≡ ▼
ABC Homeopathy Forum

 

The ABC Homeopathy Forum

4 years old doesn't listen

I know it's somewhat normal for a 4 years old not to listen and I would have been kind of OK if that happened only at hom but he started doing it in school as well.

He doesn't listen to the teachers, he doesn't like transitions (let's say he is playing with a toy and the teacher tells him it's time to move to another activity, he is not able to stop and move forward) he also tends to close to himself at times and closes to himself at times.

I worked with a homeopath a few years ago and he claimed his constitutional remedy was Calc Carb, this remedy seem to have gotten rid of his night terrors at the time.

HE is generally a sweet boy but he doesn't listen, at home as well, he never wants to do clean up, he leaves a mess and has problems with transitions (lets say move from playing to eating, from eating to bath and from bath to bed time etc ... each transition can be a fight and/or convincing game)

Can homeopathy help?
Thank you
 
  bluesky77 on 2016-12-07
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
pl explain about his learning ability ,understanding,talking clear or not .eyes contact,mix with classmate.in garden or at any other place,pl also inform his other problems like food habits ,stool, or any disese now and in past.
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Hello,

He learns pretty easily
Understand 4 languages but answers only in English
Talks fairly well considering he has been exposed to 4 languages since birth.
He does eye contact and likes to challenge his parents especially.
He does better playing and studying 1 0 1, so he prefers to play with 1 friend rather than in a group.
he doesn't do well in groups although if he only wanted he could do beautifully in group too.
He likes attention, all for himself.
Sometime he gets frustrated and just doesn't listen, you can yell, ask nicely, threaten him, he would just run away with a smile on his face, if you try to force him he would kick and hit and spit (usually adults only).
He hasn't shown aggressive behavior towards kids yet.
He doesn't eat much in school (he is there until 3 PM), breakfast he has bread and fresh white cheese and a cookie.
Dinner is usually chicken or fish with vegetables and salad.
He drink only water.
He prefers sour/salty rather than sweet.
He is very sweet and affectionate when he is not in the crazy mood/possessed.
He used to have night terrors at 1 - 2 years old, nothing else that I can recall.
Had an amazing and uneventful pregnancy.
He was born naturally but I had a 3rd degree episiotomy when baby got in distress and heartbeat was dropping.

I am editing 1 more time to say that he has a very hard time winding down and go to sleep at night. He says he doesn't like to sleep and he is not tired although he is.
he never slept a lot and stopped napping during the day by the age of 2.
He was very attached to his pacifier and with it it was easier to calm him down when I took it away by the age of 2 he had a very very hard time adjusting. I believe he is still not completely over it as he likes to chew on his little teddy bears (not for sleeping though).


His teacher just called me saying that he tried to run away from class because he didn't want to do what the teacher said. He threw stuff, spit and hit the teachers.
Please help me or he will be kicked out of school!!!

Thanks
[message edited by bluesky77 on Thu, 08 Dec 2016 18:00:46 UTC]
[message edited by bluesky77 on Thu, 08 Dec 2016 20:17:58 UTC]
[message edited by bluesky77 on Fri, 09 Dec 2016 03:11:35 UTC]
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
No on that. It is a combo product and on combo things one could be good another could be wrong and counteract the rest. Sometimes they put things in that are total antidotes.

Wait for dr mohla - he is a real dr and homeopath with a practice.

Remedies are medicine and not products , they are marketing this way to sell stuff without scruples-
Bad directions too as in keep dosing.
Dosing is done by reactions. And if
One has to antidote you will not know what to do.
 
simone717 7 years ago
dr mohla please help?
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
I emailed him for you this morning.
The alerts on the forum are not working right and most prescribers rely on that to respond. He will get back to you.
 
simone717 7 years ago
thank you so much!!
I know, the alerts haven't worked in a few years, at least for me ... I never get notifications of replies.
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
chamomilla 6c one dose daily evening time for three days then weekly one dose only for one month.silicia 200x 4 tabs one dose only after 15 days and 4 such doses to be given every after 15 days of first dose to break obstinate attitude but to be started only after one month.pl report after every 7 days.pl be soft and polite only and observe his changes during treatment.pl also note his anger .
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Thank you so much!

Is silica the same as silicea?

Do I start the silicia 15 days after I am done with the chamomilla? (So 1 month and 15 days after 1st chamomilla dose) Then continue daily for 15 days after the first dose?

I am so sorry I am confused, hope you can clarify. I will start with the chamomilla 6c, 1 pellet for 3 evenings then 1 weekly for a month.
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Forgot to mention his stool has been having a very pungent smell recently. He goes fairly regularly, once a day or every 2 days. Not sure if it matters. Thank you
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
pl note after chamomilla you will give one dose of silicea after 15 days of last dose of chamomilla and second dose after 15 days of first dose and similarly third dose after 15 days of second dose and same way last dose.pl note silicea is to be given one dose only after 15 days of and not daily.
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Thank you for the explanation !! Will do!
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
I have the pellets, can I just give him 1 pellet as 1 dose?
Thank you
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Also is there something I can take to keep calm? Yesterday I lost my temper with him and now I feel so bad about it. I appreciate you telling me to be gentle with him. I am trying so hard but it's so difficult.
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
yes you can use pellets as two only as dose.pl have calm/patience and be polite with him and also do not use this habit by offering some thing to change or accept your advise.You can sing rhyme and tell him stories in front of him of different types if you have time .Pl do not cry /weep in front of him.You are lucky that he is not having any problems in learning /walking/speaking .
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Thank you for your suggestions.

Will update
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Hello doctor. I am starting chamomilla today for my son.
I just wanted to say that I kept him home for the last few days (no school) and he hast shown any major sign of anger and hitting or spitting.

Will let him go back to school either tomorrow or Thursday to check attitude change.
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Pl send him to school and for other activities without hesitation and continue the meds as advised.
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Update:
Tonight gave second chamomilla dose.

He fell asleep on the couch at 7.20 rather than his usual 9 pm. Should I give it a little later so he falls asleep later?
is this related to the remedy given?

will update.

Thank you
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Pl note that this meds is for hyper kids so pl change the time a little late for sleep .
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Quick update after first 3 doses of chamomilla:

1st dose no major changes

2nd dose chamomilla given at night at 7 - he fell asleep at 7.20 on the couch.

3rd dose given at 7.30 he is super hyper and has no intention to sleep.
The day after the 3rd dose he fell asleep at around 3 pm.  He never naps during the day so this was not usual.
That evening he was crazed (hit/spit on us with a smile on his face) and didn't go to sleep till late (9.30/9.45).

Day 5, he Fell asleep at 7.45 and complains of ear ache.
Ear is red and he says he can't hear from that ear.
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
pl wait and observe changes for one week till you give another dose.
 
akshaymohl 7 years ago
Ok thank you
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
Hello,

This evening I gave the first weekly chamomilla 6c.
Today in school he had a meltdown because he wanted to play in the gym but they didn't let him (it was lunch time and the gym was being cleaned).
I got there right on time (have been picking him up earlier than other kids).
At home he started crying for no reason. Tried to hit /spit but I started singing to him a silly song and he started laughing and calmed down.

Tonight I gave him chamomilla at 8.40 he fell asleep shortly after but he was exhausted as last night he hadn't slept much (9pm to 7 am).

Also, there is stomach bug going around in his school and he has been having loose light colored stools for a few days now (no throwing up, no stomach pain). Is there any remedy I can give him to help his upset stomach and won't interfere with the protocol we are following?
He also had nasal congestion last week and is still left with some lingering.

Thank you so much
 
bluesky77 7 years ago
dr mohla please help
 
bluesky77 7 years ago

Post ReplyTo post a reply, you must first LOG ON or Register

 

Important
Information given in this forum is given by way of exchange of views only, and those views are not necessarily those of ABC Homeopathy. It is not to be treated as a medical diagnosis or prescription, and should not be used as a substitute for a consultation with a qualified homeopath or physician. It is possible that advice given here may be dangerous, and you should make your own checks that it is safe. If symptoms persist, seek professional medical attention. Bear in mind that even minor symptoms can be a sign of a more serious underlying condition, and a timely diagnosis by your doctor could save your life.