pe + ed + lack of desire please help!!Hello I am from Pakistan, 35 years old and married. I can't help myself to maintain my sexual power and desire as earlier. My life history is full of masturbation and porn and other self amusement stuff even after getting married. Of course, I have sexual desire but its no more for my wife. I can't maintain full erection during intercourse with my wife any more. She is also bulky and overweight and that is another reason for not having any attraction towards her. Besides, My overall sexual health is getting weaker by the time. There has been a long time in my life when I was depressed due to my job consequences but now I am free of that job life and I don't feel depressed thank GOD. I still masturbate when my wife goes to her mother's home for 8-10 days. Actually I have desire but I don't feel it when my wife is around. I want some tonic for overall sexual health. My brain doesn't cooperate when I try to gain full erection during intercourse. I have a long history of stomach problems due to my depressed job life as I mentioned. But now I am very much out of those symptoms like depression and stomach problems. I think that's all for now. I am patient here and if I didn't describe clear picture about my symptoms history then please ask me more and suggest me some best remedies.
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SickandTired1 on 2017-03-18
describe more about you..
how is your stool,urine,sleep,sweat,appetite,thirst,cravings,aversions etc
general mind irritable/sensitive/sad etc
decribe about you in 4 words which is more pecuiliar to you...which makes you different from others
♥ drthoufeequebhms last yeareverything is normal but i feel sad sometimes due to my conditions also I am very much sensitive about what people do with each others. I am so much sarcastic and critic about others. I can't bear anything which is against my will. I am an isolated type of person and I like to be alone most of the times. I don't interact with people as I am so much reserved. I have not much confidence to face others especially if they are superior than me in some way. I am intelligent though. I pick things faster than others. I learn things on my own without getting any help or support. I am self made and I really care about my self respect. I don't let people interfere into my personal matters. I am so much anti social and I don't join any gathering easily. I am hollow deep inside but I don't show my weaknesses in front of others. I am kind of a mystery man most of the times. I am mentally sensitive. I keep grudges in my heart for long time. I don't forgive others. I am shortsighted, selfish and very short-tempered.
SickandTired1 last yearHow do you react when some one offend you... What do you react on a sad situation or when getting angry
♥ drthoufeequebhms last year
♥ drthoufeequebhms last year
when someone offend me i don't show it through my expressions but i keep extreme grudges in my heart against that someone and i never forget my insult and i never forgive. in a sad situation, i want to be isolated and alone and i react so much when someone interfere in my sad situations. when get angry i suppress my anger and i face abdominal problems after that like i feel contractions in my stomach with gripping pains.
now the main symptoms which i am facing are, weak erection during intercourse, lack of desire with my spouse only but not in general because i have desire for sexual acts as when i see other smart girls around me, i feel stimulated with or without erections. i am trying for last 2 years to get my wife conceived and its not happening. my wife is consulting with a local homeopathic lady doctor and she suggested her to take remedies to bring her periods to normal first and then she will start for further treatments. i feel that i also have low sperm count but i never got tested for this purpose its just my doubt. my sexual weakness is very much concerned with my brain. i think i have a sense of guilt because of my lifestyle which i practiced since i was 12 which is obviously a lot of masturbation and porn etc. as i mentioned earlier.
SickandTired1 last year1.do you have special craving for salty foods./spicy etc?
2.frequent headache? on sun heat?day time?
3.dryness anywhere in the body? or oily skin?
4.any long lasting grief?
5.what will happen if someone consoles you when you are sad? feel better or worse?
6.loss of smell or taste?
7.how is your tongue?
8.easily weeping or tears when laughing?
♥ drthoufeequebhms last yearno special cravings for any kind of food.
often dryness in throat while waking up in the morning.
long lasting grief as mentioned that i had a long era of depression throughout my job life.
i never feel better when someone tries to console me because i want to be left lone when i feel sad.
no loss of smell and taste.
my tongue is normal.
while laughing i don't feel any tears in my eyes except when i sing i always have tears in my eyes naturally.
SickandTired1 last yearjust wanted to ask that i heard about damiaplant drops while searching on google, which are truly for many types of sexual problems. can i use this remedy? as this is a compound remedy, covering many multiple symptoms. so please suggest me that if it would be suitable for me or not.
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SickandTired1 last year
Damia plant may work fora moment..but it's not a permanent solution.. Please take Lycopodium 10M 3pills in 1glass water and take only one teaspoon from it. It's more than enough. Rest of the solution should be thrown out ..
Only once. .. No further repitition..
Wait and watch changes..
Report changes here.:
♥ drthoufeequebhms last yearFirst of all thank for clearing my misconception about damiaplant drops.
Well, I am little bit confused about the method you mentioned here.
Please tell me that when I put 3 pills in 1 glass of water, should I take 1 tsp immediately or wait for getting it dissolved properly?
Please confirm. Waiting for your kind reply.
SickandTired1 last yearYes you have to wait to get dissolved.. you have to stirr it well.. And take only one teaspoon from it.. Only once. Report changes here
♥ drthoufeequebhms last yearSorry to bother but I need some more information.
Can I have intercourse after taking this prescription?
If not then how many days should I have to wait for next intercourse?
It is just to inform you that I take Nux Vomica 30 every now and then whenever I feel any stomach problems, I mean I use it as a common remedy but not in routine. Just one dose after dinner whenever I feel any stomach problem. So is it OK with this remedy? I mean if any kind of side effects may occur then please let me know.
SickandTired1 last year
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