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Vaginismus

Hello, I am a 31 yr old woman. I am a married woman but I have never had intercourse with my husband. I had heard about the pain that usually happens during the first intercourse. I developed certain fear about it. it started with some fear but had gotten worsened to the extent of phobia now. We don't even try now as I end up getting heavily panicked at that moment. a doctor says i have vaginismus. But i have that super fearful only during that particular moment. Its not that i have trouble with tampons. I think I have developed a phobia of how much pain it cud be. Any medication available for this kind of problem?
 
  gloriousheart on 2018-04-16
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1) What are the complaints and any known cause for such complaints.
2) List out locations and sensations associated with complaints if any
3) Write down worsening and bettering factors and any associated symptoms about these complaints.
4) Details about emotional state, personality, temperament, fears/anxieties.
5) Details like cravings/aversions, climate/temperature preference, thirst/hunger/sleep/sex/discharge issues and about physical appearance and nature of occupation.
6) Any other miscellaneous details including past history of diseases, medicines taken and diseases running into family.
 
maheeru 3 months ago

Hello, Thanks for your interest in my problem.

1. The major problem is that I am scared of the first intercourse because of that pain that might happen during first time penetration. I am a virgin. But Because of this notion of pain, my fear has become full blown. I am also scared to even try now because when panic attacks at the end moment, its very frustrating for my husband.

2. I cant even enjoy any foreplay because of the constant fear of the next step that will follow. Its not that I have aversion to sex to I am not interested in it, but I am just too scared...to the extent of panicking and shivering when the time of penetration comes.

3.

4. This fear kind of thing has been hovering over my mind for three years now and eating up me from inside. I stay stressed and anxious 24x7. I had drastically brought down my self confidence and self esteem.

5. I do like junk food. But I can control when I want to.
I like the winters.
I dont have habit of drinking lot of water. Only when I feel thirsty, I have some.
My periods are regular but very scanty.
I have acne problem since long.
I work in biology research field.
No such kind of problems have existed in my family.
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

Hi,
Please read about this on web md site.
You can do kegel exercises to desensitize yourself
And gain more insight about this. Vaginal muscles
Contractions are a puzzle with this, as sometimes
It is from fear, sometimes it just originates from some physical muscle problem- kind of like what is first? The chicken or the egg?

I think if you follow the kegel advice etc you will be able to learn more
About the real cause.
 
simone717 3 months ago

You can take Pulsatilla 200c one pill/drop twice a day for three days only. So total SIX doses only.

Let me know changes after 10 days.

Sufficient arousal should prevent any discomfort even if it exists is not going to be overwhelming and likely to be at par with a pinch. Or some lubrication shall be used. Positions other than supine can be tried, for example prone like position which will give greater control so that any pain/discomfort can be minimised. In addition to medicine's action these things can help.
 
maheeru 3 months ago

Thank you so much Simone and Maheeru :)
I will re-start those exercises. I did them for sometime about an year back. But didn't help my mental fear. I will start now, along with the Pulsatilla 200c med. Thanks again Maheeru.
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

simone717 said Hi,
Please read about this on web md site.
You can do kegel exercises to desensitize yourself
And gain more insight about this. Vaginal muscles
Contractions are a puzzle with this, as sometimes
It is from fear, sometimes it just originates from some physical muscle problem- kind of like what is first? The chicken or the egg?

I think if you follow the kegel advice etc you will be able to learn more
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Hi, it is from fear. I have never had sex. I dont even know if the first intercourse will pain or not..or how much will it pain etc. Its the phycological fear that stops me from even trying it. I get all panicking.
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

Please read the web md site for this and what they suggest you try after kegel exercise to see how you react under your own control and desensitize
Yourself-
 
simone717 3 months ago

Glorious Heart

I sensed the fear factor as you say---otherwise three years is a long time to settle this.

That's why i have given some tips to make it easy, if you are able to go through this even once, your fear factor will come down to a large extent.

The remedy suggested is only a first step, if need be others can be suggested.

Keep me posted. If despite all the precautions you feel pain after this act, keep staphy. 30c in hand, this will help with the pain.
 
maheeru 3 months ago

Thanks Maheeru.

I have got the medicine, Pulsatilla. Did u mean one drop in some water?
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

You could take it direct under the tongue and let it dissolve. The dosage for one dose will be one drop or one pill or one globule or one tablet depending on which form of the medicine you have bought.

Water is not needed now. If you are sensitive to medicine, we'll know and if need be--- the medicine can be taken in water.
 
maheeru 3 months ago

Okay. Thanks a lot!
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

Hi Maheeru, Hope you are doing great!
I took the first two doses yesterday. It made a bit of cry baby I guess. But today seems fine. What is this medicine supposed to do..as in will it help tackle my phobia?
 
gloriousheart 3 months ago

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