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bms or ...?

Opening new post on demand (see former burning mouth syndrome topic)

Age:40 - female
Height:157cm
Weight:70 kilos

Mental state:anxious, lost my fother month ago and few hours later almost last my mum to an aneurysma, she is recovering

Good relation but also shortly confused by 'declaration' of a good friend towards me and not insensible for him neither...

Good relations with relatives but costantly problems with members of a club we are leading where also recently is a lot of stress and obstruction towards us.

No Problems at the work

Other physical symptoms:allergy, this caused also in past irritation in my mouth but never my tongue. now it is more tongue but also tooth flesh and complete mouth as a matter of fact

Warm at night, before always needed something to take with me in bed to warm my feet, now needing to put off all my clothes...

Feel better in the morning, awfull late night.

Problem getting worse during the day,drinking water cools it down a bit.

Bad sleep in last month due to stress about losing father and mother on intensive care. now it is better. never been a great sleeper, visit to toilet about 3 times at night is no exception

Sweating under arms, moving to quick tired I believe because of wrong breathing or astma but my normal astma in summer (hay fever) was different than how it feels now to be honest

Drinking water but not cold and not enough I suppose.

Bad smell, sometimes too hard, constipations, sometimes too soft but not often how it is supposed to be.

In the past rarely envy , recently abnormal more envy in sexual activity, probably the 'compliment' of the declaration of love of a good friend is also a cause of this.

Problem very recent, started together with all the stress in my life. Not yet diagnoses of burning mouth but reading all the symptoms make me think in that direction.
Medication 5x a day 5 granules borax 30K help for a while but than it starts all over again.

Cleaning teeth seems to help to for a while
looking forward for your help, lots of thank you's in advance!!!
 
  tantchristel on 2014-07-23
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Ah good, thank you for being so prompt. Let me post the complete questionnaire for you. It is long and broken into 3 parts. Please try to give detailed answers (no one word or very short answers if you can).

HOW TO DESCRIBE YOUR COMPLAINTS (Physical Components)

In homoeopathy, prescription is based on precise details of various symptoms from which you suffer. To tell or write to a homoeopathic physician 'I have a headache ', ' an eruption ' or “a cough” would not be enough. If you inform him 'I have headache with sharp shooting pains in the left side of the head and temple, these pains always come on when the slightest cold air strikes the head. I feel better by pressing the head very hard.” Then only you have given all the information required for making a good homoeopathic prescription. The success of the prescription depends; largely on how detailed your description of the symptoms is.
We require the following details about your symptoms.

LOCATION: Please give the exact location of sensation, pain or eruption. Also describe where the pain or sensation spreads.

SENSATION: Express the type of sensation or the pain that you get in your own words however simple or funny it may seem. You may have a sensation that a mouse is crawling or the heart was grasped by an iron hand or you may have a pain that is cutting, burning jerking, pressing. Express the sensation or pain as it feels to you. Try to explain the whole sensation in the exact way it is happening and not just the word. We need to understand the whole process of the sensation as it is happening to you.

WHAT MAKES YOU WORSE OR BETTER:

Many factors are likely to influence your complaint. Some factors may intensify it and some factors may relieve the trouble. A detailed list of the factors is given at the end. Please refer it while describing each of your troubles and indicate which factors make the complaint better or worse.

DISCHARGES: You may have a discharge from nose, ears, mouth, eyes, ulcers, fistula, eruptions on skin, private parts, etc. Please describe your discharge in detail including colour, consistency, appearance, odour etc.

1] Your Complaint:

(Use your own words as far as possible, but if you have recognized or diagnosed the condition, give this information also.) By answering as many of these questions as fully as possible, you are helping me to understand what your body and unconscious mind is conveying. This can help me find a remedy for you.)
• What is your complaint?
• When did the complaint begin?
• Where is it located?
• What sort of sensations (and emotions) do you associate with it?
When does it tend to occur (time/day)
• Does anything make it better or worse?
• How does it bother you? How is it coming in way of your day-to-day life?
• How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s?
• What is the effect of this/these problem/s on you?
• Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
• What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint.
• What are your reactions with it?

PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS FOR EACH SYMPTOM/COMPLAINT SEPARATELY. DO NOT INCLUDE ALL OF YOUR COMPLAINTS TOGETHER IN EACH QUESTION eg. all questions answered for Leg Pain, then same questions answered for Migraines, then same questions answered for Panic attacks etc.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Mental and Emotional State Description

(the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)


1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.

2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.

3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?

4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.

5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?

6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?

7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?

8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?

9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?

10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern?

11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.

12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?

13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?

14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming.

15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.

16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?

17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
GENERAL SYMPTOMS
(Symptoms that don’t fit anywhere else, but are things that tend to affect all of you as a person, but are not emotions or thoughts)

1. Sleep - what position do you tend to sleep in?
- what position can you not sleep in?
- do you do anything unusual in your sleep?
- any problems with going to sleep, staying asleep, or waking up?

2. Appetite - What foods do you crave/desire strongly?
- What foods do you hate eating (have an aversion to)?
- What foods have a negative effect on you or cause symptoms?
- What foods have a positive effect on you or seem to improve your health or symptoms in some way?

- What is the effect of hunger or fasting on you?

3. Thirst - What drinks do you crave/desire strongly?
- What drinks do you hate to take (are averse to)?
- When are you most thirsty?
- When are you least thirsty?

4. Stool - Do you have any problems with your bowels or passing stool?
- What is the shape, color, odor of the stool?

5. Urine - Do you have any trouble passing or retaining urine?
- What is the color, odor of the urine?
- Do you have any sediment or debris in the urine?

6. Sweat - How do you feel about the amount of perspiration you have?
- Where do you have the most sweat?
- What is the odor?
- What color does it stain clothing?
- Does anything in particular cause you to sweat abnormally?

7. Sexuality - Any problems with your sexual desire?
- Any problems with your sexual ability or function?
- Any history of sexually transmitted diseases?

8. Menses (Women)
- How many days is your cycle?
- How many days does the flow go for?
- What is the appearance of the flow?
- What is the odor of the flow?
- What kind of stain does the flow leave?
- Any discharge before, during or after?
- Any pain before, during or after the flow?
- What symptoms come before the flow?
- What symptoms come after the flow?

9. Environment – How does the weather affect you?
- How does the temperature affect you?
- How does the season affect you?
- What physical activities affect you?
- Is there anything else in the environment you are sensitive to?
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
I am almost writing a book now Evocationer, is ther a way I can send you the details in private... Somethings are to senitive for publication...
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
half way my book, now it seems that it is probably a candida, considering that my 3 year old has the same symptoms.... Do I finish my book Evocationer ;)
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
The diagnosis makes no difference to us, it is the symptoms that point to the remedy and to the cure. My ability to help you relies entirely on the quality and quantity of information you give.

If there is something you don't wish to have seen in public, click on my profile and use the email address there to send it instead. However, all treatment and discussion is done on the forum here not by email.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Evocationer, here is my book. I tried to be as complete as possible, I hope you understand me because I did not know how to explain everything in English. Anyhow, I thank you very much willing to read all this, because it became lots of pages!

Any help from anyone is welcome!


HOW TO DESCRIBE YOUR COMPLAINTS (Physical Components)

In homoeopathy, prescription is based on precise details of various symptoms from which you suffer. To tell or write to a homoeopathic physician 'I have a headache ', ' an eruption ' or “a cough” would not be enough. If you inform him 'I have headache with sharp shooting pains in the left side of the head and temple, these pains always come on when the slightest cold air strikes the head. I feel better by pressing the head very hard.” Then only you have given all the information required for making a good homoeopathic prescription. The success of the prescription depends; largely on how detailed your description of the symptoms is.
We require the following details about your symptoms.

LOCATION: Please give the exact location of sensation, pain or eruption. Also describe where the pain or sensation spreads.
Pain started on the top of my tongue by a white bubble that created a sharp pain. After a while, more bubbles appeared and I became to have problems with eating, tasting and speaking. Than it got better to get worse 2 days later. The bubbles were less now, still some here and there, but now my tooth flesh and palate became feeling as if it was wounded. The pain is bearable in the morning and is horrible in the evening. Keeps on a while at night to dissapear after a few hours and than it starts all over again.

SENSATION: Express the type of sensation or the pain that you get in your own words however simple or funny it may seem. You may have a sensation that a mouse is crawling or the heart was grasped by an iron hand or you may have a pain that is cutting, burning jerking, pressing. Express the sensation or pain as it feels to you. Try to explain the whole sensation in the exact way it is happening and not just the word. We need to understand the whole process of the sensation as it is happening to you.
The sensation I would describe as sharp, irritating and overwelding my humour.

WHAT MAKES YOU WORSE OR BETTER:

Many factors are likely to influence your complaint. Some factors may intensify it and some factors may relieve the trouble. A detailed list of the factors is given at the end. Please refer it while describing each of your troubles and indicate which factors make the complaint better or worse.
Makes worse:
Eating breath in the morning
Fruit
Evenings
Making better:
Brushing teeth
Borax 30K (helping but not solving it seems)
Drinking water
Mornings (sleep/rest? )

DISCHARGES: You may have a discharge from nose, ears, mouth, eyes, ulcers, fistula, eruptions on skin, private parts, etc. Please describe your discharge in detail including colour, consistency, appearance, odour etc.
Started Calcarea Phosporica 30K 2 times a day , 5 granules, resulting (don’t know if it’s a result of…?) in eczema in both knees after taking it 2 days… Colour red, not really irritating or aching, it’s there but it’s bearable, still it is getting bigger…

1] Your Complaint:

(Use your own words as far as possible, but if you have recognized or diagnosed the condition, give this information also.) By answering as many of these questions as fully as possible, you are helping me to understand what your body and unconscious mind is conveying. This can help me find a remedy for you.)
• What is your complaint? Pain in the mouth in general
• When did the complaint begin? About 3 weeks ago
• Where is it located? Beginning Tongue, now tongue and palate (in between also tooth flesh, now better)
• What sort of sensations (and emotions) do you associate with it? I’m very tired emotionally and fysically.
When does it tend to occur (time/day) Increasing by noon, reaching top in the evening
• Does anything make it better or worse? See above
• How does it bother you? How is it coming in way of your day-to-day life? It disturbs me in functioning because it’s an overwelding irritating feeling in one of my senses
• How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s? Frustrating, when does it stop???
• What is the effect of this/these problem/s on you? I do not see an end coming, every day I think now it is getting bette rand than a few days later it starts all over again.
• Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
It started a while after a traumatic experience in my life, losing my father and almost losing my mother a few hours later due to an abdominal aneurysma. She survived by wonder but it were 3 unbelievable stressfull , unsure and sad weeks. I did not get to morn for my father, I feel confused, in one way I am happy because of the luck, my mom is alive, in the other way the reality of how life can change in a few hours is banging in my head and it seems that since my youngest was born in may 2013 we only have stressfull things following us. When one is solving, another appears and it seems not to stop. It is really frightening me. A bit before this happened we got problems in the dog school we lead. We were less active a few years because of our young children, and in that time members have been started fighting for power. We were not willing to choose party for one or another, so first they made that one person had to leave, but when hearing we were still having contact, they wanted us , the constitutors, also out. This was not successfull so the leader of the revolution also went away. Some of the members which are still with us that were hating the first person leaving (under who my own sister) still give us hard times by blocking us and acting childish. This is really something killing me because my basic attitude is being friends with everyone. Tried to contact the leading lady but she refuses any communication, but we still constantly meet her on dog events and than she acts very angry and she is running away. And to be honest, this situation is even worse for me mentally than the situation with my mum…. And seen my own sister is involved and the wonderfull relationship we had is far away… Yes, this situation is killing me… And then, last but not least, a friend of mine who is nearly family (and with who I had a sexual relationship about 5 years ago) came to tell me that his feelings were still the same and I am not insensible and afraid that this will kill my stable family life but it is really hard to resist and hurt him neither…
• What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint.
Before I was having breathing problems, caused to astma or hyperventilation or just wrong breathing. I also had often pain in my belly, low, as if my uterus was the problem. Normal gynaecological tests did not show uterus problem. This all stopped immeately when the drama happened, strange…
• What are your reactions with it?
Fear, Anger, Stress, questions why, would have loved my dad to see my children grow up, would have loved my mom to be able to nurse my kids as before… Happy that I not had to tell my kids that both of there grandparents became stars in heaven… Situation in the club, wanting everybody to act normal, noses in the same direction and not having control on it, depressing. Love affair… this is going so wronggggggggggggg!

Mental and Emotional State Description

(the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)


1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.
See also above
Most, fact that I am not able to keep all human contacts in peace and that people are blocking all communication, creating that I am not able to solve the problem.

Second, love affair, willing to please both, afraid to loose or hurt one, both mean so much to me…
Third, My mum, will she be completely ok? And will this impact the rest of her live?

2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
Fear! Fact that we have had no peace and rest since 2 years make me that I am afraid of what is coming, the future. My resistance is not good, if someone sick is in my neighbourhood, I will get sick, no doubt!
Incapacity to controll situations if others refuse to communicate and lie to get there will.

3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
Two miscarriages , I felt broke down but acted to the world as if nothing happened. Deep inside it was killing me, before I was in total control, weight, sports, diseases… Afterwards backpain made sporting stopped, eating habbits got bad again like years before, astma, allergies, impatience, bad sleep, anger, negative views, … all came back in the years passing.

4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
Most important fear, even since I was born, is losing people! To death in the first way, but also just because of disputes. When I was a 3 year old, I was not able to sleep before the last family member entered the house… I stayed awake till I knew everyone was sound and safe… I hate graveyards, it are my worst nightmares. When someone dies , I try not tot hink about it, not to talk about it, I do not invite near people to the funeral, I ask them to leave me alone and I continue my life… Still , when I see material things that bring out memories, I crash..



5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
Jogging was one, trying to restart but stopped because of back problems. Dogs was one but I do not have time anymore what is frustrating me. I’m always teaching other (unthankfull) people in disadvantage of my own dogs, also frustrating… I like jogging because it is emptying my mind. I like dogs because there unconditioned love and will to please.
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they? Accepting that I am not able to keep everyone with me…

7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
Not consequently but sometimes my breath stocks, a bit like hiccups of a little child that has been crying, even when not crying…

8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
My mind starts thinking from bad to worse of all bad things that could happen… Fysically I do not feel anything specific

9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like? When I was thirthy I was very sick, allergie, colds, astma… I was getting antibiotics, cortisone , nothing helped so someone told me about homeopathy. The doctor told me to stop eating sugar and milk, I tried it and in about a year thanks tot his and thanks to reihi I changed in a complete new person. I lost kilo’s, I became active, happy and more or less controlled and stressless, positive thinking, motivating others to change eating and change living… Unfortunately I am not able anymore to leave milk and sugar and I do not find the time for Reikhi… The complete opposite is were I am in now…

10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? I want to become again like in point 9, as a matter of fact, I know what to do, still not succeeding because of time matters and missing character to change again…

11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
Family, ok but my sister , our relationship is far from what it was but we are trying to keep it secret for my mum.
Romantic, it might be unbelievable but I throughly feel love for my husband and the friend who declared to be in love with me, still thinking that maybe it is more a search for adventure towards the friend, also to escape from all misery happened last months… Feeling confused, not knowing how to get out of this… With my friend I have a company… He is godfather of one of my children, he is often our babysit , big help in any situation, but now he is a thread for my stability…

12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
positive
Consisting (if I want something done, it has to happen immediately and I will do my part but expect the same from others, it is not always taken positively)
Willing to please (want to be in a good relation towards everyone, hating to hurt and to be hurt)
Focused (when I am doing something, I do not see or hear what is happening, this also gives frustration when I do not remember that people told me something)
Honest (in one way , I can’t keep a secret, You can read it from my face and body language, so know with the love afair, feeling that I am loosing honesty,that I have a secret, is also something I don’t know how to cope with)
Modesty (I have problems finding 5 positive things, negative about this is that I have a very low self esteem and that that is a pitty)
Negative
Impatient ( stressing untill things are solved)
Choleric (but once I said it , I am not repeating it or carrying it with me for future)
Upfront ( I say what I think, sometimes without thinking how others will take it, because I love it best when said the way people see it)
Overprotecting (related towards my fear to loose people)
Sensible ( when people feel negative about me it really hurts)





13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?

14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. I can’t remember my dreams…

15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them. As a child I visited with school the graveyard. Afterwards every night I dreamed about a certain person , I saw his picture in my dreams on the amulet … it was said he was an italian soldier who was barried on the local graveyard, it was said he was my guardian angel but he looked very frightening to me it was a real nightmare… I felt scared to death in those times and still I have bad feelings with graveyards, bodies and funerals…

16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems? The same as now, see positive/negative.. I refused to sleep at night, I was bullied at school because of my willing to please and sadness if I did something creating negativity around me. The fact students were teasing me made me pray everyday to make it stop. I still pray everyday. It stopped when going to secundary school.

17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school? Good environment, but mum also trying to avoid problems and for that reason she did not believe me when I told her my brother in law was making sexual activities with me being 10 year old. She said I was trying to get disputes in the family and choose for him what hurted me very much. This fact had an incredible impact on my sexual life. After a few years with my partner I became to hate seks, making me vomit afterwards when trying to have seks with my body while my mind was not willing to. Last months this is better, the only positive change ;)

re: bms or ...? From Evocationer [Log on to view profile] on 2014-07-23
GENERAL SYMPTOMS
(Symptoms that don’t fit anywhere else, but are things that tend to affect all of you as a person, but are not emotions or thoughts)

1. Sleep - what position do you tend to sleep in?
- what position can you not sleep in? On my belly to get sleep, on my left site waking up
- do you do anything unusual in your sleep? I crawl around and have stranges poses, like arms in the air sometimes
- any problems with going to sleep, staying asleep, or waking up? Waking up a lot, needing to go to the toilet, also problems with incontinence when sneezing or jumping. Last weeks difficulties to fall asleep.

2. Appetite - What foods do you crave/desire strongly? Hot and spicy, sweet
- What foods do you hate eating (have an aversion to)? I eat it because it is normal but I do not like bread or red meat.
- What foods have a negative effect on you or cause symptoms? Milk and sugar
- What foods have a positive effect on you or seem to improve your health or symptoms in some way? vegetables

- What is the effect of hunger or fasting on you? I have to watch out not getting obsessed. Being 13 years old (period also of problems with my brother in law) I went on a diet, losing lots of weight, ending by first eating, then vomiting… I do not succeed in dieting very well last years. I do it for half a day, then throwing myself in to cookies.

3. Thirst - What drinks do you crave/desire strongly? water
- What drinks do you hate to take (are averse to)? alcohol
- When are you most thirsty? To less thirsty, drink not enough, to busy to think about drinking
- When are you least thirsty? In the morning

4. Stool - Do you have any problems with your bowels or passing stool?
- What is the shape, color, odor of the stool?
In youth I had problems (time bullying at school) sometimes to hard that I lost blood, sometimes diarhea. Now mostly to hard, sometimes in stress or close to my period to soften and smelly. They mostly are not sinking in to the water;

5. Urine - Do you have any trouble passing or retaining urine?
Yes, retaining is a problem, some muscles suffered from 2 pregnancies, still I think it is a weekness of me unlike the pregnancies.
- What is the color, odor of the urine? Yellow and like the fluid with “zwan” saucages
(I do not know what it is in English, sorry for my language, I do my best, English is not my mother tongue)
- Do you have any sediment or debris in the urine? Sometimes it seems like there is candle fat in it…

6. Sweat - How do you feel about the amount of perspiration you have? I always feel sweat under my arms, smelly, don’t like it, bit ashamed about it
- Where do you have the most sweat? Under arms
- What is the odor? Heavy sweat
- What color does it stain clothing? Light yellow I think
- Does anything in particular cause you to sweat abnormally? I sweat more at night since the drama

7. Sexuality - Any problems with your sexual desire? Now it seems better but I can have months no envy and then at a sudden I have envy every moment… strange…
- Any problems with your sexual ability or function? In the bad periods it is painfull because I can’t get enough body fluid from my self
- Any history of sexually transmitted diseases? no

8. Menses (Women)
- How many days is your cycle? 28
- How many days does the flow go for? 5
- What is the appearance of the flow? Since my last pregnancy heavy from the start, before it started slowly to increase towards the end
- What is the odor of the flow? Not nice, mouldy?
- What kind of stain does the flow leave?
- Any discharge before, during or after? Normally not, but since last pregnancy I feel pain below about a week before
- Any pain before, during or after the flow? Yes in the beginning an aching pain
- What symptoms come before the flow? diarrea
- What symptoms come after the flow? None

Just for your information, my first pregnancy (a girl) I had constantly vaginal problems, it was always so dry that the itch was inbearable. Baby girl very healthy constitution
My last pregnancy (a boy) I suffered constantly from all “regular disseases” you can imagine, and as a result I had a reflux baby being sick almost constantly.

9. Environment – How does the weather affect you?
- How does the temperature affect you? I hate hot weather but I prefer to stay inside when it is freezing too
- How does the season affect you? Autumn and winter make me feel sad
- What physical activities affect you? Cold give me the feeling of not being safe. Heat makes me feel uncomftable
- Is there anything else in the environment you are sensitive to? I love water (my daughter hates it). The place I can loose stress is my bath tub…
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
in addition, now the mouth is much better, but legs full of eczema, arms starting with eczema, help Evocationer?
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
ok, and my back apparantly too... the bad things are certainly finding its way out ;)
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
oeps this is really getting worse, looking like the hulk, hope, my skin feels thick and not flexible, red, painfull , itching, and it is spreading more and more. Anything I can already do against the itching? Evocationer, somebody else?
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
I am sorry, I often do not get an opportunity to get online or to work on cases over a weekend (full clinic Saturday and Sunday is usually a family day for me).

I will look at this today and make a suggestion for you.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Have you stopped the Calc-phos?
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Ok I have spent some time looking over the case. I think the first remedy to consider is Nat-mur. That choice of remedy is supported by the following rubrics:

Ailments from death of children
Ailments from death of parents
Sleeplessness from grief
Ailments from discords
Fear of contagious disease
Anxiety of conscience
Ailments from being deceived
Grief, silent
Fear of graveyards
Emotions suppressed

Sleep interrupted with desire to urinate
Mouth, tongue, burning
Urination, involuntary, from sneezing
Stool hard
Contradictory and alternating states
Both heat and cold aggravates

If I look at the whole state - a person who is very sensitive to all the people and relationships around them, who is sensitive to being hurt; a person who suffers greatly from grief but holds that pain inside and does not show it - I think straight away of Nat-mur.

I would like you to obtain Nat-mur 1M, preferably in liquid form if you can.

If you have pillules or pellets instead, you will need a small bottle and a dropper. Mix water and alcohol into this small bottle to the ratio of 5:1. Dissolve 3 pillules/pellets into this bottle. All doses will be made from this bottle.

1. Hit the bottle 5 times firmly against the palm of the hand

2. Place 3 drops into 100mls of clean fresh water

3. Stir very thoroughly

4. Take 2 teaspoons out into the mouth and hold for 20 seconds, then swallow.

This is one dose and the same steps should be taken for any further doses, unless I ask you to change them in some way.

I want you to take one dose only for the time being.

Make sure you do not take any other homoeopathic medicines.
[message edited by Evocationer on Mon, 28 Jul 2014 05:43:44 BST]
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
no problem, it is evident you are not following this every day!

Still using calc phos 30K, at first 1 a day 2 granules, because of the tongue problem it was increased to 2 a day 5 granules. Thinking about contact eczema but not sure... Was wearing a dress that was not washed yet....

my homeopathic doctor is on holiday untill 10 August, can go to another now but he does not know my back ground so not sure what he will tell, I keep you aware
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
question from belgian pharmacist,

is it Nat Mur 1MK

http://www.newpharma.be/apotheek/search-results/geneesmiddel....

?

prescription visit now arsenicum album 200K

last but not least many thank you for willing to help me it is much appreciated and the profile matcges me 100%
[message edited by tantchristel on Mon, 28 Jul 2014 16:11:47 BST]
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
I find it strange that a pharmacist needs to ask that. 1M is the same as 1MK (K just stands for the method it is made, nothing to do with the potency - it is Dr. Kent's method of potentizing).

You MUST stop the Calc-phos. You are harming yourself with it, and if you are not careful it is possible to create a new disease which could be difficult to cure. It is almost certainly causing the eczema, or at least has triggered it into worsening the way it is.

I am not sure what you mean by 'prescription visit now arsenicum album 200K'. Is someone else prescribing for you?

You can only take one medicine at once. Taking multiple remedies is one of the main ways patients make themselves incurable. Once a patient begins to create the kind of chaos and confusion multiple remedies creates, it can be extremely difficult to bring them back to a point of order and clarity again.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
I stop Calc Phos immediately!

My doctor is on holiday, went to his replacer with the eczema because it got worse and worse in the morning, he prescribed the arsenicum 200K

to take in one doses, as I did

it has stopped increasing now, skin became now painfull but less inflexible

feeling it is a bit better

what to do know? arsenicum was just once

how long to wait before I can start Nat Mur?

I did not know about the chance of incurability... now I am really scared... My doctor often prescribes more products....

Do I have to worry, hope it is not too late....
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
It's alright it was just a warning, I am not saying anything like that has happened. People are often under the impression that our medicines are harmless, and they are not. As long as they are used carefully, and according to our principles, homoeopathic medicines are the safest medicines in the world.

As you have now taken Arsenicum (which by the way did ALSO feature prominently in my analysis)you will need to wait a week or so to see the results. Let me know what happens.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Today it is much better, it is not gone, but it is not exceeding and it is less stiff. I also have used mother milk which I had in my freezer to cold it down and I had the feeling this had a nice effect too... Also feeling more happy and confident in life today... Long way to go but feeling better, keep you aware, and so thankfull towards you, I pray for you, you are a wonderfull person!
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
almost one week taking Arsenicum ( Monday) , short update

Eczema first days went better, mouth got worse again.

Then, mouth got better, eczema in knees went better but at a sudden a new skin allergy appeared, this one was not the same as the eczema.

my complete legs went red, as if they were burned by the sun, here and there some withe spots in between, but mostly red, not bubbles like eczema but also not an egal skin. This was painfull, like as if I burned my self , itching, but not in the way of the eczema.... This has started 3 days ago, is still present but less red. Is still itching but bearable but at the back of my foot (achilles lendon?) it is really itching and more painfull and it seems I am retending water there, I do not see my ankles as sharp as I normally do... Any advice? If it is not better by tomorow I suppose I best visit the homeopate replacint my doctor on holiday again for check up?
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
addition, maybe coincidence but need to tell everything I understand, just brook a minuscule piece of my tooth without any fysical trigger... and it's more my left ankle that is retaining liquid
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
We can do an assessment on 7 days, just as if I had given you the remedy, to see what kind of progress has been made.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
this means I can start up the nat mur as above now and we see what has happened in 7 days or wait another 7 days before start nat mur?
Thanks a lot, once again!!!!
 
tantchristel 9 years ago
No we need to do an assessment of the Arsenicum first, to see if you should stay with it or if it is appropriate to change remedies (to Nat-mur most likely).

Go through each symptom you gave me, starting with the physical ones, and including all the emotional or mental ones. Next to each one put Better, Worse or Same. If better or worse also write a percentage % to represent how much.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Symptoms:

tongue: better, symptoms have changed from pain (white bulbs on tongue) towards the point of the tongue (about 1 cm²) being red, raw, no pain but feeling less and taste less, feeling 'rude', in the morning feeling 90% better, during day it gets a bit worse, towards evening 80% better

mouth, palate, still feeling that the surface is not 'equal' yet, still feeling bit wounded, but better, in the morning about 90%, in the evening about 80%.

first eczema, bubbles, thick skin, knees, better, not thick any more, bulbs are almost disssapeared and skin is dry and flaky, better about 90%, bit itchy still but negligible
this one was more on the right leg

second eczema, looking like burning wounds, red skin with here and there a white spot, allover my legs, most present on the left leg. appeared after arsenicum 200K, better, not as red as in the beginning, but still present. still itchy, most itchy at night when the morning is coming. Skin bit painfull when pushing on it, think because of retaining water. Most water retaining in ankles and feet, left still thick a bit in the morning but better than in the evening. Right, more or less normal in the morning, bit of water in the ankle in the evening. Comparing to when it started, better about 70%.

Most ennoying symptom, started allready before arsenicum and not getting better, I can not find sleep in the evening, when I fall a sleep I wake up very soon and the whole process of finding sleep starts again. A voice in my mind is trying to say that it is ok I can not sleep, trying to rest is fine too, but still it goes through my mind that I need to rest to get better... the thing that is keeping me awake is that I do think I am getting close to a burnout, and that this is causing all those physical issues. And to get this better I need to rest, but I can' t find sleep, and the circle is round... I tried now some music in the bedroom, but it did not solve the problem, want to take something, maybe natural to sleep,but not doing it because I suppose this is not helping me??? I believe the lack of sleep is my biggest problem by now. Trying to introduce some relaxing moments during day. Same I think, but feeling as if it is 'worse' because it's for too long now since I have had a good night rest.

Fears: new fears that came up, fear of burn out, fear of being incompetent to act if this continues, fear of what is coming next, fear of the fact I might need to see a psycholog... fear that what is happening to me might cause (not allowed to use the word it seems), but an overgrowth of cells causing deadly dissease- on a longer term... I think the fears might have become also worse because of the fact it is not all over yet and again it is too long.

Breathing, need to concentrate on it to do it properly sometimes, maybe a bit worse because of more worrying about when this will stop.

Energy level, a bit better, more envy to play with the kids. Started to run (which I loved about 10 years ago),and above my expectations it is going well. But it seems that everytime after running my eczema gets temporary a bit worse and I am not willing to stop this because I have the feeling this will help me on a long term to feel better emotionally and physically.
Better about 50%

Food, started to eat healthier, avoiding especially suger, doing well, believe that this will help me also on all aspects. Do not know exactly what I still should eat because reading on the internet says that some healthy food according to me contains lots of histamins which I should avoid, but does not feel right to me to avoid them so untill now I did not (eg tomatoes)

Communicating towards the world that I am almost over the top and that I need space and rest, got more open on it to cry for help, better this means, but still when people are putting pressure on me to get things done, I quickly feel like 'stop' , I say so, but I do feel overwelded and frustrated at that time.

Blocking thoughts, when people tell me I should be aware being close to burn out, my thoughts block, I do not want to consider this is happening to me. I do not know if it is or if it is not but when I want to start to consider if yes or now, my system blocks, I am not able to think about it if I am or am not strong enough to survive this myself.

Today I start working again after holidays, in someway I think I will feel better because work is more structure than nursering my little kids and mom, but not 100% sure so it makes me uncertain what the near future will bring. Happy that the fact I start to work again is not creating a feeling of non comfort, I feel like starting to work again, but also afraid that it might be a running away from reality into work and in that case it is not a solution. And also scared that the lack of sleep will make it hard to work.

But it is not the first time in my life that lack of sleep almost got me down. In those times I started reikhi and it changed a lot, I did now too and I believe this will make a difference.

Adding to the sleep problem, in the morning, by the time I should get up, I am able to sleep and I sleep hours before noon if I have the possibility. This was possible when holidays because my husband was watching the kids, now this will change clearly.

Love afair, trying to put that aside, knowing that if I go in this , it will create complete chaos in my live so trying to block my feelings but also feeling disturbed hurting a very good friend and in some how also giving positive signals sometimes what I should not do, not good for me neither for my friend, but when he is down because of me not reacting, it is stronger than myself and I start to give some affection which I do feel , but which my mind said is so stupid and dangerous, maybe I should see a psycholog on this one, but blocking on the idea I should have to talk about this to someone, not willing to loose my best friend. yesterday decided with my friend to start with a total distance , as we also did about 5 years ago, on love aspect, still seeing eachother on a friendly base and business, but not letting through any feeling untill october and than evaluate, but deep in my heart I think this issue is not over but hoping it is giving me some space.
Situation now same as before.


Issue with the lady refusing to communicate , better. Saw her yesterday and I did not freeze or searched for a spot to hide. Able to see that I can not solve this as She is the one not willing to solve it and to let it loose. A bit the feeling that the environment is a bit less in revolution on this point, but also knowing that the 'peace' in the group is still not present. Still no envy to have ambition to go for the group again for 100% but better about 30%

Worst issue in my mind: sleeping problem, physical symptoms, burn out

Bit confident that sports, food change and reikhi will help me but still not enough results to believe in it as I should.

Sleeping would be my biggest need to be honoust, the nights are long even trying not to get frustrated on it and to tell me that resting even if awake will keep me going.
 
tantchristel 9 years ago

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