Teenage Girl Problems

I will try the chamomilla & tissue salts protocol you suggested; however we are going holidays for 1 week, so hoping this won't be too distuptive. She hates to be disturbed in her room, she likes to use computer, & gets angry if interrupted, her voice raises in pitch immediately she gets upset, and she starts abusing us almost immediately. It is almost as if she is bullying us and running the entire household. If we get upset as well it is of no benefit; so i think it is as if she perceives us as being weak; my husband & I are both peace loving people who don't like arguing. A few times when she got so upset she refused to go to school, as her eyes were so swollen. She shut herself in her wardrobe, or locks herself in bathroom once or twice when she is inconsolable. She will not communicate; even when she is calm and not upset it is very hard to get her to talk about what her feelings are. She knows she is being unreasonable but don't think she can control herself. She has no problem at school with other students, the teachers tell me she is very quiet in class and they wish she would participate more. She has a great sense of humour, and very mature in some ways, then on other hand we have the problem side. She tells us that other people won't believe that she is so badly behaved, and she only does this in front of parents. She told us she wants to leave her current school, and she will not put in a good effort to study now because she wants to attend another school (the bully). Wesupport her to do her best & school & believe she is capable to achieve well if she perseveres, although she is not a naturally brilliant student. Will try to become more observant on the mental symptoms. Thank you sincerely for your interest.