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my child's insecurity
Goodmorning everyone, I am new to this forum and i wish you can suggest a remedy for my girls.-I have an 11 years old girl
- the eldest among 4 children: 11,9,5,2
- green eyes, curly light brown dry hair.
- robust
-born with a csection.
-She was such a happy nice baby does not cry much.
- Since i got divorced from her dad and remarried again all this changed.
- she was four when the actual divorce happened and i got married fives months afterwards.
- At first didnot understand what is going wrong with her , she was always sick and coughs at night for days with improvment.
the local hoempath gave her at that time NAT MUR 200 and BELLADONNA200. it helped at the begning but the cough persists. She Gave afterwards THUJA and Barayata Carbonica. it cleared the cough and i used to reuse it every time the cough come back however it was efficient only two time.we stayed for couple of years with this cough i tried all remedies possible for cough till irealised that she even cough when being asked a question. Hence i agave her Ignatia and it helped amaizingly and the cough went away.
- She also has recurrent headaches that ends by vomiting especially when she is visited by her father, or direct sun light, or traveling, or any change in her bubble.last year the local homeopath gave her PULS 15c and SULPH 15 alternating weekly. her headaches are much more less frequent.
NOW, we moved to paris 3 months ago. she was not ok at all. keep crying. does not want to be left alone. keep asking me if we can go back home (by the way this is her all the time for years and years i cant leave her and go outside even for movie). Till one day 1,5 month ago she came and told me i need you to help me stop my fear feelings. She said, i cant control it.
she said every time i see you going outside i have the fear comes up. I asked her what are you fearing from. she does not know. she also is fearful when talked to her with a loud voice. or if she sees 2 people disscussing loudly she would ask them why are you fighting even if they are not.(barring in mind that her father and i did not fight at all and we have a very good relation now)
- This week I gave her Ignatia 30 5 times. her cough came back very strongly day and night.
- some more information about her: she reads all the time, always in her fantasy characters and stories, does not stay with us much, i have to keep calling her to get out of her room. would talk to you in questions but she cannot answer your questions.she pays attention at so many unimportant details. and would take information as a sacred rules. ( if i say i will come back at 5 and come back 4.30 she will ask me you said five not 4.30)
- I wish you can help me help her
Thanks
Alia S on 2016-12-16
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How is her temperature/weather preferences?
What makes her feel better/worse in general? So far I have that she is better from vomiting and worse from traveling and sunlight and worse from discords between family members.
So her primary fear is that of her being alone? Can we say that she is clingy towards you?
What is her date of birth?
Tell me more about her, what are her food cravings or aversions?
What is striking or peculiar about her when compared to other kids?
What are the diseases that run in the family?
How is she at school?
Any hobbies?
How is her sleep?
How is her digestion?
How is her thirst?
What else can you tell me about her to understand what it feels like to be her?
Please provide more information about this cough. What triggers it ? What is the impact of things like open air, warm rooms, talking, eating, drinking, lying down, talking, laughing etc...? What times does it happen? What if anything makes it better?
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 04:19:51 UTC]
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 04:26:10 UTC]
What makes her feel better/worse in general? So far I have that she is better from vomiting and worse from traveling and sunlight and worse from discords between family members.
So her primary fear is that of her being alone? Can we say that she is clingy towards you?
What is her date of birth?
Tell me more about her, what are her food cravings or aversions?
What is striking or peculiar about her when compared to other kids?
What are the diseases that run in the family?
How is she at school?
Any hobbies?
How is her sleep?
How is her digestion?
How is her thirst?
What else can you tell me about her to understand what it feels like to be her?
Please provide more information about this cough. What triggers it ? What is the impact of things like open air, warm rooms, talking, eating, drinking, lying down, talking, laughing etc...? What times does it happen? What if anything makes it better?
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 04:19:51 UTC]
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 04:26:10 UTC]
sameervermani 7 years ago
Thank you so much for replying
I will try to answer your as much as i can.
1. I cannot tell about her tempreture ; however she is usually over dressed
2. Her food craving: is usually potatos, pasta, chocalet, sugary Cakes. However she doesnot like candies much, she doesnot prefer meat as well.
3. I dont understand whatvdod you mean by clingy toward me . She doesnot cry much but she sticks to me as if i am her life guard. She always checks that i am here. If she wakes up before me she would go asleep again untill i am up
4. She is born 10/12/2005
5. She does not have much friends at school. The problem is that we changed schools 3times in the past years as we were moving. In her first school, they were very little in class. Second school, a huge one, she got lots of bullying all the time. Nasty bullying. However, she never told any one and it was her sister who came to us and told us. Third school in france, but in the country side, was much better. She had friends and some bullying as well but i guess she tried to defend herself. Last day of school, all the class wrote her a goodbye letter before we move to Paris. She was stunned, kept crying for a while and so tuched telling that nobody told her such words before
6.I used to believe that her major fear was to be left alone till yesterday. We a seriouse long conversation about her fear she said i got scared of loud voices or when you(me) talk to me firmly cause i feel problems will happen. And i dont like problems cause people stays in fights and itntakes time for them to get ok again.
7. In my family, we have regular headaches from sunlight. Regular sunstrokes. I dont know much about her fathers family but i know that his grandmother died after a breast.c.
8. Her digestive. I have no idea however, we hear her abdomen noises. She is flautilence. She goes to the toilet regularly but no diarehea.
8. What is stunning about her in comparison to other children. One can feel that she is not reactive in any way. When you talk to her usually she wont answer,- when she talks you barely understand what she is saying cause she speaks in her lips. She is slow and miticular in every thing she does. When she goes out side she doesnot run or scream or jump like like children but rather walks next to us. I never heard her singing except when i say come lets sing together but still it is not singing it is reapeating the words with me. She is very shy. No presentation for sure. Does not like to be dressed up nearly and girly. However, she is a book worm she has more information than any child in her age. She reads the dictionary. Despite all thi information she cannot use them into real life. You cannot give her a task or a project to conduct on the contrary you have to give her clear instructions that will follow over carefuly.
9.All adults that sees her likes her alot cause ahe is seriouse. Very good school results. Does not talk much or make lots of noise or distruction.
10. I cannot tell why the cough i triggered. I am sure that the cough reshowed because of the ignatia i gave her last week. There is not real pgysical reason cause ahe doesnot have post nasal discharge.
I forgot to tell you that she has sticky white nasal secretion. That one can see. Not much actually or it much much better after the puls. And the sulph of last year
11. Yesterday she told me a sentence i think is important. She said:(i am protecting myself)
I wish i have gave a deeper view and answered all you question
I will try to answer your as much as i can.
1. I cannot tell about her tempreture ; however she is usually over dressed
2. Her food craving: is usually potatos, pasta, chocalet, sugary Cakes. However she doesnot like candies much, she doesnot prefer meat as well.
3. I dont understand whatvdod you mean by clingy toward me . She doesnot cry much but she sticks to me as if i am her life guard. She always checks that i am here. If she wakes up before me she would go asleep again untill i am up
4. She is born 10/12/2005
5. She does not have much friends at school. The problem is that we changed schools 3times in the past years as we were moving. In her first school, they were very little in class. Second school, a huge one, she got lots of bullying all the time. Nasty bullying. However, she never told any one and it was her sister who came to us and told us. Third school in france, but in the country side, was much better. She had friends and some bullying as well but i guess she tried to defend herself. Last day of school, all the class wrote her a goodbye letter before we move to Paris. She was stunned, kept crying for a while and so tuched telling that nobody told her such words before
6.I used to believe that her major fear was to be left alone till yesterday. We a seriouse long conversation about her fear she said i got scared of loud voices or when you(me) talk to me firmly cause i feel problems will happen. And i dont like problems cause people stays in fights and itntakes time for them to get ok again.
7. In my family, we have regular headaches from sunlight. Regular sunstrokes. I dont know much about her fathers family but i know that his grandmother died after a breast.c.
8. Her digestive. I have no idea however, we hear her abdomen noises. She is flautilence. She goes to the toilet regularly but no diarehea.
8. What is stunning about her in comparison to other children. One can feel that she is not reactive in any way. When you talk to her usually she wont answer,- when she talks you barely understand what she is saying cause she speaks in her lips. She is slow and miticular in every thing she does. When she goes out side she doesnot run or scream or jump like like children but rather walks next to us. I never heard her singing except when i say come lets sing together but still it is not singing it is reapeating the words with me. She is very shy. No presentation for sure. Does not like to be dressed up nearly and girly. However, she is a book worm she has more information than any child in her age. She reads the dictionary. Despite all thi information she cannot use them into real life. You cannot give her a task or a project to conduct on the contrary you have to give her clear instructions that will follow over carefuly.
9.All adults that sees her likes her alot cause ahe is seriouse. Very good school results. Does not talk much or make lots of noise or distruction.
10. I cannot tell why the cough i triggered. I am sure that the cough reshowed because of the ignatia i gave her last week. There is not real pgysical reason cause ahe doesnot have post nasal discharge.
I forgot to tell you that she has sticky white nasal secretion. That one can see. Not much actually or it much much better after the puls. And the sulph of last year
11. Yesterday she told me a sentence i think is important. She said:(i am protecting myself)
I wish i have gave a deeper view and answered all you question
Alia S 7 years ago
"I am protecting myself" --> can you shed more light on this? Can you conjecture, protecting myself from what exactly?
How sympathetic a person is she?
How, if at all, is she impacted by weather phenomenon like thunderstorms etc?
So, can we say she is very sensitive to people getting angry ? and very sensitive to her being reprimanded?
What makes the cough better or worse? When does it happen?
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 22:32:32 UTC]
How sympathetic a person is she?
How, if at all, is she impacted by weather phenomenon like thunderstorms etc?
So, can we say she is very sensitive to people getting angry ? and very sensitive to her being reprimanded?
What makes the cough better or worse? When does it happen?
[message edited by sameervermani on Sat, 17 Dec 2016 22:32:32 UTC]
sameervermani 7 years ago
Yes she is very sympathetic. Meaning 1. She does not watch movies with any emotional situation she covers her face. If some one dies in the movie or suffers she would leave.
2. If someone is crying she would tear for him.
3. She would not say no if any of her brother or sisters asks her for something that she owns so not to make them feel sad.
HOWEVER; she is selfish in the same time she would prefere to play on her own, read on her own, no real participation with other children around her. She would prefer to watch than to interact with people.
4. She is very sympathetic but wont have a clue how to react with a toddler.
As for the weather. We used to live in egypt so we dont have thunderstorms so i dont know. Not much of a weather change. She just states the sun.
When she said i am protecting myself from problems she was also stating old bullying situations that she faced at school or with her cousins.
2. If someone is crying she would tear for him.
3. She would not say no if any of her brother or sisters asks her for something that she owns so not to make them feel sad.
HOWEVER; she is selfish in the same time she would prefere to play on her own, read on her own, no real participation with other children around her. She would prefer to watch than to interact with people.
4. She is very sympathetic but wont have a clue how to react with a toddler.
As for the weather. We used to live in egypt so we dont have thunderstorms so i dont know. Not much of a weather change. She just states the sun.
When she said i am protecting myself from problems she was also stating old bullying situations that she faced at school or with her cousins.
Alia S 7 years ago
Yes she is: very sensitive to her being reprimanded
And she consider any talk we address her as a sort of. If the tone and the words are very light and low so she would panic or gives a sluggish fearful look and reaction of not knowing what to do.
And deffinetly in a large family a light tone is not possible all the time so we feel her blocked regularly and would leave the scene . Go to her room and read
And she consider any talk we address her as a sort of. If the tone and the words are very light and low so she would panic or gives a sluggish fearful look and reaction of not knowing what to do.
And deffinetly in a large family a light tone is not possible all the time so we feel her blocked regularly and would leave the scene . Go to her room and read
Alia S 7 years ago
There are a couple of remedies coming up, but none more strongly than Carcinosin.
Please procure Carcinosin 30c, and give her 3 doses at half hr gap. This is to be done only ONCE on one day only. No more doses after the 3.
Dissolve 2 pellets or 2 drops in 250 ml spring water, and a spoon from there is 1 dose. Three such doses are to be given at half hour gap. No more doses after that.
Report to me in 1 week after dosing.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 30 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
[message edited by sameervermani on Sun, 18 Dec 2016 20:14:46 UTC]
Please procure Carcinosin 30c, and give her 3 doses at half hr gap. This is to be done only ONCE on one day only. No more doses after the 3.
Dissolve 2 pellets or 2 drops in 250 ml spring water, and a spoon from there is 1 dose. Three such doses are to be given at half hour gap. No more doses after that.
Report to me in 1 week after dosing.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 30 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
[message edited by sameervermani on Sun, 18 Dec 2016 20:14:46 UTC]
sameervermani 7 years ago
Hi Alia,
You are probably going to have to order this unless you are familiar with
How to get things from French pharmacies.
If you need to order the easiest place is Helios homeopathic pharmacy in U.K. Or you can use Remedia Pharmacy /Austria.
If you have to order ask Sameer what
Exactly to order and how much.
As they list many different kinds of
Carcinosin and easy to get confused.
You are probably going to have to order this unless you are familiar with
How to get things from French pharmacies.
If you need to order the easiest place is Helios homeopathic pharmacy in U.K. Or you can use Remedia Pharmacy /Austria.
If you have to order ask Sameer what
Exactly to order and how much.
As they list many different kinds of
Carcinosin and easy to get confused.
♡ simone717 7 years ago
Thank you so much
I am trying to look for CAR30 here in french pharmecies. 5ill now I did not succeed. I will check a bigger pharmacy tom.
However, do you have any idea that the prepration of reedies in france differs than the UK.
(Someone told me so)
So the potency differs here.
I am trying to look for CAR30 here in french pharmecies. 5ill now I did not succeed. I will check a bigger pharmacy tom.
However, do you have any idea that the prepration of reedies in france differs than the UK.
(Someone told me so)
So the potency differs here.
Alia S 7 years ago
sameervermani 7 years ago
Sorry to interfere. I live in France as well. You can find homeopatjy and carc. Easily here. 30 ch most probably pharmacy will have to order. usually from boiron
nanou 7 years ago
Thank you for you replies.
I tried to check several pharmicies here and there .... they all gave the same answer we don tknow this remedy and we cannot order it.
This is what I ordered at last:
Carcinosin - carc
Quantity: 1
Price: £5.50
Form: Oral liquid (23% alc.)
Size: 5ml
Potency: 30c
I tried to check several pharmicies here and there .... they all gave the same answer we don tknow this remedy and we cannot order it.
This is what I ordered at last:
Carcinosin - carc
Quantity: 1
Price: £5.50
Form: Oral liquid (23% alc.)
Size: 5ml
Potency: 30c
Alia S 7 years ago
Just to keep you updated with us
We are visiting her grandparents
She loves being here and we are leaving tom. Today she started the day with headaches, and vomiting.
Nothing happened yesterday. No sun. No thunders.
She spent her days reading and playing.
We are visiting her grandparents
She loves being here and we are leaving tom. Today she started the day with headaches, and vomiting.
Nothing happened yesterday. No sun. No thunders.
She spent her days reading and playing.
Alia S 7 years ago
Good morning dr Sameer
One week passe since she took the carc.
I didnot realise much difference on the physical state.
And the emotional as well.
We went back home and everything is as usual.
No headaches or vomiting since we came back
One week passe since she took the carc.
I didnot realise much difference on the physical state.
And the emotional as well.
We went back home and everything is as usual.
No headaches or vomiting since we came back
Alia S 7 years ago
"No headaches or vomiting since we came back" --> Is this normal for her to not have it from traveling?
How is her thirst?
How many total doses of Puls 15 were gven? And you have it with Sulph 15? Like one week Puls and one week Sulph ? How many doses per week?
[message edited by sameervermani on Mon, 09 Jan 2017 16:25:07 UTC]
How is her thirst?
How many total doses of Puls 15 were gven? And you have it with Sulph 15? Like one week Puls and one week Sulph ? How many doses per week?
[message edited by sameervermani on Mon, 09 Jan 2017 16:25:07 UTC]
sameervermani 7 years ago
Thanks for your reply
Yes it is normal not to have headaches or vomiting.
I marked that the headaches and the vomiting follows any un wanted emotion or state.
So this year she is homeschooled and away from her physical dad, So we can say things is stabel.
The thirst: I see her drinking water alot all the day when we are at home.
The pulstilla and sluph. Was given for almost 3 months one saturdays and the other wednesdays.
The headaches and vomiting is much much better since that time.
And also she used to have a terribil smell from her mouth all the day
Yes it is normal not to have headaches or vomiting.
I marked that the headaches and the vomiting follows any un wanted emotion or state.
So this year she is homeschooled and away from her physical dad, So we can say things is stabel.
The thirst: I see her drinking water alot all the day when we are at home.
The pulstilla and sluph. Was given for almost 3 months one saturdays and the other wednesdays.
The headaches and vomiting is much much better since that time.
And also she used to have a terribil smell from her mouth all the day
Alia S 7 years ago
And you have never given her Pulsatilla 30, have you?
If not, that is what I want you to do, 3 doses of 30c in the exact same manner as the first remedy I suggested.
Report in 1 week.
If not, that is what I want you to do, 3 doses of 30c in the exact same manner as the first remedy I suggested.
Report in 1 week.
sameervermani 7 years ago
I dont actually remember for the PULS 30 . Maybe she took it but years ago when she used to have ear infection or for the breath smell. But at least 3 years ago.
I dont have PULS Liquid. I have it in pellets the boiron ones.
So i will put into 250ml of spring as well
I dont have PULS Liquid. I have it in pellets the boiron ones.
So i will put into 250ml of spring as well
Alia S 7 years ago
Yes Puls 30c from Boiron is fine. Dissolve the 2 pellets and then dose as suggested.
sameervermani 7 years ago
Good morning Dr Sameer
One week passed since she took the Puls30.
We didnot have any vomiting or headaches.
We came back to Egypt, She spends time with her dad and it went fine . No headaches.
However, On the security level I cant point out the changes.
Cause she is sooooooo happy that we came back to Egypt.
You can see that in her eyes. But no real expression as usual for any thing.
One week passed since she took the Puls30.
We didnot have any vomiting or headaches.
We came back to Egypt, She spends time with her dad and it went fine . No headaches.
However, On the security level I cant point out the changes.
Cause she is sooooooo happy that we came back to Egypt.
You can see that in her eyes. But no real expression as usual for any thing.
Alia S 7 years ago
Goodmorning Sameer
Are you still there willing to help
I wish you remember the case of my girl
You told me will wait and see.
I used to belive she is better.
I used to puls 30 everytime she had headaches and vomiting.
Generally it used to be very useful.
2 days ago she started the same cycle .
Tired, headache, vomiting.we are traveling ànd i did not have PUls 30 i have Puls 9 so i gave her instead but with no improvment at all.
She is still sick. No more headaches or vimiting but she has diharea.
Also she has a zombi attitude like. I knew that something went wrong in her head. I scratched a little bit. Actually she was reading a thriller book and she told i am feeling that i am one of the kids in the book.
She also said (first time to know so) that sometimes in her head of family members killing each other and that she cant control it
I wish you can help me
Thanks
Are you still there willing to help
I wish you remember the case of my girl
You told me will wait and see.
I used to belive she is better.
I used to puls 30 everytime she had headaches and vomiting.
Generally it used to be very useful.
2 days ago she started the same cycle .
Tired, headache, vomiting.we are traveling ànd i did not have PUls 30 i have Puls 9 so i gave her instead but with no improvment at all.
She is still sick. No more headaches or vimiting but she has diharea.
Also she has a zombi attitude like. I knew that something went wrong in her head. I scratched a little bit. Actually she was reading a thriller book and she told i am feeling that i am one of the kids in the book.
She also said (first time to know so) that sometimes in her head of family members killing each other and that she cant control it
I wish you can help me
Thanks
Alia S 6 years ago
Hello,
Is she mentally doing better than before after being on Puls ?
Also, what are the other remaining issues right now? Please give a more complete picture and list all the symptoms which are bothersome.
Is she mentally doing better than before after being on Puls ?
Also, what are the other remaining issues right now? Please give a more complete picture and list all the symptoms which are bothersome.
sameervermani 6 years ago
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