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Very Girly Boy

I am interested in knowing if the doctors on this forum believe that such a problem can be treated homeopathically.
We have friends who have a 7 year old boy how acts very girly. He likes to play mostly with girl things, dress up like a girl when he gets the chance, giggles, and plays only with the girls when we have get togethers, he only has brothers. Physically he looks like any regular little boy. The parents are taking special care not to let the boy know they are concerned but they are. The problem is if kids at school start to tease him he might eventually think he was ment to be a girl. God made him a boy.
I am not asking specifically for a medication for this child because the parents are very allopathic but am curiouse in general if you believe that there are homeopathic remedies to treat such a hormonal issue so that if ever they become concerned enough I may mention to them that they can seek help homeopathically.
Thank you.
 
  peace on 2004-12-21
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
What constitutes a boy to you? The genitalia? This child is perfect in God's eyes, that is why this child was created this way. It is the parents that have to find acceptance within themsevles and the courage to face adversity.

NAMASTE
 
Namaste27 last decade
If you believe in God then you also believe that he ment boys to be boys and girls to girls. His parents accept him and love him as he is. They are not concerned so much with his senstivity, more so concerned with what he may be taught or told by his peers. A youngerster can easily be swayed to believed that he has meant to be a girl though he is clearly a boy simply because of his personality.
I am interested in hearing about the homeopathic view on this not the spiritual or worldly view.
 
peace last decade
Here is my experience.

Many baby boys are born with an extra female chromosome. Sometimes it shows early, but usually it shows up at middle age. These men are very unhappy at this age and go into a big "tilt" emotionally. It almost destroys their lives.

It would be better to be known early.

Have the boy's chromosomes tested for Klinfelder's syndrome. This is not that unsual. What the doctors do with young boys Who have the extra female chromosome is give appropriate male hormones to encourage his life to adjust more as a male. He will always be more sensitive, but less likely to be bullied at school and in life.

These young men often have smaller genitals and usually never produce children. They never follow exact discriptions. Everyone is an individual regardless of chromosomes.

If this testing does not show Klinfelder's, then the family must accept this child as he is. We are not all the norm. Everyone is different in some way.

We must all remember that if we wish to be exactly who we choose to be, then all others have this same right.

Blessings, Sabra
 
sabra last decade
Thank you for your insight Sabra.
 
peace last decade
Oh dear - this homophobia!. Excellent reply Sabra.
 
passkey last decade
Passkey, what do you mean by homophobia??

Klienfelders has nothing to do with being "gay." Although the older sufferers are really torn between.

We must not shorten sentences too much as there are far too many readers to accidently upset.

Regardless, thank you for your compliment. I know three men with this personally.

Blessings, Sabra
 
sabra last decade
Passkey, I also wanted to comment on your 'homophobia' comment.
Most homeopaths consider everything a symptom worth looking at in order to find the right remedy for a person. By me sharing what this boy's personality is like I was sharing his symptoms in order to find the right remedy for him - has nothing to do with being homosexual or by sexual. I simply mentioned in my first sitation that he could be perswaded by his peers to go that way though that is not truely who he is if he is simply lacking something that can be corrected by using homeopathics. True?
 
peace last decade
hey its ok very grly boy im just like u i dress up and play with girls and giggle and play with girl dolls
 
girlyman last decade
hey i like to dress up as a girl snd im a boy ok i walk like a girl act like a girl i talk like a girl and i play only with girls i giggle and i play with girl dolls and i get bullied all the time but i dont care im always gonna be like this and i only wear girl clothes
 
girlyman last decade
hey im just like u ok im girlish too im a girlyboy
 
girlyman last decade
Hi i have just found your site and wnat to add this to this subject of girly biy's who realy has the right to say or callify anyone just because so called experts think it should be so.

Anyone has the real right to be as they think and or wanting to be.

Being a gilry boy is no great sin or something it is what is within that really does count and if you are girly as a boy and or a boyish girl so what they are worse things to be belive me.

I am one who wishes he had been born female instead of male yet again it is far better to be female then male naytime at all

I mean just really look at women and think they are mostly goddese to be look up to and cherished like in very ancient time indeed.

This male is really female way down deelp inside and if and when it does become that we can ever really change then i volenteer to go foruth and be one of the frist to do so I want to be female.

I just really do.

Jay!

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a girl.
 
eleventhdr last decade

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