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Shame in presence of girls

I'm 27 year old male and I suffer from shame of girls.
I can't have sexual relations becouse I can't relax when female is in my presence. When I nedd to have sex I'm ashamed and embbarased and I block. Girls sey to me that I'm stiff and can't relaxe.
It's really big problem for me, I would like to be intimate with girls. I red somwhere that Ambra is good remedy for ma shame? Thanx
 
  blyster on 2011-07-06
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
There is no need of any remedy if your conscience doesn't allow you to have pre-marital sex. This will do lot of good to you in future as you are following a healthy practice.
[message edited by kadwa on Wed, 06 Jul 2011 02:49:13 BST]
 
kadwa last decade
Ambr feels shame about bodily functions, like defecation or urination. They are ashamed of any attention on them, it causes blushing and embarassment and nervous talking. Ambr feels that people laugh at them, look down on them, and they become acutely aware of things they do, which feel disgusting to them.

It is impossible to know if this is your remedy from teh information you have given. We have hundreds of remedies for shame - you might need any one of them.

You can try presenting your full case here, and someone may be able to prescribe something for you. Understand that prescribing over an internet forum is much less successful than face-to-face prescribing.

GUIDELINES FOR GIVING HOMOEOPATHIC CASE INFORMATION

It is important to describe all your problems in as much detail as you are able. One word answers and short sentences are not particularly helpful. Discuss each problem one at a time, providing (as a minimum level of detail) the following information.

1. What exactly happens?
2. Describe all sensations and pains. Each pain or sensation should be described in such a way that allows us to imagine having the same pain.
3. What causes the problem to get worse after it has started occurring?
4. What creates some relief for the problem?
5. What triggers the problem into occuring?
6. What time of the day or night does the problem occur?
7. When did the problem start? What was happening in your life at that time? Did some specific event or treatment take place just before the problem started?

Move from one problem to the next, doing the same thing. IT IS VITAL THAT YOU GIVE A COMPLETE PICTURE OF YOUR HEALTH BY PROVIDING ALL PROBLEMS YOU HAVE, EVEN IF NOT CONNECTED TO THE MAIN ONE, AND EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER IT OF LESS IMPORTANCE. You should address each problem separately using the above 7 questions as a guide.

As well as this, please describe any traumatic incidents that have taken place in your life. Discuss anything that has had a lasting impact on you mentally, emotionally or physically.

Discuss the way that you manage or deal with your problems, or any problems that occur in your life.

Discuss any patterns you have noticed in your behavior especially concerning your disease.

Discuss any part of your life where you feel stuck or unable to change and grow, especially where this occurred around the beginning of your disease, or as the disease evolved.

Describe your childhood and the kind of environment you grew up in, with reference to your relationships with your family, your school experiences, and any serious childhood diseases.

If your earlier discussions have not mentioned these already, please describe:

1. The specific foods that you crave (not just like) or hate
2. The specific drinks that you crave or hate
3. What your sleep is like
4. How the weather and the temperature affects you
5. What kinds of things in the environment you are particularly sensitive to
6. What your general level of energy is like
7. What your level of sexual energy or desire is like

I will probably have more questions for you after that.

I also need to know what homoeopathic remedies you have taken in the past, and what the results were.
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade

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