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Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for the remedy suggestion. I took Lycopodium 200 as per your advice. I will report about the effects after a week.

In the meantime, i need your help on my another health condition.
I have a condition of a bladder inflammation now. Doctor said it may be a condition called “Interstitial Cystitis”. Urologist has given me antibiotics and pain killers for long time now but my pain in the bladder is not going away. I go to frequent urination. There’s a burning and stinging pain near bladder and urethra It’s worse when my bladder is full and when I eat spicy food. There is no bacteria in my urine but still, doctors suggested me to have mild dose of antibiotics and Uribel (a painkiller) for a month.
When the doctor did cystoscopy, there was nothing but redness inside the bladder. I don’t want to ruin my body’s mechanism with antibiotics and pain killers. Could you please suggest me any remedies? Can I take those remedies along with these allopathic medications or can I stop these medications and take only homeopathic treatment? I have full trust on homeopathy. Please suggest me something.

I have this situation going on for about 4-5 months. I found out, The pain in my pelvic zone was because of my inflammed bladder.
Please help me get rid of this pain.
Thanking you, I appreciate your help.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take the following remedies twice a day for a week and see how that affects...
cantharis 30
gelsemium 30

You may stop or even continue your allopathic medicines while taking above remedies.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Doctor Kadwa,
Thank you for your remedy suggestions. I ordered them online and am waiting for them to reach me.
I have been feeling so depressed for the last 3 days. I thought that’s from the allopathic medicines I have taken for long time. So I stopped all those medications, no matter what. I was telling myself “why do I have to take antibiotics, while I don’t have any bacterias in my urine”. So I totally stopped the Uribel ( pain killer) and the antibiotics. My urinary bladder pain is less now and I am also in my period at the moment. May be because of my menstrual cramps I am not feeling any pain inside my bladder at the moment.
But my depression is still on. I am not talking to anybody at work. I look sad. I want to stay alone. I wanted to be less bothered. My best friend at my work hurt me emotionally lately and I am punishing her by not talking to her or ignoring her. And also my brother and my mom are being rude to my dad, back home. I am not able to help him. He is a mental patient. I feel so sad and bad for him. I wish I could help him out. I love him and I don’t like anybody misbehave with him. Whatever he has done for me as a father is more than enough for me. I respect him and love him. But my brother says he’s a hopeless father and hasn’t done enough for the family. I feel so helpless here. I am not able to call him either as I don’t want to hear anything bad about him or I don’t want to hear he’s suffering. I feel anxious. I couldn’t sleep last night thinking about the fight my parents had yesterday. My dad is 75 and my mom is 65.
I am so depressed at the moment. Do I just wait for those remedies or can I have another remedy to calm my nerves down? Please suggest Dr Kadwa. And sorry to bother you for this. I really appreciate your advice.

Thanking you.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Ignatia 30 and Causticum 30 should help with your depression. You may take the remedies twice a day for 3 days and see how that affects over 10 days.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for your help.
I took Ignatia 30 and Custicum30 for my depression for 3 days. Today is the third day after the full dosage. I feel like 30-40% improvements on my depressed mood.

But my pelvic pain/bladder pain again flared up. Can I take Cantharis 30 and Gelsemium 30 for a week now as you suggested before I took ignatia ? or do I have to wait ?

I am so depressed again, mostly because of my health. My head is very congested. I am so confused about my bad health. One Urologist had told me me to have surgery because according to him I don’t empty my bladder while I go to the bathroom. So I have a risk of recurrent UTI. But later on another urologist said, I didn’t need to have the surgery as he couldn’t see any bacterias in my urine and he doesn’t see any urine retention.
It’s just bladder inflammation he says. I was so relieved that the second urologist told me I didn’t need any surgery. But now again I am feeling a stitching pain near urethra and dull pain in pelvic zone.

Right now I am feeling My whole pelvic area is wounded. I don’t know if I am developing cysts again. last time About two months ago I had my pelvic ultrasound and I was told that the cysts I had have been dissolved. And now I don’t know if I am really having urinary system problems, or I am so scared if I am having some other diseases? I am pretty sure its not STD or any sexually transmitted disease as I am not sexually active.
for the last 5-6 years. But I feel so much discomfort in my pelvic zone.
I am not sure whether it’s bladder or ovary pain. I am so fed up.

I am feeling very insecured as my husband is not a responsible person. I am worried about my future and my daughter’s future as he is not a good support for us. I am too tensed too frustrated. I don’t want to stay with the person who can’t be supportive to a family. He relies on me and that makes me irritated. I want to leave him but I am too much scared with loneliness. I can’t keep him nor can leave him. I am in a suffocating environment. My biggest fear is a loneliness. I look tough from outside but I am weak from inside. I just don’t want him around me, yet I need a person with me. I don’t know what my solution would be. I am fearful to hear any bad news related to me.

Please help.
[Edited by Dr Kadwa only on 2018-07-02 22:49:15]
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I have started taking Cantharis 30 and Gelsemium 30.
Will report you after the completion of the dosages.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
okay
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,

I finished the one week dosages of Gelsemium 30 and Cantharis 30, 3 days ago. The pincing feeling in the bladder and urethra has been reduced but the pressure in the bladder has not gone yet. I feel pressure and feel to go to the bathroom urgently. Sometimes I feel I haven’t emptied my bladder and I feel so wounded in my pelvic area. Could it be because my ovarian cysts have come back again ? Can this be pressure of cysts in my ovaries ?
When I did my cystoscopy 8 months ago and 1 month ago again, the doctors said my bladder is fine. One of the doctors said I retain urine and the other one said there is no urine retention.
I had burning feeling in my bladder this morning when I hold my urine for little longer time.
I am really fed up with this sick feeling. I always feel I am carrying any heavy object in my pelvic area. That’s why I am going to the restroom so often now, I feel dull ache on my left side but mostly I feel sick in the middle specially when I sit down. I have to sit for long time at work so it’s more difficult to bear that discomfort.
I also feel something is poking me inside, when I bend. I feel some extra thing is inside me. I don’t know if it’s bladder or uterus or ovary. Its making me go to the restroom so often which is very annoying.

Please help me, Dr Kadwa.
[Edited by Dr Kadwa only on 2018-07-13 01:47:43]
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take the following remedies twice a day for 5 days and see how that affects...
Sulphur 30
Sepia 30
Nux Vomica 30

One dose means 2 pills or drops each of all the three remedies at a time.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
How are you doing?
Thank you for the remedy suggestion. I took Sulphur 30, Nux Vomica 30 and sepia 30 for 5 days as per your suggestion. Yesterday was my 5th day. I don’t know if I am reporting you early at the moment:
Updates:
My dull and continuous pain in the pelvis area has significantly reduced now. The heaviness in the uterus or bladder has been reduced by 60-70 %. The pinching pain in the urethra has been reduced by 50-60%. The wounded feeling has gone by 50%.
Overall, I am much better than what I was experiencing before. Thank you for your help.

But I am still annoyed by the urge of frequent urination. The urge has not been subsided. I feel to go to the restroom every half an hour or so. which is disturbing my work. And if I hold my urine for few minutes, my bladder hurts and has mild burning feeling after I pee.

I feel like I retain my pee at the end of the bladder or may be in urethra, even after the urination. So whenever I come back from the restroom, I want to go again in half an hour, which is very frustrating. There is still some discomfort around urethra and bladder.

Please suggest.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take Causticum 30 and Nux Vomica 30 twice a day for 7 days and report back.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I have been taking Causticum 30 and Nux Vomica 30 twice a day for the last 6 days. I still have one more dose to go, but so far I haven’t seen any improvements on my urinary problem. Usually if there is an improvement in my condition, I see it in 3-4 days of taking remedies. But this time, my pain in the lower part of my pelvic zone is very intense, I still feel urge to go for urination every 30-45 mins which is very annoying. After I urinate it hurts a lot now. The amount of flow is less. I feel like there is some kind of swelling inside. It hurts more around the opening of the Urethra. I still feel I have some urine inside my body even after I pee. I am nauseous and bloated too. I am sorry to write you early because the problem is bothering me a lot this time. Burning has been increased. The burn is from bladder to the end of urethra(the opening). I feel so wounded in my lower part of the front body. I am so frustrated by this recurring UTI.
Please help me I don’t want to take antibiotics again and again.

Thanking you.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take the following remedies twice a day for a week and see how that affects..
Apis 30
Sulphur 30
Merc Sol 30

One dose means 2 pills or drops each of all three remedies at a time.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I took the three remedies as per your advice, but did not see any improvements. So I started taking low dose antibiotics which was with me at my home. After taking it for four days I went to my urologist, but he said I don’t have any bacterias, any blood, any abnormal WBC. It’s been a week that I am taking those low dose antibiotics. My frequency of going to the restroom has been improved a lot now, which is a relief. But my pelvic pain is still there. I think my ovarian cysts flared up again and was pressurizing my bladder, because of which I had been going to the restroom every 40 mins or so. And now somehow antibiotics might have worked on cysts to shrink or the cysts might have shrinked so my bladder is not pressured like before. I am guessing here now it may not be a bladder pain or urethra pain. Rather it may be pain in my reproductive organs because of the cysts. I did my pelvic sonogram about 3 months ago which did not show any cysts on ovaris, but now my symptoms again indicate the ovarian cysts.
I am having pain mostly in the center, I am gaining weight even though I don’t eat much. I have hair on my chin. I feel like a pregnant because of the heaviness in my pelvic area.

I am depressed again too, and I don’t want to see my husband’s face as I think that he is responsible for my poverty or my not good fate. This feelings have been there since after few months of my marriage which is since 2005. I hate him yet I can’t leave him. I wanted a bonded family always. So I am tolerating everything and making my life miserable.

Please help.

Please suggest me.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take Anacardium 30 and Natrum Mur 30 twice a day for a week and report back.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
How are you ?
I had Nat Mur 30 and Anacardium 30 for a week as per your advice. Today is the third day after the completion of the dosage.
My intensity of hatred towards my husband minimized by 30-40 %. I do not yell at him like before, rather I have become very quiet( which is not good either). I am still very indifferent towards him. I am still mad at him. I don’t like him. I don’t have any feelings for him. I am still very depressed. I am not happy and cheerful. I feel I am being cheated by my relatives regarding my marriage as he was/is not at all responsible person and was married to me just with a hope that he might change after the marriage and kids. I am so stuck in this marriage material.
I had a huge hope towards my husband when I got married as he has got a degree from the USA. I had a hope that I would not have to live in scarcity anymore after my marriage as he would be getting a good job and we will be financially stable. But as soon as I came to know that he doesn’t do nothing or does not have confidence or guts to do something for his family, my dream shattered and scattered. My life is still a struggling life and I am still financially weak. I don’t wanna live my life as in my childhood or in my adolescent days. Those days were so hard. My mom dad were not financially stable and we had to compromise on lots of things just to survive. We were a lower middle class family before my marriage. And now I can’t do any big things because of my depression and anxiety problems and I can’t rely on my husband as he is doing nothing for us. I am fed up with this kind of situation again and again. I don’t wanna live poor and die poor. I don’t want the same kind of frustration and depression for my daughter because of my financial condition. And I blame my husband for giving her the same lifestyle that I had in my childhood given by my parents. I am so much frustrated and depressed. I stopped talking to almost everybody at work and at home.
I look gloomy and sad. I am too much irritated by small matters. I yell at my daughter most of the time.

Please help me with this situation.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take Anacardium 30 and Kali Carb 30 in evening for 10 days and report back.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
How are you doing?

I took the remedies for 10 evenings as per your advice.
The hatred towards my husband is 10-15 % more improved. I still don’t like him. I don’t love him as he’s not a successful person. He doesn’t earn what he’s supposed ti earn based on his PHd degree. He drives TAXI instead. Which makes me irritated and frustrated all the time. I am depressed because of my financial condition despite his high degree of education. I am very insecured all the time, thinking about the (less )money I have to run the family.
I am so furious all the time at him. I waited for him to do some significant ( find a good job) for the last 8 years. Bu I have lost hope on him now. Now I am more depressed that I can’t rely on anybody regarding my future.
I feel so overwhelmed managing my full time job, household and a child. I feel so tired physically and mentally.
I am indifferent to almost everybody now. I have started hoarding money to feel secure financially. I sacrifice the basic necessities and try to save money fearing I might be poor one day if I don’t di so. I am scared of insanity now. I have a lot if things going on in my mind, sometimes I feel like scream loud and take all those frustrations out. I feel like I have been exploited by my husband and my MIL. I don’t force him to get any good job or neither I can say anything else, just because of the fear that he may leave me again. But I am so suffocating because of his irresponsible behaviors and not paying much attention towards his family.
I can’t tolerate humiliation and I am easily offended.
Please help me. My head is very congested and have burning feeling inside. I have mild headache too.
I like successful and sharp minded people and I feel so embarrassed when he cannot solve any minor things in life. He is more dependent on me. These make me so irritated. My anger has become increased than before.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take a single dose of Carcinosin 200 and see how that affects over 15 days.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for your remedy suggestion. I appreciate your selfless help.
I ordered the remedy online and the soonest I can get the remedy is on 18th.

Could I ask you something ? Can I take any other remedy in the meantime ? As I am so anxious and irritated. I am quarrelling with my husband all the time. I am yelling and am not being nice to anybody. My head is aching and is congested.The irriation is increasing and uncontrollable. I would appreciate if I can get a remedy suggestion for my current situation until I get hold of Carsinocin 200.
Thanking you a lot.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
You may take Nux Vomica 200 and Anacardium 30 twice a day for few days.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,

Thank you for your help. I received Carsinocin 200 on time so I took a dose of it as per your advice. It’s been 10 days and I am not sure how much I am relieved with the dosage so far. May be 10-20%. Whenever I argue with my husband the fear of being alone if he leaves me, has become less now. My confidence level sometimes increases sometimes decreases.

Furthermore in my story:

I left him already few years back due to too much stress but again felt sorry for him and felt too much guilty. I am too soft hearted if I see any old, diseased and pathetic people. Because of guilt of leaving him at that time, I became so weak mentally and physically. I wanted him back badly and I was successful to get him back. He went back home for 5 years After I left him.
I missed him a lot yet I became independent too. I feel independent now as well. But I can’t see him wasting his time on making excuses for not working as per his degree (Phd). He drives UBER but without any interests, hence there is always a scarcity of money. I can’t dream of anything good. I hate him yet I can’t leave him. Because I don’t want to repeat the same situation again.

I am still indifferent, angrier and irritated towards him. Whenever I see him, I get irritated and I start arguing with him.

I have started arguing with almost everybody now. Because I feel very overwhelmed with stress of managing everything by myself. I am too tired to think about anything now. My head is aching a lot. It is congested and burning.
I am so depressed and sad all the time. I yell at my daughter with my husband.
I didn’t want this kind of future. I am too exhausted mentally and physically.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
Please take Anacardium 30 and Causticum 30 in evening for 10 days.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,

I just viewed your message. Thank you for your remedy suggestions. I would like to share you somethings before I take them:

since
yesterday morning the hatred towards my husband has minimised significantly. I was not yelling at him or at my daughter like I used to do before on every little things. I am calmer than before now. Eventhough if I see my husband at home and not at work I am not mad at him like before now. Sorry I wanted to write to you about this earlier, but I wanted to see if it was only temporary, so I waited for a day. I haven’t still argued with him since yesterday. I have been focusing on his positive deeds. I think I am more better than before now. It’s like 40% better


But i am too tensed and my head is too congested at the moment. I had an argument with my brother the other day and last night he sent me a satirical note on my phone which hurt my feelings and my self respect. He humiliated me and blamed me for a thing that I didn’t do. I always wanted and wished for his betterment but he is very suspicious. He suspects me in whatever I do. Actually our dad stayed with me for 2-3 days and when he went back to my brother, my brother called me and said that I put something in my dad’s ear which was against him and because of that it destroyed his schedule and his plan. Whereas my dad and me never talked about the thing he was blaming me for. He’s always been suspicious towards every single thing in life. He acts like a detective and thinks that he solves every problems because he’s a genius. My dad was like that before and now my brother acquired those qualities.
My brother was trying to attack me emotionally and mentally. I couldn’t sleep last night. My head is hurting a lot. My ego is hurt, my self respect is hurt. My confidence is hurt. I didn’t reply him anything for his rude sentences.

I am not being able to ignore these things. I have been thinking about it repeatedly and being tensed since last night. I don’t want my sleep being disturbed again as I need to remain active the next day to manage everything.

Should I still go ahead and take those two remedies that you have suggested? Please advice. Please don’t get mad at me for bothering you again eventhough you prescribed me remedies already.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago
One has to develop some sort of objectivity vis-a-vis oneself. Whatever we like won't happen and we have to accept it. You may go ahead with the remedies if you are still upset.
 
kadwa 5 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,

I am okay with my brother’s issues now but my husband’s irresponsible behaviors still annoy me a lot. He is very careless and carefree. I try to ignore these things a lot but I don’t think any kind of response gonna help him being responsible or being sensible. His immature acts always irritate me. I an too much frustrated and irritated. I am so sad and depressed. I feel like I am being exploited by him. I feel like he’s taking me As granted, he’s taking advantage of me. Every day I think about my marriage and the moment I married to this guy. I am so helpless, as I can’t leave him yet, I can’t stay with him. This relationship is bothering me a lot. I fear of being alone so I am spending my life with a person I don’t like. I was never happy with him. I don’t trust him for anything. I can’t rely on him if I have any bad days. He needs my help in every little things. He can’t do anything by himself, these characters of him annoy me a lot. I feel very insecure about my future. I am not financially stable but I tend to save as much as I can because I don’t want to live the poor life again. I hoard money eventhough my income barely fulfill my daily needs. I am not greedy though. If I see any needy or poor people I give money to them.
The fear of loneliness has been embedded on me since my childhood. I am trying to come out of this barrier of the feeling of helplessness. I am too suffocated inside my negativity. I am exhausted.
I am fatigued as soon as I get home from work. I am too tired mentally as I worry too much. I know I can’t change himbut I need to be strong enough to cope with these frustrations. My main complaint is he makes so many lame excuses to make money. He’s not earning enough to have a good life. I am expecting from him as he has a Phd degree from USA. And it’s going on waste as he is not trying to get any job using his degree. He loves to do easy things. He doesn’t want to work hard and get better life. I had a lot of expectations from him and I am seeing my dreams are vanishing away. I don’t see him doing any significant in life. It’s been 12 years I have been on a hope that he would do something good for me one day. But now I lost every hope from him. Now I don’t wanna be fooled by his excuses. I wanna get out of this tensions and tiredness. I wanna be happy. I don’t wanna expect anything from him. Just wanna live my life fearlessly. I don’t want any luxurious life but I want to be financially stable enough to get a good life for me and my daughter. I want to work hard and be successful. But my headache and head congestion, forgetfulness, depression and anxiety are on my way as barriers. Sometimes I feel like I am having hearing loss too( it may probably be because of too much stress and anger).
Thinking about these things makes me feel weak.
I am too tired physically as well. I have to wake up at 4 in the morning for my work but nowadays I feel so tired and My back hurts. I feel so gloomy.


Please doctor Kadwa, if you could help me out of this situation, I would appreciate it. I will try my best at my end.

Thanking you a lot for listening to me and helping me out.
 
Dr Kadwa only 5 years ago

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