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Anger, serious anger.

Dear Doctors !

I am Hassan, I have been suffering from a deadly problem and i really want this to be cured for once and all. I get angry very easily and i stop talking to the people i care about, for a very long period of time. I don't know why i do this, but i do, and i don't regret until it's too late, or they leave me. I had a questionnaire set which i answered to the points, i hope it might help.

Hoping to get a result.


1. Your age & sex

35, Male

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc.)

Medium, height: 5’-7”, weight: 82

3. Describe your personality (stubborn, easy going, always in a hurry etc.)

Stubborn, calm minded, very short tempered.

4. What is your main health problem & its symptoms

Anger. Can’t control my anger once started, I stopped talking to my wife for about a month, or until she leaves me.
Then I start feeling her absence I regret for what I did. So, the problem of not talking to my wife caused me many problems In my life already, and it might cost me my marriage.


5. When did this main problem begin

Since I was 15 years old, so that’s about 20 years.

6. Can you relate any event or events which triggered this problem

Not that I remember of, probably it was In my instinct.

7. What makes the main problem better

When my anger climaxes and something bad happens that I can regret about, For example: when my wife packs her bag and leaves me.

8. What makes it worse

My wife, too, has an anger problem, and the problem arises when she replies back.

9. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.)

Irritable, restless, angry.

10. What other health problems do you have

Don’t have other problems.

11. What makes these other health problems better or worse (explain each problem)

I don’t have any other problem.

12. How do you relax ??

I don’t know, I literally live inside my laptop, and other than that I sleep.

13. Do you normally fight or avoid confrontation

I usually avoid confrontation publicly, but I get angry inside home.

14. What animals or insects are you afraid of

Snake.

15. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc)

Hear of heights, Fear of darkness, Fear of deep water, like oceans

16. What occupies your mind mostly

I want to live in peace always, live in harmony, I am a peace loving person. I am a technical person, I keep wondering about technical updates and developments.

17. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy

I don’t like to get sympathy from everybody, but family members can be different.

18. Do you want to stay alone or with people

Always alone. I NEVER liked to be around people, never. I can be with my wife in peace, but until something goes wrong.

19. How is your sleep

Not that well, normally I sleep 6/7 hours, but at times I wake up in the middle of the night.

20. Do you have any recurring dreams

I dream a lot, pointless dreams, I feel like 80% of the time I see these dreams.

21. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints

I like winter, but not that cold, around 22 degrees, but my anger doesn’t have any relations with temperature, like that.

22. Do you normally feel hot or cold

I feet hot, normally, and I sweat a lot.

23. What type of clothes you wear (tight, loose, around neck etc.)

Loose, never tight.

24. What foods you love

Chicken, vegetables, almost homemade all foods.

25. What foods you hate

Fast food, rich food.

26. What taste you love (sweet, salty, sour, bitter)

Sweet

27. What taste you hate

Sour, bitter

28. Do you like warm or cold food

I like both the foods

29. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….)

N/A

30. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive)

Moderate

31. Do you have dry lips or mouth or both

No

32. Any coating on tongue first thing in the morning

No

33. Any taste or smell from your mouth first thing in the morning

Not that bad.

34. How is your skin

Good, no problem.

35. Details about your sweat (where mostly, how much, smell, stain color)

I sweat a lot, neck, head and back specially. Normal sweaty smell, not that bad odor or smelly.

36. Any problems with ears, nose, chest, throat

No problem.

37. How is your stool (details of how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.)

Normal.

38. How is your urine (details of color, smell, any blood etc.)

Normal.

39. How is your sexual life & desire

It’s good until we fight, we fight and then we stop everything for a long time, say for days and weeks.

40. Males genitals (erection, pain, itching etc.)

Normal

41. Females menses details for regularity, flow, clots, discharge other than menses (reply to all these points)

N/A

42. What illnesses are running in your family, mother’s side & father’s side & brothers/sisters

My father has this anger problem too, so did my grandfather, and my mom has a similar problem too, but she is not that quiet like me, they were different but all they had in common is their Anger.

43. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic or homeopathic)

No.

44. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dose, approx. time frame)

No.
 
  taohidul.hassan on 2014-04-13
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Please take three doses of Natrum Mur 200 as follows and see how that affects in next 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa 9 years ago
Dear Dr. Kadwa

It has been 15 days since i took the medicine. I'm not sure about the result. I don't see any change as i expected, I am still getting angry suddenly.

Please help me out with this problem. My wife already left me, and i am grieving her absence, also repenting my every action. But still, i get angry in other situations, thought i tried not to. I just couldn't control.


waiting for your reply.
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago
Please take three doses of Sulphur 200 as follows and see how that affects in next 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa 9 years ago
Dear Sir

I took Sulphur 200, as you prescribed. I am not sure if it really worked, as i am already depressed because my wife left, so i don't really have anybody left to be angry on. But i still feel the same irritation as i used to feel before, it's like i am on the edge all the time. I still feel blood reaches up immediately something happens i don't like.

But i saw some change in my emotion, I feel more emotional and depressed than before, specially after i took Sulphur 200.

please reply.
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago
Can you provide five examples of situations in which you reacted with this anger?
 
ckcu8 9 years ago
How do you feel about animals?
Are there vegetables you dislike?
Can you list some things you do on your laptop, including work and leisure?
Discuss your feet, when you are barefoot, when you like your feet exposed, when you prefer them covered.

I think I know a remedy for him.
 
ckcu8 9 years ago
Thank you for your reply and query.

One update you could use that i got divorced recently, because of this anger issue of course.

I get angry, and it's very sudden, you could call it a short temper, when someone does something i don't like. Also the anger stays for a short time of period. Here are some examples:

1. Suppose, in office, somebody screws up their computers and they blame or shouts at me for that like a stupid and says he doesn't know anything, i get angry immediately and i shout back, i can't control anything.

2. Then, when someone forces me to do something i don't want to do at that very moment, i get angry, in a second.

3. Suppose in family, i have a wife, i mean i had a wife and a kid, and her mother was feeding her noodles which she was suggested not to. Then i ask her to stop feeding her noodles, and she didn't listen, instead she replies back, i get angry in a second and i go red in a moment.

4. I get angry when someone talks down to me, or insults me, i feel like bursting out in anger in a second.

5. I can't listen to fight or quarrel, whenever i see or hear my parents fight, i burst out of anger. I get angry when my servant does something he is not supposed to do, i get angry and i even hit him few times, and it was really bad, when i hit someone, i hit with all my force.


For your second query.

How do you feel about animals?
Ans: I like wild life photography, except snake. So, i do like animals, and i love cats, if fact i pet one.

Are there vegetables you dislike?
Ans: I like vegetables, and non-veg too.

Can you list some things you do on your laptop, including work and leisure?
Ans:

1. I watch TV series, a lot actually. I can watch TV series for 12 hours without stopping.
2. Read news feeds, facebooking but not much, no chatting, i have 17 friends on my list. So you can see I am not much of a social networking guy. I hate to talk to my relatives, i don't maintain any family contact.
3. I like to work on software, i created few, when i designed i kept modifying until it was what i wanted. So, i am a very sophisticated person, when it comes to software, coding, and photography.
4. Its not important what i do on my laptop, but i like to live in laptop, this laptop has been my whole life for a very long time.

Discuss your feet, when you are barefoot, when you like your feet exposed, when you prefer them covered.

Ans: I don't want my feet exposed. I don't like barefoot. I always had to put on something before walking.


Hoping to get a remedy.
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago
Dear Tachidul,

I advise that you click on posters names and see who they are and their experience levels are before you
take any advice.
 
simone717 9 years ago
I am going to propose that you need Medorrhinum (med). I will put my analysis down here so you and others can question it. I am beginning self-study of homeopathy. The smoking gun for me is the fear of large bodies of water. In Complete Dynamics, that has only two remedies, frax and med. But frax has no association with snakes. The rubric [ mind; dreams; snakes; bitten by, of being ] includes med, which is imperfect but at least it relates to snakes. Also Mirilli's Themes includes med in height issues.

In Morrison, Medorrhinum is described as an extremist, brilliant then inept, passionate love or hate, erratic. Often a hardness apparent, can be aggressive and violent, seems to have little connection to those around him not from withdrawal but from an inner hardness and self-centeredness. May be cruel or very sensitive (again, bouncing between extremes). Med also has sensitivity of the soles of the feet, and doesn't like to walk barefoot on uneven surfaces. Fear of dark or monsters in the dark.

You say there's nothing wrong with your nose. Med includes rhinitis and sinusitis, but remember that matches don't need to be perfect. By any chance are you averse to slimy foods? Are you better in the evening (being glued to the laptop may confuse time of day issues)? Are you better near the sea or at the beach (most people probably are, though)?

It is quite possible that you don't need any remedy, rather, you need to get out of your laptop more often. Excessive computer use can create a kind of dual world in which interruptions or problems contrast more than would be expected. On the computer, everything is up to you. But the world intrudes, and you become impatient. For example you could forget about watching TV on the laptop, and just do your work on it. In fact you could make that change and see what happens to your overall symptoms. If it happens that you 'love the forbidden' on the laptop, that also fits med.

If you decide to try med, I don't know what dosage to recommend. You could get a range of potencies and work your way up, pausing when you get some benefit.
[message edited by ckcu8 on Wed, 28 May 2014 19:30:35 BST]
 
ckcu8 9 years ago
ckcu-

It would be best if you got some of the basics of homeopathy
understood before giving advice- You don't ever get a 'range'
of potencies of a nosode and start working your way thru them.

That is dangerous to say the least.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Dear Ckcu Sir

Thank you so much for your reply and your study. I can't thank you enough for your time and patience. I have never seen such a thorough analysis and scrutiny you have done.

Sir, i do have problem with my nose, i had sinusitis problem, i used to sneeze hundred times once it started, i took homeopathic medicines for 3 years, and that was 14 years ago. Now somehow it's under control now but i know i have sinus problem.

Then, i do not have any problem with slimy food.

I literally live in laptop, as long as i am awake, day night i mean.

I feel better near the sea.


I thank you for your research and for the time you have taken for this study, but could you please be specific about the potency i start with ??


I will start with Med, hoping for the best. Thank you again for your time.


Sir Simone

I am a huge fan of yours, i heard a lot about you from my brother. You can also share your expert view here, i can use all the help i can get, i hope you do understand my situation. I understand homeopathic can be complicated and it takes time and experiences to work though it. Thank you again sir.
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago
Taohidul, pay close attention to what Simone is saying there. I was thinking of the Kentian octave, but Simone says that's the wrong way to use a nosode. Again I put my analysis out there, so people can discuss.

Also I do think you should start not with homeopathics but with abandoning TV watching on the laptop, and seeing how your symptoms change.

It seems to me that your additional details about sinus problems and proximity to sea add to the case for med. But let's see what others think.
[message edited by ckcu8 on Wed, 28 May 2014 20:03:46 BST]
 
ckcu8 9 years ago
Dear Tachidul,

Kadwa is a physician and has been prescribing on here for over 10 years.

Ckcu does not know basics about how to take a case, or even what potencies
to use- he has just started to look at homeopathy. This is like someone
telling you how to drive a race car that does not have his drivers license yet.

You have to know who you are taking advice from on here- there can
be much harm done by taking the wrong things, or the wrong potency where
you will end up worse than you began.

My advice is- Ask Kadwa what he thinks about this remedy and if he
thinks you can benefit and if so what potency to try.

If you want another prescriber for yourself, look thru the forum and pick
an experienced person, who has proven results and post a new thread listing
your problem and what you have taken so far- and have them
go over your case.
[message edited by simone717 on Thu, 29 May 2014 01:10:49 BST]
 
simone717 9 years ago
Dear Dr. Kadwa

Hoping to get some reply from you. I took Nat. Mur and Sulpher as you prescribed, didn't work, still feeling the rage over silly matters.


Sincerely yours
Hassan
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago
Please take three doses of Oleander 200 as follows and see how that affects in next 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa 9 years ago
Dear Kadwa

I searched for Oleander 200 in my local store, but couldn't find. Is there any alternative to that medicine that i could use?

Please reply.

Sincerely yours
Hassan
 
taohidul.hassan 9 years ago

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