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Can Homeopathy Help My Case?

Hello everyone,

I want to know if Homeopathy can even help my situation
and case? That's the most important question and I want
to know what you guys think? Because I do not want to
spend time on something if my problem is something else
like diet related, etc? I am extremely frustrated after
many years and years of having problems and I'm hoping
to go in the right direction and find a solution!

I will explain my problem now and background.

My main problem is and has always been with eating.
It has been a problem ever since I was a kid. I have
always been skinny. I was a very skinny kid and I was
always full after eating very little. It has always
been like that through out my life until now.

I have tried everything you can imagine to fix this
problem!!! Almost everything including homeopathy,
natural herbs and supplements, changing my diet a million
times, everything for years!!!

So, my childhood history is that I was always skinny
and could not eat a lot. My parents always wondered and
complained that I was too skinny. My father has also
been skinny his whole life, so I'm sure we have a similar
problem and I got it from him. My mom was skinny too before
marriage but she has gained weight and developed, just like
a normal person does after marriage. My father also gained
a lot of weight after marriage and looked a lot better, but
then after a few years he went back to being skinnier and
had his acid reflux get worse so he couldn't eat like that
anymore.

So, that's my family history and childhood. My mom has never
really had any health problems, nothing too serious or chronic
and no problems from her side of the family that I know of.
I grew up in the United states, in Los angeles, California
since I was 4 or 5 years old. We grew up in obviously a
developed country and we were middle class, so we had money
for food and everything we needed. I was always well fed,
my mom cooked everyday and I ate whatever they made.

As I grew up, when I was in my teens, it was the same thing.
Everyone told me I was too skinny. Family, friends, people in
school. I hated hearing that and I still do. It doesn't bother
me much like before, because before I used to get really
angry and frustrated when I heard that. Now, it doesn't bother
me as much hearing it, but I hate this problem that I have with
eating in general.

So, now I'm 31, I am a male, height is about 5'8 which is about
172 cm or 172 cm, weight is about 52 kg. That's obviously very
low and underweight.

I have always struggled to gain weight. The most I've ever weighed in my life is probably around 56 kg. Right now, my chest is very
thin, my thighs and legs are extremely skinny, and my ribs are
showing.

This is such a frustrating problem. And it is definitely not
GOOD to be underweight!!! I hate being this skinny. I hate
looking at my body and seeing what I see. My fingers are so
skinny!! People tell me too. Some people must think that I
have another kind of problem, like drug related or something
like that. I have never done drugs ever! I dont smoke or drink
either. It has really affected my social life. There are girls
that I have talked to in the last couple of years who also
think I'm very skinny, so it's not just me. It's everybody
that would agree. At the age of 31, I am not married, never
had a real and serious relationship, and this is a big thing
that is holding me back!

There are a lot of things that I have tried like I mentioned
before and I want to list them so that you know before suggesting
it again. If you do think that something else other than
homeopathy can help, then please tell me what and why you think
so? I have tried different diets, healthier food, vegetarian
at one point, etc. Different herbs and natural things, too many
to list. Weight training, lifting weights, exercise, etc. This
does not work. Makes me lose more weight. Tried Acupuncture,
Chinese medicine and diet, Ayurvedic medicine and diet, etc.
I will mention some Western diagnosis and medicine, even though
that doesn't mean much and is not a solution anyway. I have
tried acid reflux pills and they dont work. PLEASE, also do
NOT ask me if I have had an endoscopy or any other medical
tests since that is all non-sense!! Thank you.

Also, I have tried a lot of homeopathic remedies, based on
homeopathic doctors, a few that I researched myself online
and from books, and I can tell you which ones. If you asked
me if I have tried a specific remedy and potency, then I
will either know that I have tried it or will look at the
bag of medicines that I have and let you know if I have opened
it and tried it.

By the way, I have spent so MUCH MONEY and I am in a lot of
debt with my credit cards from years and years of dealing
with this!!! I have been to Naturopathic docs, bought
supplements and natural herbal medicine based on what they
suggested and from what I have found online, been to a few
homeopathic docs, spent money on so many homeopathic remedies,
and ALL of this adds up!!! I have spent thousands of dollars
over the years just trying to fix my problems.

I dont even want to go to anymore homeopathic docs because
I dont want to spend anymore money and I just dont think that
they will find something to help me. I feel really HOPELESS!!
Like I feel like NOTHING will help me!! I feel all the healthy
things, like juicing, a good diet, homeopathy, natural herbs,
NOTHING HELPS and WORKS and I just cant believe it after all
that I have tried. I am hoping that someone out there can help
me if they think homeopathy is the right thing for me and they
are confident they can help.

I just dont understand. It's so ANNOYING and FRUSTRATING!!
Everyone has the opposite problem. Everyone wants to LOSE
WEIGHT! ITS SOOOO FRUSTRATING TO KNOW AND HEAR THAT!!
Especially in the united states, where there are so many
overweight people, and even the rest of the world too,
I have the opposite problem where Im underweight and
struggling with that. Its like Im not normal. Its rare.
People can easily gain weight. They actually STOP themselves
from eating more, but I cant EAT!! It sucks!! And if this
is a digestion issue, I dont understand why I had to have
a digestion issue and WHY it is SO HARD to fix these kinds
of issues. It is actually very well known that digestion
issues are one of the hardest issues to fix and can lead
to all kinds of issues and diseases, or dis-eases!! I feel
like I am one of the healthiest, young people and yet I
cant eat and have serious digestion issues.

I dont even understand what the hell kind of problem I have.
I dont feel reflux or burning. Sometimes I do but its not
the main problem. The main problem is that I feel full
very easily, very soon, early satiety after eating very
little. I should be eating as much as I want!! I should
have the opposite problem like OTHER PEOPLE DO!! They
can control what they eat and how much.

Other than this. I feel like I've always been a depressed
person. Like always felt sad most of my life. Melancholy I
guess you can call it too. Always felt negative about things
and life. Even if I am positive, like the last few years
and not under stress or anxiety, I still have all these
problems like the eating. So, no matter what state of mind
I have or emotional state, I have always, consistently
had these eating problems. I dont really feel loved.
Especially in a romantic way. There is my family and they
show a little love. I feel a little bit from them but I
feel that they hate me more often, even though we're close.
I also think that they have serious problems, especially my
parents, and they do nothing about it and are so stubborn.


Another thing that has really been a problem in my life
is what I am doing with my life. Ever since becoming an
adult, after age of 21, I dont feel fulfilled with what
I am doing in life. My biggest passion in life is music.
My two biggest interests are music and computers. I work
in IT, that is Information Technology and that is computer
related. Fixing computer issues. I have been doing this
since the age of 20 or 21. Although I dont mind doing it,
it is not what I am meant to do for the rest of my life.
I dont feel that at all and it does not fulfill me. Creating
music, writing songs, and singing is what makes me feel
fulfilled and complete and feels like a purpose in life.
I am 31 now and still have not reached my goals as being
a singer and songwriter for a living. However, I do know
that these are extremely hard and rare goals to achieve.
It's like saying I want to be a movie actor or something
and it happens to one in a million.

Ever since then, since the age of 21, this decision of mine
to pursue these goals, has put an UNBELIEVABLE amount of
pressure on me everyday of my life. I feel so sad and empty
and sometimes like a failure, even though I still feel
confident that I can reach my goal someday. Since 21, I
had very strange and weird and disgusting symptoms come
out of nowhere in my life. These symptoms are Phlegm in
the throat, clearing of the throat a lot, trouble swallowing,
phlegm coming from the nose and having to bring down to
the throat and then spit out or hack out and spit onto a
napkin. That has been happening everyday since then. It is
chronic and disgusting and not only does it bother me but
people around me too. It has caused to much anxiety, and
embarrassment for me ever since socially. Everywhere I go,
I have to worry about that and I have to make sure that I
have napkins with me. The phlegm is very thick, Like THICK
GLUE, Clear or white, DISGUSTING!!! I never had these issues
before the age of 21. Keep in mind that I am 31 now and have
had this since then. The eating issues only got worse after
age of 21.

Ironically, a lot of these symptoms are in the throat.

I think that if my eating issues were fixed, I would be SO, SO, FREAKING HAPPY!!! It would be a HUGE RELIEF and weight off
my shoulders!!

However, even if my eating issues were fixed, I still would
feel unhappy, sad, etc if I havent reached my goal as a
singer songwriter and musician. That is a happiness on another
level. At the soul level and feeling a sense of fulfillment
in life.

I think I have explained all I can right now. Please let me
know what you think. You can suggest anything to me, even
if it is not a homeopathic remedy or solution but please
explain why? If you are going to suggest a homeopathic
remedy, please suggest ONLY ONE! I will not listen to anyone
who suggests two remedies at the same time! You should know
from Homeopathic experts like George Vithoulkas and HAHNEMANN
HIMSELF that there is only ONE REMEDY for A PERSON!! The only
exception is if there are layers suspected and that is still
ONE REMEDY AT A TIME, leading to eventually one constitutional
remedy to cure.

Sometimes I feel like I want to get an
expert like George Vithoulkas to look at my case and Im not
even sure if he would do it? He has a clinic where other
Homeopathic docs are available to help who have learned from
him. Sometimes I want to try that because I feel so discouraged
and hopeless and want this fixed and to feel better. I dont
know if they would do it for free though? Anyway, that is something
I can check later. I even went to a doc here who was taught by Rajan Sankaran and he wasnt able to solve it.

Thank you to anyone who reads this and also to anyone
who takes my case and tries to help me! BIG THANKS!!

If you need any more info, any questions, or any clarifications,
please ask me? Thanks
 
  tod86 on 2017-09-27
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Which homeopathic meds you have already taken
 
Zady101 6 years ago
When you reply, send me a mail so that i can come and check
 
Zady101 6 years ago
Hi Zady,

Thanks for replying. The easier way is to ask me if I took a specific remedy that you suspect might be right? Because I have taken a lot. Thanks!
 
tod86 6 years ago

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