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Does anyone deal with Bach Flower Remedies or know of a forum i could get some help. i posted for help with my Son but i struggled with homeopathy for a few yrs now and not got anywhere so wondered if this approach may work.Any advice anyone??
pixie wood on 2012-07-13
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Yes.
Hi Pixie, I work with a few special essence producres from all over the world. Not just Bach.
I also studied homeopathy, but love working with flower remedies. Tell me what is going on, maybe I can help.
Hi Pixie, I work with a few special essence producres from all over the world. Not just Bach.
I also studied homeopathy, but love working with flower remedies. Tell me what is going on, maybe I can help.
Paintedcreation1 last decade
Pixie, Dr. Mohla, is a very respected homeopath on
this forum, and in his own practice for a long time.
fyi- Simone
this forum, and in his own practice for a long time.
fyi- Simone
♡ simone717 last decade
Thank you I will return later with details, I wanted to try Bach flowers whilst waiting for my son to have his coeliac test I am also trying some Bach flowers. Will be in contact later many thanks to all
Pixie wood
Pixie wood
pixie wood last decade
Ok i am not sure all that you need to know but i am avoiding homeopathy until my son has his ceoliac disease test as i didn't want any interference with the results,
He is 6 yrs old and is a very sensetive boy. he gets angry and bossy with his brother and can be very rude to me also. he does not listen and will take several times of me asking him to do something before he will do it. he is very challenging towards me.
I am married with a 2 yr old also but the 6yr old we are talking about has a different Dad and no doubt is feeling this. he sees his Dad regular but misses me when he goes there.
He wets the bed when he is worried about school. he has bitten his finger nails as long as i can remember and the nail is so so low. he also has a sore on his nose he will not stop picking and this is very sore too,
He is a worrier but doesn't often tell me what he is worry about. i think he is also jealous of his younger brother.
Huge huge problem with school work. he will not listen to instruction and easily forgets things. he is very easily distracted and cannot concentrate,
He is a mixed up little boy and is very insecure
Please let me know anything you need to know
thank you very much
He is 6 yrs old and is a very sensetive boy. he gets angry and bossy with his brother and can be very rude to me also. he does not listen and will take several times of me asking him to do something before he will do it. he is very challenging towards me.
I am married with a 2 yr old also but the 6yr old we are talking about has a different Dad and no doubt is feeling this. he sees his Dad regular but misses me when he goes there.
He wets the bed when he is worried about school. he has bitten his finger nails as long as i can remember and the nail is so so low. he also has a sore on his nose he will not stop picking and this is very sore too,
He is a worrier but doesn't often tell me what he is worry about. i think he is also jealous of his younger brother.
Huge huge problem with school work. he will not listen to instruction and easily forgets things. he is very easily distracted and cannot concentrate,
He is a mixed up little boy and is very insecure
Please let me know anything you need to know
thank you very much
pixie wood last decade
L STUDY THE QUESTIONAIR BELOW AND INDICATE WHICH MATCHES WITH AND YOU CAN ADD MORE ALSO 1 Mental agony ,does not disclose his suffering to others ,visibly appears happy.
2 Baseless fear ,doubt,anxiety.
3 Mean mentality, finds fault in everyone and in everything.
4 Lack of will power, follow other advise..
5 Foolishness, lack of confidence ,on his decision .
6 Complete saddness.
7 Repeat mistakes again and again.
8 Selfish nature .
9 Careless attitude ,does not care for others.
10 Tendency to throew away unwanted things/disease.
11 Lack of confidence in a able person.
12 Total sadness ,find baseless reason to be sad.
13 Total hopelessness .
14 Self centered, talkative, always talks about his problem ,does not listen to others .
15 Jealousy, doubts,hate ,he does not like others happiness.
16 Busy in old thoughts repents on past mistakes.
17 Mental/physical weakness tiredness before work.
18 Impatient nature.
19 Lack of self confidence ,sure of failure ,sad attitude .
20 Fear of any known things/shy/hesitation/fear of stammering while talking,addressing,meeting.
21 Sadness without reason ,any time for sometime ,cloud of sadness for short duration .
22 Strong belief optimistic attitude.
23 Weakness,tiredness,physical weakness /mental weakness.
24 Self cursing sad,curse self for any mistake.
25 Fear excessive, terror .
27 strictly to rule attitude .
28 Unstable indecisive,delay work,keep work pending ,postpone work.
29 Problem after shock and accident..
30 Extereme mental/agony total sadness /hopelessness/no ray of hope.
31 very encouraging over active result in mental fatigue.
32 Proudy/high goal/ambitious .
pl inform me j k mohla
2 Baseless fear ,doubt,anxiety.
3 Mean mentality, finds fault in everyone and in everything.
4 Lack of will power, follow other advise..
5 Foolishness, lack of confidence ,on his decision .
6 Complete saddness.
7 Repeat mistakes again and again.
8 Selfish nature .
9 Careless attitude ,does not care for others.
10 Tendency to throew away unwanted things/disease.
11 Lack of confidence in a able person.
12 Total sadness ,find baseless reason to be sad.
13 Total hopelessness .
14 Self centered, talkative, always talks about his problem ,does not listen to others .
15 Jealousy, doubts,hate ,he does not like others happiness.
16 Busy in old thoughts repents on past mistakes.
17 Mental/physical weakness tiredness before work.
18 Impatient nature.
19 Lack of self confidence ,sure of failure ,sad attitude .
20 Fear of any known things/shy/hesitation/fear of stammering while talking,addressing,meeting.
21 Sadness without reason ,any time for sometime ,cloud of sadness for short duration .
22 Strong belief optimistic attitude.
23 Weakness,tiredness,physical weakness /mental weakness.
24 Self cursing sad,curse self for any mistake.
25 Fear excessive, terror .
27 strictly to rule attitude .
28 Unstable indecisive,delay work,keep work pending ,postpone work.
29 Problem after shock and accident..
30 Extereme mental/agony total sadness /hopelessness/no ray of hope.
31 very encouraging over active result in mental fatigue.
32 Proudy/high goal/ambitious .
pl inform me j k mohla
♡ akshaymohl last decade
Hi Pixie,
I dont want to interfere as you are working with someone. Based on what you wrote there is fear, jealousy and some other issues I would want to get a bit more into before recommending a remedy. Definitely more than Bach, but to begin there are some remedies you can pick up from your health food store using Bach - Vine, cherry plum, rescue, elm, clematis, chicory. But these remedies may change after the first month or two. You need something for authority, and some other ideas as well. Its a great time to get started as he will have probably 2 bottles of remedies in him before school begins. If you need to reach out, feel free to contact me.
I dont want to interfere as you are working with someone. Based on what you wrote there is fear, jealousy and some other issues I would want to get a bit more into before recommending a remedy. Definitely more than Bach, but to begin there are some remedies you can pick up from your health food store using Bach - Vine, cherry plum, rescue, elm, clematis, chicory. But these remedies may change after the first month or two. You need something for authority, and some other ideas as well. Its a great time to get started as he will have probably 2 bottles of remedies in him before school begins. If you need to reach out, feel free to contact me.
Paintedcreation1 last decade
1. Mental agony ,does not disclose his suffering to others ,visibly appears happy
Yes but he does have temper issues now and then
2 Baseless fear ,doubt,anxiety.
YES
3 Mean mentality, finds fault in everyone and in everything.
NO
4 Lack of will power, follow other advise..
NOT SURE
5 Foolishness, lack of confidence ,on his decision .
NOT SURE AGAIN
6 Complete saddness.
NO
7 Repeat mistakes again and again.
IF YOU MEAN BEING NAUGHTY WITH THE SAME THINGS THEN YES
8 Selfish nature .
NO
9 Careless attitude ,does not care for others.
NO
10 Tendency to throew away unwanted things/disease.
NO
11 Lack of confidence in a able person.
YES
12 Total sadness ,find baseless reason to be sad.
NO
13 Total hopelessness .
NO
14 Self centered, talkative, always talks about his problem ,does not listen to others .
NO,
15 Jealousy, doubts,hate ,he does not like others happiness.
JEALOUS OF YOUNGER BROTHER
16 Busy in old thoughts repents on past mistakes.
NO
17 Mental/physical weakness tiredness before work.
NO
18 Impatient nature.
I THINK SO. HE GETS FRUSTRATED WITH HIS BROTHER, NOT SURE IF THIS IS THE SAME
19 Lack of self confidence ,sure of failure ,sad attitude .
YES LACKS CONFIDENCE
20 Fear of any known things/shy/hesitation/fear of stammering while talking,addressing,meeting.
HE IS SCARED OF THINGS FLOODING AND IS ALSO SCARED I WILL DIE WHEN I GO OUT AND LEAVE HIM WITH HIS DAD
21 Sadness without reason ,any time for sometime ,cloud of sadness for short duration .
NO
22 Strong belief optimistic attitude.
NO
23 Weakness,tiredness,physical weakness /mental weakness.
NO
24 Self cursing sad,curse self for any mistake.
MAYBE
25 Fear excessive, terror .
DON'T THINK SO
27 strictly to rule attitude .
NOT SURE OF THIS
28 Unstable indecisive,delay work,keep work pending ,postpone work.
29 Problem after shock and accident..
POSSIBLY AS MY NAN DIED 6 MONTHS AGO AND HE SEEMS WORSE SINCE. HE ALSO HAD A VERY TRAUMATIC TIME WITH HOSPITALS WHEN HE WAS A BABY
30 Extereme mental/agony total sadness /hopelessness/no ray of hope.
I DO NOT KNOW
31 very encouraging over active result in mental fatigue.
32 Proudy/high goal/ambitious
NO
I detect a little OCD i had this and my sister is very very bad with this.
If he doesn't take his toy to his Dads then he thinks i am unsafe at home. he also seems to hoard wrappers and bits of tissue in his room but doesn't get upset or notice if i throw them away, he does like to hoard them though.
thank you again.
And thank you paintedcreation1 i did not want to be in a postition to choose but Mohla put a question sheet up.
thank you both
Yes but he does have temper issues now and then
2 Baseless fear ,doubt,anxiety.
YES
3 Mean mentality, finds fault in everyone and in everything.
NO
4 Lack of will power, follow other advise..
NOT SURE
5 Foolishness, lack of confidence ,on his decision .
NOT SURE AGAIN
6 Complete saddness.
NO
7 Repeat mistakes again and again.
IF YOU MEAN BEING NAUGHTY WITH THE SAME THINGS THEN YES
8 Selfish nature .
NO
9 Careless attitude ,does not care for others.
NO
10 Tendency to throew away unwanted things/disease.
NO
11 Lack of confidence in a able person.
YES
12 Total sadness ,find baseless reason to be sad.
NO
13 Total hopelessness .
NO
14 Self centered, talkative, always talks about his problem ,does not listen to others .
NO,
15 Jealousy, doubts,hate ,he does not like others happiness.
JEALOUS OF YOUNGER BROTHER
16 Busy in old thoughts repents on past mistakes.
NO
17 Mental/physical weakness tiredness before work.
NO
18 Impatient nature.
I THINK SO. HE GETS FRUSTRATED WITH HIS BROTHER, NOT SURE IF THIS IS THE SAME
19 Lack of self confidence ,sure of failure ,sad attitude .
YES LACKS CONFIDENCE
20 Fear of any known things/shy/hesitation/fear of stammering while talking,addressing,meeting.
HE IS SCARED OF THINGS FLOODING AND IS ALSO SCARED I WILL DIE WHEN I GO OUT AND LEAVE HIM WITH HIS DAD
21 Sadness without reason ,any time for sometime ,cloud of sadness for short duration .
NO
22 Strong belief optimistic attitude.
NO
23 Weakness,tiredness,physical weakness /mental weakness.
NO
24 Self cursing sad,curse self for any mistake.
MAYBE
25 Fear excessive, terror .
DON'T THINK SO
27 strictly to rule attitude .
NOT SURE OF THIS
28 Unstable indecisive,delay work,keep work pending ,postpone work.
29 Problem after shock and accident..
POSSIBLY AS MY NAN DIED 6 MONTHS AGO AND HE SEEMS WORSE SINCE. HE ALSO HAD A VERY TRAUMATIC TIME WITH HOSPITALS WHEN HE WAS A BABY
30 Extereme mental/agony total sadness /hopelessness/no ray of hope.
I DO NOT KNOW
31 very encouraging over active result in mental fatigue.
32 Proudy/high goal/ambitious
NO
I detect a little OCD i had this and my sister is very very bad with this.
If he doesn't take his toy to his Dads then he thinks i am unsafe at home. he also seems to hoard wrappers and bits of tissue in his room but doesn't get upset or notice if i throw them away, he does like to hoard them though.
thank you again.
And thank you paintedcreation1 i did not want to be in a postition to choose but Mohla put a question sheet up.
thank you both
pixie wood last decade
Pixie
A lot of kids get this separation anxiety bc of divorce. I don't
know how often he goes to his Dad's but what they figure out
in ' divorce court' often does not work with where the child
is at development wise. I have been thru this, and eventually
kept my kids with me most of the time. Bc they needed a
stable base, is is extremely hard for them- I don't know if
he has had therapy etc but for a kid this stability of I live here.
and this is home- is major -so if you think about it from your
point of view or the Dad- if you had to keep going to two houses
with different rules etc- it would feel nuts.In my case I worked
out a different way to do with the Dad.
this is a primal security issue and stage of development- it is
not going to go away, it has to be addressed in more ways
than remedies.
A lot of kids get this separation anxiety bc of divorce. I don't
know how often he goes to his Dad's but what they figure out
in ' divorce court' often does not work with where the child
is at development wise. I have been thru this, and eventually
kept my kids with me most of the time. Bc they needed a
stable base, is is extremely hard for them- I don't know if
he has had therapy etc but for a kid this stability of I live here.
and this is home- is major -so if you think about it from your
point of view or the Dad- if you had to keep going to two houses
with different rules etc- it would feel nuts.In my case I worked
out a different way to do with the Dad.
this is a primal security issue and stage of development- it is
not going to go away, it has to be addressed in more ways
than remedies.
♡ simone717 last decade
Simone i know this is so true but i just don't know what to do about it. his Dad is great and see's him about 3 times a week and has him stay every other Saturday night.
I know this is a big problem with his behaviour but i cannot stop his Dad seeing him and wouldn't want too.
We were never married and we split when he was 2 and we made the break as smooth as possible and slowly his Dad didn't stay as often it was not a sudden break.
Once we did split up everyone commented on his development. being in the unhappy household obviously delayed this.
I never really thought of separation anxiety being from this split as his Dad was never around and it was always me my son was with. it's horrible to say but he never used to like his Dad much. his Dad is great with him now exept he does not unserstand our sons issues and anxieties so is quite pushy to get him to stay extra nights etc.
I just hope bach flowerss or homeopathy will help with the anxieties and his confidence i know it can't cure it all... i hoped it would though.
Do you have any suggestions as to help. but his Dad is not understanding of his issues,
Thanks Simone
Pixie
I know this is a big problem with his behaviour but i cannot stop his Dad seeing him and wouldn't want too.
We were never married and we split when he was 2 and we made the break as smooth as possible and slowly his Dad didn't stay as often it was not a sudden break.
Once we did split up everyone commented on his development. being in the unhappy household obviously delayed this.
I never really thought of separation anxiety being from this split as his Dad was never around and it was always me my son was with. it's horrible to say but he never used to like his Dad much. his Dad is great with him now exept he does not unserstand our sons issues and anxieties so is quite pushy to get him to stay extra nights etc.
I just hope bach flowerss or homeopathy will help with the anxieties and his confidence i know it can't cure it all... i hoped it would though.
Do you have any suggestions as to help. but his Dad is not understanding of his issues,
Thanks Simone
Pixie
pixie wood last decade
Hi Pixie, believe me I know how hard this is bc I have walked the
walk. It is one of those, 'if only I knew then, what I know now'
things, so it prompted me to write.
1. the separation anxiety is about you not the Dad. The early bonding
with the Mom and then the ability to start moving away from Mom
at the childs own pace, which naturally happens but if it does not
go right, a person gets stuck at that stage. All stages have to be
completed or the person/child keeps going back there or trying to
covers up fears when older not to show they have these fears,
which then makes more ocd behaviour, and more layers covering
up original fears.
2. What I would say is go see a child development therapist. maybe
you go once by yourself and then come up with a plan to get the
Dad to go. The stages of development are same for all humans!!
it is like getting in correct buillding blocks, but sad to say most
people know more about car maintenance than what are the
childs needs.
Obviously as a Mom you were well aware of your son crawling
and walking and talking and that those things were going on at
the right time periods or else you would have been alarmed.
The 2 year old has the stage of No and being able to separate and
feel ok about it. Read a book on stages of development and why
I am saying to get Dad to therapist also, is bc I don't know if
he will read up!! And this is just total ignorance to push child
when they are not ready. Every kid is different but you have to
have to understand the basics first. Then you can work out a
custom plan that works for your son- it will change as he grows,
and when they get to around 11 or so they really need to spend
more time with Dad , doing stuff, activites and so on , so they then start learning to be a guy, from a guy.
It is all about adjusting to where your son is with no judgement
and making sure he is comfortable.
[message edited by simone717 on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 15:09:18 BST]
walk. It is one of those, 'if only I knew then, what I know now'
things, so it prompted me to write.
1. the separation anxiety is about you not the Dad. The early bonding
with the Mom and then the ability to start moving away from Mom
at the childs own pace, which naturally happens but if it does not
go right, a person gets stuck at that stage. All stages have to be
completed or the person/child keeps going back there or trying to
covers up fears when older not to show they have these fears,
which then makes more ocd behaviour, and more layers covering
up original fears.
2. What I would say is go see a child development therapist. maybe
you go once by yourself and then come up with a plan to get the
Dad to go. The stages of development are same for all humans!!
it is like getting in correct buillding blocks, but sad to say most
people know more about car maintenance than what are the
childs needs.
Obviously as a Mom you were well aware of your son crawling
and walking and talking and that those things were going on at
the right time periods or else you would have been alarmed.
The 2 year old has the stage of No and being able to separate and
feel ok about it. Read a book on stages of development and why
I am saying to get Dad to therapist also, is bc I don't know if
he will read up!! And this is just total ignorance to push child
when they are not ready. Every kid is different but you have to
have to understand the basics first. Then you can work out a
custom plan that works for your son- it will change as he grows,
and when they get to around 11 or so they really need to spend
more time with Dad , doing stuff, activites and so on , so they then start learning to be a guy, from a guy.
It is all about adjusting to where your son is with no judgement
and making sure he is comfortable.
[message edited by simone717 on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 15:09:18 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
initally i recommend holy for envy ,jealousy and hatred mimmulus for fear of known thing and white chest nut for repeation of mistake or acagrimony three times atvity along with agrimony .agrimony one dose daily morning time and holy one dose evening time along with mimmulus night time for one month you will also give whitechestnut three times only on sunday .no medicine other than this on sunday.you can mix one drop of each twice daily except whitechestnut .you can see the result after one month
♡ akshaymohl last decade
initally i recommend HOLY for envy ,jealousy and hatred MIMMULUS for fear of known thing and WHITECHESTNUT for repeation of mistake AGRIMONY three times actvity along with AGRIMONY.AGRIMONY one dose daily morning time and HOLY one dose evening time along with mimmulus night time for one month you will also give whitechestnut three times only on sunday .no medicine other than this on sunday.you can mix one drop of each twice daily except whitechestnut .you can see the result after one month
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♡ akshaymohl last decade
Hi Mohla could you please explain dosing more please I am confused,
I really would like his concentration and confidence issues sorted before he starts back at school in 5 weeks his school work has really suffered.
And although we know done fears a lot he does not talk about or tell me and I do sometimes wonder I'd he knows or not, he is the mirror of me as a child and I used to get secret panic attacks and wouldn't tell anyone. He also is forever saying its not fair whenever I say no to something
Thanks for the reply
Simone
I'think his separation anxiety is much worse since the family dog died last year and my nan this yr. it could of also started as a baby as he had a very traumatic time as a baby and when he was 18months he was petrified to go into a supermarket because of trauma at hospitals , this boy has been through a lot
Do you mind leaving posts so I don't forget what you said, I am not sure the therapy is called the same in the UK I only glanced but will look later this evening
Thanks again
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 07:54:16 BST]
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 09:20:12 BST]
I really would like his concentration and confidence issues sorted before he starts back at school in 5 weeks his school work has really suffered.
And although we know done fears a lot he does not talk about or tell me and I do sometimes wonder I'd he knows or not, he is the mirror of me as a child and I used to get secret panic attacks and wouldn't tell anyone. He also is forever saying its not fair whenever I say no to something
Thanks for the reply
Simone
I'think his separation anxiety is much worse since the family dog died last year and my nan this yr. it could of also started as a baby as he had a very traumatic time as a baby and when he was 18months he was petrified to go into a supermarket because of trauma at hospitals , this boy has been through a lot
Do you mind leaving posts so I don't forget what you said, I am not sure the therapy is called the same in the UK I only glanced but will look later this evening
Thanks again
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 07:54:16 BST]
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 09:20:12 BST]
pixie wood last decade
pixie wood last decade
agrimony 4-6-globules morning time olive the same dose evening time and mimmulus at bed time daily for one month. On every sunday whitechestnut the same 4-6 globules three times for one day .No other medicine on sunday OTHER THEN WHITECHEST NUT .
♡ akshaymohl last decade
Ok thank you Mohla. as for Olive i do not see this on original prescription is this a new one added or a mistake made?
Thank you for your time
and is it ok to make a mix up in water on the sunday so it lasts the 3 doses or does it have to be fresh drops
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 13:20:11 BST]
Thank you for your time
and is it ok to make a mix up in water on the sunday so it lasts the 3 doses or does it have to be fresh drops
[message edited by pixie wood on Thu, 26 Jul 2012 13:20:11 BST]
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