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woman with a nasty personality - please help

66 year old woman - she is angry angry angry. She is depressed. She is negative when "happy" and negative when melancholy. She criticizes everyone but does not follow her own rules and standards. She gives orders and advice and she does not follow any of her own advice. Nobody likes to talk to her because she blames them, criticizes them and tells them what to do. She is the true manifestation of hypocrisy. When it comes to her own behaviors, she always has an excuse for why she doesn't do what she preaches. She judges everyone for their shortcomings, mistakes, personality traits and she does worse than everyone. She holds grudges. She has no friends because in her mind she has been kind and caring towards everyone and everyone has been mean, ungrateful, dishonest towards her. She admires people with power and money and puts her family down for not being the same. She hated school all her life and hates learning anything new now, but puts her children down for not becoming doctors or for not having lots of money. She resents her husband for everything; he is not a perfect man but he is a kind man who is loved by everyone, except his wife. She takes everything out on him. She makes fun of him and laughs at him for every little thing that he does or says. She speaks to him is a nasty nasty tone when they are alone and even in public. She is always barking orders at him. He is an older man and does not have a lot of energy to do much and she is constantly putting him down and calling him lazy. She wants her husband and her children to support her hateful behavior towards everyone, she wants them to treat people the way she treats people, but her family refuses to be like her and that makes her angry. She feels like she has nobody on her side and she feels depressed about it. If something good happens in her life, she will still find something negative about the situation and focus on that, even if the negative situation is not true her mind believes that it is true. She always thinks that people dislike her, are jealous of her, are out to get her. She is suspicious of everyone. She can't find anything good in anyone except when they are rich or from a high status is society. She has no friends because people can't stand being around her for long. Any friends abandon her after a while.
When she is invited to gatherings, she always refuses to go because she feels like e equine has done something wrong to her and she can't forgive them. She even thinks that stores charge too much so she will buy clothes and then returns her used clothes in its place. She is very stingy with money even for herself. She hates to see her husband eat something good or take a vitamin. She gets angry that he tries to take care of himself. She gets angry when other women take care of their body and their skin, she gets angry when other people travel because she loves to travel the world and she doesn't have the means or friends to travel with. Even when she has money and friends to travel with, she always finds something wrong with the people or the places and scolds everyone. She is always scolding someone, at home, at the store, at church, on the street, everywhere.
She has hot flashes often, especially when she gets upset which is most of the time.
She has insomnia. Even when she is tired she still can't sleep well. She sleeps better in cool weather. She hates warm weather because she is always sweating. Her head and face sweats more then the rest to of her body.
She always wants to eat something at 4pm, no matter what she is always hungry at 4pm.
She is very anxious. She is always in a hurry. Everyone is too slow for her, everyone works slow, walks slow, thinks slow in her opinion.
When she is anxious, she has to leave the house. When she is angry, she has to leave the house.
Traveling is her favorite thing.
There is so much more about this woman that is unpleasant. If there are any questions please let me know. I am very close to this woman and unlike everyone else, I can't abandon her so I have to help her get better before she drives me insane. Thank you.
 
  Omid110 on 2018-09-09
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Homeopaths usually need to know about the person in order to find the most appropriate remedy so please answer the following questions.

PLEASE ASK HER TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS

1. Chief complaints (Diagnosis) – Please explain your main symptoms.
a. Diagnosis (name of disease)

b. Exact location ( affected organs)

c. Sensation ( eg. sharp pain, stubbing, dull, throbbing, etc)

d. Causation

2. When did it all start?

3. Are there any changes in your mental /emotional state since your illness?

4. Describe anything that makes the problem worse (ie. position, temperature, food etc. )

5. Describe anything that makes the problem better (ie. pain is better for cold bathing or at night in bed etc)

6. What other physical / mental symptoms do you have? Describe with;

Diagnosis (if any)
Exact location (affected organs)
Sensation
Causation
Describe anything that makes the problem worse (ie. position, temperature, food etc. )

Describe anything that makes the problem better (ie. pain is better for cold bathing or at night in bed etc)


7. What time of the day do you feel the worst in general?

8. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

9. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?

10. How is your thirst; Less, Normal or Excessive?

11. How is your hunger; Less, Normal or Excessive?

12. How well do you sleep?

13. Are you generally feel hot or cold?

14. What medications have you been taking to treat the disease?

15. Please describe your history of illness ( and medications if any).

ONLY FOR FEMALES
- Are the periods early, regular or late in general?

- How long does it last?

- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?

- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?

- Is the blood thick bright red, dark red or pale watery?

- Do you notice any clots in the flow?

- Any pain during the periods?

- Have you ever used any hormone pills / contraceptive pills in your life?


Thank you for completing the questionnaire.
 
Tui 5 years ago
There are no physical diseases or diagnosis or I would have listed the details. The case is a mental case.
[Edited by Omid110 on 2018-09-10 12:43:22]
 
Omid110 5 years ago
It doesn't matter the case is mental or physical. Homeopathy is about matching the symptoms based on individuality. That's why we ask many questions, trying to find the most appropriate remedy.

Also what you have written here is from your perspective about her, not from her own. I can't prescribe anything based on someone else is an OPINION about the person.

I need to have an accurate information about her that's why I asked her to complete the questionnaire.
 
Tui 5 years ago
I have seen many good homeopaths interview family members of a patient to get a better perspective of the patient's state. A patient may not be in the right mental health to have an accurate perspective of their own condition, and as unbiased observers homeopaths get as much information as possible from those close to the patient. What I wrote is not my "opninion"; it is the information that I have gathered from over 20 people who know this person and are concerned about her and her family. She does not have any physical conditions. She is 66 years old and your questionnaire is irrelevant to her. She has no period to tell you about, and she has no physical complaints. I already have information about her temperature and what makes her better and worse.
Omid110 said I have seen many good homeopaths interview family members of a patient to get a better perspective of the patient's state. A patient may not be in the right mental health to have an accurate perspective of their own condition, and as unbiased observers homeopaths get as much information as possible from those close to the patient. What I wrote is not my "opninion"; it is the information that I have gathered from over 20 people who know this person and are concerned about her and her family. She does not have any physical conditions. She is 66 years old and your questionnaire is irrelevant to her. She has mom period to tell you about, and she has no physical complaints. I already have information about her temperature and what makes her better and worse.

[Edited by Omid110 on 2018-09-11 01:42:29]
 
Omid110 5 years ago
Some of the questions seem irrelevant to people who don't understand homeopathy but they are very important for homeopaths because it tells about 'the person".

There are over 5000 homeopathic remedies now and there are many remedies that cover the case like this. Then how do we know which one is the most appropriate remedy for the person without knowing about them? We need to know about the person in order to differentiate the remedies that's why we ask many personal questions.

Feel free to create a new thread so that someone may be able to help your case.
 
Tui 5 years ago
I believe I provided quite a bit of information about this person and the good homeopaths on this site have helped me in the past with much less detail than what I provided in this case. The questions are irrelevant because they are irrelevant to this case - this person does not have any physical condition, diagnosis, sensation, location or physical modalities. I do understand homeopathy enough to know this and I have enough basic understanding to know that most 66 year old women do not have a period. So the questions are irrelevant not because of my understanding of homeopathy. I will post again and hope that a homeopath who is more compassionate and willing to help will read my post.
[Edited by Omid110 on 2018-09-11 02:50:08]
 
Omid110 5 years ago
Another aspect of this... is she willing to take homeopathic medicine?
And report results?
 
simone717 5 years ago
Yes, she has taken homeopathic medicine before and she is open to homeopathy now. She has taken sepia, staphisagria, nitric acid, tuberculinum. I am unsure if the potencies were correct for her state. The potencies may have been too low. Her family members have seen some relief with sepia but she will relapse. The nitric acid made her more angry. Tuberculinum made her physically exhausted but mentally more calm. Staph did not have a noticeable effect.
[Edited by Omid110 on 2018-09-11 03:31:14]
 
Omid110 5 years ago
Good to know - I suggest you email reva at mail.com
Please let him know the headline of your post-
Reva is a homeopath from India in USA. Many times people are too busy to read the forum every day. He has other cases on here.see if he has time.
 
simone717 5 years ago
Thank you. Reva at mail.com?
 
Omid110 5 years ago
You can click Any user name and see threads plus
Info and email if they list it in their profile.
The forum does not allow the normal email in posts, so one has to write it out. You can scroll thru forum and see Reva V
Replies and then click his name.
 
simone717 5 years ago
Thank you so much for your assistance. I appreciate it very much.
 
Omid110 5 years ago

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