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Please someone help me
I am having a mental problem but dont know what it is i am giving a brief history about my self please figure it and help me out as iam very hopeless and wanted to live my life as a normal person.I was born in a well off family as i grew up little i was very shy and and everyone just ignore that maybe i was a child. I was a first male child in my whole family so they pampered me alot and maybe i thought i was someone special. then i started going school i was allright had friends was a active child. Now making it short now im 27 years of age and recently came back from australia after living there for 5 years and my father payed for that.
I HAVE VERY limited friends and iam even ignoring the people who love who stands for me like my parents my sisters their childrens. Like i dont understand my self i think iam someone speial from everyone and what iam saying is right and everyone has to listen to me and on the other hand iam very generous aswell like helping people. Didnt came out of my past always thinking about the past and the future and neglecting the present. Always thinking of people what they will think of me etc. Cant make relationships and the one which i make they are for lifetime like they adore me. i JUST WANT TO please everyone. I just say yes to everything even if its not beneficial for me. like cant say no. now as i came back from overseas its time to get married and settle down in life but i dont want to i want to be the same as im right now. i dont learn from the mistakes i made i keep on repeating them. I think iam the only right person. My father loves me and i dont talk to him i cant express my love for him. i dont feel any pleasure in my daily life. i take everything for granted. i dont know whether its low self esteem or what i can even talk to people when i feel like maybe in a big gatherings but other time i cant. i have a erratic nature. Like right now iam saying something and after few minutes my mind will be changed. very impatient if want to do the thing i just want it to be done at once. Thinking of my past very much. There are few people infront of them i can open up fully and almost all other iam really very reserved. Dont care about the expenses just waste money without any cause and even i do know that iam doing wrong but still iam doing it. Dont like company of good people and enjoys in a bad company. dont get pleasure in doing the things which i used to get before. Ignoring my friends family cousins. They call me to attend gatherings and i make up stories. Think everyone is false and have double face and i donot meet them. people who love me i take them for granted. I dont have any issue of a job everything is allright by grace of God but iam not satisfied fromm my self. Sometimes i get afraid of getting alone and on other hand i do not want to be in gatherings. Cant really understand my self. Gets really possessive about people thinking what they are doing without me when iam with them and then on the other hand when iam far away have no concern for them. as if i dont know them. meeting a person and then next time when i meet i will not even recognise him. Sir there are alot other things but i guess you will figure out by this and if you need any further information iam happy to give please help me out its ruining my current relationships and a barrier to new one. I REAlly want to live a normal happy life.
msaad on 2015-12-27
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I can consider your case but you need to give many answers, copy the questions list in notepad,
write answers in same way with questions and then paste in post reply, NO SHORT answers explain MAXIMUM you can.
1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
ANS.
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS.
3. History of diseases in family.
ANS.
4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
ANS.
b)Academic performance.
ANS.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS.
5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
ANS.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS.
9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS.
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS.
11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.
12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.
13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS.
14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
ANS.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS.
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS.
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
q)Are you destructive.
ANS.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS.
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS.
16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by visiting homeomzp.blogspot.com
ANS.
17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS.
NOTE-- if proper reporting will not be done by you, then i will close the case, you can take advice from others.
Regards,
antivirus
write answers in same way with questions and then paste in post reply, NO SHORT answers explain MAXIMUM you can.
1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
ANS.
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS.
3. History of diseases in family.
ANS.
4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
ANS.
b)Academic performance.
ANS.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS.
5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
ANS.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS.
9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS.
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS.
11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.
12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.
13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS.
14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
ANS.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS.
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS.
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
q)Are you destructive.
ANS.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS.
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS.
16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by visiting homeomzp.blogspot.com
ANS.
17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS.
NOTE-- if proper reporting will not be done by you, then i will close the case, you can take advice from others.
Regards,
antivirus
♡ 0antivirus0 8 years ago
sameed 8 years ago
Thanks alot for taking time and wanting to help i have answer all the questions to my maximum if you think anything is not right you can tell me thanks.
1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
Answer: 27,male, 84,pakistan,Former student
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
Answer: The main complaint is about the relationships that i cant maintain them. I live in my own world have no concern with anyone. I dont really get along with my family like i have parents who are really very supportive
and want to help me in everything which i couldnt understand or realise. I think iam the only person out there. Its all about me. The friendships which i already have
cant really maintain with that and its impossible to start for the new one. I am not amused with the things like as if they aree of no importance in my eyes everything is ordinary
Like to waste the money and i do know that i dont have too much money but still dont care.Think about the people what they think and what are they doing rather than keep on focusing on myself. Try to hide away from the people like dont want to
make any plans and if invited try to avoid those and after that dont like to be a loner aswell. These all things get a bad effect on my mind and behaviour. Its not letting me live a normal life.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
Answer: I feel like i will be left alone and will be a loner. i will not have friends and my life will be misreable. It affects my mind, body and soul and have very bad and negative effect on myself.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
Answer: According to me this by anxiety, depression and my nature aswell. Its not constant i changes up my mind very quickly like i am not firm in anything whether its friends, family or money. I dont really stick to anything there are thousands things
running on my mind and i just change quickly. people really cant judge like whats up in my mind. i think money is the only important thing in life and on other hand i do know that you can buy things from it but not the happiness and satisfaction.
Sometimes cant really stand the success of others think why not me. Suspicious nature aswell and persumes that i only everything maybe its false.tries to be bold and straight forward person all the time but with not everyone.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
Answer: It is better when i am doing something means occupied by anything whether its work, playing or in a company of friends.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
Answer: Always something is going on my mind but it increased when iam alone or infront of my mother. I complain about alot of unneccessary things.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
Answer: Besides the mind , behaviour and thinking theres sometimes constipation problem as i develop pilesseveral times due to unhealthy eating or by not maintaing a balance lifestyle.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on
Answer: It started all with shyness and everyone thought maybe hes small that why hes like that but he will be allright in future. Before it was just shyness and after that
all the negative things came into my mind. Like i became reserved and not like to go in family gatherings. started smoking marijuana have illegal sex and wasted money and
made a perception of everyone that they are not right and iam the only person who is right and bold according to my mind.started avoiding people and stick with only those
who thinks similar or do the samething as i do. Got cut off from society like i have no concern with anyone even the family who are doing everything for me. Now thinks
now only reason to live is to earn large amount of money thats it.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
Answer: My parents they took me to psychitrist like two sittings and nothing changed it was the samething. and i thought that my parents think i am mad or pscho person thats why
they are taking me to psychitrist.
3. History of diseases in family.
Answer: Father has a heart problem and blood pressure and my mother she suffers from anxiety and depression and hepatitus b.
4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
Answer: Childhood was allright as i was the first male child in my whole family father side they were so happy about that. Was pampered and they try to full fill what i desire
Was a shy person just infront of my family and other family and was opposite to it with friends and cousins open up fully was humrous aswell. Just did not talk properly with the family.
participated in sports and activities.
b)Academic performance.
Answer: The academic performance was normal was not a topper but in the same way not a failer aswell.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
Answer: in 6th grade when my parents sent me to a boarding school i thought maybe they dont love me and want to sepearte me from them selves which i only lived there for a
1 month but when i came back it got so much effect on my life.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
Answer: Not married but still engage in sex with prostitutes sometimes. not at all satisfied with my relation with my family and friends and i dont have a good company.
Like i dont like to be around my family my mother my father and brother they all love me unconditionally but i take it for granted. dont care about them. I dont have large
people as friends but still which i got really dont want to spend time with them aswell. try to avoid situations where they plan something for a get together or anything.
Even on other side dont want to be alone aswell. Overall not satisfied with anyone not my self
5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
Answer: Smoker and alcohol once in a blue moon like when iam depressed or when iam excited.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
Answer: Before i used to every other day but now not frequently maybe once in a week.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
Answer:Appetite is allright but not healthy food just the junk food. i do get thirsty but mainly drink coke energy drinks and water consumption is every low. Now days only having one time meal.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
Answer: Likes:
Salty food
sour food
chicken
Meat
bread
warm food
egg
cold drinks
energy drinks
on other hand i dont dislike but i rarely consume them fruits vegetables water mud chalk milk and sweet.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
Answer: Dont dislike but thinks i have no concern with anything except mine.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
Answer: sometimes hard lump sometimes soft depends on what i eat but overall not satisfied with it.
Sometimes black stool and sometimes dark brown. sometimes like a liquid.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
Answer: Yes sometimes its very hard to pass stool and i develop piles many times because i cant stick to a balanced diet.
9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
Ans: 2 or three times a day its in light yellow color or sometimes dark and volume is normal.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
Answer: Not really.
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
Ans: i am not married but still sometimes i engage in sex and smoke marijuana to increase the pleasure and time of my erection. i ejaculate early and now i have a weak erection.
Sometimes use delaying spray for long erection.
b) Anyother trouble in sex.
Weak and early erection and dont want to do it second time in a row in any condition dont really feel like.
12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
Ans: it depends when i have something next day i sleep in normal way but now days i dont sleep all night and then next day sleep all day and wake up in evening just to meet
a friend. I cover my body with a blanket. There were some people who slept with me and told that i talk during sleep and its always as if iam fighting with someone. sometimes sleep on my stomach and sometimes differently.
now i rarely get dreams and when i does its maybe whats in my mind in the day i get those dreams.
13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
Answer: In summer i get too much of sweat my under arms back and on forhead even in ass and odour is normal not that smelly. and in winter i hardly sweat.
14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
Ans: tolerance to heat and cold is both normal. sometimes gets really very hot in sumemrs and when its raining dont really like it. and like summer weather.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
My quality of relationship is zero with family and friends. I dont want to talk or spend time with my parents without any reason. relation with friends are normal firstly dont have many but which i have with them its normal.
Overall when i want to meet them i do and when they want i make excuses that iam busy here or there in reality iam not.i DO HAVE Energy to fuction but iam not happy with the things.
i am just passing it for the sake of passing.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
Ans: When i went to a hostel and other is i always used to think i will losse my parents and deep inside was really very worried could not even express my feelings infront of them. but still worried when they use to go somewhere
i used not to sleep till they came back always thinking that they may had a accident or someother problem. And i do have a identity crisis i could not even think till now what i want from life
i do have many things running on my mind but could not stick to one thing. i used to control my fellow students and want them to praise me and if by anything they dont i used to think im not worthy anymore.
Exteremly sesitive person from inside but tries to be hard from outside. want to lead and want everyone to follow. recently started a business in australia and due to some reason we cant handle it due to cash and had used my
credit cards and for that reason had to came back to pakistan without completing my studies.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
Ans: have a sharp memory but only concentrate on things which i have interest in otherwise take everthing for granted.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
iam fearful of getting alone and i fear about disease and darkness. sometimes fearfull of some people i think they will be more successful then me and iam will be like
that always like nothing.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS
Ans: Iam anxious about everything like my relation about money. how i will live my life how i will cope up with life.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS
Ans: I am very impatient about everything if i want something i want to get it now if i want to do something i want to do it right now. without checking on the consequences. really quick everything.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS
Ans: Yes iam doubtful and suspicious of somethings i feel someone trying to do me a harm or damage and i persume about that with my own thinking as if they are cheating me.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
I am hurt very easily and i do react very strongly on that and say it clearly and it has a hatred and revenge inside me that next time wil do the same thing to you.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
Ans yes it does very quickly even on small things which are not to be worried of.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
Yes iam depressed when someone is doing something i think they maybe doing better than me and i will be left alone. if someone is going out and i have done alot for them it does
i think they are ignoring or avoiding me and they are not doing right.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
Ans Not realy but i do with the people who cannot do anything about them and i dont share the problems with my family and the people who love and can solve or assist me in overcoming the problems.
l)Effect of consolation.
ans: sometimes iam allright with it on the other hand i think its all drama nthings gonna change.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS
ans: Not really never tried about it.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS
my memory quality is poor of what i read
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
Yes i do and it makes me feel better for sometimes and then same story.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
Ans: Yes i get irritated easily if someone tries to pull my leg or making fun of me or anything like disturbing it makes me angry and with the people who iam frank i get really furious emotional and sometimes abuses and with family i get rude.
q)Are you destructive.
ans: not really
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ans: i had difficulty in making decisions.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
Ans sometimes like to be in a company and sometimes to be alone and even sometimes dont like a company and but depressed iam alone.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
Ans Not really affected.
u)How does failure appear to you?
Ans sometimes i take it supportingly and sometimes as if it hurts my ego and pride.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
The way my life is at th moment i really dislike it. People who show off or wrong.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS
I like sports very much like playing cricket snooker and they fresh me up. Or anyother activity where iam busy.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS
Ans very affectionate and when i see someone suffering i really feel bad and tries to help them if i can and even if i cant i want to do something for them.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
Ans: that no one like me and i will left alone and live a miserable life.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS
Ans: Just want to settle down and life a quality life and people knows me in good name and get to know alot people and future want to become a politician from my city and serve them.
16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by
Tongue color: Slight teethmarks
Tongue taste: Stale, mustard like taste and dry in morning
Face: Brownish black dark color around eyes, excessive wrinkles at eyes end
excessive perspiration on face puffy cheeks and large poures around nose.
17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS.
Ans: Pakistan, Lahore, 1:30 pm , 16,12,1988
In the end please help me out want to live a normal life thanks in advance.
1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
Answer: 27,male, 84,pakistan,Former student
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
Answer: The main complaint is about the relationships that i cant maintain them. I live in my own world have no concern with anyone. I dont really get along with my family like i have parents who are really very supportive
and want to help me in everything which i couldnt understand or realise. I think iam the only person out there. Its all about me. The friendships which i already have
cant really maintain with that and its impossible to start for the new one. I am not amused with the things like as if they aree of no importance in my eyes everything is ordinary
Like to waste the money and i do know that i dont have too much money but still dont care.Think about the people what they think and what are they doing rather than keep on focusing on myself. Try to hide away from the people like dont want to
make any plans and if invited try to avoid those and after that dont like to be a loner aswell. These all things get a bad effect on my mind and behaviour. Its not letting me live a normal life.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
Answer: I feel like i will be left alone and will be a loner. i will not have friends and my life will be misreable. It affects my mind, body and soul and have very bad and negative effect on myself.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
Answer: According to me this by anxiety, depression and my nature aswell. Its not constant i changes up my mind very quickly like i am not firm in anything whether its friends, family or money. I dont really stick to anything there are thousands things
running on my mind and i just change quickly. people really cant judge like whats up in my mind. i think money is the only important thing in life and on other hand i do know that you can buy things from it but not the happiness and satisfaction.
Sometimes cant really stand the success of others think why not me. Suspicious nature aswell and persumes that i only everything maybe its false.tries to be bold and straight forward person all the time but with not everyone.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
Answer: It is better when i am doing something means occupied by anything whether its work, playing or in a company of friends.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
Answer: Always something is going on my mind but it increased when iam alone or infront of my mother. I complain about alot of unneccessary things.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
Answer: Besides the mind , behaviour and thinking theres sometimes constipation problem as i develop pilesseveral times due to unhealthy eating or by not maintaing a balance lifestyle.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on
Answer: It started all with shyness and everyone thought maybe hes small that why hes like that but he will be allright in future. Before it was just shyness and after that
all the negative things came into my mind. Like i became reserved and not like to go in family gatherings. started smoking marijuana have illegal sex and wasted money and
made a perception of everyone that they are not right and iam the only person who is right and bold according to my mind.started avoiding people and stick with only those
who thinks similar or do the samething as i do. Got cut off from society like i have no concern with anyone even the family who are doing everything for me. Now thinks
now only reason to live is to earn large amount of money thats it.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
Answer: My parents they took me to psychitrist like two sittings and nothing changed it was the samething. and i thought that my parents think i am mad or pscho person thats why
they are taking me to psychitrist.
3. History of diseases in family.
Answer: Father has a heart problem and blood pressure and my mother she suffers from anxiety and depression and hepatitus b.
4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
Answer: Childhood was allright as i was the first male child in my whole family father side they were so happy about that. Was pampered and they try to full fill what i desire
Was a shy person just infront of my family and other family and was opposite to it with friends and cousins open up fully was humrous aswell. Just did not talk properly with the family.
participated in sports and activities.
b)Academic performance.
Answer: The academic performance was normal was not a topper but in the same way not a failer aswell.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
Answer: in 6th grade when my parents sent me to a boarding school i thought maybe they dont love me and want to sepearte me from them selves which i only lived there for a
1 month but when i came back it got so much effect on my life.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
Answer: Not married but still engage in sex with prostitutes sometimes. not at all satisfied with my relation with my family and friends and i dont have a good company.
Like i dont like to be around my family my mother my father and brother they all love me unconditionally but i take it for granted. dont care about them. I dont have large
people as friends but still which i got really dont want to spend time with them aswell. try to avoid situations where they plan something for a get together or anything.
Even on other side dont want to be alone aswell. Overall not satisfied with anyone not my self
5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
Answer: Smoker and alcohol once in a blue moon like when iam depressed or when iam excited.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
Answer: Before i used to every other day but now not frequently maybe once in a week.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
Answer:Appetite is allright but not healthy food just the junk food. i do get thirsty but mainly drink coke energy drinks and water consumption is every low. Now days only having one time meal.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
Answer: Likes:
Salty food
sour food
chicken
Meat
bread
warm food
egg
cold drinks
energy drinks
on other hand i dont dislike but i rarely consume them fruits vegetables water mud chalk milk and sweet.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
Answer: Dont dislike but thinks i have no concern with anything except mine.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
Answer: sometimes hard lump sometimes soft depends on what i eat but overall not satisfied with it.
Sometimes black stool and sometimes dark brown. sometimes like a liquid.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
Answer: Yes sometimes its very hard to pass stool and i develop piles many times because i cant stick to a balanced diet.
9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
Ans: 2 or three times a day its in light yellow color or sometimes dark and volume is normal.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
Answer: Not really.
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
Ans: i am not married but still sometimes i engage in sex and smoke marijuana to increase the pleasure and time of my erection. i ejaculate early and now i have a weak erection.
Sometimes use delaying spray for long erection.
b) Anyother trouble in sex.
Weak and early erection and dont want to do it second time in a row in any condition dont really feel like.
12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
Ans: it depends when i have something next day i sleep in normal way but now days i dont sleep all night and then next day sleep all day and wake up in evening just to meet
a friend. I cover my body with a blanket. There were some people who slept with me and told that i talk during sleep and its always as if iam fighting with someone. sometimes sleep on my stomach and sometimes differently.
now i rarely get dreams and when i does its maybe whats in my mind in the day i get those dreams.
13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
Answer: In summer i get too much of sweat my under arms back and on forhead even in ass and odour is normal not that smelly. and in winter i hardly sweat.
14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
Ans: tolerance to heat and cold is both normal. sometimes gets really very hot in sumemrs and when its raining dont really like it. and like summer weather.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
My quality of relationship is zero with family and friends. I dont want to talk or spend time with my parents without any reason. relation with friends are normal firstly dont have many but which i have with them its normal.
Overall when i want to meet them i do and when they want i make excuses that iam busy here or there in reality iam not.i DO HAVE Energy to fuction but iam not happy with the things.
i am just passing it for the sake of passing.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
Ans: When i went to a hostel and other is i always used to think i will losse my parents and deep inside was really very worried could not even express my feelings infront of them. but still worried when they use to go somewhere
i used not to sleep till they came back always thinking that they may had a accident or someother problem. And i do have a identity crisis i could not even think till now what i want from life
i do have many things running on my mind but could not stick to one thing. i used to control my fellow students and want them to praise me and if by anything they dont i used to think im not worthy anymore.
Exteremly sesitive person from inside but tries to be hard from outside. want to lead and want everyone to follow. recently started a business in australia and due to some reason we cant handle it due to cash and had used my
credit cards and for that reason had to came back to pakistan without completing my studies.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
Ans: have a sharp memory but only concentrate on things which i have interest in otherwise take everthing for granted.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
iam fearful of getting alone and i fear about disease and darkness. sometimes fearfull of some people i think they will be more successful then me and iam will be like
that always like nothing.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS
Ans: Iam anxious about everything like my relation about money. how i will live my life how i will cope up with life.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS
Ans: I am very impatient about everything if i want something i want to get it now if i want to do something i want to do it right now. without checking on the consequences. really quick everything.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS
Ans: Yes iam doubtful and suspicious of somethings i feel someone trying to do me a harm or damage and i persume about that with my own thinking as if they are cheating me.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
I am hurt very easily and i do react very strongly on that and say it clearly and it has a hatred and revenge inside me that next time wil do the same thing to you.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
Ans yes it does very quickly even on small things which are not to be worried of.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
Yes iam depressed when someone is doing something i think they maybe doing better than me and i will be left alone. if someone is going out and i have done alot for them it does
i think they are ignoring or avoiding me and they are not doing right.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
Ans Not realy but i do with the people who cannot do anything about them and i dont share the problems with my family and the people who love and can solve or assist me in overcoming the problems.
l)Effect of consolation.
ans: sometimes iam allright with it on the other hand i think its all drama nthings gonna change.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS
ans: Not really never tried about it.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS
my memory quality is poor of what i read
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
Yes i do and it makes me feel better for sometimes and then same story.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
Ans: Yes i get irritated easily if someone tries to pull my leg or making fun of me or anything like disturbing it makes me angry and with the people who iam frank i get really furious emotional and sometimes abuses and with family i get rude.
q)Are you destructive.
ans: not really
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ans: i had difficulty in making decisions.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
Ans sometimes like to be in a company and sometimes to be alone and even sometimes dont like a company and but depressed iam alone.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
Ans Not really affected.
u)How does failure appear to you?
Ans sometimes i take it supportingly and sometimes as if it hurts my ego and pride.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
The way my life is at th moment i really dislike it. People who show off or wrong.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS
I like sports very much like playing cricket snooker and they fresh me up. Or anyother activity where iam busy.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS
Ans very affectionate and when i see someone suffering i really feel bad and tries to help them if i can and even if i cant i want to do something for them.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
Ans: that no one like me and i will left alone and live a miserable life.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS
Ans: Just want to settle down and life a quality life and people knows me in good name and get to know alot people and future want to become a politician from my city and serve them.
16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by
Tongue color: Slight teethmarks
Tongue taste: Stale, mustard like taste and dry in morning
Face: Brownish black dark color around eyes, excessive wrinkles at eyes end
excessive perspiration on face puffy cheeks and large poures around nose.
17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS.
Ans: Pakistan, Lahore, 1:30 pm , 16,12,1988
In the end please help me out want to live a normal life thanks in advance.
msaad 8 years ago
hello antivirus i have posted the answers of the questions you asked so please now can you help me. please iam anxiously waiting for your reply sir.
msaad 8 years ago
you have no major problem, you are just anxious, you should understand that happiness in life can be in anything, you just need to enjoy everything.
take LACHESIS MUTUS 200c liquid, 2 drops in a tablespoon water, only 2 dose not more than that, not daily, 1st dose before sleep and next dose next morning after wakeup,
{if buying pills then 3 pills as one dose, 2 times, 1st at night and 2nd after wakeup, chew it, do not swallow with water}
do not eat or drink anything 30 minutes before and after medicine,
REPORT FOLLOWING AFTER 20 DAYS
feeling calm=
good sleep=
proper energy level=
self control=
confidence level=
freshness on waking up=
love and affection with others=
mental freedom or freshness=
desire in activities=
any other change you felt=
regards,
antivirus
take LACHESIS MUTUS 200c liquid, 2 drops in a tablespoon water, only 2 dose not more than that, not daily, 1st dose before sleep and next dose next morning after wakeup,
{if buying pills then 3 pills as one dose, 2 times, 1st at night and 2nd after wakeup, chew it, do not swallow with water}
do not eat or drink anything 30 minutes before and after medicine,
REPORT FOLLOWING AFTER 20 DAYS
feeling calm=
good sleep=
proper energy level=
self control=
confidence level=
freshness on waking up=
love and affection with others=
mental freedom or freshness=
desire in activities=
any other change you felt=
regards,
antivirus
♡ 0antivirus0 8 years ago
the debilitated
VENUS, MOON, MERCURY in your horoscope
seems to be causing
problems, when the planet
will start giving GOOD
RESULTS depends on planet
itself, we human beings do
not have control over it, but
its ill effects can be reduced
to some extent,
REMEDY(to be done after
sunrise and before sunset)--
1)visit
religious place of
worship daily and Bow down head in the
place of worship.
2)Avoid the use of
green colour
do above remedy
CONTINUOUSLY WITHOUT
BREAK FOR 43 DAYS(if break
happens report me)
regards.
antivirus
VENUS, MOON, MERCURY in your horoscope
seems to be causing
problems, when the planet
will start giving GOOD
RESULTS depends on planet
itself, we human beings do
not have control over it, but
its ill effects can be reduced
to some extent,
REMEDY(to be done after
sunrise and before sunset)--
1)visit
religious place of
worship daily and Bow down head in the
place of worship.
2)Avoid the use of
green colour
do above remedy
CONTINUOUSLY WITHOUT
BREAK FOR 43 DAYS(if break
happens report me)
regards.
antivirus
♡ 0antivirus0 8 years ago
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