a benign condition called Congenital Curvature, which can be a natural genetic tendency in some men. The degree of the curve would decide if it is actually a problem. In an adult man, Congenital Curvature cannot be corrected.
Your case cannot be dealt with by simply listing a number of common symptoms. A proper case would have to be taken, and frankly if you have access to face-to-face treatment this would be preferable.
If you need to use this forum instead for medical advice, I would suggest using a questionnaire such as the one used by Dr. Dinesh Chauhan in his online clinic. I might post an abbreviated version of that document on this website so that you can use it as a template for providing information.
♡ Evocationer last decade
♡ Evocationer last decade
Doctors here in this forum suggest Ustilago 6c to help stop Masturbation habit. You can see http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/206579/ and http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/208315/ for details.
JollyBoy last decade
JpllyBoy,
If you have what you think is an out of control habit, use
Dr. Mohla's protocol to work on the habit. People who
have tried this have had very good results, he uses Bach flowers
which are gentle and not homeopathic and one remedy.
http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/398022
If you have what you think is an out of control habit, use
Dr. Mohla's protocol to work on the habit. People who
have tried this have had very good results, he uses Bach flowers
which are gentle and not homeopathic and one remedy.
http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/398022
♡ simone717 last decade
You cannot cure something that is not a disease. Suppressing a natural sexual activity because society or religion views it as 'bad' is not something homoeopaths should ever be involved in. We should be objective, non-judgemental and honest in our dealings with patients, and not allow our own prejudices to influence our prescriptions.
It seems to me to be extremely unethical for homoeopaths to be making such claims and distracting patients from the true cause of their suffering. Instead help to educate patients as to what is genuinely unhealthy, rather than feeding their own fears and shame.
Overdoing anything can be unhealthy of course, and our job is to bring such things back into balance. If someone overeats, we do not attempt to stop them eating. If someone overexercises we do not attempt to stop them exercising.
We know in homoeopathy that sexual suppression is in fact the cause of a number of conditions, just as suppressing any natural function or expression causes disease. For us to be involved in such suppression directly is extremely concerning.
[message edited by Evocationer on Wed, 26 Feb 2014 21:50:49 GMT]
It seems to me to be extremely unethical for homoeopaths to be making such claims and distracting patients from the true cause of their suffering. Instead help to educate patients as to what is genuinely unhealthy, rather than feeding their own fears and shame.
Overdoing anything can be unhealthy of course, and our job is to bring such things back into balance. If someone overeats, we do not attempt to stop them eating. If someone overexercises we do not attempt to stop them exercising.
We know in homoeopathy that sexual suppression is in fact the cause of a number of conditions, just as suppressing any natural function or expression causes disease. For us to be involved in such suppression directly is extremely concerning.
[message edited by Evocationer on Wed, 26 Feb 2014 21:50:49 GMT]
♡ Evocationer last decade
Evocationer, I am delighted to see your posts.
Thank God some sensible comments have come at least from someone otherwise I was feeling totally isolated when talking about masturbation and the need to 'cure' it.
I have seen a ton of completely illogical comments from posters who claim to be homeopaths when they go for 'curing' masturbation.
Thank God some sensible comments have come at least from someone otherwise I was feeling totally isolated when talking about masturbation and the need to 'cure' it.
I have seen a ton of completely illogical comments from posters who claim to be homeopaths when they go for 'curing' masturbation.
fitness last decade
No one is talking about a disease here- Dr. Mohla is
talking about changing an EXCESSIVE habit. Everything
in life has to be in balance. It takes around 3 weeks to
form new habits.
Maybe a lot of these people are addicted to porn, spending
hours a day, instead of taking exercise, developing relationships,
etc.
talking about changing an EXCESSIVE habit. Everything
in life has to be in balance. It takes around 3 weeks to
form new habits.
Maybe a lot of these people are addicted to porn, spending
hours a day, instead of taking exercise, developing relationships,
etc.
♡ simone717 last decade
Thank you Fitness, I appreciate the support. I know how that feels - I have haunted other forums where I hear the same bias touted as homoeopathy. It disturbs me.
Our medicines have great power, and while it is a cliché, I believe with that power comes responsibility. We may have the ability to affect very deep levels, very fine levels, very personal levels of a human being with our high potencies. This does not mean we should make changes just because we can. We certainly should never be making those changes on the basis of our own personal or religious beliefs.
Fitness, I have read some of your posts, and it seems you and I may be on a similar wavelength around many matters :)
Our medicines have great power, and while it is a cliché, I believe with that power comes responsibility. We may have the ability to affect very deep levels, very fine levels, very personal levels of a human being with our high potencies. This does not mean we should make changes just because we can. We certainly should never be making those changes on the basis of our own personal or religious beliefs.
Fitness, I have read some of your posts, and it seems you and I may be on a similar wavelength around many matters :)
♡ Evocationer last decade
Simone717 I accept that when such a habit is excessive, as with any habit, we should be looking to bring it back into balance. But there is a fine line here, one I see crossed far too often. One only needs to look at the remedies being prescribed to understand the intent behind the prescriptions - Staph, Med, Thuja, Bufo, Ph-ac - remedies given only on the basis of their supposed affinity to sexual symptoms.
This would be the same problem if a practitioner saw Anger as something that is bad, and used a sequence of remedies like Nux-v, Staph, Mag-c, Lyss etc. to specifically eliminate anger. Or if someone decided that Weeping in a man was inappropriate (based on various cultural expectations) and prescribed Puls, Sep, Phos, Lyc or Apis.
As homoeopaths, we do not aim at specific symptoms and try to eliminate them. We stand back and look at the whole situation, prescribe a medicine on that basis, then allow the vital force to decide what is inappropriate and what is not. Our own views and values should not come into it at all. The vital force is intelligent, and it is ultimately moral and good. It is the final judge on what is best for the patient, not us. Once we start making those decisions ourselves, we become as bad as the Allopaths. Worse in some ways because our remedies can go much deeper, much further.
This would be the same problem if a practitioner saw Anger as something that is bad, and used a sequence of remedies like Nux-v, Staph, Mag-c, Lyss etc. to specifically eliminate anger. Or if someone decided that Weeping in a man was inappropriate (based on various cultural expectations) and prescribed Puls, Sep, Phos, Lyc or Apis.
As homoeopaths, we do not aim at specific symptoms and try to eliminate them. We stand back and look at the whole situation, prescribe a medicine on that basis, then allow the vital force to decide what is inappropriate and what is not. Our own views and values should not come into it at all. The vital force is intelligent, and it is ultimately moral and good. It is the final judge on what is best for the patient, not us. Once we start making those decisions ourselves, we become as bad as the Allopaths. Worse in some ways because our remedies can go much deeper, much further.
♡ Evocationer last decade
We are not going to change the culture of India and Eastern countries here- but the
fact remains, that if you cannot date, have to put off marriage till you are 29 or 30 years old
to get your career right for your family, cannot see a person out of your caste or
you risk being burned alive and have to go live in a 'safe house' like the witness protection
program, there is a lot of repression that can turn into 'excessive habits'.
I have given people the Bach flowers alone and they can feel how the Bach flowers are
stopping the normal flow of thoughts for the habit. It gives people the 'space'
to actually notice what is going on and a bit of a breather to say, I am going to
do something different today.
I am talking about people who want to change and not be a slave to a habit-
and if they change over in one month from using Staph 1M 4 times with Bach flowers,
I think that is fine. I think some people could do it with Bach flowers alone if they
really want to make a change.
Yes, I see all those other prescriptions and I AGREE with you, it seems overdone and
used not appropriately as if there really were a 'disease'.
I like what Dr. Mohla has done here- for the excessive habit- I think he got tired of
the huge amounts of people asking for help on this and how irregular all the prescriptions
were. I have had a lot of people write me and say, Thanks, that worked out well,
and it was rather easy to do, I feel back in charge of myself again.
fact remains, that if you cannot date, have to put off marriage till you are 29 or 30 years old
to get your career right for your family, cannot see a person out of your caste or
you risk being burned alive and have to go live in a 'safe house' like the witness protection
program, there is a lot of repression that can turn into 'excessive habits'.
I have given people the Bach flowers alone and they can feel how the Bach flowers are
stopping the normal flow of thoughts for the habit. It gives people the 'space'
to actually notice what is going on and a bit of a breather to say, I am going to
do something different today.
I am talking about people who want to change and not be a slave to a habit-
and if they change over in one month from using Staph 1M 4 times with Bach flowers,
I think that is fine. I think some people could do it with Bach flowers alone if they
really want to make a change.
Yes, I see all those other prescriptions and I AGREE with you, it seems overdone and
used not appropriately as if there really were a 'disease'.
I like what Dr. Mohla has done here- for the excessive habit- I think he got tired of
the huge amounts of people asking for help on this and how irregular all the prescriptions
were. I have had a lot of people write me and say, Thanks, that worked out well,
and it was rather easy to do, I feel back in charge of myself again.
♡ simone717 last decade
You are welcome Evocationer. I have seen your posts and that's why I said I am glad to see a voice of logic.
fitness last decade
I just feel that as homoeopaths we need to be able to rise above that kind of social and religious judgement. We don't need to change those cultures, if we even have a right to do that, but as individual practitioners we can sit back without prejudice and simply allow the vital force to put things right. It will moderate any excessive behaviour all on its own, without any direction or coercion from us.
If we are giving a remedy to specifically stop some behaviour, without considering the totality of the case, I believe inappropriate for us as healers. If we look at the whole case, all the peculiars, and eliminate anything that is common or expected in the situation, then we can be confident the internal morality will assert itself.
It is dangerous letting ourselves be distracted by either our own issues with a certain behaviour, or allowing the patient's concern with the social or religious ramifications of the behaviour to govern our choice of remedy. As long as the remedy suits the whole case, then we will do the best for the patient. Any other way of trying to eliminate particular symptoms can easily cause harm instead. We don't aim to stop anything, we want the vital force to fall back into balance, and then whatever the patient needs to happen will happen.
We walk a fine line between Ego and Humility - between thinking we are in charge as the Allopaths do, or that the patient themselves contain their own blueprint for better health. One can lead to ruin for the patient, the other leads to respect both for Nature and for each person's own power.
My own feeling about it is that we can help to educate people rather than giving in to the same pressure that is already making them feel bad about themselves.
If we are giving a remedy to specifically stop some behaviour, without considering the totality of the case, I believe inappropriate for us as healers. If we look at the whole case, all the peculiars, and eliminate anything that is common or expected in the situation, then we can be confident the internal morality will assert itself.
It is dangerous letting ourselves be distracted by either our own issues with a certain behaviour, or allowing the patient's concern with the social or religious ramifications of the behaviour to govern our choice of remedy. As long as the remedy suits the whole case, then we will do the best for the patient. Any other way of trying to eliminate particular symptoms can easily cause harm instead. We don't aim to stop anything, we want the vital force to fall back into balance, and then whatever the patient needs to happen will happen.
We walk a fine line between Ego and Humility - between thinking we are in charge as the Allopaths do, or that the patient themselves contain their own blueprint for better health. One can lead to ruin for the patient, the other leads to respect both for Nature and for each person's own power.
My own feeling about it is that we can help to educate people rather than giving in to the same pressure that is already making them feel bad about themselves.
♡ Evocationer last decade
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