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please help. 10 yr old bedwetter.
Hello. I am new here, I came to find out more about homeopathy. I am greatly intreged by it.My son is 10yrs old and still wets the bed at night. He sleeps so soundly, he can not get up.He has recurrent sinus problems, dark circles around his eyes. small raised pumps on the back of his arms.He does not like sweats, cheese, chocolate or junk food, on his own choosing. Loves fruit, and apple juice.As far as I know he does not have any fears. He had never expressed any. He goes to bed with the door shut and no light.I believe he has a low self esteam, and gets upset when people put tings in the wrong place. He also has a history of constipation. I hope this is what is needed to help me figure it out. Thank you for any suggestions.
AlisaA on 2007-04-20
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AlisaA last decade
TDS means three times daily, correct? So, for day one, arg nit 200 three times. starting on day two,Staph 30c three times a day for one week. I just wanted to make sure I had it right. I have Arg Nit in 30c, but not 200, so I will have to order it. But I do have the staph 30c.
AlisaA last decade
Thank you very much, DR,
I will start him on it today. How long before we should see any results. Do I need to kepp him off of any specific foods. Hs already does not like sweats or cheese,or spicy foods. Being only 10 I do not allow him any caffiene, nor do I allow him any soda. Thankyou so much for your help.
I will start him on it today. How long before we should see any results. Do I need to kepp him off of any specific foods. Hs already does not like sweats or cheese,or spicy foods. Being only 10 I do not allow him any caffiene, nor do I allow him any soda. Thankyou so much for your help.
AlisaA last decade
It has been one week. I wanted to report. He wears pull--ups at night to protect the bed, so we can see how much fluid he is passing, and he is going alot at night. When asked about it this morning, he told me that there is not very much improvement.He said that last night was not as full as the previous nights, but was still very full. Should I continue him on this remedy, or switch to something different? Please respond.
AlisaA last decade
Dear AlisaA,
Please give him the following medicines in sequance:
Bell-200c (one dose at night)
Alternate day
Cina-200c (one dose at night)
Hopefully your problem will be solve/improved within a week.
dr. mahfooz
Please give him the following medicines in sequance:
Bell-200c (one dose at night)
Alternate day
Cina-200c (one dose at night)
Hopefully your problem will be solve/improved within a week.
dr. mahfooz
♡ Mahfoozurrehman last decade
thank you very, very much dr mahfooz,
I was just going to order the pulsatilla you recomended me in other post, so I will get these also
at the same time.it should take a week or so for the remedies to get here,so I will let you know when they
arrive and we start to take them.Again, thank you
for your
time and generousity.
I was just going to order the pulsatilla you recomended me in other post, so I will get these also
at the same time.it should take a week or so for the remedies to get here,so I will let you know when they
arrive and we start to take them.Again, thank you
for your
time and generousity.
AlisaA last decade
hi alisia ,
bed wetting can be controlled by psychological counselling unless it is pathological,
ask your son to empty his bladder before going to bed.
ask him not to have liquids atleast 1/2 an hour before his bedtime,
be friendly and supportive to him and ask him whether he is hving any difficulty with his studies, friends, and his emotional interaction with others,
if the parents of the kid are working and some times if the kid wants to empty his bladder , in case the parent being harsh to the kid for going to bathroom in the middle of the night, the kid may urinate in the bed instead of getting up and going to bathroom,
be supportive and tell him that how nasty the habit is, for some days use rubber sheets, and tell him and ask him to control will not to urinate, and donot be harsh to him be gentle even if he urinates that night tell him that you have confidence in him and he will get rid of the habit and one more thing please find out if he is having any night mares , or if he is having imaginary ghosts like thing (ghost in the bathrooom) in the night find out the problem and be supportive this can work wonders because this is time tested sure cure for bedwetting
bed wetting can be controlled by psychological counselling unless it is pathological,
ask your son to empty his bladder before going to bed.
ask him not to have liquids atleast 1/2 an hour before his bedtime,
be friendly and supportive to him and ask him whether he is hving any difficulty with his studies, friends, and his emotional interaction with others,
if the parents of the kid are working and some times if the kid wants to empty his bladder , in case the parent being harsh to the kid for going to bathroom in the middle of the night, the kid may urinate in the bed instead of getting up and going to bathroom,
be supportive and tell him that how nasty the habit is, for some days use rubber sheets, and tell him and ask him to control will not to urinate, and donot be harsh to him be gentle even if he urinates that night tell him that you have confidence in him and he will get rid of the habit and one more thing please find out if he is having any night mares , or if he is having imaginary ghosts like thing (ghost in the bathrooom) in the night find out the problem and be supportive this can work wonders because this is time tested sure cure for bedwetting
pulsil last decade
thank you for your reply, pulsil,
we have tried so many things to cure this problem. We have never been harsh on him, as we feel that he is not at fault.
We have tried limiting his liquids from as long as nothing after dinner.We have tried to wake him up at night to take him ourselves. He is very embarassed about it, and would like very much to stop.
I feel that he is very open with me in talking about his emotions.So I don't think that he is having any prolems that I am unaware of. In the past he has had problems being picked on at school and is not an extremely popular child. Don't get me wrong, he has friends, just not alot. I will say that I believe he has a low self esteem. I try very hard at building him up. Until recently he has stuggled with his school work.
I don't believe he has any mightmares, he has told me that he doesn't remember his dreams. I think he just sleeps so very soundly.
He did have a very hard time with potty training in the beginning. he was almost 4 before he quit having accidents in the day, and even then he would have the occasional one.
I have ordered the remedies that dr mahfooz recommended earlier, so hopefully they will work. the staph and the arg nit did not seem to work. As I mentioned earlier, he said that his pullup( underwear that is thick, like a diaper) was not as wet, but it was still pretty full. His sinuses did clear up while he was on the staph, though. He has not had it for some days, and this morning they are starting to bother him again.
we have tried so many things to cure this problem. We have never been harsh on him, as we feel that he is not at fault.
We have tried limiting his liquids from as long as nothing after dinner.We have tried to wake him up at night to take him ourselves. He is very embarassed about it, and would like very much to stop.
I feel that he is very open with me in talking about his emotions.So I don't think that he is having any prolems that I am unaware of. In the past he has had problems being picked on at school and is not an extremely popular child. Don't get me wrong, he has friends, just not alot. I will say that I believe he has a low self esteem. I try very hard at building him up. Until recently he has stuggled with his school work.
I don't believe he has any mightmares, he has told me that he doesn't remember his dreams. I think he just sleeps so very soundly.
He did have a very hard time with potty training in the beginning. he was almost 4 before he quit having accidents in the day, and even then he would have the occasional one.
I have ordered the remedies that dr mahfooz recommended earlier, so hopefully they will work. the staph and the arg nit did not seem to work. As I mentioned earlier, he said that his pullup( underwear that is thick, like a diaper) was not as wet, but it was still pretty full. His sinuses did clear up while he was on the staph, though. He has not had it for some days, and this morning they are starting to bother him again.
AlisaA last decade
hi ,
do you know one thing the ability of a person to adopt to external environment lies on what he is internally, you said he has a low self esteem , do not come to a conclusion abruptly because esteem may be different to dults and children ,
please dont think that i am giving you some nasty advice and making you feel guilty, we adults try to think things in our terms but not in the terms of the kid ,
every person in this world is blessed with one or other kind of skill please do not set any parametes for him in his studies, or compare him with some body else,
introspect yourself , the kind of problem your kid is having -think in his shoes-one more thing dont think otherwise i recommended rubber sheet for him is it doesnt spoil your matresses , but when your son wets the bed it may act as a reflex ,causing him discomfort and one day he will get rid of the habit--pullups as you suggested are like diapers and absorb the fluid so probably he has taken that for granted (mentally) every habit of ours is nothing but a psychological adoptation-bedwetting is a habit not disease i belive stongly -many a times in indian population you might have observed that a child expresses his wish to urinate by one year because the child is not on a diaper--that means more effective bladder control-if he is having any problem with the urinary system itself will he able to control his urge to urinate in the day time-think once
you said the he is not a popular child means? well dont wake him in the night do not pay attention even if he wets the bed --you said you help him alot try this rubber sheet thing once - i think this is a habit of your kid not a disease and tell him that only -paying too much attnetion may adversely benefit --i would like only assert on one thing if he can control his urge to urination in day-he can do it in the night -ask him not to wear a pull up-as this may indirectly encourage him to continuue his habit-pay a very little attention to his habit spread a rubber sheet and even if he wets the bedsheet ,remain as if notihng has happened -atleast if find a significant change in him i have a known case of a girl who used to have the same problem even after puberty ----forget not this is only a habit and can be handled well
do you know one thing the ability of a person to adopt to external environment lies on what he is internally, you said he has a low self esteem , do not come to a conclusion abruptly because esteem may be different to dults and children ,
please dont think that i am giving you some nasty advice and making you feel guilty, we adults try to think things in our terms but not in the terms of the kid ,
every person in this world is blessed with one or other kind of skill please do not set any parametes for him in his studies, or compare him with some body else,
introspect yourself , the kind of problem your kid is having -think in his shoes-one more thing dont think otherwise i recommended rubber sheet for him is it doesnt spoil your matresses , but when your son wets the bed it may act as a reflex ,causing him discomfort and one day he will get rid of the habit--pullups as you suggested are like diapers and absorb the fluid so probably he has taken that for granted (mentally) every habit of ours is nothing but a psychological adoptation-bedwetting is a habit not disease i belive stongly -many a times in indian population you might have observed that a child expresses his wish to urinate by one year because the child is not on a diaper--that means more effective bladder control-if he is having any problem with the urinary system itself will he able to control his urge to urinate in the day time-think once
you said the he is not a popular child means? well dont wake him in the night do not pay attention even if he wets the bed --you said you help him alot try this rubber sheet thing once - i think this is a habit of your kid not a disease and tell him that only -paying too much attnetion may adversely benefit --i would like only assert on one thing if he can control his urge to urination in day-he can do it in the night -ask him not to wear a pull up-as this may indirectly encourage him to continuue his habit-pay a very little attention to his habit spread a rubber sheet and even if he wets the bedsheet ,remain as if notihng has happened -atleast if find a significant change in him i have a known case of a girl who used to have the same problem even after puberty ----forget not this is only a habit and can be handled well
pulsil last decade
donot pay any attention to this or speak with him , try this it will work for u , dont speak regarding this habit duribg bed time and just remain as if nothin has happend
pulsil last decade
Thank you. I will try the rubber sheet. I have questioned whether or not the pull-ups where subconsciencely telling him that this is ok.
I say he has a low self esteem because of things he has told me. For example, I'm stupid, nobody likes me, I can't do anything. He has said these kind of things to me, this is why I believe he has a low self esteem. As for as not being popular, I have told him, and I firmly believe that I would rather him have mabye one or two true friends than 10 whom are shallow, and who do not truely care about him.
I say he has a low self esteem because of things he has told me. For example, I'm stupid, nobody likes me, I can't do anything. He has said these kind of things to me, this is why I believe he has a low self esteem. As for as not being popular, I have told him, and I firmly believe that I would rather him have mabye one or two true friends than 10 whom are shallow, and who do not truely care about him.
AlisaA last decade
Dear dr. Mahfooz,
I have ordered the remedies you suggested, but I was wondering, I have cina in 6x and belladona in 30c, could I use these at all, or wait for the 200c?
I have ordered the remedies you suggested, but I was wondering, I have cina in 6x and belladona in 30c, could I use these at all, or wait for the 200c?
AlisaA last decade
Dear AlisaA,
I think the potency which I recommended will work well then this lowest potency.
Dr. mahfooz
I think the potency which I recommended will work well then this lowest potency.
Dr. mahfooz
♡ Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Ok, Thank you very much. Hopefully it will not take to long for them to get here. I will let you know when they arrive, and then of our progress.
AlisaA last decade
Dear dr. mahfooz,
The remedies arrived today, and I have a question for you. how much is one dose? three small balls? Do I give one dose Belladona 200c tonight and one dose 200c cina tomarrow and that is all I give him? This is what it looks like you told me. Or do I keep alternating, bell one night, and cina the next for one week? I only want to make sure so I follow your directions correctly. Thank you.
The remedies arrived today, and I have a question for you. how much is one dose? three small balls? Do I give one dose Belladona 200c tonight and one dose 200c cina tomarrow and that is all I give him? This is what it looks like you told me. Or do I keep alternating, bell one night, and cina the next for one week? I only want to make sure so I follow your directions correctly. Thank you.
AlisaA last decade
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