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mama's boy---please help

Hi! My husband of five years, happens to be a mama's boy. He can't make decisions for himself, think for himself without first consulting his mother. He is constantly thinking about her all the time. He calls her 3 times a day, sends her texts and emails frequently. He needs his mother's approval for everything, both minor and major issues. He relies on her for everything and without her he seems completely confused. He avoids responsibilty and does not want to be a father figure to his own son. He dislikes kids and he doesnt like to spend time with his own son. He would rather spend that time talking to his own mother on the phone.

Are there any remedies, which can help him act like a grown man and take responsibilty instead of acting like an immature baby?

Thank you, in advance.
 
  crystal33 on 2012-05-15
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I am sure there are remedies that
could help him but he would have
to come on here and give his case-
with his mothers permission of course-
:-)
 
simone717 last decade
I'll present the case on his behalf :)
 
crystal33 last decade
It won't' work that way- bc first he
has to be in agreement to do this and
second he has to answer all the questions
himself- see the Nawaz questions on
those posts, and then after that if
he gets a remedy there will be more
questions about how he feels etc
and have to be described in his own
terms.

I would suggest if he want to do this
asking for Tabish007, quite good and
gentle with these emotional things.

However your best bet is to take him
to a local homeopath or one who is
very well trained in this stuff and /or
does online intakes. One of these
persons is David Johnson in Minnesota-
I can look up his site.His mother sounds happy with this and there is
going to be some upset on that end.
He has not completed the separation
stage from Mother and David Johnson
is very well versed in the stages.
[message edited by simone717 on Tue, 15 May 2012 23:27:15 BST]
 
simone717 last decade
the site is www homeopathy2health dot
com. He does a lot of cases where
people are stuck and cannot move
forward-impressive. That is where
I would go first and you can do it online.
 
simone717 last decade
Simone- thank you for your reply. You are right, the mother will not be happy, if my husband moves on, but that in fact is a part of life. My husband needs to realize that he is a married man and a father; and not just a son to his mother. He needs to own up to his roles and play his part.

I will definitely check out the link you mentioned. I appreciate it. Many thanks.
 
crystal33 last decade
Simone- Do you have any experience with Bach Flower Remedies? Was wondering if that might work in this case.
 
crystal33 last decade
I don't think so. The Bach flower
remedies are very lightweight, I am
super sensitive to all remedies and the
Bach flower remedies never did anything
to me at all.

If a person gets stuck at a stage of development they just have an unresolved issue there and it will keep
coming up over and over-that is why
the research and cases of famed homeopath Jan Scholten on the mineral
remedies showing the correlation on
childhood stages of development and where and what
stage they got stuck in ( the right remedy resolves this
stage and they move on.

You can read Hpathy dot com the april issue and read
a case by David Johnson in there where a woman was
stuck and then moved out of it almost effortlessly.
It is a very precise kind of prescribing and I have
read other cases by this homeopath before.Not
every homeopath has the insight into pinpointing
these things-you might find it a bit technical but
it gives you the general sense of what I am talking
about.
 
simone717 last decade

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