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Years of Over Masturbation affecting now my Married Life.

Patient ID: Sex: Male, Age: 35


1. Describe your main suffering?
Due to Over Masturbation for past 20 years or more I feel weakness Physically and also Mentally. I was Married 6-7 months ago but after my Marriage within 20 days, I had to move to other country, so did not have the much time to spend with my wife. I have left this habit after my marriage but as i have to move in other country, after 2 months i was again in same hell and doing same masturbation over porn movies.
Now my Family (Wife) is also going to come here in 2-3 weeks in this country and now I feel ashamed, guilty and physically weak and mentally stressed. I think due to this habit of over masturbation my memory also got weak, i forget things just happened and feel difficult to recall, facing hair fall issue, facing weakness in body and also I lost my mental concentration and my confidence.
And due to masturbation I am suffering from Premature ejaculation, low semen etc.


2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
One more issue I am facing is bad order or foul breath from my mouth. I do brush sometimes 3-4 times a day, also use mouthwash but after brushing within 40-45 minutes I feel same bad breath. Due to this issue I also lost my confidence in talking with other persons. I mostly stay quite especially if other person is sitting close to me.



3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
Now I feel regret that I wasted my youth in this bad act of masturbation and now I have a wife but no energy, I feel ashamed, and also my stress is increasing as the time of her arrival is coming near.


4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?


5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?

I have started this around the age of 14-15.

6. Which time of the day you are worst?
Now I am trying to control myself, and not doing masturbation since last 3 days.

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?

Pornography was the main cause of my involvement in this bad habit, I spent hour and hours in masturbation while watching porn. I don’t know what happened to me, I tried to get rid of this many times in past but after some days, I get myself attracted to porn again and then eventually towards masturbation.

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
Yes, mostly related to pornography.


9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
All weathers are fine for me.

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I feel shyness when in gathering with other people, and yes I am quite person (but also due to bad breath issue). In youth age I was very talky and active but now I am quite and lazy. I also started a Gym since last 4-5 days to keep me busy and channelize my energy towards exercise rather in masturbation.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
If it brings rain, I feel good and enjoy it.

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes.

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
No. Just one thing is direct air towards my eyes cause infection/irritation in my eyes. And one more thing is I have height phobia.

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
No.

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
I feel good for them, but when I am tired due to office work or something I don’t like to get disturbed by them through call etc. For my wife I have very strong feelings and like her very much.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
currently the biggest fear is my married life, how I’ll survive it. Actually I don’t want to just survive it I want to enjoy it, but when I see my condition I feel regrets and guilt.


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
in food I like everything, vegetables, chicken, meat, rice, fruits etc.

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less.

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?
Don’t know

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Sweat is normal, and mostly it is on head and trunk.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
I have Gas issue, and it becomes sever in next day if I eat bread/loaf in dinner. Stool is not hard.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
I sleep 6-8 hours daily.


19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No, as I mentioned due to this over masturbation in past 20 years, I feel very bad now and biggest fear is how my married life will be going to, as in next 3-4 weeks my wife will also be with me.

20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I don’t think so I am different than others. Only difference I see that each person has some urges and some persons control it and some not, and I am among those who does not control and keep sailing along with their desires without thinking what effect these will bring on their future.


21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
No medication was taken, as I did not realize how much big impact this bad habit can bring on my life.


22. What major diseases are running in your family?
No major disease.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
I look normal, but due to this bad habit, my arm and legs are not much fleshy and these are weak. I am 5’5” height and 66Kg weight.


Doctor please give best advice to recover quickly at least upto extent that i can spend my time with my wife without any fear and tension, and she will be with me in 3-4 weeks.
You can contact me directly on my email also for further information if required.
 
  youandme123 on 2017-07-24
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Dear Youandme123,

First of all I would like to inform you that the treatment of this is possible but will take time. please be patient. You may click on my name to know my mail ID.


SILICEA 30C

HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy two times daily.


Stop Silicea after 7 days and start below remedy (Dioscorea, Selenium, Acid Phosm Bio Comb 16, Bellis and Baryta.

No. 1,

DIOSCOREA VILLOSA 6,

HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy two times daily for a week.

No. 2,
SELENIUM 6C,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy two times daily for a week.

No. 3,
Acid Phos 3xC,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy once a day, in the morning for a
week.

Bio Chemic Combination # 16,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy 6 pills once a day, in the
afternoon for a week.

BELLIS PERENNIS 6C,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy once a day, in the night (before
going to bed) for a week.

No. 4,
BARYTA CARBONICA 200C,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy once a week in the morning.


Start the above remedy as below:

1. First week: No. 1.
2. Second week: No. 2.
3. Third week: No. 3,
4. Single dose of No. 4. (never take any remedy on this day)
5. Fourth week: No. 3,
6. Single dose of No. 4. (never take any remedy on this day)
7. Fifth week: No. 3,
8. Single dose of No. 4. (never take any remedy on this day)

Repeat the above remedy till you feel very energized.



Please stop the above remedies and then start the bellow remedies.

No. 1,

DIOSCOREA VILLOSA 6C,

HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy two times daily for a week.

No. 2,
ERYNGIUM AQUATICUM 6C
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy two times daily for a week.

No. 3,
NATRUM PHOS 30C,
HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take the above remedy once a day, in the morning for a week.

Start the above remedy as below:

1. First week: No. 1.
2. Second week: No. 2.
3. Third week: No. 3,

Repeat the above cycle again, starting from 1 to 3, till your PE stops.

WHAT IS A DOSE:
Get the remedy in liquid:
Put one drop of the remedy in half cup of mineral water, That’s one dose.

TIME OF DOSE:
Morning dose: Early morning as soon as you get up, wash your mouth with plain water (don't brush), take the remedy, then wait for 30 minutes.
Afternoon dose: 6 hours after the morning dose.
Night dose: 12 hours after the morning dose.

Don't drink water along with the medicine. Don't drink or eat any thing for 30 minutes before the medicine and after the medicine.

Avoid taking any other medicine during this treatment.

Avoid Coffee, Tea and Tobacco in any form.

Regards
 
HealthyWorld 6 years ago
Thanks for your prompt response and advice.

I have one query, these medicines will be available from normal Pharmacy store or it will be available in Homeopathy stores only?
 
youandme123 6 years ago
Now i see that names of the medicines are the links and i can get medicine from those links but some medicine names do not have links.
Can it be possible to make all these medicines in one package so i can get them all in one shipment in my country?

Thanks.
 
youandme123 6 years ago
Your country name?
 
HealthyWorld 6 years ago
Hi HealthyWorld,

I have sent you email 2 days ago, can you please check and reply.

Thanks.
 
youandme123 6 years ago
Dear,
I did not find any mail from 'youandme123'

plz make sure that you have sent to correct ID.
 
HealthyWorld 6 years ago

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