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Aversion to everyone BUT husband...
I know the rubric aversion to husband, but what if she has aversion to everyone BUT the husband?Any ideas?
Thanks!
kayhello on 2006-05-31
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I have heard men flurting with their own wives when drunk but this one is new.I believe she will have very serious trouble.
ziakhan last decade
they are speaking from males point of view...as though it is the husband whom is writing this...not the wife....
♡ John Stanton last decade
that's what i suspected...thanks for clearing that up John...
You got any ideas about this 'aversion to everyone but husband'?
You got any ideas about this 'aversion to everyone but husband'?
kayhello last decade
can you explain in more detail what is exactly menat by aversion --and what it means to be not averse to husband..this envolve special feeling or state of only security---also has this state always been like this?---when did it change?
♡ John Stanton last decade
She doesn't want to see anyone or talk to anyone only to husband.
State has been there before. Had it with former husband too. Comes on whenever she's feeling down/tired.
Has nothing to do with security.
I think it's more like she wants consolation from specific person, only from him. Something like that. She feels better when he holds her or talks to her.
State has been there before. Had it with former husband too. Comes on whenever she's feeling down/tired.
Has nothing to do with security.
I think it's more like she wants consolation from specific person, only from him. Something like that. She feels better when he holds her or talks to her.
kayhello last decade
how is she averse to others? do you mean not willing to interact with others at all and only wants to interact with husband? or she actually adverse to others (rather stay away from them)?
i may be confusing the idea fels best around husband..with actually aversion to others..
i may be confusing the idea fels best around husband..with actually aversion to others..
♡ John Stanton last decade
Doesn't pick up the phone, doesn't call friends back. Doesn't see friends.
Only picks up phon when husband is calling.
Not agoraphobic or fear of people. Just doesn't want to talk to anyone.
Maybe it's the feeling that all other people tire her, take energy from her, while husband gives energy.
Friends are not to blame for anything,did nothing wrong it's HER feeling, HER perception.
Only picks up phon when husband is calling.
Not agoraphobic or fear of people. Just doesn't want to talk to anyone.
Maybe it's the feeling that all other people tire her, take energy from her, while husband gives energy.
Friends are not to blame for anything,did nothing wrong it's HER feeling, HER perception.
kayhello last decade
there are 2 dissimilar il's present a once here--sounds like medicinal effect in combination with natural predisposition....take a look in pathogensey of last remedy wife has taken..will find some over action--envolved...if no meds or remedy envolved then what comes up is sepia..nat-c...nat-m...nat-s----we have strong natrum characteristics envolved..sodim aspect....except wanting to be held--this sepia and just nat-s........
♡ John Stanton last decade
if fear of being aloe is marked --then more nat-c ...then sepia
also ned find out how much menses affects these feelings...
also ned find out how much menses affects these feelings...
♡ John Stanton last decade
also note--if husband doesnt feel the same way--and wife is aware of this---yet still feels this way towards husband---then nat-m is remedy...
♡ John Stanton last decade
Ok thanks.
Staying with the same theme: what if wife thinks although she loves husband, he is not that much into her. He says he is. But her experience with other men she has NEVER doubted their feelings for her. He says it's enough for him if he sees her twice a week, while other men would overload her with attention. She doesn't want to be in relationship with man who isnt as much into her as she is into him. BUT: she doesn't want to break up with him because he looks like the man she has in mind. Clearer: she has this picture in her mind how her husband should look like and this one looks like that. This husband is really handsome and former men were not (and also other things were wrong with them to end relationship or not even start it). Now she finally has what she wants on the 'looks departement', but he is probably too cool a type for her. She has an inner conflict with on one hand him being too cool on other hand not wanting to give up this gorgeous guy. And it's not like he isn't sweet to her he is just not intense enough in his feelings for her. He says he is just like that and never has been different with other women.
That not wanting to give up this guy where she really can be seen with, is that 'fear of losing social position' or the image thing sil has?
It has to do with both. A man who looks like that fits with the picture she has in her head, but also she likes being seen with this man....
Staying with the same theme: what if wife thinks although she loves husband, he is not that much into her. He says he is. But her experience with other men she has NEVER doubted their feelings for her. He says it's enough for him if he sees her twice a week, while other men would overload her with attention. She doesn't want to be in relationship with man who isnt as much into her as she is into him. BUT: she doesn't want to break up with him because he looks like the man she has in mind. Clearer: she has this picture in her mind how her husband should look like and this one looks like that. This husband is really handsome and former men were not (and also other things were wrong with them to end relationship or not even start it). Now she finally has what she wants on the 'looks departement', but he is probably too cool a type for her. She has an inner conflict with on one hand him being too cool on other hand not wanting to give up this gorgeous guy. And it's not like he isn't sweet to her he is just not intense enough in his feelings for her. He says he is just like that and never has been different with other women.
That not wanting to give up this guy where she really can be seen with, is that 'fear of losing social position' or the image thing sil has?
It has to do with both. A man who looks like that fits with the picture she has in her head, but also she likes being seen with this man....
kayhello last decade
There's no fear of being alone.
These feeling not really affectd by menses, has more to do with feeling tired or down...
If husband doesnt feel same way.... you mean unrequited love???
These feeling not really affectd by menses, has more to do with feeling tired or down...
If husband doesnt feel same way.... you mean unrequited love???
kayhello last decade
Sooner or later she is going to go through a heart break....then she will need 'Ignitia'.
She has the personality of a compulsive romantic.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
She has the personality of a compulsive romantic.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
kayhello last decade
nat-m!!!!!
♡ John Stanton last decade
haha i was afraid you were going to say that haha
keeps coming back doesn't it...
the whole 'dramatic love' theme is just SO nat-m
Jonh tell me, why did it stop working when it was the first remedy she took?? It worked brilliantly for 3 months on every level, but then stopped...
I really don't know what to do with this....
keeps coming back doesn't it...
the whole 'dramatic love' theme is just SO nat-m
Jonh tell me, why did it stop working when it was the first remedy she took?? It worked brilliantly for 3 months on every level, but then stopped...
I really don't know what to do with this....
kayhello last decade
Natrum Mur is the chronic of Ignitia....but Ignitia is more suitable for women.
I suspect...she has already been through a heart break.
If she has a temperament:
'Quick to perceive and rapid to execute', nervous,rapid change in mental and physical symptoms bordering on hysteria.
Menses: profuse and continue for a longer duration....
...then Ignitia more suited.
Are you discussing about your daughter??
Best,
Pankaj Varma
I suspect...she has already been through a heart break.
If she has a temperament:
'Quick to perceive and rapid to execute', nervous,rapid change in mental and physical symptoms bordering on hysteria.
Menses: profuse and continue for a longer duration....
...then Ignitia more suited.
Are you discussing about your daughter??
Best,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
may have reached blocked layer ---and will need address this---or if not varied potency then may have had to do this...it is often will need intercurrrent ot open case up when well selected remdy gives action and then ceases--and no further dosing gives respons eof that remedy...if much time and remedies have been given in between nat-m a nd now....will have to settle things down---and get clearer pic---if wont settle--then use ph-ac 200c ...1 dose--this may be helpful if sensitivity is developed also....see when nat-m failed--at that time clear/proper accessment is required--so as ascertain next step--may be litle variation in smptoms call and point to next remedy---
in this case i suggest ph-ac 200c --1 pellet in 4 oz water-stir heavy--i dose--keeping patient away from acids for about 10 days....and note effect....ok?
in this case i suggest ph-ac 200c --1 pellet in 4 oz water-stir heavy--i dose--keeping patient away from acids for about 10 days....and note effect....ok?
♡ John Stanton last decade
Menses is late and scanty with much pain.
Temperament: intense, indeed quick to perceive and rapid to execute, but not nervous an no rapid change in ment and physical symptoms.
She has lot of contradiction in personality, so that is ignatia like...
But the bad news is, she took it 2 months ago and worked only briefly....
Temperament: intense, indeed quick to perceive and rapid to execute, but not nervous an no rapid change in ment and physical symptoms.
She has lot of contradiction in personality, so that is ignatia like...
But the bad news is, she took it 2 months ago and worked only briefly....
kayhello last decade
....which potency ?
Give her a dose of Sulphur first (one dose, in the morning)...will make way for the appropriate med to work.
Start Ignitia next day.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
Give her a dose of Sulphur first (one dose, in the morning)...will make way for the appropriate med to work.
Start Ignitia next day.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
Pankaj: she took ignatia in LM6 potency.
John, you're right about overresponse (to sep in this case). But i started the thread because the symptom was so UNLIKE sepia, so therefore i was wondering what remedy this symptom would indicate.
I had a feeling the situation would point to nat-m, but question is whether sepia just brought around this old nat-m state/tendency or whether it is here back to stay...
I think will try let symptoms settle on it's own, things are calming down already. Still the problem of this inner conflict remains. In addition: what makes her also doubt breaking up with this man is his inconsistancy: on one hand after he has been with her over the weekend he can write a really sweet and loving e-mail to her (only 2 hours after seeing her last) and also that same evening calling her on the phone... yet on the other hand he can 'suffise' with seeing her 2 times a week or let days go by without calling or seeing her at all.
He is a bit like a badly working shower: alternating hot and cold water. Just when she thinks the temperature is just right...there comes the cold water again! and THAT's what hurts her.
If he were only cool she wouldn't get hurt, because she would keep her distance, but being so loving and warm he 'sucks her back in' and sets her up for disappointment again.
I'll see what happens when the dust settles, but i have a feeling that one way or the other this 'love issue' has to be adressed...jut don't know in what way yet...
John, you're right about overresponse (to sep in this case). But i started the thread because the symptom was so UNLIKE sepia, so therefore i was wondering what remedy this symptom would indicate.
I had a feeling the situation would point to nat-m, but question is whether sepia just brought around this old nat-m state/tendency or whether it is here back to stay...
I think will try let symptoms settle on it's own, things are calming down already. Still the problem of this inner conflict remains. In addition: what makes her also doubt breaking up with this man is his inconsistancy: on one hand after he has been with her over the weekend he can write a really sweet and loving e-mail to her (only 2 hours after seeing her last) and also that same evening calling her on the phone... yet on the other hand he can 'suffise' with seeing her 2 times a week or let days go by without calling or seeing her at all.
He is a bit like a badly working shower: alternating hot and cold water. Just when she thinks the temperature is just right...there comes the cold water again! and THAT's what hurts her.
If he were only cool she wouldn't get hurt, because she would keep her distance, but being so loving and warm he 'sucks her back in' and sets her up for disappointment again.
I'll see what happens when the dust settles, but i have a feeling that one way or the other this 'love issue' has to be adressed...jut don't know in what way yet...
kayhello last decade
Don't agree on you with that one, she is oversensitive to high potencies. That's why she has overresponded now and particularly why it takes longer to settle down and why the 'upset of the system' is bigger...
After taking 200c's and the (outcome of) the remedy is wrong, she feels more exhausted than before. These high potenies deplete her..
After taking 200c's and the (outcome of) the remedy is wrong, she feels more exhausted than before. These high potenies deplete her..
kayhello last decade
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