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My best friend

Hi,

Can someone point us in the right direction please, i'm looking for a remedy that suits my best friend.

She is critical, has lack of self confidence but on the other hand is arrogant. She is easily offended when you say something to her, she thinks you underestimate her(probably because she lacks selfconfidence) and so she snaps at you. Saying she is not stupid etc. She has an aversion to things pointing at her, for instance a spoon in a pan or whatever, she pushes it away so it doesn't point at her anymore. She is not very good at confrontations, she let's things go untill she HAS to say or do something about it and then she says or does something. She is rather reserved, also in emotions. Has only had platonic boyfriend and she's 40 years old...

Her main complaints are rheumatic, with usual agg in cold and wet, nothing out of the ordinary for rheuma.

She responded well to lyc and then to cocc. but now we're stuck and can't think of anything, need some input from pair of fresh eyes.

Mindpicture is hopefully elaborate enough for someone to come up with an idea...

sulp didnt do anything and sil did some...

Any good ideas???

Thanks!!

kayhello on 2006-04-12

This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.

Some of the character of Puls here and that is well followed by Sil.

Nat sul will often help rheumatic trouble.

walkin last decade

Thanks walkin,

i forgot to say that she has a blackout(as she describes it) whenever somebody asks her something, so not only in oral exams or something... she feels pressure then she blacks out. so she has to think long..

kayhello last decade

My friend says she reacts that snappish, because she's a female vet and they are underrated and underestimated by other male vets and some people.

kayhello last decade

as long as not taken any other meds for any other reasons then..single dose (2 PELLETS) staphysagria 1M..

keep in touch here--so as to monitor closely

also tell her stop all acidic fod and drinks (coffee:alcohoic beverages;tea;fruits and fruit juices;vinegar;...etc)

♡ John Stanton last decade

p.s. take staphy before bed--no eating 1 hour prior.

better be around she'll need someone to vent to..

♡ John Stanton last decade

Thanks John,

I can relate to the staph. idea (delusion is criticized, was the rubric i was thinking of and staph is in it) just read staph again in desktop guide and she has been put down by her critical and more popular sister and critical mother, so that figures...

Remembered she also took nat-m once and got a ranula under her tongue, she was proving the remedy because it did nothing else for her. Nat-m is related to staph and in the rubric ranula: there's staph again! I always think of extreme suppression when i think of staph, but i forgot that they also express anger. I gave my horse staph. because he would let other horses kick him, worked brilliantly!

It's difficult to look at your best friend objectively and what i find most difficult is after you've given a remedy to someone that works and it stops working then looking at the case again and determining what belongs to the new/next remedypicture pfff, and after succesful remedies it's even harder...

So thank you again and i'll suggest it to her and we'll see what happens...

btw nice reply to that pharmacist with his marketingploy haha take no prisoners! haha

kayhello last decade

Oh yeah, and the inhibition and vulnerability is there too and of coarse she's very loyal that's one of the main reasons she 's my best friend. But that works against her sometimes, because people ask her advice a lot(her being a vet)and she still gives it too them even if they don't follow her advice and treat her like she doesn't know what she's talking about. I have often said to her why she even speaks to these people again...

Now i'm thinking of the case this way staph fits very well i think.

The only thing i can't place is the sexual thing staph. has, but maybe that's just something she doesn't share with me or maybe it's because she has she shows the other side of the medal so to speak and that's why she has has only a platonic boyfriend for a year...

kayhello last decade

yeah staph has sex thing--with women not marked sex increae--has aversion to sex-with the ones hat no sem or sex atitude i suspect masturbation and sex dreams to satify....after noting response from staph==may find carc or as you said nat-m under neath....thing is address the obvious --see how case opens up..

.keep in ouch--

♡ John Stanton last decade

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