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My son is 12 years old.

1. He is hypersensitive.

2. Born with atopic dermatitis.

3. was very soft natured.


4. Kids bully him a lot in school.

5. When he was 7, my husband and I fought and argued a lot.

6. If the sky is cloudy, he gets head ache.

7. When kids bully, his thoughts go round and round in his mind about what they said and he cant sleep.

8. He always remembers thinbgs that kids said when he was 6 years old.

9. He wants to take revenge.

10. He was given lycopodoim, staphysiagra, silecia, Natrum Mur as prescription.

11. He had severe anger issues and he used to break stuff and threw stuff.

12. I gave him

silecea upto 4lm
'
lyc up to 4lm

silecea upto 5lm
'
nat mur upto 2lm

staph upto 8lm

He was completely alright.

But the treatment was not complete because the doctor wanted to give all the medicines at the same time.

Though I had spent lot of money, he refused to continue the treatment.

My son was completely alright.

he was cheerful, studied well.

Now one of his close friends moved to another city and he does not have anybody to play with.
So he stopped studying and he is depressed and his anger issues have come up.

I know his remedy are above.

I have spent lot of money in finding doctors.

Most of hem cheat.
The dr, who prescribed, he knows the subject but I dont want to give multiiple remedies at the same time.

Can you pl. help me?

Can I start Staphysiagra again from LM1?

the action of all the medicines are gone.

He is hyper sensitive.

He takes things seriously.

Pl. do help me.

He is very angry that his frien moved out.

He has stopped living.

Thanks
 
  peacelover2006 on 2014-02-11
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Will analyze and come back.
 
Zady101 last decade
Never give multiple remedies at the same time.

I would like to take the case in detail.

Please fill out the questionnaire.Copy questions from the below link and answer them here:
http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/188925/
 
Zady101 last decade
I did not give all the remedies at the same time. I gave oen at a time or 2 at time time.

He was alright.

Now he is extremely angry. he is not able to handle disappointment or taunt.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Ok, please give him Ignatia 30C and come back for further treatment if u wish. How to give.

Dissolve 2 pills in 3 tablespoons water in a disposable cup. Stir a few times using a spoon. Take 1st tablespoon, wait 15 mins, take 2nd tablespoon, wait 15 mins, take 3rd and last tablespoon.
 
Zady101 last decade
I know staph cured him and for extreme anger staphysiagra is the remedy.

For his melancholy, natrum mur is the answer.

Fo his sensitive nature, silecea is the answer.

I just want to know, should I start 1lm again and when doi i stop?


I will post his history.

thx
 
peacelover2006 last decade
I don't prescribe that way. I will only give 1 remedy that will take care of things.
 
Zady101 last decade
2. I gave him

silecea upto 4lm
'
lyc up to 4lm

silecea upto 5lm
'
nat mur upto 2lm

staph upto 8lm
in 2012 in Feb to Apr 2012.

Now it is 2014. His symptoms have coem back, mostly due to environment.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Present symptoms: Extreme anger, melancholy, depression, revenge attitude.
Junior baba had a freind but his friends’ parents are weird and they dont let him play outside or go to a restaurant.

That boy loves my son but his mother refused to let him out.

So my son is extremely sad and he is alone.
When his friend and him played, he finished the home work very fast and he got all As.

He was all happy all the time.

The truth is if someone disagrees with him, he gets extremely angry, if he does not get to play with his friend, he is extremely angry.

He cannot handle life.

He beats, spits. He has become very cruel.

He throws things at people. Heavy objects.

He also said that if he hurt someone, like me, he can die.

In 2009/2010, when he hit someone he used to cry and say that he is extremely sad.

Now he says that he has a valid reason because he is extremely sad.

When it is gloomy outside, he is very down.

He has very severe gas problem.


Kids bully him a lot in school.

What they say go round and round in his mind and also he is worried about the next day’s school work.

He remembers everything.

He is very intelligent, very good memory, mechanically minded.

Very tall, very thin, you can see his ribs, very handsome, long legs, long hands, long slim body.
Scared to try new things.

If I say, let us go and try and play in YMCA/ gym, he does not want to do. I told him that we can start a nerf club, he does not want.

he wants a friend to come to his home.

Everything he wants to say no.

He does not like to listen.

Part of the problem, is also indiscipline.

I was not strict and so now he is sitting on top of my head.

But one thing, I know he has extreme anger.

Now because he is depressed, he says that if he hurt me, then he can die.

revenge attitude.

He is able to control anger in school and outside.

At home, he misbehaves.

He knows in school, he cannot misbehave.

He says he wants to D.

he cannot take too much protein then gas.

He hates the taste of milk.

He does not want challenge.

he wants to take it easy.
He says that he does not want to play basket ball and if he joins then if he does not do well then he would be booed out. He is scared of failure.

Kids taunt him and bully him a lot. he is very hurt. Girls boss him around.


Boys and girls boss him around. he is very sad.

He is very organized.

1. If he wrote 5 lines & he made a mistake at the end, he would erase all 5 lines & start over, not erase the mistake he made at the end. ( i remember telling this)


2. He tries to fit lot of work in one page. Instead of concentrating in the questions, he concentrates in fitting in one page.

3. If he has 10 questions & he knos 4 to 10, he sits & obsesses with the ones he does not kno.

4. While he is doing hw, say, he had to take somethng from the binder & if a ring comes off from da binder, he needs to put it right. Otherwise, he cant work.

Obsesses with details.

He loves animals. Obsessed with animals, bugs.

When he sees bugs, he wants to kill them. He has to kill them otherwise , he cannot do anything else.


Past symptoms :

Junior Baba is very sad because he is missing his father. He is very sad that he does not have normal life. His father is not with him now. At times, he beats. He gets very angry and he is really uncontrollable. He starts to beat with anything. He used to spit (Nov. and Dec.2009) but that he has stopped. He hits his head with his hands.

After the beating, he is very sad and says that he needs to be punished. The worry thoughts and fear thoughts circle his mind and he is unable to stop them. When he is very happy and excited then also he was unable to sleep. For example, before Christmas, he was very excited about what toys he would get and that also prevented him from sleeping.

Nov, Dec 2009, he could not sleep immediately because he was worried that kids would tease him in school. It would take 1 to 1.5 hours to sleep.

It also happened in Mar 2010. Between Apr.2010 and Jul.2010, no problems in sleeping.

He was homeschooled between Dec.2009 and Feb.2010.

Aug.2010, he is able to sleep. But he has fear thoughts about whether the kids would tease him in school the next day. He had fear 10 days before the school started and also every Sunday.

Once he has fear, he would start screaming and beating, picking some reason or other.

He always concentrates on the sad stuff. For example, if a kid comes to play at home then if he had 4 hours of fun and he had disagreements once then he remembers the disagreement not the fun. His mind remembers the sad moments more.

Also if the kids tease in school, he takes it very seriously and personally. The thought about teasing circles in his mind all the time. That makes him mad.

He is very uncomfortable in school because some kids bully him. So he is very quite.

On Friday, Aug.20 2010, we met a family who has a son who is of Baba’s age. He played with him for 3 hours, laughing and screaming and he had lots of fun. This boy is from Africa. He did not have any problem with him. He told that he had lots of fun and he would like to play with him again.

But the whole summer, he went to a friend’s place and had total fun. He is very good when he plays one on one. He went to an Indian family’s house and played with their son for two months, June and July 2010. He never beat anyone and never screamed. He was happy after playing with the Indian family. He never said that he was unhappy.

In school also, he never beats or screams.

Part of the screaming and beating is due to his father being absent in his life and part of it is because of the kids bullying him.

Also some kids have told him that white kids are better and Indian kids are ugly and white kids are better than anyone else.

His personality is very outgoing but in school he is very quite because he is very uncomfortable because of the bullies.

We went to Daytona Beach for 6 days. One day it rained and he remembers the day of rain and does not remember the fun time he had. I think it is because he misses his dad.

He did beat his mother at home some days during summer whenever he missed his father.

He has very good memory. He can remember things about places he went once three years ago. He is very smart.

He got First rank both in First standard and IInd standard.

He won Best studies award and Best Behavior award in school, all 3 years.
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Junior Baba was born with atopic dermatitis.

He had food allergy. He had rashes within few months of his birth on his cheeks, back of the knee.

He also had Lactic acid problem.

He is very tall and very thin.

He is extremely thin. You can see his ribs if he removes the shirt and you can see only bones, just a skeleton.

His mother and father were like that as children.

He is a deep thinker. Till 6, he was always happy, laughing. Even as a child, he used to sneeze and laugh at himself.

He loved taking bath.

But he is always scared of anything new. Unless he is very sure, he will not try new things. He is always over cautious.

When he was 2 or 2.5 years old, when his mother took him by train, he cried the whole time. It was a local train.

He went to Florida in 2007, 2008 and 2009. The planes were very boig.

In 2010, he wnet by a 100 seater plane. He was very scared and he threw up. He does not like change. He is extremely sensitive and soft.

He does not try new foods even.

If the teacher tells the class not to cross a line, he will never. He is very obedient and likes to be the best student.

He wants to follow laws and rules.
In 2007, he saw his father beating his mother many times and he also heard his father saying that he will kill her. The constant argument between his parents traumatized him.

His father stopped working since he was born. Till he was 6, he did not understand. But once he was 7, he started to understand that his father is not working.

This atmosphere really changed him.

Till he was 6, he was happy and full of fun.

From Nov.2009, he was traumatized by the fight and argument.

Then from Nov.23 2009, he started to beat and spit at home after coming back from school. He also used to scream. We gave

Ignatia amara 30c, nux vomica 30c and stromonium 6c

He got no.1 rank in the school in his first standard.

In 2nd standard, his teachers were not good and they started to traumatize him and also the kids started bullying him.

In 2nd standard, he had fever many times and so he missed school for few weeks. But the teacher did not help him. When he did not finish some work, she told him that he would fail in 2nd grade. He was traumatized. He was keeping it in his mind and that put him in lots of stress.

Also the kids teased him and plus the fights at home and all these things made him break down. That is when he started to beat and spit.

We changed his school and the kids started teasing Junior Baba’s mother. That put him under stress.

In 2nd grade he was worried that he may not be able to finish his work in school. He completely lost his self-confidence.

Also after the teacher told him that he would fail, he stopped studying and lost interest in studies. He was running away from studies.

But again I n 2nd grade, he got all 1st in all tests and he won the award.


Also Junior asks why his father is not working.

His father is in a different place and he wants to know when he would have his father back.

He also has fear that if his father comes back if there would be fights at home.

He has fear if his father would come back at all.

He also is asking if his father and mother would be friends again.

Junior takes it personally when kids tease. He is not taking it lightly.

He does not have a tough skin. He is very sensitive and even if they play with him he is thinking that they are teasing him bec initially they bullied him.

In 2nd grade , HE WON THE EXCELLENT ACADEMICS AND EXCELLENT CITIZEN AWARD FOR BEST BEHAVIOR.

He takes his things very seriously after the trauma. This is partly because of the trauma and partly because he did not go to school till he was 5.5 years old because of the food allergy. So he is unable to socialize with the children the way they do.

With black children and brown children, he is able to communicate very well and play well. But he is scared of the white children and also the black kids bec some of them started bullying him.

He has some white friends and some black friends.

May, Jun, Jul 2010, there were no problems because there was no school. He did not beat or scream. He did not beat or scream during the summer holidays. He was playing. He learnt swimming. In fact the whole summer Ju.2010 and Jul.2010, he stayed the whole day in another family’s house and they praised for his best behavior. They were Indians and Americans.

The school started on Aug.17. 10 days before the school started, he started to scream and beat because he was scared to go back to school.

He told me that he was scared of the school because he was worried that the kids would tease him.

When a child comes home, one on one, he plays very well and laughs and has fun. But he is overwhelmed in school bec of the white kids and bullies.

Nov.2009, Dec.2009 he could not sleep bec he was scared of the kids and worried that they would tease the next day.

HE ALSO SAYS THAT WHEN HE HAS FEAR, THE FEAR THOUGHTS KEEP ON COMING AND THEY WOULD NOT STOP. IT KEEPS ON COMING INTO HIS HEAD.

AUG.10 2010, HIS FEAR THOUGHTS THAT THE KIDS IN SCHOOL WOULD TEASE HIM WERE TOTALLY CONSUMING HIM. THE THOUGHTS KEEP CIRCLING IN HIS MIND.

DURING THE SUMMER HOLIDAYS, SOME DAYS HE WAS OVER EXCITED OR STRESSED THEN HE WOULD ASK ME FOR MEDICINE TO SLEEP. I ALWAYS GIVE HIM SUGAR AND TELL HIM THAT IT IS A MEDICINE THAT WOULD MAKE HIM SLEEP AND HE ALWAYS SLEPT AFTER TAKING SUGAR. I NEVER TOLD HIM THAT IT WAS SUGAR.

ALSO EVEN DURING THE MOST STRESSED TIMES, HE NEVER MISBEHAVED IN SCHOOL. HE NEVER SCTREAMED OR BEAT SOMEONE.

HE WAS ALWAYS AWARE OF THE FACT THAT HE MISBEHAVED AT HOME. HE WAS NEVER LIKED THAT TILL NOV.2009.

IT IS NOT MISBEAVIOR. IT IS A STRESS RELIEF.

HE HAD TO COPE WITH THE STRESS AT HOME and at school.

HE HAS HEAD ACHES SOME TIMES THE WHOLE HEAD, SOME TIMES ON THE LEFT SIDE. THEN HE IS VERY UNCOMFORTABLE.

TILL NOV.2009, HE WAS ALWAYS HAPPY AND FULL OF FUN.
IT IS A COMBINATION OF ENVIROMENTAL PROBLEMS AND MAY BE GENETIC.

HIS MOTHER HAD HALLUCINATIONS AND SHE HEARD VOICES IN 1995. AFTER THAT SHE HAS BEEN TOTALLY AL;RIGHT.

HIS MOTHER’S SISTER AND GRAND MOTHER HAD SCHIZOPHRENIA.

HIS MOTHER FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS HAS RUN THE FAMILY AND SHE HAS BEEN THE MAIN BREAD WINNER OF THE FAMILY.

HIS MOTHER IS SHORT TEMPERED.

HIS MOTHER GAVE HIM CANDIES ONLY WHEN HE WAS 6. BUT SHE TOLD HIM THAT IF HE ATE TOO MUCH IT MAY NOT BE GOOD FOR HIS TEETH. HE DID NOT ASK FOR THE CANDIES FOR 1 WEEK. AFTER ONE WEEK, HIS MOTHER ASKED HIM WHY HE WAS NOT EATING THE CANDIES AND HE TOLD HER THAT HE WANTED ONLY 2 SMALL PIECES BEC HE DOES NOT WANT TO LOSE HIS TEETH. HE IS EXTREMELY DISCIPLINED.

HE HAS SERIOUS GAS PROBLEM. HE HAS GAS WITH ANY FOOD. HE EATS BROCCOLI, RICE AND SOME DAL, CARROTS, BELL PEPPERS, GREEN PEPPERS (CAPSICUM), RED BELL PEPPER, YELOW BELL PEPPER AND ORANGE BELL PEPPERS.
FOR THE PAST ONE MONTH, HE HAS BEEN COMPLAINING ABOUT BACK PAIN, LOWER. HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HYE HAS PAIN IN THE LEG.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Ok, i will review and come back within a day.
 
Zady101 last decade
very imp :

He was allergic to almost all foods.

I give him organic rice, organic cheese, organic yogurt.

Have introduced to regular food now.

He likes to be silly.

Most foods give him irritation in the throat.

No spices, spicy food gives him irritation in the throat.

he eats bland food.

Likes hot weather.

Not good sleep because worried about the next day.


very argumentative

irritable,

does not trust anyone.


he likes to be consoled. he likes to talk it out.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Thank you,
I appreciate it.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
H e wants to be silly and happy.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Also if others talk in class, he cannot concentrate. If there is noise, he cannot concentrate. The reason for his anger is that he is unable to process the bullying, taunting and it comes out as a stress relief.

When he is in fear ot stress, it comes out as extreme anger and throwing, spitting and beating.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Ok, i am analyzing.
 
Zady101 last decade
When kids talk in class, he cannot concentrate. If there is noise, he cannot concentrate.

He is throwing stuff or beating when he is unable to handle the disappointment or hurt.

It is coming out as a stress relief.

Thanks
 
peacelover2006 last decade
1) Does he still like sugar?

2) Does he like eggs?

3) Does he like music?

4) Does he catch cold very frequently?

5) How much does he eat? Does eating takes away his headache and give him peace of mind for a while?

6)Does he have a strong desire to curse and swear?

7)Does he engage in any sexual talks or sexual activity? Do you see early signs of being oversexed or undersexed, or just normal?
 
Zady101 last decade
Does he still like sugar?
He does not like it too much.

2) Does he like eggs?
No. He threw up once when I gave French toast


3) Does he like music?
He is musically talented. He was very good in piano and flute.

He used to play, by himself.

But he does not like to get stressed.

He wants to study and play legos.

Talk to a friend about nerf guns.
4) Does he catch cold very frequently? he used to till 8.

5) How much does he eat? Does eating takes away his headache and give him peace of mind for a while?

Yes.

He is fed up of eating the same bland food.

Of late, he is eating less.

That is another reason, he is sick.

When he eats, his head ache disappears.

6)Does he have a strong desire to curse and swear?
NO. HE IS VERY ARTICULATE.

HE TALKS SWEETLY.

HE NEVER SWEARS.

He is well mannered and well spoken.

He speaks to grown ups very well and grown ups like him.

7)Does he engage in any sexual talks or sexual activity? Do you see early signs of being oversexed or undersexed, or just normal?

NO.

HE IS VERY CONSERVATIVE LIKE MY FATHER.

HE DOES NOT EVEN WATCH KISSING SCENES.

IF HE SEES A COUPLE ON TV, HE WILL RUN AWAY.

HE WATCHES PHINEAS AND FERB.

LAB RATS.,

KICKING IN IT,

SUITE LIFE ON DECK.

He likes Full House (a family oriented kid show)

We watch it together.

He also likes Andy Griffith show.

When he was 6, that is when I gave him the candies and I told him not to eat too much bcos his teeth might fall off.

I gave him and he ate

He never asked again.

I asked him why he was not asking for it again.

He said that he did not want his teeth falling off.

He has tremendous self control.

Also, when he was 6/7, I saw the movie, Sleepless in Seatle.

Meg Ryan will dump her boy friend.

He said that it is wrong.

He also told me that because I did not discipline him too much and he is not scared of me, he is misbehaving.

I know most of his problem is indiscipline.

But he does have anger issues.

If he is told that he is wrong or if you disagree with him, he does not like.

If his teacher disciplines him, he deos not like.

Sometimes, teachers make mistake.

He would come and say that he was punished for no reason.

He hates it.

He loses control at home.

I have seen, if he is hungry and if you provoke him, he cannot handle.

I gave him dry cocoanut powder.

His lips were swollen.

He got rashes.

He cannot handle hunger.

Part of it is indiscipline and part of it is anger issue.

He says that he does not want to be married.

He hates girls.

I watch TV with him.

Also he watches shows like Animal planet, River monsters, things like that.

No sex.

He is 12.

Thanks
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Anacardium 6C

Dissolve 2 drops 3 tablespoons water, stir a few times and drink. Do this twice everyday for 3 days and update me.
 
Zady101 last decade
Very imp.

My husband used to beat me in front of my son.


my son told me that made him start beating his father.

It is my husband's bad behavior is responsible.

Also my husband did not work for 12 years. We constantly fought and argued.

That put him in this situation.

He is able to analyze and tell me why he is behaving this way.

Also, when I say that he does not trust that is because right from the beginning, he was a cautious child.

he wont jump and climb stupidly.

he will always make sure that he is going to be alright.

Even as a little boy, when I took him to the parks.

When I gave him the cocoanut powder and his lips were swollen, he did not trust me and he thinks I am trying to make him eat new foods.

That is what I have been trying to do and that is the truth.

I ask him to try new foods and he does not want to.

He said that if he felt like he would and so I have stopped trying new foods.



1. Environmental and social issues have made him this way.

2. he does have anger issues and because he is indisciplined, he takes advantage.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
I am always telling him to eat new foods because he does not have much choice.

The past few days , he has come to the conclusion that he needs to find new hobby or new friend.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
He is much better.

The only problem he has is anger issue.

The other thing is that when he was 6 years old, I taught him prayer.

He prays every morning.

He asked why we cannot see God and why they are hiding.

Then I told him that he need sto surrender to God.

He said that studies is in his hands and he cannot surrender to God.

He asks Good questions.

H e wants to pray every morning with me in the car.


He is able to fugure out for which he needs to surrender and for which he needs to stand on himself.
 
peacelover2006 last decade
Please go ahead with Anacardium.
 
Zady101 last decade
I had some serious issues.

Is it anacordim occidentel or orientale.

Pl. do forgive me.

I had serious iussues I had to take care of.

I am not rude.
Situation is bad. Pl. do reply
thx
 
peacelover2006 9 years ago
Give Anac orientale 30C

Dissolve 2 drops/ 5 pills in 3 teaspoons water, stir with a spoon a few times and drink. Do this twice a day for 3 days
 
Zady101 9 years ago
i thot u said 6c. is it 6c/30c.

Also pl. pray for my son.

He is very hungry but not eating.

He is unablke to eat.

He had lips swolen when I gave some new food. He si scared to try new food.

Mostly he has throat itching with most foods.

If there is aggarvations,what do i do?

Where r u located?

Will u pray for him vigoirously?

His name is subbu.
I beg you to pray for him and tell all ur family to pray for him.

thx
 
peacelover2006 9 years ago

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