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Remedy for Shyness, Lack of self confidence & Social Anxiety

Hi, Please can any one suggest a remedy for Shyness, social anxiety and lack of confidence. ? I am a 45 years old male with marked shyness and uncomfortable feeling when amongst strangers social. I can not handle social situations very well. I am a bit compulsive as well. I like to be aloof and alone and try to avoid social gatherings etc.
 
  amersown on 2012-05-19
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Hi there,

The following additional information is required to help you. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.

1. ID
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height ….
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complaints

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)

16. What exactly is happening?

17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan 7 years ago
Thanks you for your reply. Please find my data as below.

1. ID
2. Age: 49 yrs
3. Sex: Male
4. Single/Married: Married
5. weight:110 kg
6. Height …. 5.10
7. country Pakistan
8. climate : Hot
9. List of your complaints

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint Since last 30-35 years

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic : Non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt : Extreme desire for sweets
No desire for salts
13. Thirst : Normal
14. Tongue and Taste : Normal
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine); 120/80

16. What exactly is happening?
I feel bored and shy when meeting strangers and always want to be alone in privacy. I do not like to mix up with people and my social life is nil. I do not have friends and I feel it a burden when I have to meet new people except when it is about some business.
17. How do you feel? I feel lack of interest in social gatherings and social occasions. I like and prefer to be alone mostly.
18. How does this affect you? I do not like this habit of mine and have to face the similar distance from others some times which hurts me. But I know it is my fault that reflected in other people's behaviour.

19. How does it feel like? It is demoralising to have poor social skills.

20. What comes to your mind?
I want to improve my social skills and people's skills and I want to increase my motivational level to increase my interest in social activities and meeting people.


21. One situation that had a
big effect on you? It happen daily that I get ignored by people who had once shown initial interest in me but because of lack of an active interest from me, they turn their way away from me.

22. How did that feel like? I feel rejected but I do not get depressed I am just coping with this.

23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

No sensations but only a mental depression. When in social situations, I feel terrified and can not properly introduce myself and I am stressed.

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

I experience some degree of nervousness and tremor in my hands and my chest is filled with air which is stress and I cannot talk with confidence in front of new people I meet and my speech is broken and words are shattered and speech is incoherent. Sometimes when I am extremely nervous in social set up.
25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
I am taking kali bioch 200 / once daily for post nasal discharge and kali phos/3 times daily for mental work and baruta carb 200 thrice a week.
26. Family Background

My mother has limited social skills and a very mild schizophrenia symptoms and my father has a queit nature and has some some degree of autistic (ADD) behaviour.
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

MBA

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

Teaching

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food

I like to eat Sweets very much

I dislike saltish dishes

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

Never noticed

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry,
impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.


I am a hurried personality and have a lot of anger when I have to wait for some one if I have to reach somewhere in time.
I am a loving person but can not express my love, affection to ones I love and my friendliness to new people I meet.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

Never noticed.

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)

Left
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
 
amersown 7 years ago
Hi,

Based upon your limited amount of data, please take Anacardium Orientale 200C, 4 drops mixed in 2 sips of mineral water, one daily dose for 3 days.

Many prayers for you.
 
nawazkhan 7 years ago
Well, did you take the remedy?
 
nawazkhan 7 years ago
Thanks for your reply. Really sorry for a late reply.

I have taken the remedy and will let you know the result in two weeks times.

Please let me know will this improve my social skills, confidence and shyness. I lack self confidence, social skills and I am shy in general and especially while meeting with females. Pls suggest remedies for all these.

Cheeers !!!
 
amersown 6 years ago
Hi Dr.Nawazkhan,
It has been I have felt days since I took Anacardium 200 and have recently started feeling moderate improvement in shyness and confidence issues. Pls advise how should I repeat this remedy? What should I do for social anxiety as well.?

God bless!

Amersown
 
amersown 6 years ago
I have moderate improvement in shyness and self confidence since I took Anacardium 200 . Pls suggest what to do for repetition and full improvements. Also pls suggest something for social anxiety.
 
amersown 6 years ago
What remedy(s) have been taken for the last 5 days?
 
nawazkhan 6 years ago
I have taken two doses of Anacardium 200 each in a day. But I am feeling the same moderate improvement. I need to boost my social skills and confidence especially the shyness with females. Pls suggest what to do next?
 
amersown 6 years ago
AoA,

Please take Pulsatilla 200C, 4 drops mixed in 2 sips of mineral water, one daily dose, for 3 days.

Good luck.
 
nawazkhan 6 years ago
AOA,
Thanks for your reply. I will take the remedy as described and will update you soon about the improvements.

Thanks again.

amersown
 
amersown 6 years ago
WAA, Many prayers for you.
 
nawazkhan 6 years ago

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