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Very lack of confidence

Hello....
Could anyone in this forum help me to release my problem anxiety and panic caused by very lack of confidence???
Thanks
 
  minder on 2007-04-06
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Could you please provide the following information for selection of proper medicine?
Patient ID: Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:

Describe your main suffering and from how long?
Any cause which you feel for this ailment?
What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
When did it all start?
What are the things which aggravate or ameliorate your suffering?
When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
How is your bowel movement and stool type (Constipation etc.)?
How sleep, how are your dreams?
Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
What medications have been taken earlier?
How do you look like (Appearance (fat, thin,smart, tall ,lean etc)?
If your are female how is your menstrual cycles and from how long(normal, irregular, painful, clotted, colour etc.)
Family history - What major diseases are running in your family?
Any other information?


Dr. Mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
First of all I do gratefull that you pay attention to my problem. Jazakumullah Dr. Mahfooz.

My english is poor, so hopefully I can answer questions and give information to describe my ailment properly.

Patient ID:
Sex: male
Age: 33 years old. I'm a father of 2 childrens.

Nature of work: Habits:

At the moment I'm working as a technician on a tv production house. Everyday I have to ceck all equipment such computers, electricity, cameras, digital players etc to be maintained. In office I have also another task to arrange a production.
Electronic and everything related science are my hobby and I like it much. But to manage program in office I feel hard. I always think I love to manage things (equipments) but I I couldn't to manage peoples because this is the task of one who like to speech!!! Unfortunately I'm speecless and deeply to think when start everything. So I'm very stressfull when I get a duty to make report, explanation and presentation in front of the team on about the program will be run. Sometimes I look for reasons for an excuse and ask other one to take on my duty. To perform in front of public really scare me, as a result thingking about this make me always on anxiety and panic.

Describe your main suffering and from how long?
Anxiety about performing on public and worry about future events, difficult to make approaching and start talking to new peopels. All of these make a mentall weakness and despire and decrease the confidence.
If the anxiety become worse I really worry of losing my mind and couldn't control myself.

Any cause which you feel for this ailment?
I think any cause aggravate the condition are about future event, work and task mostly on performing on public.

What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
If anxiety & worried present I get headache mostly on left side and back of the head down to shoulder, the skin not to sensitive than the right face. It feel better on pressure and massage to relax muscles.

What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I fell acute mentall weakness and the result is
I'm not too optimal on work, glumness, coward on facing something. worry and hesitate.

When did it all start?
I guess it started after graduated from senior high school I propose to a university and study about society and public relation.
I realize that it all opposite to my personality which tend to a technic.
After 3 years I stopped study because I couldn,t improve my performance on public event make me pobia. Finally I hate to speak on front, meet public and enjoy aloneliness.
But... I'm really care with other people, want to help them, and empathy. I'm very Glad to serve guest on home. Extremely I always think not only men event satan or evil I will treat them good!!!

What are the things which aggravate or ameliorate your suffering?
Bad news and hard duty will start anxiety and think it deeply will aggravate.
Lay down to Almighty Allah and pray make better. Also vomiting, take a push and force to head & shoulder made better.

When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Feel better on cold weather.

What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I don't like on food in such condition.

How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
I need more water and thirsty if the anxiety come.

How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Hunger is less if on anxiety.
Normal after overcome.

How is your bowel movement and stool type (Constipation etc.)?
No problem with these, stool not hard.

How sleep, how are your dreams?
Alhamdulillah my sleep is normal. I often dream that I get duty to perform speech and I worry about this.

Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
Sometimes I feel strange with myself...My mood changing rapidly, in the morning sometime very optimistic but in the evening totally down.

What medications have been taken earlier?
I refuse to use alopathic, If I get a problem & ailment I just try to overcome by myself with relaxation and calm. Ever treat by acupuncture. On homeopathy, because of never consult to a homeopath I just TRY & TRY to use variouse homeopathic medicine and I think this will worse me.

How do you look like (Appearance (fat, thin,smart, tall ,lean etc)?
I'm Rather thin. 170cm tall 60kg weigh.
My colleague always look at me as smart and clever.

If your are female how is your menstrual cycles and from how long(normal, irregular, painful, clotted, colour etc.)

Family history - What major diseases are running in your family?
No major desease on familly, but there on my family older sister got mentally problem(mad).

Any other information?
 
minder last decade
Dear Patient,
Let us start treatment with Gelsemium-30c (3 drops per dose in a litter water)thrice a day and come back after week.

Dr. Mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Honoured Dr. Mahfooz. Thanks you very much for the guidance.
Sorry I forgoted to tell you that from 3rd of March I toke Gelsemium 30c once daily (without consult to an expert just my idea). To day I stoped and waiting reply for your advice wether I continue once daily or thrice daily. May this will help you on analizing my symphtom ie..after 6 day using GELSEMIUM-30c once daily I just fell a progress in my mood litle better, but I still nervouse and still less on confidence.
 
minder last decade
Dear patient,
Please follow my advise properly and get the benfit.

wish u good health

dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
in my opinion anacardium is best for u take 1m potence after 4 hour first two days and then every seventh day for 5 times
 
amir74 last decade
Dear amir74
I have also the same observation but other symptoms for the time being needs gelsemium. after getting report it will be adviseable to select any other remedy.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Hello there!

I`ve got the same problem like minder. No confidence and unable to speak in front of the public, shyness. I would try the same remedy what Dr Mahfooz recommended to minder but the circumstances are different (of course everyone is different), that`s why I would like to ask your help in my case. My problem started when I broke up with my girlfriend many years ago. Since then I had no serious relationship with a girl, actually it`s very hard to contact with women even if I feel there is a symphaty from both side. I`m 38 and I live alone. I`d like to have a family by now and I really miss it. I feel shame when somebody ask me about it. I have no willpower for changes and always want to show people someone else who I am. I always thought myself as a succesful man but in the reality my life is very miserable. I would like to ask your help, if you need more details I`m willing to write more about myself.
Thank you
 
JohhnyBgood last decade
Dear Dr.Mahfooz

As you suggested before I took Gelsemium 30 thrice a day for a week then I stop now. OK, I will give you some report.

Now I fell improvement on my feeling and mood. I'm not too worry-anxiety as before. But I feel there is no influence on my major symptom, still no confidence and shyness.
Dr mahfooz...I look forward your further suggestion.
Thanks..Mr Amir for your opinion.

Khuda Hafiz


Khaksar
minder
 
minder last decade
Dear Patient,
Improvement in your feeling, mood,anxiety etc are good sign for builting your confidence. Now I would like to suggest you as under:

1) Anacardium-1m (only one dose 3 drops, morning empty stomach) on sunday and that is all.
2) One single dose Kali Phos-1m sundy night three drops and th is all.
3) Continue Gels. as advised for week and come back with progress.


dr. Mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
confidence comes when we don't over do our limits:know what you weaknesses are and your strong points are: we all have them: some people are out going , some are not: some people have many talents some have few: but at the end of the day he who has confidence will succeed in all he or she does: success is happiness;
so where then does confidence come from? a pill?a great job? money? friends? no no no!these people can be the most sad people you ever met!
the answer: knowing you and what you do best : so get to know yourself and be happy with you : everything else will fall perfectly in place: remeber this : no matter how grand the education or how many talents one has , the success will never rise higher then the confidence: i have seen people with little talent and great confidence succeed where as a person with many great talents and no confidence are miserable:
confidence comes from knowing who and what you can do without guessing: key word , don't guess!!!!
 
frenchis19 last decade
I think my problems also resembles with minder


Patient ID:
Sex: male
Age: 32 years old, Single

Nature of work: Habits:
I am working as a Purchaser/ IT Person in a company. My job is daily check the stock levels of material in computer and places the purchase orders and also follows up these orders. Besides that I have developed software, I have to operate & maintain that software. I don’t have any problem with computer work but when I have to talk with suppliers regarding the purchase then I have speaking difficulty. I don’t have control over speech & cannot speak with ease and comfort. Feel certain stress while speaking due to this either speak hurriedly or stopped on some particular word.

Describe your main suffering and from how long?
Mostly remain anxious even over ordinary things, Nervous,Oversensitive, Easily worried and confused. Palpitation is started over slight worry. Absent minded, Double minded. Very poor mental concentration (disturbed by sound of running fan), while studying some portion of recently listened song repeat again & again in mind and I cannot stop it. I have been suffering from last 18 years with these problems.


Any cause which you feel for this ailment?
I think any cause aggravate the condition are pressure to complete work fast and performing task mostly in public.

What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
In anxiety & worry condition, heart palpitation is started, and I lost control over my body and mind.

What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I feel that my mind is not working properly at all and something has blocked my body & mind.


When did it all start?
It was started when I was in 9th class before 18 years while studying some portion of recently listened song repeat again & again in mind and I cannot stop it. In addition to this mental concentration became poor (disturbed by sound of running fan)

What are the things which aggravate or ameliorate your suffering?
Bad news and pressure work will start anxiety and think it deeply will aggravate.
Lay down to Almighty Allah and pray make better.
When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Feel better in normal weather.

What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I like almost all food items especially fresh fruits like grapes and mango

How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
I need more water and thirsty if feel anxiety.

How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Hunger is less in anxiety, however normal after anxiety is over.


How is your bowel movement and stool type (Constipation etc.)?
Yellowish urine and 2 to 3 time desire for stool.

How sleep, how are your dreams?
Sleep is less in anxiety, otherwise normal. I am also remained worried in my dreams that I am not performing well and not utilizing my full potential.
Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
Sometimes I feel strange with myself...My mood changing rapidly, in the morning sometime very optimistic but in the evening totally down.

What medications have been taken earlier?
In start mean before 17, 18 years before I have used allopathic anti depressants medicines

How do you look like (Appearance (fat, thin,smart, tall ,lean etc)?
Height is 5.6 feet and weight is 80 Kg. Fair complexions with average body
I am not very active kind of person.


Family history - What major diseases are running in your family?
No major disease in my family but my mother is oversensitive

Please let me know if any other information is required
 
aamir474 last decade

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